I really like the marquise band but idk if marquise is for me long term yk ? I thought I was an oval girl but now it looks too round. The moval looks too skinny ? Idk please give advice. I’m so indecisive.
Hi all just curious (this is a question mostly for women. But I guess men can chime in too)
25F have been trying to seriously date for the last 1.5 years almost 2. Cut all flings off and started fresh Back in 2024. Went to therapy, still in therapy and a therapist myself just because I think there is things I can always work on. however I always go back and forth of a few things, in my head if I am trying to find my husband and be willing and open to date for my future husband however I am also young and not in a real rush because life is to be lived. but what want to see how people who are dating/have dated and now are married or anything really about this. again 25F haven’t had sex in 2 years just because, been in multiple dates, multiple talking stages, and nothing concrete. Having casual sex isn’t what I want long term so I stopped because idk that was just a throught process hahah
do I A) stop dating and let him come to me? my problem with that is I do a lot of stuff solo not super approachable due to maybe headphones or I’m in my own little world and I would get off the dating apps too and no sex. have tried this approach obviously still single lol or B) date people/roster of men and see where things go ? or is that getting in the way
part 2. A) stop having sex complelty? as situationship and whatever they call it now can get in the way and distract or B) have sex obviously safely, because i am young should enjoy dating.
any opinions I guess im asking because am I wasting my years of prime dating not dating or what
Girls, be honest yaar…
What’s the most obvious hint you dropped that he just didn’t get? Whether it was in college, at work, through late-night chats, or even during those awkward family functions
I’ll start: I used to make extra besan laddoos (his favourite) and “randomly” drop them at his PG with a handwritten note. I’d text him good morning every single day, laugh at all his lame jokes, and once even told him “It feels so nice when you’re around… everything feels better.”
His reply? “Haha thanks yaar, you’re such a good friend.”
Now your turn.
Me female, 27 and with a man 29 male, I have a child from a previous relationship and a child with him. Me being the woman I am I’ve never looked at another man after being with him never even thought of looking or thinking of another man but ever since he’s just been making me feel like shit makes me feel ugly disgusting useless dismisses everything I’ll ever say because it’s me. My boyfriend he works a lot and I understand it, but it’s so draining walking on eggshells. We’re just literally constantly going through the motions. That’s what I feel whenever he’s home. He’s just not home barely even talks to me. He’s just on his phone 24 seven glued and yes, I did bring it up and when I brought it up. I was being a crybaby. I was jealous of this phone and that’s why I never brought it up again. I take my son to a jujutsu class and of course there are other parents that do the same thing as well but I caught myself looking at my son‘s coach because he is a very attractive man is good with kids and just overall just talks to the kids. I wish he would talk to our kids like I see some of the really handsome dads that go in there and they’re so involved with their kid they act like dad the kids wanna be around them it’s like the most attractive thing ever and I feel so guilty. I’m crying or writing this, but I wish he was the man. I thought he was. I wish she was the man that I thought he was in the beginning of our relationship so depressing I don’t wanna be looking at other men but it’s like those traits are the ones I want instead I’m with this man who doesn’t even care what’s on. My fucking mind doesn’t respect me even the way men are just nice to me. It’s so attractive and like I don’t wanna cheat on him because I’m not that kind of person but it’s like I’m yearning so bad for this attention. I barely even get touched anymore like doesn’t put his hand on my thigh. Does it hug me barely kisses me or like I’ll go in for a hug or something and be like oh you’re so sweaty or like this that it’s like bro if it was you, I wouldn’t give a fuck because it’s you. I wouldn’t care hug me sweaty hug me with dirt on you. I don’t care. I’d understand if you worked like a construction job a physical labor job but he doesn’t. He works at a smoke shop and he could sit down half the time it’s not even a fast paced. I know I shouldn’t look down on him because it’s not a labor job. A job is a job, but it’s like he was working the same hours in the beginning. Why can’t I have any attention like what’s the difference? I understand if I did something, but this is like the most drastic depressing change ever. Like I want a real relationship even like before when I was pregnant, he just told me I was being a baby after I had delivered a whole child and was bleeding out. I needed 2 bags for a blood diffusion still you would think that would be an eye opener but it’s not . I’m tired