r/DecideThisForMe

I am redoing my bedroom setup and can not decide between black or white bedsheets Black looks cleaner and cozier to me but white makes the room feel brighter and bigger I want to pick the better option

What would you choose?

I normally drink hot coffee every morning and I really enjoy the routine but the weather lately has been so warm that I have started thinking about iced coffee instead It sounds more refreshing and better for summer but hot coffee still feels more comforting and helps me wake up properly

Trying to decide which one makes more sense for the season What would you pick?

I am 9 months unemployed in Houston and have no traction in this city. I have 10k that I can use to relocate for a few months to Dallas from July-September, by then I would have been unemployed for 1 year. Do I move there to start from scratch or stay in Houston, where my most recent work has been contracts and I almost have a year of unemployment.

wanted to know if a guy im seeing from bumble is on the same page as me. I asked him via text what he’s looking for between us. I’m 24 and he’s 29 to add context. We’ve known each other since around late March.

My brother is going through a divorce and I’m going to him for a bit to help with stuff and my family has had other things come up too. So I guess I texted this guy because I wanna know before I go.

When I last met up with this guy things seemed fine, we spent like 2 hours talking and the rest of the time we were kissing. So I realized when I got back home that we didn’t have another plan set. I feel like we just started kissing more and we don’t act like people dating. There is a lack of transparency between us. We never once talked intention, never compliment each other or even much in that direction.

He has some stuff planned coming up and seems really busy.

I text him asking what he sees between us because I feel we’re just getting closer to being intimate but I feel a gap in communication. I told him I can’t tell if he only views me as someone he wants to just hook up with.

(I don’t want to force him to be exclusive but I do want to know where things are)

He replied to me saying he’s looking to find someone to be in a partnership with and his goal isn’t a hook up. He said If I feel that way he gets if I don’t want to talk anymore. But he also said he’s open to hear me out if I want to.

I told him it’s a conversation I’d like to have. I prefer not to via phone. So I asked if he’d be open to discuss it. He said— sure tell me the plan. And then continues with small talk about what’s going on for him. I feel like my text asking what is this was silly. He didn’t really answer me, about what he sees with me exactly.

And I’m not sure how to plan this. He hasn’t replied to me and I feel either I’m too anxious or he isn’t serious about me, but his intent can be serious with others. How can I ask if I see him? Is it too early to ask him if he’s still seeing other women?

Or both?

I have the iPhone 14 right now. Should I buy the 17 or 17 Pro? I wanted to get it in purple, but only the 17 comes in purple. It seems like the Pro has better camera quality and battery, but it’s more expensive. Which one should I get?

I have job interview on Wednesday, should I get a massage (first ever!) on:

Monday - post teams meeting interview prep

Tuesday - post GP mental health assessment

Wednesday - post interview

Thursday - post counselling

Can't decide whether to enforce relaxation before or after interview basically!

TL;DR when is best to get a massage around an interview/other appointments?