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The Death of Attention

I sometimes wonder when I became incapable of being alone with my own mind. I used to read research papers, I could spend hours immersed in difficult ideas quite happily with nothing demanding my attention except the page or the ideas. A few months back, even a few minutes without my phone used to feel strangely unbearable. I guess this is what dopamine loading does to a person. We feed ourselves small pleasures until ordinary life becomes insipid and begins to feel like suffering. For months I have been trying to reclaim it ( as my profession demands focus especially as a newbie )

Now I force myself to read reports, research papers, complicated documents. Sometimes I read the same paragraph over and over almost feeling how stupid I am and wondering how much my attention span has deteriorated. And when I remember the person I used to be and find it difficult not to feel disgusted by what I have become. Anyways looking at the positive side strangely ....I am improving. Half an hour without my phone once seemed impossible but now I can stay away for hours (again, maybe I have no choice now).

But I still have to fight myself not only for attention and deep focus but sometimes like when out of habit I use AI to check whether my articles, documents, and research papers are grammatically sound , even though I know it is absolutely error free. The only thing I'm glad about is that my vocabulary is still better than its AI-curated alternatives.

Anyways, In this ongoing process I have realised that freedom begins in the small and humiliating act of trying to become yourself again.I am sharing this because perhaps someone else is quietly losing themselves too. If you are I truly understand, please keep trying.

Ironically I once wrote an article on "The Great Algorithm Hoax - why we should not use our phone mindlessly"

And now here I'm confessing my addiction...I mean this is funny.

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u/Yuunoia — 7 days ago

Can any lawyer tell me if I can sue my ex-boyfriend under POSH??

So I broke up with this guy around 3 years ago. We ended on very bad terms, and I swore to myself I would never associate with this person. In a very cliched turn of events, he recently joined my company (the one I've been working in for the past 4 years) in a different department (I'm in HRD). Now, he's been sending me weird, uncomfortable texts over WhatsApp and Slack under the pretence of work talks. Moreover, even in the office, he keep passing me uncomfortable comments about my clothes and keeps tabs on me. I feel very unsafe. I am not sure if a mere complaint would help, as I want him out of my office space. Help me out, please!

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u/existential_oatmeal — 14 days ago
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Can your employer ask for your Aadhaar?

Can your employer ask for your Aadhaar?

Yes, but only when it's genuinely necessary and for a lawful purpose.

An employer cannot collect personal data simply because "it's part of the process." Under the DPDP Act, 2023, organizations are expected to collect only the data they need, use it only for the stated purpose, and protect it with appropriate safeguards.

If an organization asks for Aadhaar or other personal information, a reasonable question to ask is:

Why is this information needed, and is there a less intrusive way to verify my identity?

Have you ever been asked to submit a document that felt unnecessary during hiring or onboarding?

Let's discuss.

u/Yuunoia — 14 days ago
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Can apps really ask for all the permissions they request?

I recently started reading about India's Digital Personal Data Protection (DPDP) Act, 2023, and one thing surprised me.

Many of us tap "Allow" without thinking when an app asks for access to our location, contacts, camera, or microphone.

But should every app really need all of that?

The DPDP Act encourages organizations to collect only the data that's necessary for a lawful purpose and to be transparent about why they're collecting it.

I made a simple infographic explaining this because I think most people don't realize how much personal information they're sharing.

I'd love to know, what's the weirdest permission an app has ever asked you for, which was totally not required and unrelated for app? Have you ever denied one?

u/Yuunoia — 14 days ago

Matheran Musings

साल ये ना-मायूस करने को
ले लिए पल इसी महीने से..

लफ़्ज़ों के सिलसिलों पहले
सजी थी ख़ामोशी करीने से....

मुस्कातीं, सिहरती शाखें थीं
बारिश भीगती थी सीने से.....

u/technoshayar — 14 days ago