r/GoaDating

I’m 32m Goa, looking for female connections, I’m open for mutual benefits. Feel free to dm

Noah , baree , Clara , thalaasa,etcxxxxx

I could absolutely say who he is, but a part of me wants to safeguard what’s left of my sanity after what happened.

Mind you, not being someone’s physical type is completely okay. You are allowed to have preferences. What is not okay is choosing to cross someone’s boundaries while withholding the truth and continuing to lie throughout. That is a severe breach of trust.

So, he’s lurking around this forum and these forums for a while, trying his luck again. Age does not appear to be much of a bar for him.

Ladies, if you’re speaking to someone who is 35-36, feel free to DM me. I’ll tell you whether it’s the same person or not. And if you’re already talking to him, by all means, give it a shot. Just go in with your eyes open. You’d be lucky if a man treats you the way you should be treated.

What happened:

I met a man through this subreddit (or was it the same post on another one), and we clicked almost instantly. We spoke, we met, and then spent a couple of days together like literally. Only afterwards was I made aware that my body wasn’t what he had wished or hoped for.

This, from the same polished man who talks about how communication is key.

So, ladies, just a heads-up: this particular polished gentleman is back on the market. Proceed accordingly.

36 f in goa for a month.....

Couples and single girls only

We’re looking for a sharing dynamic only for pleasure. An MMF threesome. Hopefully we find someone who’s bold enough to drop us a dm. With good ideas of course :)

I could absolutely say who he is, but a part of me wants to safeguard what’s left of my sanity after what happened.

Mind you, not being someone’s physical type is completely okay. You are allowed to have preferences. What is not okay is choosing to cross someone’s boundaries while withholding the truth and continuing to lie throughout. That is a severe breach of trust.

So, he’s lurking around this forum and these forums for a while, trying his luck again. Age does not appear to be much of a bar for him.

Ladies, if you’re speaking to someone who is 35-36, feel free to DM me. I’ll tell you whether it’s the same person or not. And if you’re already talking to him, by all means, give it a shot. Just go in with your eyes open. You’d be lucky if a man treats you the way you should be treated.

What happened:

I met a man through this subreddit (or was it the same post on another one), and we clicked almost instantly. We spoke, we met, and then spent a couple of days together like literally. Only afterwards was I made aware that my body wasn’t what he had wished or hoped for.

This, from the same polished man who talks about how communication is key.

So, ladies, just a heads-up: this particular polished gentleman is back on the market. Proceed accordingly.

Of course rejection happens. That isn’t the point.
A man can say something about a woman’s body and move on without ever understanding what those words can do to someone who trusted him enough to be vulnerable with him.

He was entitled to not want me. He was not entitled to deceive me, cross boundaries, and then reduce the entire experience to a physical trait after the fact.

There’s a difference between rejecting someone and handling another person carelessly. He got the latter very wrong.

Fun conversations, chill vibes. Hmu if anyone is interested.