r/Enneagram8

My therapist introduced me to enneagram and over time I have observed the patterns within myself that often align perfectly as an 8. Now I’m dealing with a health issue that has caused me to be dependent on those around me, which I’m not used to and it is causing a lot of internal turmoil. Wondering how 8s typically deal with similar situations where they are not able to be in control and have to rely on loved ones. TYIA!

I don't know if this is an 8 thing or just a me thing. Like, I show the f up for people. I will sacrifice for them. I feel so much more passionate and dedicated than the people around me.

It makes me feel like people don't really care about me.