r/Indianmedschooldating

Just started final year and im so overwhelmed would love to have a study partner for accountability and friendship 🥲🥲

CC: Persistent singlehood since 23 years, along with being a hopeless romantic

HOPI: Pt. Is a 23yo intern currently presenting with idiopathic absence of romantic involvement.

Symtoms are insidious in onset, more prominent during late night study sessions,post duty exhaustion and occasional exposure to couples who somehow have time for both relationships and their attendance requirements.

Partial relief on going on late night drives.

The patient remains functional, socially active, and capable of maintaining meaningful friendships. However, the desire for a special someone has recently increased.

Past-History:No significant history of situationships, complicated exes, or unresolved relationship-related trauma.

Personal History:Enjoys good conversations, banter, spontaneous plans, and people who can make an ordinary day interesting.

Does enjoy gymming, playing music, gaming and writing.

Treatment Plan:Seeking a compatible female human for mutual emotional support, terrible jokes, food outings, spontaneous adventures, and making internship slightly less miserable.

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ABOUT

• 30, Male, Hindu (Aggarwal), 5'10", wheatish

• Doctor, first year of MD in Jaipur

• Home state Haryana, hoping to settle back in my hometown

LIFESTYLE

• Vegetarian, non-smoker, non-drinker

• Prefer similar, but eggetarian or occasional drinker is fine

• Caste and profession don't matter, chemistry does

FAMILY

• Close-knit, financially stable nuclear family

• Father: businessman | Mother: homemaker | Elder sister: married

I ENJOY

• Long walks and deep conversations

• Cooking, learning new things, nature

• Jamming and classical instrumental music

• Quiet, screen-free time offline

• Spirituality as mindfulness and inner growth, not rituals

• Understanding perspectives different from mine

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR

• Mutual, consistent effort through darker and brighter phases, with respect

• Being ourselves, free of judgment, blame games or mind games

• Easy conversations and comfortable silences, from 2 AM life talks to silly laughs minutes later

• Occasional fights are only human

• Empathetic, emotionally mature, family-oriented, wants children, a little spiritually inclined

I prefer meeting in person over weeks of chatting, since real conversations reveal more than screens.

If this sounds like you, drop me a message with a short introduction. I'd love to see where a good conversation leads. :)

Edit: getting lot of criticism.. a small answer

I'm doctor so i am eligible to post here i posted it in a different manner where i included details about me and what i am looking for..so what wrong i did in it. A genuine dating partner will love to know about you and your family so adding details about my sister being married or my family is for someone who genuinely want to date for longterm and turn it into marriage someday.

anyways we see what we are. most people want casual stuff and it was bit more realistic so criticism is genuine

Hello fellow underpaid overworked burnt out saathiyo.

I'm an intern as mentioned and bored out of my mind.

I'm from Karnataka, and I'm studying in Karnataka.

I love to cook, and find it relaxing.

Also if we know each other well, I will probably bully you to oblivion, so yeah, letting you know.

I don't know what I'm looking for, but I hope whatever it is that I'm looking for brings me joyy.

Peace out people, see you in my dms or the comment section.toodles

Looks like this group is around 95% boys, and quite a few of them are non-medicos as well. Also, from what I’ve noticed, many people seem to be considering this group more like a Shaadi. com or matrimony platform rather than just dating group.

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I went on bumble dates a lot. Had one gf from there relationship lasted for 1.5 years breakup was hard and tough. Then again I went to 5 dates and after having a convo I didn’t like any of them, they were good, pretty , but still somewhere I wasn’t able to connect or start liking them. 🫪 just wanted to share my story. Dating is fun though all of them are good friends of mine. But couldn’t go into a relationship after that breakup. Feels kinda empty from inside.