My dad had applied for a 2 lakh rupees loan from SBI for building our house around 2003-04
The loan was not getting approved on a single applicant hence dad had to ask my Uncle to join in and sign the docs.
After the loan was approved and disbursed, my dad built the house slowly. Mind you my uncle didn't have a penny of his into his house. Because this was NOT supposed to be his house in the first place.
Now fast forward 20 years back, that house is worth 55-60 lacs and the Unc wants his 50% share.
What is the best way to approach this without causing any hassle and without giving up 50% of what my father built with his blood and sweat.
This is an appeal to save a life with the current update.
PLEASE, give us a chance and hear us out.
Hello everyone, I’m Mohana, (u/Miserable_Steak_7915)
I am writing this on behalf of my friend Pritam Choudhury(u/Pritam_choudhury2026 on Reddit and pritamchoudhury2026 on Instagram).
We are making this post again (link to the previous post- drafted by u/bongmadchen) with current updates after receiving the news of Pritam's mother's Blood Report, her Hemoglobin is way too low and she is preparing for the 4th chemotherapy on 3rd July.
The resilience this woman has is beyond my comprehension and so does her son who is handling everything alone as a kid just out of high school.
Around the end of April, after running around Kolkata to different hospitals and clinics, Dr Aditya Narayan Sen (WBMC: 49434) of Microlap Clinic diagnosed Pritam’s Mother with Stage 3C Ovarian cancer and their family has already spent approx. Rs 1.1 lakh but the remaining cost of Rs 6.45 lakh is absolutely massive for Pritam’s family to bear since their monthly income is Rs. 15,000.
Her future treatment plan includes surgery and administering supportive care (such as PARP inhibitors) based on her post-surgery test results.
From 17th to 27th June, we have managed to raise about Rs.1,29,006 with help from you guys on reddit, close friends, family, Auntie's friends from her Durga Puja committee and even Pritam's school teachers.
However, we are still short of about Rs 5.16 lakh.
We would be extremely grateful if you could donate to Pritam’s family to save her life. Even a small amount would be very helpful.
If you can’t donate, simply sharing this fundraiser and connecting us to NGOs would be much appreciated!
Unfortunately, we still haven't received a positive response from the ones we’ve contacted so far.
I am trying my best to use my reddit account to reach as many people as I can to help my friend (he is unable to use his account because it is new and has low karma) cause the fundraiser is our only hope but if you have any doubts, he is willing to answer them over a WhatsApp video call.
I really hope our fundraiser turns out to be the miracle we are hoping for.
Thank you for giving us you time and reading this. Please, help us save her.
UPI Number: 7551853973
UPI ID: pritamchoudhury127-1@oksbi
Bank Account Details:
Bank Name:- State Bank of India |
Account Holder Name:- Mr. Pritam Choudhury |
Account Number:- 41262934549 |
IFSC Code:- SBIN0010427 |
Branch:- Bagnan
DOCUMENTS FOR TRANSPARENCY & VERIFICATION:
— an appeal from a son fighting to see his mother live the day to watch him grow up.
Wtf is happening?
Hinduism
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The traditional framework stems from the Varna system and thousands of localized, hereditary occupational groups called Jatis. Despite significant constitutional protections, anti-discrimination laws, and urban mobility, caste remains a powerful factor in marriage, local politics, and social hierarchies.
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Islam
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Indian Muslim society is broadly divided into three major social strata:
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Ashrafs: Descendants of foreign settlers (Arabs, Persians, Turks) (e.g., Sayyids, Sheikhs, Pathans), who hold the highest social prestige.
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Ajlafs: Descendants of low-caste Hindu converts who practice traditional occupations (e.g., weavers, butchers).
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Arzals: Descendants of the lowest-caste converts, often facing severe social exclusion similar to Dalit communities.
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Christianity
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The community is largely divided between Syrian Christians who trace their lineage back centuries and often claim high-caste ancestry and Dalit Christians who converted more recently to escape caste oppression. In many regions, separate seating in churches, segregated burial grounds, and a lack of intermarriage persist between these groups.
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The Rational Case for Eradication
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From a purely logical, socioeconomic, and humanistic perspective, the continuation of the caste system actively hinders progress.
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Economic Inefficiency and Stifled Talent: A rational society allocates human capital based on merit, skill, and inclination not an accident of birth. Forcing or socially pressuring individuals into hereditary economic tracks prevents the economy from utilizing its best talent, artificially limiting innovation and growth.
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Destruction of Social Cohesion: A modern nation-state relies on a shared sense of fraternity, caste fragments society into thousands of distinct inward-looking blocks. This fragmentation political polarization, and social friction, making collective civic progress much harder to achieve.
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A Violation of Universal Human Rights: Rationally, a person's worth, dignity, and legal protections should be inherent to being human.
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What's your say about it?
On behalf of Pritam Choudhury (u/PritamChoudhury_2026 on Reddit and pritamchoudhury2026 on Instagram), I and u/bongmadchen are reaching out to raise money for his mother’s cancer treatment.
Between Pritam’s re-NEET and the family’s financial circumstances, we kindly request that you help Pritam’s mother (Kakali Choudhury) live to see him become the doctor she always wanted him to be!
Around the end of April, after running around Kolkata to different hospitals and clinics, Dr Aditya Narayan Sen (WBMC: 49434) of Microlap Clinic diagnosed Pritam’s Mother with Stage 3C Ovarian cancer.
She’s currently undergoing several rounds of chemotherapy, following which the doctor will perform surgery and administer supportive care (such as PARP inhibitors) based on her post-surgery test results.
Pritam’s family has already spent approx. Rs 1.1 lakh. However, the remaining cost of Rs 6.45 lakh is burdensome for Pritam’s family since their monthly income is Rs. 15,000.
We would be extremely grateful if you could donate to Pritam’s family. Even a small amount would be very helpful!
If you can’t donate, simply sharing this fundraiser with those who can and connecting us to NGOs would be much appreciated! Unfortunately, we didn’t receive a positive response from the ones we’ve contacted so far.
UPI Number: 7551853973
UPI ID: pritamchoudhury127-1@oksbi
Bank Account Details:
Bank Name:- State Bank of India |
Account Holder Name:- Mr. Pritam Choudhury |
Account Number:- 41262934549 |
IFSC Code:- SBIN0010427 |
Branch:- Bagnan
We completely respect your right to 100% transparency and have provided the following documents as evidence of our claims.
We’re also willing to answer any questions you have in the comments section or directly over a WhatsApp call with Pritam!
UPDATE FOR TODAY: we have been posting since 17th june and with help from everyone, we managed to raise Rs. 1,12,794 in 5 days. will keep you guys posted on a regular basis.
you guys were all soo kind on our last posts on reddit, can't thanks you enough.
PLEASE! PLEASE! help us save her. we are counting on you guys!