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Hello my brother and sister I just recently arrived in UK currently in west Kensington. I'm looking for job
It's been few months I'm jobless currently losing faith if anyone can help with any job. I would appreciate. Thanks
Hello my brother and sister I just recently arrived in UK currently in west Kensington. I'm looking for job
It's been few months I'm jobless currently losing faith if anyone can help with any job. I would appreciate. Thanks
I’ll be honest, I’m exhausted.
When I moved to the UK, a huge part of me was relieved. I thought I was finally leaving behind the constant "Andhbhakt" echo chambers, the religious friction, and that suffocating wave of anti-feminist rhetoric that’s taken over my social feeds back home. I just wanted to live in a normal, functioning society where politics isn't someone's entire (and very angry) personality.
I’ve met people here in London and Birmingham and Belfast, who are more radicalized than the people I left behind in Delhi. It’s the wildest cognitive dissonance I’ve ever seen. These guys enjoy every single perk of a Western liberal democracy—freedom of speech, secularism, social safety nets—yet they spend their weekends aggressively pushing the most extreme, right-wing ideologies from India.
The worst part? They "sell" this filtered, hyper-nationalist version of India to their British colleagues like it’s a utopia, all while complaining about "Western values" destroying society.
It feels like they’re stuck in a time capsule of hate, but with the added ego of earning in Pounds. I actually feel bad for the locals here. You guys are just trying to go about your day, and you’ve inherited a localized version of a culture war you didn't ask for.
I moved 5,000 miles for a vibe shift, only to find the same toxicity, just in a colder climate. Has anyone else experienced this, or am I just hanging out in the wrong circles?
Hello!
I am an Indian national in the UK (Birmingham) and I am seeking help regarding a stupid mistake I made. My current passport is set to expire in early 2027 and I made an appointment at the local embassy office to get it renewed (tatkaal service). This appointment is on 1st June.
However, I am supposed to go the US in late July on a work-related trip and I mistakenly booked my J1 visa appointment on 5th June. I also have to go to Germany for another work related trip or which I am supposed to fly out on 7th June (I already have a Schengen visa).
1st question - Will the Indian consulate office keep my current passport while they renew the passport for me?
2nd question - I entered my current passport's details in my US visa application. If I am able to get my new passport in time, is it possible to give them my new passport and keep my current passport with me? I understand that the passport number changes after renewal
Or should I just reschedule my US visa appointment? Any guidance on what should be the best course of action is is appreciated! Thank you!
To understand the India you see today, you'll have to look at the structural walls Dr. B.R. Ambedkar spent his life tearing down. For centuries, the caste system in texts like the Manusmriti didn't just create
"classes", it created a system of "graded inequality." Lower castes were denied the right to study or even share a cup of water from the same well, while women were kept in a state of total humiliation and subservience. Ambedkar changed everything. From leading the Mahad Satyagraha so people could simply drink water, to drafting the Constitution and fighting for women's inheritance rights, he gave a voice to the silenced. But the legacy of that oppression still lives in our economy: Most Indians you meet abroad come from backgrounds that had a
"head start." Their families had access to education and foreign exposure for generations while others were legally barred from it. Today, 1% of India holds nearly half the country's wealth. The reason the middle class can afford cheap household help is that a massive portion of the population mostly come from marginalized castes and is still trapped in a cycle of poverty and landlessness. If you really want to know someone's heart, ask them what they think about Reservation or Dr. Ambedkar. Their answer will tell you if they acknowledge the ladder of privilege they climbed, or if they're still choosing to ignore the history that built their current life. If you don't know Ambedkar, read him. He is the reason India has a chance at being a true democracy.
Hey everyone,
I’ll be moving back to India in about a month and need to send a few personal belongings from the UK, mainly clothes, utensils, shoes, and some miscellaneous household stuff. Nothing super expensive or fragile.
I’ve been looking into cargo/shipping services and came across CargoForce. Their pricing seems pretty reasonable, but the reviews online are really mixed. Some people say they had a smooth experience, while others mention delays, damaged parcels, or poor customer support.
Has anyone here personally used CargoForce for shipping from the UK to India?
Would you recommend them?
PS- I’d also really appreciate suggestions for any other reliable and reasonably priced services you’ve used recently
Anyone here who has experience with visa on arrival for Egypt as an Indian passport holder who lives and works in the UK? I am in dire need of this information as my flights are all booked for July 😭 please any help would be appreciated
Hi Folks,
Thanks for your help. I am a technology entrepreneur from the US who is looking to move to London. I have kids who will go to primary school and we are leaning independent schools.
There is lot of news about safety issues in London recently. I wanted to help understand the reality on the ground.
We are flexible on budget and will have access to cars. I will be mostly working from home, so commute is not a constraint.
Can you please recommend some good areas to live.
Hi everyone,
I’m planning to pursue a Bachelor’s top-up degree (final year) in AI & Data Science in the UK and have already started the process.
The total cost will be around ₹30 lakhs (education loan), so I’m concerned about the return on investment.
Here are my main questions:
I’m planning to focus heavily on projects, internships, and building a strong portfolio, and I want to understand how much that actually impacts hiring.
If anyone has done a top-up degree or is working in the UK tech field, I’d really appreciate your honest opinions and experiences.
Thanks in advance!
I need to vent for a second because I feel like I’m losing my mind.
I’ve always loved the idea that language is supposed to unite people. I’ve gone out of my way to be friends with people from all over—multilingual, "linguistics" types, people with cool backgrounds. But lately, I’ve realized that instead of bringing us together, it’s being used as a tool to completely shut people out.
Does anyone else deal with friends who just… forget you exist the moment someone else speaks their native tongue?
I’ll be out at dinner or hanging at a house, and two of my "friends" will just dive into a conversation in a language they know I don’t speak a word of. And I’m not talking about a quick 30-second clarification. I’m talking hours. I’m literally sitting there, eating my fries or staring at my phone, while they laugh and debate and have this deep connection right in front of me.
It feels so incredibly unwelcoming. It’s like being a ghost at your own hangout. When I try to jump in or ask what’s up, I get a half-second summary like, "Oh, we're just talking about work," and then they go right back into it.
What is the word for this? Is there a specific term for people who are "linguistically cliquey" or just completely socially oblivious? It feels just straight-up conversational exclusion.
I used to think learning about different cultures was about opening doors, but right now it feels like I’m just standing outside a locked one. Am I being too sensitive, or is this just common-level rudeness now?
Hi everyone,
My family is considering a move to London later this year and I wanted to reach out to this community for honest, practical advice from those who have actually lived it — especially Indian families who have navigated the move with young children
Our situation briefly:
We are a couple in our mid late 30s. I am moving for a corporate role. My wife will not be working initially as she requires additional education to work there. We have a 15-month-old son who has a confirmed neurological diagnosis requiring daily medical management. He is on multiple medications, is developmentally on track and doing well, but needs careful daily routines — specific feeding schedule, environmental sensitivity management, and an established care protocol. He is currently under an excellent specialist in India and the transition of his medical care is our biggest practical concern.
We are coming from India where we have full family support, a known medical system, established specialist care, a nanny, and a cook. We are under no illusions that London will feel the same initially — but we want to prepare as well as possible rather than land and figure it out.
What I would love your honest input on:
On the NHS:
• How quickly were you able to register with a GP on arrival and get a referral to a paediatric specialist? We have a complex paediatric case — how did the NHS handle urgent specialist referrals for a young child with an active neurological diagnosis?
• Has anyone accessed tertiary paediatric care through NHS referral rather than privately? How long did it take and what was the realistic experience?
• For those with children on medications — how smooth was the prescription transfer process from India? Any gaps we should prepare for?
• Is private health insurance worth having alongside NHS for complex paediatric cases or is NHS sufficient?
On finding the right nanny:
• Any experience finding nannies specifically experienced with medically sensitive or complex children in London? Which agencies, communities, or platforms were most useful?
• For Indian families specifically — how did you find Indian cooks or part-time household help? WhatsApp groups, temple communities, any specific platforms or approaches that worked?
• What should we look for and what should we avoid when hiring a nanny for a child with specific medical needs?
On the spouse transition:
• For non-working spouses who moved with partners — how did you find community and social connection in the early months? What helped most and what did you wish you had done differently?
• Any Indian women’s networks, professional communities, or cultural organisations in London that were genuinely useful?
• For those who pursued professional requalification after moving — how did you manage study alongside full-time caregiving? What support structures helped?
On first-month practicalities:
• What should we absolutely sort before landing versus what can wait until we arrive?
• Any India-to-UK specifics we should know — bank accounts, National Insurance, GP registration sequence, anything people typically miss?
• What were the unexpected challenges nobody warned you about — especially with a young child?
One specific ask:
If anyone has navigated the UK system with a child with ongoing medical needs requiring specialist paediatric care — we would genuinely love to hear from you directly. The medical transition is our biggest anxiety and ground-level experience is worth more than anything we can research online.
We are approaching this with open eyes. We know the first six months will be hard. We are not looking for reassurance — we are looking for honest practical advice from people who have actually done this.
Thank you in advance.
Biometrics:20th April
I got this mail "we are unable to make decision on your application in published time."on 7th may. Now I'm very stressed that when I will get my visa decision. Do anyone have similar kind of experience, please share here.
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Hello, we are a family of four from India. Our visa was refused. My father is self employed as an immovable property valuer and my mother is retired on a regular govt. pension. Me and my sibling are students and were to be sponsored by our father on this trip to London in mid June. Unfortunately both my parents' visas got refused and we haven't received me and my sibling's refusal emails yet (which will be refused due to sponsorship. Here are other details:
We thought our file was robust and but yet our visas were rejected. I don't understand why even my mother's visa was rejected as well. I want to ask, in case we want to reapply, what are the missing documents that we should attach and how should we strategize our "story": should we show our mother as the sponsor this time around for me and my sister? Should we file an appeal (and how, because our rejection letters state there is no option for appeal or administrative review.) In case we reapply do we have a chance or would that application fees also go to waste?
We had applied via Akbar Travels, who evidently were useless.
I have to renew my Indian passport and need to change my Indian address. Based in London currently and as per my understanding of the vfs page, I can do this under tatkal service (I might be wrong here)
I am not sure what documents I need to show for Indian address proof as none of my Indian documents (Aadhar, PAN etc) have the new address updated
Does anyone have any idea or information for me? Any help would be greatly appreciated as I have a short timeline between my Indian passport expiry and UK ILR eligibility.
Hello,
I'm working on digitising my mom's 20 year old Indian Ethnic Wear boutique and rebranding it by enabling e-com and building a positioning on socials. This is a widely disorganised sector in India and I see more potential for it to grow as a brand- especially internationally as the market is much less cluttered there.
I have some ideas that involve building a boutique shopping experience online as that's a niche culture dying out, but not one without potential. And for that, I'm looking to speak with Indian/NRI woman aged 20-40 for better shopping and behavioural insights. Any little information would be of great use! Please feel free to DM or reply here.
Thanks x
We just took Pranjulaa Singh's podcast live! We’re discussing everything you need to know about the UK Global Talent Visa specifically in arts and culture.
I am an Indian student thinking of doing masters in UK. I have some questions :
Is their any work permit required for part time jobs and is it difficult to get part time job?
Here are my two cents on my journey in the UK, spoilers, it's not all bad, but I needed a lot of trial and error to get it right. Currently working as a Marketing Executive in a good company in the UK.
I came to the UK in 2023 sept to study an MA in Creative Writing at the University of Greenwich. I was 26 at the time. I had a gf (24F) at that time. I did not take any education loan, and everything was paid from my pocket. This will come in handy later.
So, I came to the UK with hopes to only retrieve my money invested, aiming to stay for 3 years (1 year student visa + 2 years Graduate visa)
I then started looking for jobs and trying to find friends, I had quit, smoking, drinking, late night outs and partying and looked at masters in UK as a second chance in life, each day was costing me roughly £25-£35 just accommodation, travel and food excluding tuition fees, so I was really cautious on not wasting time in UK and do my studies and get a job.
Initially, many of my friends got jobs in restaurants and pubs. I had a cleaning job, but I quit after 2-4 weeks since I had to get up really early at 4 am and go to the job, which didn't even pay well.
I quit that job and tried finding different jobs. I kept going to university job fairs even when some of my roommates said that ‘the jobs there are useless.’ (THANK GOD!)
I found a teaching assistant job in the UK, and I had to assist students under year 6 with their studies, which was pretty simple but taxing on the mind. I did not mind that since it was really good pay and only had to work from 8 am - 3:30 pm, and I was home and ready to chat with my family and GF (who is also my wife now) and plan my future actions.
My gf was a really great support, and I had someone to bounce my ideas off, make sure my mental health is good and give me advice on lots of things.
During my university studies, I knew that an MA in creative writing was not going to bring any jobs, so I studied marketing courses from YouTube and Udemy. I also had 3 years of writing and marketing experience before I came to London. I found Senator, we run ads and his video on “How he would start marketing all over”. It's a great piece of advice, and he suggests going in on one marketing field like (SEO, PPC, SSM) and giving it your all and going in depth.
He also suggested creating marketing portfolios, yes, case studies of companies that are hiring. There’s a third piece of advice I will give you that will get you a job in the UK later.
So I did, I studied marketing, read business books, entered a business competition at my university, and came in the top ten in that business competition.
After my graduation, I tried a lot to get a job, optimised CVs, made case studies and applied to almost 300+ jobs. I got around 5-6 interviews, and I did not get a job. I had lost all hope in July 2025, and since the vacation started in August, which meant I did not have a job for almost 5-6 weeks, which was fine, since I had savings.
After I got super bored one evening, I just decided to go along my high street and start asking if they required marketing help, and I can do that as a freelancer. That decision alone changed my life.
I went out, and I saw an ad for a ventilation company requiring marketing assistance, and I went in and gave my C.V I was called for an interview, and I went in with my case study. The interviewers, my current managers, asked me questions for 3 hours + which was great because no one in the past year had bothered to even look at my case studies.
After three hours, I went home, and in two weeks, I started working there. I have eight months until my visa expires, and I have to make the decision to go back home. But I have achieved what I came here for, and I don’t have any regrets.
To tie everything together, my GF at home and not taking a loan was amongst the best things I could have had before arriving in the UK, which allowed me to only focus on being hirable for a job and getting one.
So, that’s what I had to say, making it in the UK is all about focus, learning new things, being humble enough to understand that other people can provide value, saving as much money as possible so you can use your free time to find jobs, ensuring you don’t think about doing as many shifts as humanly possible and just do jobs during your student life. The amount of resources and extracurricular activities you can do here is immense, and they help you a lot.
So I would end this super long post by saying this, “Work hard, study well, and eat and sleep plenty” — Master Roshni (The Turtle Hermit Way)