Please read my intro and only reply if you are the kind of person I’m looking for, and TELL ME why please :) not looking for random short chats about hobbies..and not looking for random messages from people that aren’t the type I’m looking for.

Hello, I'm Florianne from the Netherlands, i'm almost 19 and I am looking for older people to talk to. Like i have friends my age enough so please don't respond if you are under 30. Either male or female, I don't mind at all, as long as you are a mature serious person.

I'm looking for a serious/mature type of person because most people I normally hang out with my age at school are like, the talk up to a rich girl types, always agreeing with you, telling you what they think you want to hear etc. And I thought maybe online you can make friends with someone with a different type of character. Someone that is like, super confident, mature, intelligent, likes to lead a conversation. Like a person that is more super direct and honest, that would just idk, call you out when you are..Not like what I’m used to, people that just always treat you like a princess.

A bit about me: I have pretty rich parents and i'm kinda popular/princessy in school, but I can also be really respectful/polite as I did private school when i was younger etc. I play a lot of sports: field hockey, some tennis, horse back riding in the summer and I used to do gymnastics until a few months ago. And just standard girl stuff like shopping haha.

Warning I can be clingy/obsessed if I like something/someone haha

Please only DM me if you actually want to like, be a long term friend, have time to chat and get to know me, and not the short random message type of person.

Please tell me your age and why you replied to my intro so i know you read all of this 😛

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Making friends as an adult isn't easy, but I still believe that genuine, lasting friendships are possible.

I'm looking for someone over 40 who truly wants a long-term friendship. Someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, everyday chats, sharing laughter, supporting each other through difficult times, and celebrating life's little victories together.

A little about me: I enjoy deep conversations just as much as silly humor. I believe that the best friendships are built on trust, kindness, and simply being there for one another.

You don't have to be outgoing. If you're shy, socially awkward, or life sometimes gets in the way, that's completely okay. I don't expect perfection. I just hope for honesty, kindness, and the willingness to keep choosing the friendship, even after the occasional misunderstanding or quiet period.

If you're also hoping to find a genuine friend instead of just another conversation that slowly fades away, I'd love to hear from you!!!

I am 38 F. I am happy and secure in my relationship. I'm really just looking for new conversations, new ideas, funny banter. Nothing serious. I read, I lego, I watch TV... lol normal 38 yr old without friends 🤣

Hey! I’m looking to make friends with people on here especially other neets. I enjoy weightlifting, cooking, baking but I’m happy to talk about anything, thanks :)

Looking to be on the body doubling d/cord server so i can study and clean up. Low energy so hoping to be mostly quiet. Anyone just need a presence? Hmu. Preferably female. any age is fine

Im 26F, going through a lot right now and need support, atleast someone I could vent to a little and listen to and try to help my interests are makeup, politics, psychology, ancestry and phenotype analysis i enjoy that since im big on history too. I could talk about variety of subjects. im extroverted so extroverts and extroverted introverts please.

I would really appreciate support right now, from my own sex as I want to feel safe. If youre man, im not looking for anything explicit so please let's not waste eachothers time and be creep in my dms..

Preferably looking for people my age and older.

Getting older is tough, you move a lot, you switch jobs, you lost many friends behind and making new friends is getting more difficult, but I make a lot of new great people here on reddit, to connect with without the need of physical hangout.

It is impossible to vibe with everyone though but there is a good chance to find someone that match your timezomes, we dont have to share the same interests to be friends, but it can help to ease things out.

I am looking for that person who always replies my messages, it doesnt have to be fast, but replying consistently is something that can create a friendship , let's become a best friend that can talk freely and looking forward to each others messages.

we can talk about working out, if you like to be my gym buddy and text with me while I am doing sets.

we can talk about anime, sharing recommendations and things like that, it is always nice to share what we like.

or maybe video games, even if we dont have enough time to play video games together we can talk about video games and share our progress if you like, I like RPG games like Final Fantasy, Witcher and Persona.

even if we dont share any hobbies we can talk about life and vent to each others, I think all what it takes to have a friend is someone that doesnt leave you on read, and I always reply my messages , if you do too we can talk forever and be best friends that has each others.

Hey there, it’s the middle of the night and I’m I can’t sleep. Been trying to get myself out of my shell and attempt making friends. Being an introvert has its perks, but it kinda sucks when you’re trying to make friends. Im not very good at conversation, but I am working on improving that. I also love to game and read. If you’re interested in talking to me, feel free to say hi.

Hey there! I don't know where to start, to be honest.

I guess, I need to mention that I'm not into small talks, I prefer deep conversations where you can explore various topics and exchange your experience.

What I want to find:

- consistent communication

- people who are willing to discuss physics, biology, psychology and cartoons?

- friends (if possible)

- just passers-by who would love to share a few curious facts about their country and culture

A few facts about me, so you know if you want to talk or not:

- super into psychology and deep talks

- geeky, love Doctor Who and LOTR

- straightforward (not in a hurtful way, just don't sugar coat things)

- a big lego fan

- have a dog and love to talk about animals

- have never been abroad but working on it

- into calm meaningful music

- introverted but can be chatty

- have moments of problems, tell about them in advance

I speak English, French and Russian, learning Finnish, would love to find some friends from Finland, if possible. Other cultures are super welcome as well.

I don't know your preferable way of communicating – I love voice messages and texts, if the connection is good, video calls.

Heyy i’m kixx, i’m pretty new to gaming i bought my pc 8months or so ago.
I really enjoy friendslop games and apex but i’m always down to try new games!
Ive been away for a week and lost contact with almost everyone i was playing with before that week so i thought id just post on here! I’m always down for vc aswell^^

Edit: please do not send just an hey in dm, tell me something about yourself!!

I hope everyone is enjoying their 4th of July. The title is just a way I can find my people. And I anit got nothing against ppl that are not black. I just like for it be diverse. I’m kinda bored but like in a talkive mood. But no one to throught back and fourth too. But I do ask for you that’s reading to be American and 25 and older.

hiiiiiiii my name is tilly and i looooooooooove some good ice cream n vodka girl its AWESOMEEE im a lil tipsy right now but imma get suuuper drunk today and gonna have so much fun.i m the QUEEN of vodka my friends tell me and everyone doesnt expect it cuz i aint look like a girl that can drink so much vodka. a lil about me im half latina and asian and i love apps and d fem boys and dinosaurs and stuff like that and i love to get crazy and party!!!!!!!!!!

Please read my intro and only reply if you are the kind of person I’m looking for, and TELL ME why please :) not looking for random short chats about hobbies..and not looking for random messages from people that aren’t the type I’m looking for.

Hello, I'm Florianne from the Netherlands, i'm almost 19 and I am looking for older people to talk to. Like i have friends my age enough so please don't respond if you are under 30. Either male or female, I don't mind at all, as long as you are a mature serious person.

I'm looking for a serious/mature type of person because most people I normally hang out with my age at school are like, the talk up to a rich girl types, always agreeing with you, telling you what they think you want to hear etc. And I thought maybe online you can make friends with someone with a different type of character. Someone that is like, super confident, mature, intelligent, likes to lead a conversation. Like a person that is more super direct and honest, that would just idk, call you out when you are..Not like what I’m used to, people that just always treat you like a princess.

A bit about me: I have pretty rich parents and i'm kinda popular/princessy in school, but I can also be really respectful/polite as I did private school when i was younger etc. I play a lot of sports: field hockey, some tennis, horse back riding in the summer and I used to do gymnastics until a few months ago. And just standard girl stuff like shopping haha.

Warning I can be clingy/obsessed if I like something/someone haha

Please only DM me if you actually want to like, be a long term friend, have time to chat and get to know me, and not the short random message type of person.

Please tell me your age and why you replied to my intro so i know you read all of this 😛

Heya there!

The username's Naz, I'm 29F, French-Canadian, autistic, and I have an international neurodivergent friend group that I’d love you to join!

About Us

My group as been around for about 7 years and counting! It is also:

• Full of nerds
• Calm/chill, with plenty of laughs to be had
• Mostly text-based (we use voice chat on special occasions)
• Very neurodivergent
• LGBTQ+ friendly
• From all over the world

Otherwise:

• Our main interests (as a group) include: animals and insects, cooking, medicine and pharmacology, STEM, literature, folklore, history, art, video games, design, tech, DnD/TTRPGs, board games, biology, neurosciences, plants, crafts, shopping, music, religious deconstruction, video content, and much more!
• The vibe is overall supportive, earnest, silly, and relaxed.
• If you are ever too shy to talk much straight away, we have polls, quizes, and a mild meme channel.

Who you'll meet (non-exhaustive list)

Who you'll meet depends of when you visit.

• Meep (United States): a young math prodigy, rocketry enthusiast, and all-around silly goober.
• PioneerDog (Colombia): a religiously deconstructed Christian. Wholesome, is into sports. Has a lovely dog.
• Unique_Username (United States): the nicest angry tech support guy you'll ever meet. Works in the public sector, in tech. Has a very creative partner who is also in the group. They have a total of 4 cats!
• Meche (Argentina): the Goddess of Wordle. Japanese teacher and biochemistry major.
• Nahian (Canada / Saudi Arabia): a naval engineer with ADHD who owns a cloud cat. The group's jester.
• Koala (European country starting with a U): Outgoing, cute n gay. Looks straight out of a sport anime. Enthusiastic. Likes meeting new people.
• Kit (United States); vegan, dark, and crafty: Works night shift at Walmart. Loves animals. Streamed the best bad movie we have ever seen.
• Remediox (Turkey): Chemist major. Into drag race. The flamboyant kind.
• Jadop (Argentina): Hobbyist 3D modeler. Host art streams.
• owo (Switzerland): Plays HoYoverse games and has a mad collection of art supplies. Forest witch.
• Vic (Canada): (Former) biologist with Tourette's. May get back into biology if the opportunity arises. Chill. Has a lot of great anecdotes from growing up.
• Mishmash (United States): Florida man. Real goofy. Respectful. Banters with remediox frequently. Pure of heart.
• Liham (Finland): A car enthusiast without a car of his own. Into economics. Had a total of 9 rodents as pets.
• And many more folks from Russia, Malaysia, Czech Republic, Australia, Denmark, Brazil, and more!

Disclaimers

• I consider this group to be my personal friend group; what I say most likely goes.
• We have a zero tolerance policy for pseudosciences, bigotry, and overall scammy behaviour (e.g.: seriously belief in astrology, pseudosciences, anti-immigration sentiments, techbroism, etc.)

If you liked your read, please feel free to DM me or leave a comment on this post. Comments will be given priority.

Looking forward to meet you there! ~

This is hardly a full time gig. And quite frankly, the pay sucks 😂

Responsibilities include:

• Sending me a message when something funny happens instead of thinking, "Nobody would care about this."
• Randomly disappearing for a few hours because, you know, life
• Recommending books, movies, podcasts, or whatever you've been obsessed with lately
• Putting up with the my sometimes terrible voice impression because I can't help myself lol
• Accepting that some conversations will start with something completely ridiculous and somehow end up talking about whether we'd survive in a zombie apocalypse haha

About your potential internet person (Duh...ME) :

I'm 6 feet tall, white, with dark brown hair that's slowly collecting gray hairs, warm brown eyes, light freckles, a short trimmed beard, and thin black glasses that are basically part of my face at this point.

Outside of work I enjoy acting, voice acting, photography, reading, writing, and audiobooks. I stay active with cycling and long walks, mostly to clear my very busy head. (SO busy)

What I'm looking for isn't complicated. Just someone who's fun to talk to. No pressure to reply instantly. No expectation that every conversation has to be deep or hilarious. Sometimes we'll send a wall of text. Sometimes it'll just be, "You won't believe what happened today."

If you've read this far, applications are officially open!

Tell me about your biggest pet peeve?

message me your favorite spongebob quote or tell me your deep dark secrets. I want to talk to someone who’s ready to lock in and talk about everything under the sun. maybe we’ll become besties for life. don’t overthink it ✌🏻 🌊🌞✨🔒💞

Hi everyone,

Trying this again and tweaking my post a bit as yet to find my 'people'. With 8.3 billion people in the world, surely there will be some like me just waiting for me to find them! 😅

Most of my days are a mix of school runs, dog walks, housework, homework, cooking, and bedtime routines. Basically, I spend a lot of time keeping tiny humans alive.

Somewhere in the middle of all that, I realised my social life quietly disappeared, so I’m trying to fix that.

I’m quite a chatty person once I’m comfortable, although introductions like this always make me overthink everything. I don’t really have a neat list of hobbies, but I do enjoy learning random things and disappearing down rabbit holes I didn’t intend to fall into. I struggle to maintain conversations when I feel there is little effort going in on both sides, hence I never seem to form any connections that stick 🤷‍♀️That's the problem I am running into now - not a lack of messages and contact, but none with any meaning or that go anywhere...

Music-wise, my taste makes absolutely no sense. It’s very mood-dependent — one minute it’s My Chemical Romance, the next George Michael, and then somehow The Carpenters. I don’t pick a genre, I pick a vibe. I don't have a favourite song, but it could be one I listen to on a loop at anyone time.

I also really enjoy old films and classic Hollywood. Give me Cary Grant, Audrey Hepburn, or Katharine Hepburn and I’m happy — there’s just something about that era that never gets old. North by Northwest was pretty good (Eva Marie Saint is still alive at 102!), Guess Who's Coming to Dinner is one of those slow-burn films with true meaning behind it - Sidney Poitier and Spencer Tracy were so talented yet in such different ways. As you can tell, if it's a subject I am passionate about, I can go on and on (perhaps overly so).

I also have a bit of an interest in medical topics, which means I’m the annoying person who reads random health articles. I find it absolutely fascinating though and am in complete awe of the human body and what it can do and accomplish. I can happily lose an hour down that kind of rabbit hole without meaning to.

I don’t read as much as I used to, but I still enjoy Danielle Steel and autobiographies — especially when someone’s life is more dramatic than a soap opera. I'm currently on Valley of the Dolls but i'm just at the beginning so not sure where it's going to take me yet.

My favourite films include The Green Mile, Shawshank Redemption, Schindler's List but I like the easy watch ones sometimes too, depending on how much I want to think at any particular time.

A few random things about me:

• My life is basically school runs and trying to find things that were just in my hand

• I can have a full conversation while simultaneously forgetting what I was doing (or what is being spoken about)

• Silence after the kids are in bed is one of life’s greatest luxuries, but it's rare as I am usually ready for bed then too!

• I will absolutely overthink a simple message reply and then forget to reply anyway. I get bored easily and am not one for small talk... "how are you?" (do you really wanna know?), "what are you up to?" (the same as I normal am?) - argh, it just grates on me after a while. Let's bring the conversation out of the normal topics!

I’m sometimes a bit slow at replying — not because I’m ignoring anyone, but because my brain enjoys juggling too many things at once and occasionally drops one 😄Although, if I am really engrossed in the conversation replies suddenly come thick and fast, I cannot think why.

If you think we might get along, tell me a bit about yourself and maybe we could start something good! It would also be nice to take it to phone chats further down the line, and maybe even meeting even further down the line. I want lasting connections, not pointless chats that go no where.

Thanks for reading!

I’m quite introverted, overly idealistic, a bit melancholy and misanthropic, though I've always felt like an optimist at heart. Authenticity, honesty, and compassion are the core values that mean the most to me. I'm passionate about animal welfare, and my ultimate goal is to run an animal sanctuary/rescue someday. A fun day for me might look something like exploring a forest while listening to an audiobook, or walking through an old graveyard, looking at the tombstones and imagining what their lives might have been like. But mostly, I just stay in and play games or waste time in some other way. I've always felt a bit different because I've never valued the same things that most people seem to, and I've also just had an odd life where I mostly grew up on the internet, avoiding people for the most part.

Some things I like are moral philosophy, psychology, PC gaming, graveyards, animals, and nature. My humor varies, but I probably most like absurd and dry humor, like Tim & Eric and Mitch Hedburg. Shows/movies I like tend to be dystopian or have philosophical undertones like Severance. Music - I listen to a lot of Radiohead, Elliot Smith, Deftones, Daft Punk, and anything with a dreamy/ethereal kind of sound like Beach House. Podcasts I listen most to are mostly true horror or philosophy, and my favorite author is Stephen King.

I relate best with those who value emotional intelligence, empathy, and honesty. I prefer present, relaxed conversation where I get to learn about someone's deeply held beliefs, dreams, and what made them who they are. But not all good conversations have to be very deep and heady; I guess I just prefer to hear about what someone is really thinking and feeling in the moment as opposed small talk, or feeling a need to impress or entertain. I'm only interested in platonic conversation.

Hi there, my new potential friend.
My name is Sam. First off, nice to meet you 😊

I am looking for a friend that I can talk with regularly. I don’t have many friends, so I would love to form a genuine connection (Pics on my profile btw)

I’m not really a friend group kind of person. I tend to prefer one-on-one interactions, which is why I like posting on this sub

I can be a really funny friend. I also talk a lot and always reply with more than one-word responses. Also, all ages are welcome as long as you’re above 20

We can send each other funny memes, talk on voice chats, and watch movies/TV shows together. I will try to reply as soon as possible

Some of my interests:

TV Shows/Movies: Game of Thrones, The Last of Us, Severance, The Boys, House MD, The Office, YOU, Modern Family, and Dexter. When it comes to movies, I lean heavily into thrillers and dramas.

In my free time, I love playing sports and going to the gym, it helps keep me sane. I also go on walks or runs with music blasting in my ears, probably my #1 anxiety buster.

I’m a big fan of photography too. I think I’ve taken some pretty sick shots in London and Toronto with my iPhone.

Oh, and I’ve got a cat with cheetah-like spots. He once disappeared for 3 months and just casually came back like nothing happened. Classic orange cat behaviour.

Open to switching apps if we vibe :))

Hello!!! I’m Michael! I’m here today to find a person I can really connect with! We can nerd out about whatever games you’re into, talk about a subject you’re passionate about, anything you want! Ask me a million questions and the only rule is I have to answer honestly! Some of my interests are in the automotive world, gaming, motorcycles, machine mechanics, music, nature, and almost anything with an engine! Tell me your favorite hobby! Cure my long weekend of boredom!!!!