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Going out for the first time (at a convention). Advice?

I'm planning on going as a femboy for the first time on a convention in Europe.

My main concerns are how I can effectively change clothes cause I don't want to travel femme in public transit for fear of harassment.

Still looking on going as a group or finding other femboys to go together though :3

Please share any other advice you would give or have questions about the convention!!!

Thx for reading ^^

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u/femboyknight0 — 1 day ago
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What sort of underwear do y'all prefer?

Do any of you guys tend to wear masc or femme underwear or both? I am interested in maybe getting some feminine style ones but I'm not sure which ones I can get that are sexy but also still fit well on the male body. If any of you guys have any suggestions that would be appreciated

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u/Big-Detective-5527 — 1 day ago
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Where to start with crossdressing?

Hello,

I’m a boy and want to start crossdressing. I am so scared to go to the store and buy some clothes. Last week I bought some pantys and it was amazing. I can’t stop wearing them. My question is how many straight guys are crossdressing and is it weird that I like the thrill of crossdressing?

I also want to buy some heels but is it hard to find heels my size and I don’t want to order it to my house. I’m scared my family will find it before me.

What are some nice thing to experience next time?

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u/Milano1612 — 1 day ago

Whats the best way to become Fem Smooth?

Looking at becoming fem smooth but im not sure what the best way to go abt it is. if its just shaving with a razor all over or how to get sensitive areas. Any suggestions and help is much appreciated!

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u/The-Peoples_champ — 1 day ago

Femboy tips, tricks, and questions?

Hey yall, I’m 21m, fully straight and I want to start expressing myself (privately ofc)

Some context, as a kid my cousins would cross dress me and even tho I acted like I hated it, I actually really liked it. That phase stopped eventually but I still got urges to wear girl clothes and when I did get the chance I would.
That chance almost never came after elementary BUT in hs, I finally got the chance when my ex and her family left to do smth and left me home alone so I went crazyyyy in her closet lmao.

It’s been 5 years since that and all a man wants to do is throw on some heels and feel pretty. So now I’ve decided to explore, I just wanna talk to/befriend ppl in the community so I can become more comfortable with this and maybe help decide what clothes to buy first or find my style.

QUESTIONS

  1. Are you straight?
    1a. If yes and taken, does your gf know?
  2. Do you hide it?
  3. Is femboy any style?
  4. Is cross dressing and being a femboy different?
  5. Are you scared or embarrassed to buy clothes?
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u/Legal_Awareness_471 — 3 days ago

Pls Help🥺

Hi, this is my first time posting on Reddit. Im a straight 16 year old male who recently decided they want to be a femboy and a furry(while remaining straight). And I need advice on becoming a femboy.

I would like to start off by saying I’ve looked at some TikTok’s for advice but I’m still lost on where to begin.

Im not a very active person so I’m overweight. I weigh around 230 to 240lbs. I would like to get a nice but and thighs that are both soft and a slim body but to where I can still conceal it. I plan to go to the gym with a trusted friend around January to February (when we can both drive). Until then I would like to get started so I don’t feel so stagnant. Any tips on dieting and exercises I can do at home would be appreciated.

I would also like to conceal this goal from family and some friends until im ready or to a point where I can comfortably tell them. So any tips on hiding it until then would also be appreciated.

I would also like to start voice training to where I can switch between my regular voice and a more feminine voice and I have no idea how to voice train.

I know this post is kinda long but please any help is really appreciated im really just stuck with no idea what to do.😓😓😓(incase I say something wrong pls don’t hold it against me im very new to this.)

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u/Filexy — 3 days ago

How do I hide fem clothes from my parents

Okay so I already found a way to buy the clothes but hiding them on the other hand no it’s so confusing and idk how my parents would feel about it so I’d rather just hide it than explain to them what a femboy is they are really old not like homophobic old but old and I’m still straight so idk bro it’d probably be confusing to them 😭😭😭

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u/curious-catboy — 2 days ago

Not sure about status

I have been looking at fem stuff for a while, and i really want to try on a skirt. I am christian and i am scared to come out to my parents. Not completely sure either. Anyone, any tips on getting my hands on a skirt, or just something of the sort?

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u/Equivalent-Emu-7256 — 3 days ago

Thoughts on Bodybuilding as a femboy

I’m not open to being a femboy, I just ordered some clothing that I’m gonna wear in private all the time, and I don’t plan on ever changing that train of thought.

I’m very curious as to what others think about how the two will blend. I want to compete in bodybuilding in a few years since I’m really into it, but I’m not willing to keep my body as feminine.

I do have some good genetics for both being feminine and for bodybuilding. But still I need to grow big for when I step onstage.

What do yall think about the two going hand in hand with each other? Will they interfere too much?

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u/Major_Duck_ — 3 days ago

Being an mlm femboy in southern Italy is hell and I can't fucking take it anymore (TW: sh)

DISCLAIMER: I'm not fully gay, I'm bisexual but with a preference towards men (like, 80-20)

I'm genuinely fucking tired of being alone because no matter what I have no one to comfort me. I might unironically be the only queer boy in my city of 60k people. Lately I've been feeling so lonely, weak and ugly that I was about to relapse after almost 3 years of being clean from self harm. I feel like I'm doomed to be alone because I have terrible interests and just look like shit. I have a lot of affection to give but if there's not a single mlm guy in my city or around who do I give this affection to. Not to mention that coming out here would be impossible considering all the other boys here are Nike tech electric scooter roadmen and that my friend group is made up EXCLUSIVELY of far right, like, Vannacci supporting people (boys AND girls) there's genuinely no one I can talk to about this except a German friend I have. I'm in a terrible mental state right now I feel like I could do something dumb could anyone please reach out to me? I just wanna talk because the only solution to my worthless life rn seems the rope.

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u/Background-Bell-1276 — 3 days ago

Hellp

Like, i used to be a femboy likee a half a year ago, thenn i got wayyy out of it and became super duper masculine. Went like practically bald, got into sports (I HATE SPORTS) gained like 30000 pounds. But i like think i kind of wanna go back, but then it switches and i think the oppisite, and then goes back and forth and keeps happening. im like confused, like, its weird. Like this might be a dum question but is there like a way i can telll if i really am one or not? Cause this is hurting my BRAINNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN 🧠

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u/frenchshorts — 3 days ago

I need some advices please

As i discussed earlier, i finally accepted this and started getting femboy stuff. The thing is, i go for a hangout with a 30M.

But when i go with him, I'm in his car. Why i don't feel any kind of excitement? My heartbeat rises, and he asks for kisses, hj, and bj, but i don't know i refused to do. And asked him to drop me off right now.

So the thing is, which is bothering me? Is that why i don't feel any excitement with him? I am buying femboy dressing, I'm wearing them even when I tried with toys at home. I saw femboy di#ks videos, dominant female videos, and it really excited me and the same thing i thought that it would go with males but not. I'm afraid cuz i wanna be a femboy, so is it okay to go without getting into males???

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u/ConclusionIll1896 — 4 days ago

What are good places (online or irl) to buy femboy clothes?

I live in the Netherlands so the shops need to be in the Netherlands. And the online shops need to have their prices in euro's or do international shipping.

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u/duckiemans1122 — 4 days ago

hey guys 15

hey guyss am a new femboy like very new what shuld i do to become like a good one btw i live with my parents and dont want them to know they are very old minded if i shave they will ask why am in need for help please advixe🙏

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u/Competitive_Cod_7815 — 4 days ago