r/Frumquestions

Saw this getting discussed on other jewish subs figured I'd bring it here .. what are people's thoughts on frum people feeling that they are gay/bi ? ... how would you react if your kid came out to you as gay ? .. obviously Torah seems pretty clear on the subject but do you feel there is any ambiguity that can be used ? And in general if God is so against the idea of it then why do so many people feel they are ?