r/InternetFriends

Looking for a corner of the internet where you can actually act your age? We are a premier adult-only (21+) community designed for those who want a balance of high-energy and a laid back atmostphere! Gaming, TV, books, politics, hobbies - we have it all! SFW & NSFW options
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Looking for a corner of the internet where you can actually act your age? We are a premier adult-only (21+) community designed for those who want a balance of high-energy and a laid back atmostphere! Gaming, TV, books, politics, hobbies - we have it all! SFW & NSFW options

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u/amandamj1224 — 10 hours ago

[21/F] Looking for new friends

Hello! I’m hoping to connect with long term friends who enjoy talking regularly about life, our days, and having conversations about all kinds of topics. I also love joking around and laughing a lot since I’m a very talkative person. If we get along well, I’d also be open to having calls sometimes. I’m currently studying law, and I’m especially interested in politics, international relations, economics, philosophy, history, technology particularly AI and astrology (it’s my big hobby currently), I also run a blog where I write about many of these subjects. I really enjoy learning about different cultures and discovering new places around the world. Some activities I enjoy include exploring new restaurants, playing volleyball, and going to the beach. I’m also a big fan of movies and series, especially psychological thrillers and dystopian stories, so if you have any recommendations, feel free to share them with me. Overall, I’d describe myself as ambitious, adventurous, and someone who loves to laugh and have fun. I really appreciate people who share that kind of energy, but I’m also very understanding and open minded. I’m pretty much an open book, so you can ask me anything and I’ll answer honestly. I try not to judge others because I believe everyone is unique in their own way. If you’d like to be friends, I’d be really happy to connect. Feel free to send me a message and tell me your name, age, where you’re from, and something interesting about yourself 😊

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u/virtualcute — 21 hours ago
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I made this server two months ago after getting tired of joining “active” Discords where nobody actually talks. You know the kind — tons of members, zero conversation unless you already know someone.

A few people from Reddit joined early on, and it’s turned into a small, genuinely friendly group. We’re not huge, and we’re not trying to be. Just trying to build something that actually feels welcoming.

It’s 21+, SFW, and pretty low-pressure.

What you can expect:

• ⁠Real conversations that get replies

• ⁠No activity requirements

• ⁠No weird cliques or popularity contests

• ⁠A calm, drama-free vibe

• ⁠Space for shy / introverted people

We do casual movie nights sometimes, occasional low-pressure games, and there’s a mental health lounge if you need to vent or just talk things out.

It’s a Level 3 boosted server, but honestly the best part is just that people respond and make an effort to include new members.

If you’re tired of feeling invisible in big servers and just want a chill place to talk at your own pace, you’re welcome.

Here’s the invite:

https://discord.gg/utopiaserver

u/damaged2026 — 1 day ago

25F looking for genuine long-term connections (25-30)

Hey everyone! I’m 25 and looking to build true, long-term friendships with people around my age group (strictly 25-30).
Strictly Platonic: I am ONLY looking for platonic friendships. I am NOT looking for romance, dating, or anything of that sort. Please do not reach out if you have other intentions.
Here’s a bit about me and what I enjoy:
Hobbies: Video games, watching shows/movies, music, and diving into psychology.
Vibe: Huge on personal growth! I love sharing knowledge, discovering new perspectives, and learning from one another.
What I’m looking for:
Honesty is a must: I have absolutely zero tolerance for lying, dishonesty, or fake personas. If I catch you lying or acting shady/suspicious, you will be blocked instantly. No second chances.
Emotionally Intelligent & Respectful: Someone who values privacy and boundaries, and communicates openly if a misunderstanding happens. No mind games, we’re just here to chill and vibe.
Mutual Effort: I’ll be honest—I rarely initiate conversations at first because I get stuck on what to say, but I put real effort into maintaining the friendship. I need someone who is willing to put in that same effort.
Grounded & Secure: I don't have the time or energy for big egos or paranoia. If I ask you a question, it's just to get to know you or for my own safety/comfort as we build trust—so please don't take it the wrong way or act superior.
Deep Connections: Looking for someone to talk about life with, and be a supportive presence when things get heavy. Let’s take our time getting to know each other without rushing.
Important details:
• I prefer female friendships since I'm female too.
• I only use Discord to text, so I won't be sharing other social media accounts.
If you’re serious about building a real, honest connection, feel free to reach out! ✨

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u/fadeiintoyouu — 1 day ago

27M Looking for a genuine long-term friendship

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Somewhere between 3 AM NICU duties, cold coffee, unread messages, and tiny patients fighting big battles… I realized something.

Life becomes a little softer when you have someone to share it with.

Not just the fun moments. But also the tired silence after a long day. The random memes at 2 AM. The “look what I discovered today” texts. The comfort of knowing someone genuinely cares about your existence.

So maybe this post is my little leap of faith.

Hi. I’m a 27 year old guy from India. A Med School graduate currently surviving residency in Pediatrics. Which basically means I spend my days treating tiny humans while slowly turning into a sleep-deprived raccoon with a stethoscope.

English is not my first language, so sorry for mistakes already 😅

I am a Huge nerd. Like dangerously huge nerd.

I love exploring Multi-Verses, FanDoms, deep fictional lore, hidden details, theories, and all those tiny things normal people ignore while we are busy making 3 hour discussions on why a fictional character deserved better.

I love reading comics and novels.

I binge TV series and movies like it’s an Olympic sport.

Video games are therapy.

I research random topics for fun because apparently my brain refuses to rest.

Things I can randomly talk about for hours: Medicine Science Cosmos Nuclear Physics Marine Biology World History Geography Mysteries of the world Nanotechnology and futuristic medicine Space horror Ancient civilizations Conspiracy theories that sound fake but somehow are real And honestly… a thousand other things.

I also know random useless facts nobody asked for. So if you ever wanted a human Wikipedia mixed with sleep deprivation and sarcasm… congratulations.

Languages: English Hindi Urdu Tiny bit of Arabic Learning Klingon because clearly life was already normal enough.

My aim in life? To become a great Diagnostician. The kind of doctor who listens carefully, notices small details, connects impossible dots, and genuinely helps people.

Now coming to why I’m here.

I’m looking for genuine long-term friendship. Something real. A safe space where both people can be themselves without pretending to be perfect all the time.

I don’t care much about age, gender, country, religion, or background. If your heart is kind and your vibe is genuine, we’ll probably get along.

We can Share random thoughts, Talk about life, Exchange memes, Watch stuff together, Discuss deep topics at unhealthy hours, Be emotionally supportive humans, Or simply exist comfortably in each other’s lives

And who knows? Maybe life surprises us with something beautiful. I’m open to all possibilities if the connection is real and natural.

Bonus points if... You send long messages, You love nerdy conversations, You overshare random facts, You understand dark humor, You get attached to fictional characters, You believe communication matters, You like cuddles because honestly the world is already stressful enough 🫠

Anyway… If this post somehow reached the right person, maybe send a message.

Worst case? We exchange memes and disappear into the void.

Best case? A beautiful long-term connection starts from one random little leap of faith.

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u/Practical-Ad-9289 — 1 day ago
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38m London, England - How is everyone's week going so far?

Hi

I’m 38, I live in London

A few things about me:

  • I’m into photography, mostly wandering around with a camera and noticing things (you can peek at my Flickr if you’re curious: https://www.flickr.com/photos/piersmathias/ )
  • I read a lot: history (currently very Europe-focused, mainly a book on The Reformation and another on Louis XVI at the moment ), John le Carré when I want something atmospheric, or random Japanese crime books (Seishi Yokomizo)

I like conversations that wander a bit — books that stay with you, cities you’ve loved or disliked, why certain photos work, how history quietly shapes the present. I’m more curious than loud, more reflective than chaotic, but I can definitely hold my own in a pub or on a long walk.

Looking to meet someone kind, curious, and capable of a decent chat. Ideally someone who puts a little effort with the first message and is not just a "hey", "how are you?"

If any of that sounds like your wavelength, say hello and introduce yourself a little!

u/Terry-Shark — 1 day ago

24f looking for friends

Hi guys! I am from north eastern America and I’m interested in building connections that are meaningful and fun! A little about myself, I have lots of hobbies that I do depending on the mood I’m in (baking, painting, video games, listening to good music) and mainly just work my life away haha. I’d prefer if we were in the same time zone or similar ones and around the same age!

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u/SplurgBird — 1 day ago
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37F Canada - Looking for people to chat with

37F looking for internet-best-friend type people to talk to regularly. Not necessarily constant messaging, just the kind of friendship where we randomly send each other thoughts/articles/memes at 1am and slowly become weirdly important in each other’s daily lives.

I tend to click with easygoing, thoughtful, slightly nerdy people who enjoy meaningful conversations and can bounce naturally between serious topics and complete nonsense. I’m very interested in the modern Middle East, psychology, religion, history, international development, world events, trivia, and generally trying to understand why people and societies are the way they are.

I also appreciate ADHD conversationalists, funny pessimists, people who accidentally send essays, and anyone who’s introspective in a sincere way.

Not really looking for high-drama dynamics or friendships where someone expects instant replies 24/7. I like connection that feels natural and low-pressure rather than emotionally chaotic.

Mostly just hoping to find people who enjoy talking about life in an honest way.

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u/figaro_cat — 3 days ago

21F Looking for friends

Apologies if this intro is bad

Hello, My name is Bowz and I'm looking for some new friends short term or long term it doesn't matter. I'm in North Carolina and I'm 21 but I turn 22 next month. Here are some things about me.

I like Roleplaying (I mostly do it with people I trust), Writing fanfics, Drawing, Content Creation, Making Oc's and Photography just for a hobby not professional. Oh and Gaming

All I ask you be close to my timezone just so it's easier. Same with being in my age range also be patient with me I'm bad at conversations so please don't expect me to be the yapping type at least not right away.

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u/pizzawiiu — 2 days ago

21f here again

last time i made a post here i made a friend, trying my luck again🍀. lil about me um i got that sillyhumor n i get told i got dark jokes 😭im down for face reveal if we vibe otherwise its pointless (maybe its my depressed thinking ) um im from india uh idk what else to add here. oh and i prefer talking to ppl my age bc um often have to explain myself otherwise😭yk agegaps does that

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u/Spare_Woodpecker8784 — 2 days ago

32/M needing friends

My therapist told me I need to get some friends so here I am lol. I’m a 32 year old dude. I play guitar and I’m currently learning drums. I love music, spooky things and my cat and I’m not creepy. Pls be my friend

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u/ChaoticCapybara61 — 2 days ago
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25m looking to escape reality with you

Hello! I'm looking to expand my circle and meet people from all different walks of life. I’m all about building real, long-term connections where we can talk about the deep stuff, random daily nonsense, or anything in between without walking on eggshells. I'd prefer connecting with people in their 20s (20-30ish), but if you think we'd vibe, age doesn't matter to me. In my free time, I'm usually working out, getting outdoors for some hiking and camping, or catching up on video games. Let's start a chat here on Reddit and see where things go! If we get along, I'm always down to move to another app later. Feel free to reach out.

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u/RiskPuzzleheaded6791 — 2 days ago
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✨ Expand Your Circle Of Friends! ✨

If you're looking for a fun, safe, inclusive space where you can meet new friends to chat or game with, feel free to check us out! (21+ Only)

  • Friendly Members 👋
  • Custom Voicechats 🔉
  • Movie nights 🎬
  • Game nights 🎮
  • Gif wars 🔥
  • Music Bot (Spotify) 🎵
  • Pokémon 🦌
  • Memes 🐸
  • Live DJs 📻
  • Level 2 Server 💥

We're looking to build a chill community of awesome friends and gamers. If that sounds like your kind of server - we'll see you there!

https://discord.com/invite/JGdUQUdh4c

^((A Discord account older than) ^(60 days) ^(and a) ^(profile picture) ^(is required.))

u/Production_Guy — 3 days ago

Looking for someone that would build a long-term friendship

So, im 23M and im trying here because i think im very bad at finding friends irl haha

my hobbies are going to the gym, play games, cook, bake and read if that serves to start a conversation (we can absolutly talk about some of your interests too!)

i also have discord and you can ask for it (i actually prefer to talk there), but im okay if you prefer reddit to chat!

just hoping that i can find someone nice here

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u/MajorGoldeeen — 3 days ago

40/F Quiet week

Hello there, I hope you had a good weekend. Just about nice and quiet for me so can't complain.

About me, I'm 40 from India. I work in an export firm. Though I have worked in a short film as well that my family was not thrilled about, haha. I like to watch comedy shows like Southpark and American dad, go swimming, relax, reading, etc.

Just relaxing for the week so feel free to message me :-)

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u/Lightning_Fury31 — 4 days ago

30/F It's not easy to connect with others If you're not Into short messages and conversations that revolve only around hobbies 😔 Sometimes something so seemingly easy Is Impossible to achieve. I want to meet like-minded, friendless and talkative people to talk to on a daily basis.

Hello! If you really want to send me a message, read my post, please! I want to talk to people from European countries because I live In Europe & I would love to meet my new friends In real life (In the future, obviously) 🌸

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example.

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine) not what you like.. I honestly don't understand why all conversations start the same way... "I like..." Or "I'm Interested In..." Your hobbies don't define you! It's better to say something about who you are, who you get along with, why you're on Reddit & more.

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't want to get to know me. Words of comfort can be really beautiful but anyone can say "Cheer up" or "Everything's gonna be OK" and I feel like people who seemingly want to make others feel better, don't even believe their own words...

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless...I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

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u/xfallenangelx95 — 3 days ago
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23F Louisiana Emo Looking For Alt Friends, Gym Buddies, and Gaming Buddies!

Hi! Posting again because I didn't quite get any real traction. Not sure why people are just looking for a flirt :(. I am a 23F from Louisiana. I am open to:

ALTERNATIVE FOLKS: to discuss music, tattoos, and piercings with!

GYM RATS: to discuss work outs and meal preps with

GAMING BUDDIES: to play switch and PC games with! I love Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Pokopia, Fall Guys, Mario Kart, etc. I am open to other games too.

I would love to meet people in the same time zone. Preferably I am not a sounding board to your life problems. I have enough of my own. I'm just trying to have a good vibe!

If I sound like someone you'd be interested in speaking to, send a message. I'd love to chat! For some reason after I make a post I can't go back to or see comments.

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u/TraceNoPlace — 3 days ago
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20F Philippines | looking for a friend (or more) to lean on

holabels!

I'm Deci, a 20-year-old, BS Accountancy student from the Philippines who likes to sleep, read and daydream about romance, sing to myself, watch food videos, nap, and sleep. I am introverted but once you purchase the yappity yap expansion pack (for only 69 cents!) you unlock an incredibly clingy, needy, and annoying TALL (😤) gremlin. my personality type is INTP-T and although I do not believe in it, my Zodiac sign is Scorpio. I am left-handed, clumsy, and mwehehehehehehehehe.

I am looking for friends and hopefully, a guy who can make my heart melt (and buy the expansion pack).

please don't add me without chatting first and if you do message me, please know that I will ignore those who only say "hi" and don't introduce themselves.

I am willing to talk about anything even if our interests don't align, just please do not be dry hehe.

thank you!

ദ്ദി ( ᵔ ᗜ ᵔ )

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u/dcdsdcdr — 4 days ago

32f looking for friends!

Hey everyone! I am 32 and in New York. I am looking for some chatting buddies and friends.

I enjoy playing video games and binging tv shows. I also play Dungeons and Dragons and want to find a new group to play with at some point. I play on PC mostly and I also have a switch.

I also have 3 cats and love animals a lot. Send me pics of your animals!!!

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u/writingcat1993 — 5 days ago