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Pata hai aaj kya hua…

I’m 22M and she’s 20F. 3 saal pehle humara breakup ho gaya tha. Us time move on karna mere liye bhot mushkil tha. Dheere-dheere maine uski taraf jaana chhod diya, uski memories ko suppress karne ki koshish ki aur khud ko busy kar liya.

Sach bolu toh mujhe laga tha ki ab main move on kar chuka hoon.

Usko dekhe hue bhi lagbhag 7-8 months ho gaye the. Yaad toh kabhi-kabhi aati thi, lekin pehle jaisa hurt nahi hota tha. Life apni jagah chal rahi thi aur main bhi apne kaam mein busy tha.

Lekin kal mere ek dost ne casually mujhe bataya ki usne meri ex ko dekha tha. Bhout sundar lag rhi thi

Bas… itni si baat ne mujhe andar hi andar bechen kar diya.

Raat hote-hote mujhe uski bhot zyada yaad aane lagi. Dil itna fast dhadak raha tha jaise kuch hone wala ho. Main khud samajh nahi paa raha tha ki 3 saal baad achanak ye sab kyun feel ho raha hai.

Aaj toh main literally kai baar uske ghar ki taraf chala gaya, sirf usko ek baar dekhne ke liye. Shaam ko mujhe woh thodi si nazar bhi aayi… lekin usko pata nahi chala ki main wahan tha.

Aur ab problem ye hai ki dil phir se uske bina bechain ho raha hai.

Mujhe samajh nahi aa raha ki main itne saal baad bhi usko completely bhool kyun nahi paaya.

Kya mai usko actually kabhi completely bhul paunga? Ya kuch log life se chale jaate hain, lekin kahin na kahin memories mein reh hi jaate hain?

Aakhir 3 saal baad bhi wo mere khayalon mein kyun rehti hai?

Kya ye normal hai… ya main actually move on hi nahi kar paya?

Need Help, Serious Issue, Please.

Imma try to keep it short, my friend's girlfriend texted me back in march 26, she texted me about how she was treated bad, he was toxic and had drinking and smoking issues, yeah for knowing a girl only because she was my friend's girlf, i texted her a lot, comforted her, saod it'll be okay, then it went by. But it became a chain, every time something happends, she'll come up and text me.

I tried to ignore it, most of the times, but at one point when i saw his drinking became too bad, i thought she could help so i started telling her, today he'll drink, today he's going there. Bascially i stepped my foot in, i said some questionable things towards my friends, that his friends(my friends too) drink too much so he cant refuse I tried always to make them together, so they dont leave each other. And this shit went on. Sometimes later it sopped.

Around July end, she texted me, how they've finally broken up, so i just said yea good for you, move on, just comforting and THERE I MADE A MISTAKE. I sent a video of him drinking and smoking to her. Said he was in a pathetic state leave him. I shouldnt have done it.

But last night, he texted me showed me all the things i sent her, and yeah she manipulated many facts by showing me bad as if i was the one who wanted their relationship to go end. Im the villain now. Him, all his and my friends, are against me.

They are calling me to pick on me, fight me. Im going to get a thrashing ik that. But how do i prove or what should i do now? My image is totally gone, its wasted, but still whats the best case scenario to come out of it. That girl yea she played it and put the blame on me so she can be safe.

Im really scared, i am feeling tensed shortness of breath and i am scared. Everyone is against me i cant text anyone, cause they'll send it to him. Im FUCKED. PLEASE ANYONE

Anyone up for a chat?

Hi, M19 here

Well, I use this app to talk with people with the same belief system as mine, in my area i usually don't find people like me.

I'm an atheist

I'm into Philosophy and literature.

I like to write poems in Hindi.

If you are interested in talking just hit me up!

Thanks!