r/DatingForIndia

I kinda a got to know something and i myself is confusef. For clearing 😭😭i need man's opinion, if anyone can help me with this?

I want to ask if any guy has actually got a serious and good connection through reddit, just want to listen to the guy's experience

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Aditya, 26 | Veterinary Doctor | North India

Hey! I'm Aditya, a 26-year-old veterinary doctor from North India. My profession keeps me surrounded by animals every day, and I genuinely love what I do. Whether it's treating a sick pet, helping a rescued animal recover, or educating pet owners, I find a lot of purpose and happiness in my work.

Outside the clinic, I'm someone who enjoys a balanced life. I like exploring new places, going on long drives, trying local food spots, and spending time outdoors. I enjoy meaningful conversations about life, ambitions, travel, and everything in between. I'm equally comfortable with a quiet evening watching a movie as I am with a spontaneous weekend adventure.

A few things about me:

Animal lover by profession and by heart.

Family-oriented and believe strong relationships are built on trust, respect, and communication.

Enjoy fitness and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

Love music, especially during long drives.

Interested in photography, nature, and discovering hidden travel destinations.

Good listener and someone who values emotional maturity.

Believe kindness and a good sense of humor are attractive qualities.

Friends would describe me as caring, dependable, ambitious, and easy to talk to. I believe life is more enjoyable when you have someone who can be your best friend, biggest supporter, and partner through all the ups and downs. Looking for: Someone genuine, kind-hearted, emotionally mature, and capable of building a meaningful connection. Age, profession, and background matter less to me than honesty, mutual respect, and compatibility. If you enjoy good conversations, occasional adventures, and are looking for something real, I'd love to get to know you.

Looking for a gf genuinely

I am Pursuing BTech (just completed 1st yr) frm hbtu Kanpur in che

I had the unfortunate experience of signing up with Unshaadi, which is why I'm writing this post. This is my first post ever on reddit, and I'm writing it so that others don't make the same mistake that I did.

1. it's unsafe for women. their team will have access to all your information but you will not know the name of even one person in unshaadi. zero transparency. any other platform where you pay for premier membership, you are in touch with at least one person whose name you're aware of. they're shady af.

for a service that claims to be safe for women, this is a HUGE red flag

2. they claim to be an offline match making service, but they will set you up on zoom dates with people hundreds of miles away. for eg if you are in maharashtra, your ONLINE date will be from uttarakhand or tamil nadu. for anyone looking for a serious relationship or marriage or even attempting to get to know the person, distance is going to be a huge factor. i also want to point out this was my experience inspite of being from a major metro city.

3. their charges are exorbitant. there is NO REFUND. there is NO GUARANTEE. they will terminate the service as per their whims and fancies, without giving you any reasonable explanation. (here i'm referring to service guarantee, not guarantee to find a partner. they don't offer that either)

4. they will ask you to travel 40-50 kms for a date, and if you say that is not possible (difficult and unrealistic for anyone who is working, which is the only way you can afford their 'fees') they will get on a high horse and talk about how they're looking for people who are willing to navigate distance in pursuit of an exceptional connection. they don't tell you this while onboarding btw, they promise that the travel will be within a reasonable distance. again, i'm talking from the pov of a major metro city, where weekend traffic is horrendous.

5. the people they matched me up with were okay, but not remotely compatible. they claim they match people based on personality, interests blah blah blah during onboarding. it feels like they just randomly picked up one name from a list and assigned it to you.

6. the only thing i had in common with all my dates was they all felt scammed by unshaadi. one person got set up a coworker from the same office (this is after their so called screening and verification, which is clearly fake) another got set up with someone who was in the process of divorce and joined the service to add to their spouse's expenditure, not looking for a relationship. all of them had been set up with ONLINE dates from all over the country, with no scope of things going ahead. also all of them were reluctant to complain because they were concerned they would get thrown out of the program.

7. i got less than half of the dates promised. they promise a lot of things while onboarding and deliver hardly anything. they're available till you pay the money then they're unreachable.

8. no mentoring service actually done, something they promote heavily before onboarding. nothing, nada, nyet, nahi.

this whole experience has taught me not to trust any random service just because they advertise heavily on IG. its been a huge waste of time and money. i hope no one else makes this mistake like i did. also please know their team is overactive on social media and places like quora and reddit to put up glowing (false) reviews so please don't get ensnared.

on a personal note: it really sucked because after going through the whole arranged marriage headaches, dating apps drama (and possibly danger) i thought going through a paid service with verified people would be at least stress free and somewhat pleasant. i didn't go in with the expectation of finding someone, just with that of decent, professional service. this whole experience has left me more disheartened and disillusioned. genuinely hope no one else goes through this

Gonna keep this short, 21M, currently in 3rd year IITD, into swimming, badminton, movies etc.🥀

Hey there hope everyone is enjoying their summer break nd finally getting a breather from the daily hassles.

Im 21 year old 5'9,fair with dimples currently pursuing btech[More like surviving it🤧] looking for someone as My Home,My Peace,My Happiness the one who holds the key to my heart🫶🏻.

Apart from being on my laptop, im into cricket[More like childhood love🤌🏻] as well into gym nd fitness. An amateur into skincare too.

A vegeterian this side though am cool with your eaying choices provided you feed me from your soft hands🤗.

Up to exchange pics for,I understand physical attraction matters,later into the convo.

Im looking for someone pref bw 18 nd 23 who believes in love,and not in ego and who is genuinely up for a solid stable connection

So,if the above caught your attention,and you actualy want something meaningful,drop me a dm with your basic intro.

22M from Delhi, DU student. Into bikes, fitness, late-night deep talks, memes, random life debates, and occasionally overthinking things at 2 AM.

Not looking for "send pics" type conversations. Just want someone genuine to vibe with, flirt a little, and maybe turn it into something real if we click.

Bonus points if you're funny, emotionally intelligent, can communicate properly, or can survive my terrible music recommendations. I'm more of an introvert, but once I'm comfortable, I can talk for hours about literally anything. I have a good height, big goals I'm working towards, and I genuinely value loyalty, effort, and emotional maturity.

Also strictly no long distance. I've only been in one relationship before, and it was long distance. We never even got to do the simple relationship stuff like movie dates, random outings, or making memories together. I'd like to experience those things for the first time with the right person.

My last relationship felt pretty one-sided, and I was usually the one putting in all the effort. This time, I'm looking for a partner who's emotionally mature, doesn't turn every discussion into an argument, believes in communication, and understands that asking for reassurance isn't being needy. Someone who can be both my peace and my partner.

If you're kind, honest, a little clingy, and can match effort with effort, we'll probably get along just fine. Also one more thing, I hate lies and being kept in dark, as I am a guy who's very honest, I would be truthful even if it hurts than to lie to please you followed by a dozen other lies, it's always better to be truthful and help the other person grow instead of keeping them in delusion by lying, also I don't like to be kept in the dark, I always want you to tell me things and never hide anything from your side and I'll do the same from my side

Not expecting much from Reddit, but figured I'd give it a shot. Maybe there's another hopeless romantic out there who still believes in genuine connections.

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Hey everyone,

I'm a 22-year-old desi guy hoping to meet some new people and have genuine conversations.

A little about me:

- I write poetry.

- I've recently gotten serious about fitness.

- I enjoy riding and taking long weekend rides whenever I can.

- I love fantasy, sci-fi, music, and story-driven games.

I'm mainly looking for friendships and meaningful connections. If something develops naturally beyond that, I'm open to it, but I'm not here to force anything.

What's something you enjoy that isn't very common among other desis around you? For me, it's probably poetry.

Looking forward to hearing your stories.: