r/Finsexual

I have a hormonal condition which makes it so I can't process testosterone into usable form. Unfortunately this means I look like a very pretty woman instead of a normal man.

There isn't any medical procedure that can help me other than gyno surgeries.

I am bisexual but only interested in topping. I am interested in men, they only like me because I look like a giiiiiiiiirl, and you know what that means.

I currently have long hair because it gets me attention. Thinking of cutting it soon, but scared to look like a middle schooler...

Hello. For those of you who discovered that you were Finsexual while you were in your 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond, what has your experience been like? For myself, I discovered that I was attracted to those who are feminine in nature approximately 5 years ago. Only recently have I made the decision to explore those feelings. Up until this point in my life I had only ever been with heterosexual women. I‘m incredibly nervous about how to be not only physically intimate with femboys, trans women, CDs, etc. but emotionally as well. I’m not sure how to tread these waters. I am older so sometimes the people I find myself attracted to are 10 to 20 years younger than I. I’ve never had an issue with dating younger women. For me what is most important is the connection, and compatibility of course. I’m curious what is has been like for other Finsexuals who have been with someone older or younger than themselves. I’m sure communication is key, but as I said I’m incredibly nervous as these are uncharted waters for me. Thanks.

It's crazy to me how people look down on feminine men when they are some of the most beautiful people I've ever seen. It genuinely angers me to see posts about how they're weird. Especially if they're POC because I'm a POC.

I remember when I looked at a fem guy on Tiktok one day and was like "wow he looks nice" and realized at that moment I was queer.

For all the fem men, you're valid, keep slaying, y'all always in my heart.