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Monthly BookClub

Hi guys,

I (25 F) want to make an IRL book club that doesn't take 20 pounds just to sit in a circle, l'm a lawyer based in SE1. I'll be hosting this on my buildings rooftop (cool indoor sitting area - great view).

It'll be completely free (people can bring their own snacks or drinks or whatever they want for themselves)

The main idea is: each month we'll pick a book through a poll and then meet on the weekend at the end of the month to discuss the book, rate it. I'll curate questions for us to answer about the book (prompts for thoughts)

It can be a great way to meet new people - I will however do my best to create a safe space - everyone is welcome. So please only ask to join if you're a kind, tolerant and overall decent person to be around.

Hi ladies! I work in the city and I’m moving to London in June. I’m trying to find a good hairdressers, hopefully near my work as I’m cautious about opening/closing times.

All I really get his curtain bangs and a lot of layers. Does anyone know of some good/trustees hairdressers to go?

I don’t have a particular budget but I’ve been used to paying £40 in my local town. Although I’d rather not go above £100!

Also for context, I work in bank so somewhere easily commutable would be great.

Thanks! :)

Ladies of London I need to conduct a deeply important scientific study.

WHY are all work bags either:

1. stunning but fit approximately one lip balm and a traumatic childhood
   OR
2. practical but make you look like you’re about to give a TED Talk on cybersecurity

I am SICK of:
- tote bags waterboarding my laptop in the rain
- straps sliding off my trench coat every 4 seconds
- digging through the bag abyss for my card at Bank station while people aggressively breathe behind me
- carrying a “laptop bag” that makes me look like I work in IT procurement
- elegant bags that can’t fit a charger + lunch + emotional support umbrella

What are we all carrying to work right now and what are your biggest commuter bag grievances ???

I want specifics.
I want rage.
I want niche complaints.
I want “this bag changed my life.”
I want “this bag ruined my life.”

Sincerely,
a girl one Tube delay away from becoming anti-tote

hey! what brands do you recommend for everyday wear here? seeing lots of people in adidas. also, which stores do you go to shop (in central london)? thanks!

Hi all,

I’m looking for some advice on trying gym/wellness classes in London because I really want to get into Pilates and yoga, but I don’t want to commit to an expensive membership straight away in case I don’t stick with it.

I looked at ClassPass, but honestly it still feels pretty expensive for London, especially reformer Pilates, and I’m finding the whole credits/membership thing a bit overwhelming. I kind of just want:
- cheap last-minute deals
- flexibility
- a way to try different studios without committing

There are SO many studios now and I have no idea where to start 😭

How do people usually try classes in London without spending loads upfront? Do studios ever do last-minute discounts or beginner offers that are actually worth it?

To anyone reading this, my friend and I are making a new dating app (I know…) which will launch in London first.

It’s a bit of a Black Mirror concept where we use an AI companion to genuinely get to know you and then match you based on a deeper understanding of you. It might seem a bit uncomfortable but maybe check it out first and see how it feels.

After experiencing dating in London we genuinely think the whole landscape is broken so we’re trying to come up with some sort of technological solution.

If you’re interested in testing out the beta that’s going to be launched in a couple weeks please let me know and we’ll get you on as a tester.

We’re called Coacha and we genuinely want to try and fix what’s definitely broken.

Out of interest, can I ask would people be willing to talk to an AI to learn about them in order to get better quality matches? Or is that too Black Mirror?

I’d be interested to know.

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Hi! I’m 30F, lesbian, and just moved over from Australia. I’m really hoping to make some genuine queer friendships in London, like people who want to hang out, explore, and actually build a little community together! I'm in east London!

I’d love to meet other lesbian/queer women who are up for football games, pub nights, markets, walks, or just random London adventures and side quests.

I’d love to put together a small group chat for queer women who want just connection, fun, and people to do life with. And if you’re also looking for a crew for Pride this year, even better. I realllllly want to go to Pride and would love people to go with!

If you message me, let me know what you’re into whether it’s football, chill hangouts, big nights out, fitness, Pride events, or exploring the city — and I’ll start organising the group!

as three women in their 40s, perimenopause and menopause are talked about a lot in our circles, but not so much publicly.

so, we’d love to hear from women that have had experiences (negative or positive) with perimenopause / menopause - either themselves or women in their lives.

the idea is to collect these stories and share them online ( anonymously ) in various formats to bring attention to the topic and start discussions.

finally, we run a monthly live uncensored storytelling night across london that platforms the stories and voices of everyday people - so storytelling is what we do.

that said we’ll be curating a few smaller sharing circle nights, around 20 people max - to discuss various topics that aren’t so talked about in public.

Hey, I’m looking to make some new female friends who are kind, honest and down-to-earth. I really value genuine connections and someone I can chat with, hang out with or just share life’s random moments.

A little about me: I’m 20, creative and love things like writing, music, gaming, reading and discovering new stuff. I’m not into drama or shallow friendships. I’d rather have a few friends I can really rely on than lots of surface-level ones.

I’d love to meet people who are up for hanging out, chatting about life, sharing ideas or just having fun without the stress. If this sounds like you, send me a message. I’d love to get to know you.

I am 40, based in London and have few wonderful long term arrangements before. For some reason, I am seeing a trend where SBs on seeking are increasingly looking for a quick meet in hotel rooms. Has anyone else noticed this trend?

Hi! Slightly new to the uk (and London), I generally use a medicine called ‘meftal spasm’ which is about to get over. Would love to know what’s your go to medicine to help with the cramps.

I’m a woman in my 40s, no kids, working in the creative industry. Mostly WFH but with meetings in central London, sometimes every day. For commute, I need easy access to London Liverpool St or Tottenham Hale (for Stansted express), so I’m looking at flats max 15 min walk from Victoria Line stops.

Safety is paramount, as I keep late hours. I also really like film / theatre events.

With my budget, I can afford to buy ex council 1B in Finsbury or something a little bit nicer in Walthamstow.

I love Walthamstow Village vibes but FP just seems so well connected with everything, and I’m afraid the extra time on commute will start to add up once the honeymoon period is over.

On the other hand, I have heard negative stories around Finsbury Park safety and some of the apartments I’ve seen look really shabby.

Any insights?

Especially reasons NOT to move to choose Walthamstow.

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Do you think people still genuinely want real relationships anymore, or has dating just become temporary entertainment for most people now?

Sometimes it feels exhausting trying to find someone who communicates properly, stays consistent, and actually means what they say.

I see most women looking so stylish walking around London and wonder how do they style themselves? Are there any influencers/apps to follow where I can find what would suit me and is in style to buy? I’m 5’2 Asian so another struggle is clothes made for tall white women that don’t fit me

Heyyyy, I just moved to London. I'm a solo startup founder so WFH gets really lonely. Also want to make friends as I almost don't know anyone in the city :D

1. Are there any coworking companies or specific locations you love/rec for startup/tech folks? Extra love if they are dog friendly. Ok if not. I see a TON of them near Liverpool St, KX, but wondering if a specific location is better than the others?

2. Any suggestions on making new friends here? I'm 30F and somehow it just gets so much harder when you move to a new place you didn't go to uni in or don't have workplace colleagues... Are there any WhatsApp groups?

Appreciate any suggestions/advice/ideas! Thanks a lot :)

Hi I’m 27F, looking for other women who want to explore London, up for fun stuff and adventures - whether it’s cafe hopping, running, tennis, art galleries honestly whatever we fancy!