r/FindGayFriendOver30

Hey! Looking to meet cool, mature people for platonic friendships, conversations, gaming sessions, whatever comes naturally. Would love to connect with folks around 35-40+, but not a hard rule.

A bit about me:
• Big into video games
• Football (soccer), basketball, tennis, and F1
• Music
• Hiking / getting outdoors
• I love deep conversations — philosophy, life, random rabbit holes, anything that gets the brain going

This post is purely about friendship, not looking for dating, hookups, or sexting, so please don’t message me for that.
If you want someone to chat with, game with, or just vibe with over shared interests, hit me up! Bonus points if you’re into any of the stuff above.

Happy weekend all.

I’ve recently turned 35 and from Yorkshire in the UK. Somewhat of an introvert but pretty chatty when comfortable.

Recently discovered this sub and have had a few interesting chats so far so thought I’d make a post to see if anyone else wanted to.

I love music - will listen to pretty much anything. I’ve got quite a sizeable physical collection now - both vinyl and CDs. I also enjoy going to gigs and was pleasantly surprised to find out recently, that I am still youthful enough to survive a music festival.

I like watching football and occasionally play 5aside. I also love watching cricket and enjoy tennis.

I’d feel like a fraud if I said I was a gamer. I have an xbox and switch. Mainly enjoy playing to pass the time. I tend to like ‘cozy’ simulation games, but other things I’ve enjoyed recently have been Expedition 33, cyberpunk and robocop.

I also seem to go down weird and wonderful rabbit holes on youtube some evenings.

Not an exhaustive list but don’t want to drone on lol. Happy to talk about anything and always find it enjoyable to listen to people talking about something that they’re passionate about.

Give me a shout if you’re bored.

Looking for a guy my age or older for ongoing long term chats. I like 80s music and film, wine, cooking, golf, travel, and a lot more.