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Uhh so I’ve never used a dating app before and made my profile from scratch yday

Please comment or DM if you got 2mins to review, I’m not comfortable posting it publicly

Preferably women for the other side perspective (I’m not trying to find someone from Reddit)

Hello everyone, my gf has known each other for 2 years and we were best friends before this. We both are in our early twenties and just graduated.

We have got physical multiple times before. We usulayyy kiss and then move from 1st base to third base. Now she says that whenever I even kiss you, she does compromise on her belief, everytime we did she did it for me.

Her belief is she can't indulge into physical intimacy before marriage, not Even kissing, she don't even open her mouth while kissing.

And kissing leads to further bases. She can't. She feels like she is breaking her parents trust.

Mera nahi hai aisa, I want to explore everything, I do love her from my botthm of heart.

My point is, I'm okay with not having sex before marriage, but physical intimacy is important for me.

When we are meeting after a week, i feel urge to kiss her but she feels 0, when I approach her she says no.

She says she won't even indulge in oral sex after marriage but I'm the opposite, believing in exploring all the ways of intimacy.

Everytime I approach her to kiss, she says No. Clear No, she's okay huhging me. I feel disrespect to my efforts and then further our convo leads to fight and this has been happening everytime. She have never never approached me to KISS or let's get physical.

It's me who goes to her and she says no.

It's like when she feels that she can't upset me then she goes ahead. I feel like she is doing pity on me.

And I want her to be comfortable with me whenever we are getting physical, cause I love to see her enjoying the things. But this is not the case.

Conversation has come to this point that I can't handle this, after marriage we are gonna end up in dead bedrooms only. She has very less libido and while I have very high libido,

She expects me to wait till marriage, but I feel I can't wait, and what after marriage ? Even If I wait what if after marriage she puts restrictions on something more, already she's saying we can't have oral sex.

Should we break up ?