r/HIV_Anxiety

Im a M20 and this was actually my first sexual experience so I honestly dont really know what is risky and what is not
Yesterday I went to a massage place in Singapore
At first it was just a normal massage but little by little the masseuse started touching my private parts
Then she offered to massage my penis and I said yes
Later she offered me to lick her breasts and I did
She masturbated me with her hand and I ejaculated in her hand
I did not have vaginal anal or oral sex with her and I didnt see any blood or open sores
I dont know her HIV or STI status

This was my first sexual experience and I honestly feel pretty anxious about it
Do you think there is any realistic risk of HIV from what happened
Could I have caught syphilis or another STI
Should I get tested and if so when
Im just looking for some advice because Im really worried right now
Thanks

Hello everyone

I had unprotected exposure on 5 August with inside. Three weeks later I developed severe fatigue, muscle and joint pain dizziness, a white or creamy coating on my tongue and I lost between three and four kilograms.

I had two 4th‑generation HIV Ag/Ab tests. The first test was performed 22 days after the exposure. The second test was performed 45 days and 18 hours after the exposure. Both tests were negative with an index of 0.24.

My pain and weakness have been severe. I have been on bed rest, for thirty days. I am extremely stressed.

Should I repeat the HIV test at three months. Are these two negative 4th‑generation HIV test results sufficient?

Please help me understand what I should do now. Thank you.

Hey! I’m pretty safe with how I play and that I don’t trust people at all. I had anal sex where I was receiving. Partner wore a condom throughout the whole time. Partner did show me negative tests and that he’s on prep. I’m not really anxious since he wore a condom. But what would you guys say the exposure risk would be if any.

Thanks!!