r/DatingOC

39M M4F Mission Viejo — Looking for the Right Kind of Trouble

Corporate by day, gym by choice. Career-driven, independent, and big on having the freedom to enjoy the life I’ve built.

I stay active, take care of myself, and keep life pretty balanced. Usually you’ll find me lifting, playing basketball, gaming, trying a new restaurant, or occasionally getting away for a change of scenery.

I’m happy with where I’m at and not looking for someone to complete my life. I’m looking for someone who adds to it, comfortable being herself, has her own life, can laugh at stupid things, and enjoys both going out and doing absolutely nothing together.

If that sounds like your kind of trouble, say hi.

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u/Ditto4g — 1 day ago

31F Looking to Date & Meet New People 😊

31F in the Costa Mesa/Newport Beach area. I’m looking to date men, but I’m also totally open to meeting some new female friends along the way!

I’m a tattooer and business owner, so life can keep me pretty busy, but I’d like to make more time for actually going on dates, meeting new people, and having fun outside of work.

Ultimately, I’d love to find someone for a long-term relationship, but I’m not looking to force anything. I’d rather meet, see if we click, and let things develop naturally.

I enjoy being outside, the beach, gardening, cooking, good food, fairs/events, and exploring new places. I’m also up for trying new things, whether that’s a new sport, activity, or checking out somewhere I’ve never been before.

And with Halloween coming up, I’d definitely love some people who are down for spooky season adventures — haunted houses, mazes, Halloween events, all of it. 😂🎃

Mostly just looking to meet some fun, genuine people, get out and do more, and see where things go. Ideally somewhat local so getting together doesn’t turn into a whole production. 😂

Feel free to say hi!

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u/Msbatgirl — 8 days ago

Singles/Dating Events for August 14th - 29th

List of upcoming events for the latter half of August. Feel free to add any missing events in the comments and we'll be sure to add them in.

August 13th

Christian Singles Mixer Orange County | Kingdom Singles Ages 25 to 36: Karl Strauss Brewing Company, Costa Mesa

August 14th

Love on Draft Coffee Speed Dating | Morning Lavender Ages 35 to 45: Morning Lavender Boutique & Cafe, Tustin

Love on Draft Coffee Speed Dating | Morning Lavender Ages 24 to 34: Morning Lavender Boutique & Cafe, Tustin

August 15th

Speed Dating | Provisions Market Ages 28 to 42: Provisions Market, Orange

OC Singles Patio Mixer at Provisions Ages 21+: Provisions Market, Orange

Orange County Speed Dating | Saturday Night Ages 29 to 42: Valencia Restaurant at The Viv Hotel, Anaheim

August 19th

Level Up Your Love Life: Singles Mixer at GameCraft Brewing Ages 21+: GameCraft Brewing, Anaheim

August 20th

Love on Draft Speed Dating | MAKE Anaheim Packing District Ages 24 to 32: MAKE at Anaheim Packing District, Anaheim

Love on Draft Speed Dating | MAKE Anaheim Packing District Ages 32 to 40: MAKE at Anaheim Packing District, Anaheim

August 22nd

Costa Mesa Singles Mixer 2026 Ages 21+: Goat Hill Tavern, Costa Mesa

Orange County Speed Dating | Saturday Night Ages 25 to 39: Valencia Restaurant at The Viv Hotel, Anaheim

August 23rd

Orange County Speed Dating Ages 32 to 44: Valencia Restaurant at The Viv Hotel, Anaheim

Love on Draft Speed Dating | Ruin Bar Ages 35 to 45: Ruin Bar, Costa Mesa

August 24th

Orange County Christian Speed Dating | IYKYK Dating 20s to 30s: Four Sons Brewing, Huntington Beach

August 25th

OC Singles Meet and Greet + Ice Breakers Ages 21+: The Harp Inn, Costa Mesa

Tustin Speed Dating for Orange County Singles Ages 40 to 59: Villa Haven Restaurant & Brews, Tustin

Tustin Speed Dating for Orange County Singles Ages 30 to 49: Villa Haven Restaurant & Brews, Tustin

August 29th

Orange County Speed Dating | Saturday Night Ages 29 to 42: Valencia Restaurant at The Viv Hotel, Anaheim

u/Jlfraser555 — 7 days ago

29 [M4F] #Tustin - Anyone else looking for something genuine?

I’m hoping to meet someone kind, grounded, open-minded, and genuine who’s interested in real dates, good conversation, and building a meaningful connection naturally. Dating apps haven’t really worked for me, so I figured I’d try something different.

I’m currently balancing work and school, so life keeps me pretty busy, but I still make time for the people and things that matter to me. Friends would describe me as easygoing, thoughtful, laid-back, introverted, creative, and a little quirky.

Some of my interests include music and live shows, movies, sci-fi, photography, IT, LEGO, reading, and collectibles. I connect best with someone who’s warm, emotionally mature, easy to talk to, and has a good sense of humor.

While I’m happy to message at first, my goal is to eventually meet in person and see if there’s genuine chemistry rather than stay online indefinitely.

I’m not much of a partier or heavy drinker, I’m not into extreme politics, and I’m child-free and monogamous, ideally looking for the same. I also can’t really be around smoking or vaping, including weed.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a genuine long-term relationship built on communication, mutual effort, affection, and enjoying each other’s company. If that sounds like what you’re looking for too, feel free to reach out.

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u/DriftCore31 — 14 days ago