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Dating has never been so tough

I am only getting mid matches people that dont talk or only talk in one words, some asked for referrals like wth😭 and just matched, took the compliment and unmatched. Ever since i came to delhi, my dating life has been pretty stagnant. I dont go to clubs, dont smoke dont drink, idk where to meet women😭. Can someone please suggest me something?
Also if people are going to say: join a club or something, i cant. I go to gym but thats it. Dont have time cause i have multiple businesses. Just need some companionship.

u/garamagarampakoda — 7 hours ago
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Profile: “Looking for Long-Term Relationship”, Reality: “Aise hi lga diya” 🤡

Matched with this guy last night. We exchanged barely five messages of light banter before bro decided 18 hours of knowing of my existence was prime time to ask me out on a date.

Being a woman who enjoys keeping all her organs intact, I told him I’d rather text a bit and actually get to know him before meeting a practical stranger. A wild, unreasonable boundary, clearly.

He graciously agrees to text first, so I drop the standard icebreaker: "Tell me about you."

Enter the plot twist:

"I am here for friends with benefit."

Naturally, I asked why on earth his profile literally states "Long-term relationship" (the sole reason I swiped right in the first place).

His peak intellectual justification?

"Bczzzz Aise hi lga diya."

Sir. What do you mean aise hi lga diya?! Is relationship intent just SEO keyword stuffing on dating apps now? Are we treating profile prompts like optional Buzzfeed quizzes?

The bar is in subterranean depths, yet somehow they brought a shovel. 💀

u/pepper_iron — 16 hours ago
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Women of dating apps. Do you identify as Thar ??

My first ever Bumble Like and it turned out to be a fudging Thar in disguise. Yaha to peecha chor de mera Thartard.

u/Not_Horny69 — 15 hours ago
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What's with no response even after getting matched??

Reinstalled the app yesterday and got matched with around 6 girls. I texted them and only 2 ended up responding.

One of them asked if we could go out for a movie, and I was like, okayy, sure. So I asked if she had any movie in mind that we could watch together, and she said Loka 2. movie isn’t even releasing this year, why ask to watch movie then? Considering it was her who asked me. and I later asked what other things she’s interested in, and she literally replied, “women.” 😭

I was like, Ohh, so you’re not interested then? And she unmatched me. Like, why tf would you match with someone just to give shitty or rude responses and then unmatch when they try to have an actual conversation? And the other girls didn’t even respond despite matching. Why match in the first place then???

Out of 6 matches, only 1 ended up responding properly and exchanged instagram later

I completely hate doing this, but why are girls this shitty on dating apps. Not everyone's trying to get on your pants and you aren't the prize to be won either. Anyways any good conversation starters after matching so I actually get response?

u/boomergenz — 20 hours ago
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Does being genuine actually matter in dating?

I’ve been thinking about this for a while and I’m genuinely curious about women’s perspectives on it.

As a guy, sometimes it feels like dating has become more about the impression you create than who you actually are. Some men are naturally more flashy, confident, socially polished, or good at presenting themselves, while others are just straightforward and show their real personality from the beginning.

I sometimes wonder whether the second type gets overlooked because the first impression isn't as impressive.

I also wonder about standards. Obviously, everyone has the right to have standards and decide what they want in a partner. But do you think social media, dating apps, and the way relationships are portrayed online have made those expectations somewhat unrealistic for some people?

And then there's the part I find interesting: sometimes someone can present themselves as extremely confident, successful, charming, etc., but later turn out to be completely different from that image. Yet the person who was simply honest and genuine from the start might not get the same attention.

For women who date men, how important is authenticity to you when you first meet someone?

Would you rather someone be completely themselves from the beginning, even if they're not particularly flashy or impressive at first, or does a strong first impression naturally matter more?

I'm not asking this because I think women should lower their standards or because I believe anyone is entitled to a relationship. I'm just genuinely curious about how women see this, especially in today's dating culture.

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u/itsabsek — 14 hours ago
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Ever got matched or connected to someone known that turned out to be embarrassing later on??

Ever swiped right and got matched to someone on a dating app without knowing who the other person is and later on finding out he or she is known person and it turn out embarrassing that all that time u guys chatted romantic??

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u/vishal_shubhika — 19 hours ago