r/IslamabadMatrimonial

Career:

• Bachelors in Mechanical Engineering.
• Currently working as a remote software developer for a US company. Earning well.
• With two side projects trying to take flight to get independence from the job. One side project is creative while the other is a SaaS.

Interests:

• Too many. I have had a wide breadth of professional experiences. I have done content writing, animation, graphics design, and have taught philosophy and political science. I have also read a lot, So I have surface level knowledge about so many things that I can yap comfortably for hours on most topics and enjoy many diverse activities from gardening to painting to reading to tinkering to debating religion, politics, sociology and more.
• I have watched over a 1000+ movies, 100+ seasons and 70+ books, so a lot of cultural info. Yes I keep count in an excel sheet. I can produce receipts.
• Currently working in the gym as well, mostly running, some weight lifting, more concerned with learning skills and functionality rather than just aesthetics. Hoping to get my first 5k under 25 minutes soon-ish. Before October.

What I am looking for.

• Someone, softspoken, kind, non-complacent. Someone who is okay with my lack of religious practice.
• Someone who wants to do more, to be more, someone who doesn't shy from picking up a new skill or project, someone who pushes me to be better, someone who does not settle.
• Career, I earn enough to provide a comfortable lifestyle regardless, so a second income is not needed, but the choice is left to the partner. I would prefer remote work or no work since I do not wish daily commute on my worst enemies, so why would I want it for you, but its a preference on my side, not a hardline.
• Someone with conservative values, family values, good strong moral and ethical principles like me.
• No real filters on age, height, or looks. I am looking more for alignment of values but a quiet confidence in yourself is much appreciated and a green flag.

What I offer.

• A closeted conservative appearance. I still practice the social obligations as well as the social ethics and morals. Jummahs, janazas, zakat, rozay, etc etc. I am well read in religion. So this could be ideal for another closeted atheist girl who wants to stay in Pakistan for now but also needs a husband who understands her and also passes her parents filters.
• Sunni background if that matters. 5'4"
• A strong moral backbone. Whats wrong is wrong. Have very strong ethical principles.
• I offer to be kind, understanding, soft spoken, a provider mindset, a romantic worldview, some unreasonable optimism. a yes can do attitude, and some complementary humor.
• I am somewhat of a homebody but I do try to get out and meet an old friend and have an outside dinner once a week to catch up. So keep an eye out for intentional outings, travels, dates, and being social enough to feel alive.
• No drugs, smoking, drinking, past relationships (physical or otherwise), hookups, vaping, naswaar, etc etc.

Timeline and Kids:

• Not motivated either way. Happy to be a father and I believe I will be a good one, but the choice is left to the person who is going to have to push them out. Happy to be childfree as well. Honestly I am scared of the responsibility.
• Timeline: 6 months to 1 year, not strict.

Possible future plans: Move out of Pakistan a few years after marriage. But this is not set in stone, will depend if the partner also wants to leave the country.

DMs open. Fingers crossed.

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Assallam Aleikum, good people of Reddit. I put up my profile on a different sub a long time ago and had a very nice experience with this 'Reddit route'. I have learned so much in this spousal search, and the definition of 'naseeb' is a lot clearer. Alhamdulillah. Decided to give this sub a shot since the profiles here seem to be very genuine.

Here is a link to my previous post (just copied it all here):

https://www.reddit.com/r/PakistanRishta/comments/1p4s6hz/m_26_istanbulislamabad_looking_for_my_copilot_in/

Dear reader, I would appreciate it if you could read my dastaan thoroughly before approaching. I am sure my naseeb is out here, somewhere!

Strong preference for rishtas within drivable distances from Islamabad for logistical reasons. :)

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Height & Weight: 6'0" | 82 kg | Athletic

Location: Born in Karachi | Raised in Islamabad | Currently settled in Istanbul

Residence: Living independently in Istanbul for over 3 years now (rented apartment)

Education: BSc in Aerospace Engineering from a top university in Turkey

Profession: Flight Dynamics Engineer at a leading Turkish defense company

Marital Status: Single, never engaged

Family Details:

• Urdu-speaking, educated, middle-class family settled in Islamabad (20+ years). We respect the caste system (for other families), but I am strictly against it being a barrier in the marriage search.
• Father worked in the Government, now a motivational speaker and visiting professor (somewhat known on YouTube lol).
• Mother is a housewife and an entrepreneur. She has run multiple businesses from home and currently manages a home-cuisine.
• My younger brother is at university, and my sister recently completed her A-Levels. So yeah, I am the eldest.

Religion (for the sake of finding The One, may Allah protect us from Ar-Riya):

• Muslim by choice, Alhamdulillah (Sunni, but not into sectarianism).
• Pray 5 times daily and actively studying the Deen (currently learning Arabic from Bayyinah TV and memorizing longer Surahs from the Qur’an).
• Recently went for Umrah by myself, and that experience somehow instilled in me this desire to get married. Plan to go regularly, Insha’Allah.
• My faith is my compass, guiding all my decisions in life.
• Seeking a partner with the same commitment to learning for the sake of Allah. Study-buddy scene?

Am I ready for marriage?

I waited until I was settled and disciplined enough. In the last 3 years, I learned to manage a house, pay the bills, and take responsibility. Along the way, I read books, listened to podcasts, and spoke to married couples to understand what makes a marriage thrive. For me, marriage is what the Qur’an calls it: a sacred contract and a source of Sakinah (tranquillity). I’m now ready to share that journey with the right partner, Insha’Allah. If this resonates with you, please bear with me on this seemingly never-ending post.

What Makes Me, Me?

• Three things I value most are family, health, and time. I’m very close to my family, and I hope to raise children who are practicing, loving, and kind. Since we grew up away from extended family, we are close-knit and have no experience with family drama, lol. I also try to use time wisely. It’s one thing we can’t get back. And I eat healthy and stay fit by regularly going to the gym.
• Studious and ambitious by nature. Pedaishi overachiever, but not the kind who gets arrogant. Alhamdulillah, I worked hard throughout my school years (straight A*s in O’ & A’ Levels), and was later blessed to graduate as valedictorian from my university. Participated in competitions such as the International Mathematics Olympiad, NASA Space Apps, etc. I also used to do MUNs so we could have great debates, haha. I mention all of this dastaan not to boast or apply for a job (I promise!), but to demonstrate that discipline and focus are things I carry in my career and everyday life.
• Personality type. I have taken personality tests over the years, and I end up in either INFJ or INTJ. I have the problem-solving instinct, I prefer quiet time alone when I am down, and I love to have deep intellectual discussions with the people I genuinely care about. At the same time, I feel deeply for others' suffering, and somehow everyone ends up ranting to me and taking my advice whenever they run into trouble lol. I value communication and have been told I’m an excellent listener and good at navigating difficult discussions. Generally considered a mature and responsible guy in my circles. I don’t remember the last time I raised my voice or got angry. Oh, and most importantly, people say that I am straightforward and honest.
• Values. I’ve volunteered in charities since my teenage years and continue to support causes financially. I don't smoke, consume alcohol, or do drugs. I also keep respectful boundaries with women (no past relationships, Alhamdullilah).
• Lifestyle. Love dressing up and collecting perfumes. I am the kind of person who would show up at a friend's gathering at a dhaaba wearing a suit, lol. Most of the gifts I receive are perfumes. :)

Hobbies:

• Travel & adventure. Travelled extensively across Turkey and its neighbouring countries (probably over 100 cities so far). Tried fun stuff like skiing, scuba diving, hitch-hiking cross-country, and I look forward to paragliding soon. Oh, and an avid hiker (pretty much did all the treks around Islamabad and beyond). Gathered many stories to share with my wife and kids one day, Insha’Allah. My camping bag is always ready. You might need one too if we hit it off here!
• Reading. Grew up in a family of book lovers, so I keep a modest library in my apartment. I enjoy philosophy, history, politics, self-help, religion, and the classics. Nothing better than chai with a good book!
• Cooking & hosting. Can attempt everything from Maggi noodles to biryani, karahi, and nihari. I enjoy feeding friends and hosting.
• Fitness & sports. Love playing cricket, football, badminton (favourite), table tennis, and chess (studying currently). These days, I mostly go to the gym and sometimes swim due to my working hours. Alhamdulillah, people say I’m in good shape.
• Photography. Enjoy capturing architecture and landscapes. My friends say I’m their go-to photographer for ‘candids’. I used to make travel vlogs to highlight my adventures, but I stopped using social media over a year ago.

Why I could be a mismatch for some:

• Work ethic. My working hours can be INTENSE, but I still make time to study Arabic, travel, and keep learning. I want a spouse who understands this. I’ll prioritize my relationship and be emotionally available, but I also value space for growth. Looking for someone who knows how to stay busy and is okay with my ambitious nature. I will support her growth and space the same way.
• Down-to-Earth. Alhamdulillah, I live a comfortable life, but I keep it simple. I prefer simplicity over extravagance. If I earn more money than I can spend, I invest some and give the rest in charity. I also support my family whenever required (I would want my spouse to be respectful of that). But it goes without saying that I will support my wife financially (it is my obligation).
• Strong stances when it comes to some desi cultural nuances. I have taken it as a mission in life to differentiate between culture and religion. I respect our beautiful traditions, but I refuse to follow the cultural norms when they go against religion. This pertains to the desi marriage culture in particular.

Future Plans:

• Insha’Allah, I plan to start my Master's this year while working in my current job. In the near future, I do plan to pursue a PhD, Bi’idhnillah, which may involve relocating.
• For now, I’m focused on developing myself as an engineer and continuing my studies in religion.
• I don’t plan to return to Pakistan immediately, though Insha’Allah one day, I hope to contribute meaningfully when the time is right.

What I’m Looking For:

• A Muslimah by choice (Sunni muslim), proud of her faith, with Taqwa at the center of her life. Someone who observes hijab, is committed to learning, and wants to share life’s highs and lows with respect and understanding.
• Preferably between 21 and 25 years of age.
• Family-oriented, yet I am supportive of her growth, whether it be studies or pursuing her passion, as long as family remains the priority. I would prefer if my spouse is flexible in her work (remote for instance) and can adapt to moving to other countries. Also, I wouldn't prefer a long-distance relationship for extended periods.
• Someone studious, intellectual, and self-aware. I am a bit of a sapio-romantic, if you may.
• Physical attraction and fitness are important to me. I think there should be that spark and compatibility, especially in the initial stages of marriage. It was interesting to learn that our religion also endorses this (refer to ahadith). I would also want my spouse to be attracted to me. I am not considered bad-looking either, hehe. That being said, I believe true beauty is rooted in Taqwa and character.
• This one might sound shallow, but I do have a height preference (>= 5'5").
• 10 points to Gryffindor if you are based in Islamabad or Rawalpindi, so my mom can easily meet your mom early on, haha.
• 100 points more if you also belong to a small nuclear family like mine so the marriage decision-making process is easier.

Deal Breakers

• Not willing to practice or grow in the deen. I would like for us to grow together.
• Not wanting children. I hope to raise a practicing family, Insha’Allah, and this is central to my vision of marriage.
• Chasing a lavish lifestyle or lacking gratitude. I value modesty and contentment, as I mentioned.
• Completely unwilling to relocate in the future. I plan to pursue higher studies and career opportunities abroad, and would prefer a spouse who is ready to adapt to these changes with me.
• Do NOT approach me if your parents are unaware that you're looking for a spouse online or if they don't respect your right to choose a spouse. This might sound harsh, but months on this platform have taught me this the hard way. It will save us both time and energy. :)

Do You Want Children?

Absolutely, Insha’Allah. However, not straight away after marriage, and with mutual understanding.

Family Setup: 

Nuclear (abroad). I don’t prefer the permanent joint-family system unless it’s unavoidable.

Timeframe for Marriage: 

I would like to get nikkahfied by the end of this year, Insha’Allah. Also, I don’t intend to talk for more than is necessary. If it works out on our end and the families are convinced, we can get engaged soon after. I prefer a simple Nikah and Walimah in line with our religion (if the other party agrees). Marriage is meant to be an easy process in our religion...Let’s make it that way together?

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If you’ve read this far, thank you for your patience. I can imagine this was a bit too much, but it helps us both filter each other easily. I’ll delete this post if I finalize things with someone, so if you see this and you’ve resonated, please reach out with a detailed profile so I can respond meaningfully and consider talking further. I would also appreciate it if we could exchange pictures once we’ve chatted a bit to see if we're compatible, Insha’Allah.

My only request is to keep this process respectful and purposeful. I received some messages last time for ‘casual chatting’ or hanging out. My intention here is marriage-only. Finally, I would appreciate your patience if I take a while to respond. I can get caught up at work, and tbh I was overwhelmed by the responses last time. I won’t ghost anyone, dw.

May Allah make this journey easy for all of us. These are trying times, but Insha’Allah, with sincerity and effort, He will guide us to what’s best. 🤲🏻

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TL;DR: Parh lo bhai, poori zindagi ka sawaal hai. :)

Any widow or divorcee is welcome

There's no work, but we are a well-off and educated family

Age 36

Height 5.10

Male

Education I.com

Practicing Muslim and Quranic

Living in Islamabad

Sunni, punjabi

35+ single / never married naik shareef Doctor Saab ka Rishta darkaar hai ..

TLDR

Note : Don't dm me unless you've shared or have intentions to share the details of my profile with your family right after a day or two of conversation (if they are final decision makers) because saying that family has xyz concerns or caste issues or any other after the talking stage is problematic and a time waste for both sides. And honestly everyone knows their parents obviously and their choices so keeping that in mind send a dm. Also parents wouldn't allow marrying a non punjabi though. My family and I are precisely looking for someone in Isb and Rawalpindi.  

FYI : Traumatised by using muzz even though my family asked to make a profile and it was an experience of a few days but a terrible one . Also even though I posted my profile here but after 1 or 2 interactions I felt that maybe my profile is not comprehensive enough for someone to understand me and then dm and also neither my pref were that detailed and I was busy. So here it is

V.Important  

Compatibility won't and can't be decided by talking casually. If you think that a woman who is speaking with dignity and not having playful conversation is being rigid . Stop right there because to me marriage discussion is supposed to be very respectful instead of sharing our socials and not involving family right away . It's a waste of time for both of us . So kindly skip this profile.

To me knowing a person is only understanding their values rather than seeing how playful or funny a person is because these things are important but after marriage , not before , in understanding stage and if you have questions too . Just list them in dm and I'll reply right after confirming your profile from my parents. 

But the chat stage will only last a week or so. And if it goes fine . Just talk to my parents directly instead of having a chat with me for a month or so . Talk to my mother directly through your mother or involve your father in discussion with my father . Simple. If both families align . Mabrook .   

About me : 

• Height 4'11 
• Weight 42kg 
• Niqabi
• Grew up and lived in RWP. 
• Father is an officer in government sector 
• Mother is a homemaker. 
• We're 4 siblings . 2 brothers and 2 sisters. All of them are studying .  
• Now working on hybrid mode for a multinational company related to AI and Data Security . Caste : Mian (Arain) 
• Own house in RWP and 1 in Isb.

  

Who am I ?  

An empath who understands people and judge them only when they are disrespectful. A person who genuinely helps people without any expectations of return but not at the cost of being exploited. In my free time I code, learn a new language, play chess and read books .  I'll be providing assistance in every just matter my spouse would want. Code debug xd, solving life struggles intellectually and practically . Businesses m help chie ho ya IT m as a wife I'd be always there xd .Even if one of us is struggling spiritually, i believe both should boost up each other's confidence and courage for it. And I believe men should be the provider . Agr kabhee as a spouse mere input ki zroorat pri to you'll find me for yourself sbse agee . But being a man, jab tk you're hustling and earning, you should be the "Qawwam, Provider ". No one is perfect, I've my own flaws , you must have yours, being a human .But few things are non-negotiable . You should have a kind heart ( It's the biggest luxury in the world , like nothing can be matched to this . Paisa , garian, ghr ye sb kuch fazool hai agr acha dil ni hai apke pas ). I believe, for a human it is important to be hardworker . 

Intelligence and book reading habits would be a super plus . And lots of respect with you calling me "Ap" instead of Tu or tum , and physical or verbal abuse would be big NO . I pray that my spouse should be a man of dignity. 

I don’t have a habit of sitting idle , either I code, read a book, do research about tech, psychology and parenting (why parenting? I believe every human should learn parenting as there are millions out there in the world who didn’t get a good parenting even they deserved, so yeah for the next generation and for people who never got good parenting we can learn it to stay gentle with the world around us. 

If I don’t have energy I think of patterns and psychology and spend my time in my own personality’s analysis so I can become a better human every passing day . Ye na ho to I sleep or read poetry lol .

And it does sound delusional to my parents and random aunties when I say Allah has specified a person for me so 

I don’t have to worry about marrying and I know somewhere in the world Allah is changing him constantly as he changed me over the years for good. But I believe it’s not a delusion. Allah will do it idk how. That’s another reason I never allowed my brain and heart to like someone from the opposite gender because since childhood I’m a good observer and I’ve seen and heard how people in love marriages end up, and I always wondered how painful it would be for them. So I had a stance since I grew older that I’ll just ask Allah what kind of a person I want and won’t take these things in my own hands because I don’t know what He knows and I won’t insist for something/someone I don’t know about .And Allah always makes things work for me. 

I’m always straightforward and a bit cold to men and I believe that’s how a female should be q k this is something that saves you from alot of mess aur deen bhee yehi kehta hai , kuch bhla ho ajkl k mahool ka k sb khwateen dri pri hain mrdon se kisi p trust ni kr skte parents bhee na hm. 

Ah khair I wrote all this because maybe someone is exactly thinking the same and is an introvert like me so won’t ask these explicitly, but after reading it might click.

What kind of a Muslim I’m 

I’m not a kattar person as mostly in our society people are about Islam halan k deen to itni asanian krta hai ye sb culture ka msla hai jo logon n manipulate kr k deen apne purposes ko defend krne k lea use kia hoa. I pray, fast, recite and love reading about Islamic history but I don’t like performative people who don’t understand the essence of deen and focus on SubhanAllah MashaAllah and stuff that help them pretend that they are very religious. 

My goals?

• Hajj with my spouse (I do savings for that though)
• Visiting Al-Aqsa
• Making an NGO (not a typical one) for helpless and homeless kids and elderly
• Making a software house , even if it's with my spouse. And yeah MS and Phd too in future IA . Or maybe I'll start a 2 year MS here in Pakistan for now if my parents didn't get overwhelmed by the thought of getting me married. To me time is precious and instead of going abroad for MS which in itself is a bit difficult without having a mehram male beside you . So MS in Pakistan sounds like a good option to me. 
• Upbringing good and humble humans and break patterns of previous generations and taboos

 

Deal breakers : 

• Smoking, vaping, sheesha or any recreational drugs.
• Alcohol.
• Gambling.
• Physical, verbal or emotional abuse.
• Severe uncontrolled anger.
• Arrogance, superiority complex or "sigma male" ideology.
• Manipulative behaviour or narcissistic tendencies.
• Looking for a wife primarily as an additional income source.
• Believing a wife's income automatically belongs to the husband.
• Disrespect towards women.
• Dishonesty.
• Secretive friendships or inappropriate boundaries with the opposite gender.
• Intention of polygamy (I would require the Nikah Nama clause restricting a second marriage).
• Anger issues 
• Kattar about deen and believing cultural khud sakhta practices. I’m actually scared of stories and incidents jahan lmbi lmbi darhion wale bus islam logon ko manipulate krne k lea use krte hain. 
• Must not be bald and having too much weight (60-70 is fine) (adding these as they were my personal preferences as well but inspired from a post somewhere on this sub as a girl added these too) . Plus my genes make me look pretty younger than the age I'm of . So yup my parents have rejected rishta from those looking too older than me .  
• Earning less than 6 figures because meri pay ziada hai thori to desi families waise hee mrdon ka sans lena mushkil kr deti hain aur 100 msle hote hain so I thought it's better to tell this upfornt.

Kindly fill the Questionnaire if you align with all above and feel like it's your mindset too : 

• Kindly share your linkedin first
• Do you pray 5 times daily? 
• What are your goals related to religion ? 
• How do you manage your anger , conflicts? 
• What role do you expect your wife to play in your life, and what role do you see for yourself as a husband? 
• Do you prefer joint or nuclear family setup after marriage? 
• How would you manage relationships with in-laws while protecting marital privacy? 
• Are you willing to support your wife in setting healthy boundaries? 
• What's your stance on dowery? 
• What's your family's stance on it? 
• Do you think marriage should a simple nikah and a good Walima as per sunnah ? Instead of the unnecessary functions and gathering ? 
• Do you support women continuing their careers after marriage (if they choose)? 
• Do you currently or ever had female friends? 
• Are you willing to sign and respect a polygamy clause in the nikah nama (restricting second marriage)? 
• What are your goals for next 10 years ? 
• What would you plan if you're given a task to develop 100 years road map to guide the next two generations?

  

Thanks again for reading this . Even if you don't align with it , it's fine . You just got some new perspectives for sure after reading this. Edit this profile more and also add dealbreakers as Smoking Sigma male or narcissistic Not humble and egoistic Considering female as the bread earner and labeling female k iska paisa mera Paisa hai Abusive 

My preferences

• Age: Preferably 23–28
• Height: Ideally 5'4"–5'8"
• Caste : Arain , Choudhary, Alvi, Awan
• Someone who appears reasonably close to my age, as I naturally look younger than my actual age.
• Financially responsible and actively working.
• Practising Islam according to the Qur'an and authentic Sunnah rather than cultural expectations. I’m not very very practicing in terms 
• Emotionally mature.
• Kind-hearted.
• Humble.
• Calm during disagreements.
• Values respectful communication.
• Wants a peaceful marriage rather than a power struggle.

Location preference:
Islamabad / Rawalpindi.

Punjabi family only due to family considerations.

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I am 23 female looking for someone who is like me like me se matlab having the same values /morals /thinking.

**My Details** :

**Age**:23

**Height** :5'3

**Weight** :skinny

**Education** : A levels (this has a backstory I was sick for 10 years jiski wajah se I couldn't focus on my education and recently saal Pehle I got to know that I have celiac disease so uske baad se I resumed my education I plan to become a psychologist for now lekin naseeb ka pata nahi )

**Any conditions**:celiac disease

**Family details**: my father is no more and my mother is a housewife, I have 2 other sisters one is married and one is unmarried and 1 brother who is married have 3 kids MA

**Location details**: I live in Islamabad and we have our own house MA

**Religious values** : I try to pray daily I am a god fearing person mujhe Allah ka dar hai dil mein but I can't fast because of my condition, I try to be content with the life Allah gave me and whenever something hurts me I always complain to Allah

**Hobbies** : I don't have specific hobbies because I feel like mera jab mood ho toh mein creative hojati jab mood ho toh active hojati so it's not really anything specific

**What kind of a person I am** : I personally feel like I am a emotional person I feel with depth it's easy for me to understand people. Although zyada emotional log Hurt bhi jaldi hojate. I have different personalities depending on who I am talking to so ig I want someone who would bring the best out of me. I am a jolly person mein bohat genz type hon mein memes dekhti rehti and logon ko tang karna mujhe bohat pasand hai. It's also really hard for me to do just anything in career or studies jaise log bas paise ke liye AI ACCA karlete I can't do that because jis cheez ka mera dil nahi woh mein sari zindagi karna imagine bhi nahi karsakti and I actually salute people who can. I am a average girl I try to be ambitious and I am learning how to cook. I think I will bring more emotional support and on the table rather than my skills or my income honestly😭

**My requirements** :

Koi bhi height ho seriously bas 5'2 se kam na ho

Weight mere se aas Paas ho darmiyani sa toh we will look like the same age so that mein Bachi na lago😭

**Education** : bachelors ho atleast ya toh parh raha ho ambitious ho hardworking ho provider mindset ka ho

**Work**: koi bhi ho bas he should be hardworking and have growth wala mindset. I wont do 50/50 tho as I don't earn lekin if I do earn I don't mind putting in money

**General requirements** :

He should be respectful, emotionally mature, strong enough to have his own opinions and stay firm on them, should have boundaries, have a healthy mindset or atleast is working towards making a healthy mindset everyone has gone through something lekin he should be mature enough to acknowledge he has some issues and is willing to work on them. I don't mind joint family as long as he is willing to take a stand whenever it's required. I would prefer someone with gluten intolerance or celiac over someone who isn't because yeh bimari mere ghar walo ko abhi tak samjh nahi ayi toh mere sasural walon ko kaise samjhaogi mein. But if you are understanding enough we can talk about it.

**Dealbreakers**:

\-smoking

\-someone who is not willing to change or adjust but expects me to do so

\-someone who wants to talk for months or years and then decide whether we should marry

\-someone who doesnt understand / take celiac seriously

\- someone who doesnt have a growth mindset/doesn't respect girls overall (makes memes, makes fun of girls, thinks all women just want to bash men for no reason)

\-someone who doesn't value my opinions

**Timeline**\- I would want to involve parents after few days and see if our family is compatible if so I want to commit officially in some way and then we get to know each other in a halal way and get married after 2-3 years (can be flexible if we are a match and my family decides to do so)

Thankyou for your patience because I feel meinne bohat random messy tareeke se sab likha hai.

Height and Weight: 5'6/ Fit

Location: Islamabad

Accomodation: Own

Education: MBBS

Income: Practicing Doctor

Marital Status: Never Married

Religion: Sunni + Regular with Prayers/ Fasting

Hobbies and Interests: Photography, Cooking, Reading, Podcasts, Watching Films/ Documentaries

Family Details:

Mother: Doctor

Father: Retired from Military

3 brothers working as Engineers,

Requirements for a partner:

Looking for someone genuine, kind, easy-going, compassionate, ambitious, intelligent.

My future career aspirations do not align with staying in Pakistan and I'm actively pursuing migration. Please only reach out if you're based in Australia or the US or are planning a move soon.

Deal Breakers:

Quick to anger, abusive, drugs, alcohol, intimacy before marriage.

Preferred Family Set-up:

I'm open to living with in-laws but would prefer a nuclear setup.

Do you want children? Yes

Timeframe for Marriage: 6 months to 1 year.

It kind of feels strange that i am doing rishta hunting here. But hey, it is what it is.
here is my biodata if some one is interested.

Male
35 years of age
Rajput
6ft 1
Weight : 86kg ... (yeah, i am a bit muscular, thanks to strength training )
Education: BE+MS+PhD
Occupation: Well, a 19th grade job ( Dont want to discose the title publically)

Family:
A mother (Housewife)
Father (deceased)
Two sisters ( A lawyer and another book work (socially awkward) bibi who is at the verge of becoming a CSS officer 5 saal tyaari kr k pehli attempt and she si confident k ho jana clear, insha Allah)

Hobbies: Hitting the gym, trekking, hiking, foodie , Northern area is my go to place btw...

Im extremely soft hearted , a loyal guy who si extremely down to earth (yes, you'll know why im saying this if we hit it off and well, they told me off for sitting at the bare floor and eating lunch with lower grade staff. i believe their exact words were " Yay hrktain officers ko zaib nai dytein"..)..

last book i read? Thermodynamics by David.V.Ragone (probably last year, i had to deliver lectures )
Last movie i watched is Evil dead Series in the middle of the night with pop corns and diet coke , it spooked the hell out of me

Requirements:
Age: 29-36
Height: 5ft 2 - 6ft
Education: Please have some good educational background as i am a sapiosexual, I believe your education reflects how much of a hard working individual you really are
( PhDs/Doctors MBBS/BDS/Engineers/ Stem background people to the front ) i prefer career oriented individuals with clear life goals .... My parents werent educated but i have a PhD .. I am almost done with my education but i promise to have your back in case you want to pursue higher education exams/ FCPS/ post doc etc etc .... (i am the kind of person who be like "this is my wife, if her happiness lies in getting higher education im gna make that happen bcz her happiness is mine too.... having kids can wait a bit)
Children: Negotiable ( It should be a mutual decision, but atleast 1 plz..... i am the only grandson, koi to blood lines agay brhai...... and im extremely good with kids...... bcha people in my mohalla call me bilioon (cats) walay uncle btw)

Now something Important jis ek waja say is stage tk ana para

*My parents were poor as hell.... we struggled a lot with money ...
So yeah, i was born and raised here in islamabad but i didnt inherit bank balance/cars/houses/plots .. hell even a single penny .. people be like " Namaz prhta hay ya nai we dont care, yay btao ghar apna hay? nai? oh you are not worthy of our daughter then.... "

20 Rs per month walay schools main prha hon main ..... even i dont know kysay main yahan pohanch gya when even my class fellows couldnt ....*alhumdu-lillah , Paighambron wala paisha dea Allah nay bdlay main, im a happy camper with no greed...

We dont believe in jahaiz/zaat paat...
We'll do it in a mosque (faisal masjid if you want....... for making memories)
*healthy lifestyle is a must, ya at least be willing to join me for the gym sessions..... kb tk dead lifts akailay lgaon ga?? kb tk sun rise akailay daikhon ga at margalla trails....

Joined reddit bcz a friend of mine recommended the platform , not sure why i cant comment or send messages..