r/LookingForGamers

Seeking Chill People For a Growing 18+ Discord Crew!

Hey everyone! Our 18+ hangout space is officially taking off, and we're looking for more awesome people to join the daily chatter and vibe with us!

You definitely don't need to be a sweaty, hardcore gamer to fit in here. While we love casual gaming, we're mostly just a relaxed, drama free corner of the internet. It's the perfect spot to dump your favorite memes, swap music recs, or just vent about your day with people who get it.

The Fine Print:

18+ Only

Zero drama/toxicity allowed

Quick screening at the door (takes two seconds, and keeps the bots out)

If you're down to help us grow our cozy little community from the ground up, drop a comment or shoot over a DM for the invite link!

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u/OldiesSt4tion — 1 day ago

34M EST looking for a chill group!

I’m getting pretty burned out playing solo all the time, so I’m looking for a group of people who are down to hang out, game, and just have a good time.
I mostly play on PC and I’m into all kinds of games. Lately I’ve been playing Apex Legends, Black Desert Online, and other MMOs, but I also enjoy survival games, FPS games, co-op games, and honestly I’m willing to try something new if the group is fun.
I’m not looking for toxic players or people who rage every match. Just looking for people who like to joke around, chill in Dis, maybe watch movies sometimes, and actually become friends instead of only talking when it’s time to queue up.
I’m 34, usually play after work for a couple of hours during the week, and more on weekends. If you’ve got a Discord server or you’re putting together a group with the same vibe, hit me up. I’d love to find a regular group to game with.

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u/Lonely-Cloud1954 — 1 day ago

25F looking for friends

Hello I’m Meg I’m 25

Interests
Horror movies
Horror games
Anime
Food
Smut reading
Writing
True crime
Heavy metal

A little about me I’m very shy I’m trying to get out of my bubble I’m very bubbly and outgoing person when u get to know me and and don’t get me talking about horror and the paranormal I’m obsessed with it and anime ofc I would love a friend who understands mental health as well as I tend to struggle with it :)

I’m a gamer as well I’m looking for gaming friends I play overwatch and Fortnite and marvel rivals and resident evil and many more I play on pc and ps

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u/KawaiiKittenss — 1 day ago

Looking for adults

I don't play all the time but I know the game and kinda tired of playing alone or with my kids so I am looking for others to have fun with. TimboSlice1980 (please no kids)

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u/TimboSlice368 — 1 day ago

27F Lost My Duo. Any Fellow Loners Actually Looking for Friends?

As a chronically online gamer nerd and otaku, I find it incredibly hard not having a duo or chill friend group to be apart of. I'm awkward but friendly. I love to joke around and be silly sometimes, but I also tend to get along with older people better (my duo was almost a decade older than me).

If you're open-minded, friendly, and mature (I'm over the highschool-level antics sorry) then feel free to DM me or leave a comment! Let's play games, watch shows, chit chat throughout the day and just genuinely get to know each other! ☺️

Marvel Rivals, Valorant, League, Stardew Valley, Arc Raiders, Dead by Daylight, Friendslop, you name it I probably got it tbh. Tho it'd be awesome to find fellow Rivals-obsessed individuals cus im really on my strategist arc rn lol (any tank mains tryna run somethin? 👀)

Why would someone wanna be my friend anyways? Glad u asked!

  1. understanding and open-minded: I genuinely like learning how people think and getting to know that true version of themselves that they keep safely tucked away and only show to those they're safe with

  2. I have no life so I'm almost always around or able to adapt to your schedule :)

  3. I've been gaming all my life and I'd like to think I'm pretty decent. I won't be deadweight and we can have fun win or lose anyways!

  4. Would love to learn about your interests too! I'm into games (obviously), anime, youtubers/streamers, reality shows (trashy ones like Love Island and realistic ones like TLC shows). Appreciation for music and always down to swap songs with others and expand my playlist.

If you're racist, sexist, or only just gained the ability to drink legally let's not waste each other's time.

SORRY for the long post but thank you for reading this far! ❤️ I just wanted to be thorough and to show that I'm really about this! No ghosting. Let's chat for real. *NA East servers

u/KpopOtaku — 1 day ago

Anyone tired of playing solo?!

I've realized I've been playing games by myself for way too long. Most of my old friends either stopped gaming or we all ended up playing different things, so now I pretty much solo everything. It's starting to get old.

I play whatever is current or any game genre to be honest.

I'm just looking for some chill people to game with. Nothing serious, just people who like to hang out, talk on Discord, and enjoy the game without all the drama. I'm 34 and play on PC, usually in the evenings.

If you're looking for someone to squad up with or you've got a group that wouldn't mind another person, hit me up.

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u/Lonely-Cloud1954 — 2 days ago
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hi there!! are you looking for your new favourite server! welllll, that’s amazing because i have the place for you!!:)) come join k’s cafe!

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⭑.ᐟ 21+ only !! (˶>⩊<˶)
⭑.ᐟ make long lasting friends !! 𑣲
⭑.ᐟ its a super small server so its easy to not be ignored !! ݁ ˖Ი𐑼⋆
⭑.ᐟ we have extremely friendly staff, make a ticket if you need anything !! 
⭑.ᐟ we are a woman owned server hehe !! ⊹ ࣪ ˖
⭑.ᐟ lgbtq+ inclusive !! we have super cute pride icons !! :rainbow: 
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⭑.ᐟ lots of gamers & talk about your hobbies with us !!
⭑.ᐟ anime and manga lovers, come talk to us about it :D

.ᐟ account has to be older than 7 days, and need a profile picture! :))
.ᐟ if the link doesn’t work lmk so i can add you, reload the link or check your age verification is adult!
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u/ks-cafe — 3 days ago

consist gaming friends!?

Hey everyone! 👋🎮

My friend (42) and I (32) are looking for some consistent gaming friends to play and hang out with!

Lately we’ve both been playing Dead by Daylight, Monster Hunter, and Grounded. I’m also really into survival games like Green Hell, and we’re both open to trying new games if we find a good couple of people to play with.

Our skill levels are… slightly different 😂 my friend is definitely the sweaty gamer of the duo and plays a little bit of everything. Meanwhile, I’m newer to gaming and bring enthusiasm, questionable decisions, and the occasional accidental death to the team. Basically, he tries to keep us alive and I keep things interesting 😂

Personality-wise, we balance each other out pretty well too. I’m definitely the talkative one and can probably carry an entire conversation by myself if necessary 😂 while he’s more on the quiet, introverted side and takes a little longer to come out of his shell. So if you join us and I’m talking your ear off while he’s quietly judging my latest terrible decision in the background, that’s pretty much our normal dynamic.

We’re mostly looking for chill, friendly people around our age who actually want to play consistently—not just add each other and then disappear into the void forever. We like joking around, playful banter, and having fun, whether we're actually winning or everything has gone completely off the rails.

Skill level doesn’t matter—we clearly have both ends of the spectrum covered.

If that sounds like your kind of gaming group, feel free to message me! 😊

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u/HopefulMarketing3919 — 2 days ago
▲ 12 r/LookingForGamers+10 crossposts

The Pirate Pit 🏴‍☠️ | Among Us &amp; Meccha Chameleon | Game Night TONIGHT [21+] Gaming Server

Hey dudes & dudettes! Are you tired of dead servers or gaming solo? The Pirate Pit is a laid-back, community-driven server I built with my wife for gamers, students, veterans, content creators, and everyone else!

Why join us?:

  • ⚓ Chill, Mature Atmosphere- Most of us are 21+ with families and lives; expect no drama and no toxicity. Just relaxed, real people looking to hang out!
  • 🧭 Game Hubs- From OSRS, Arks Raiders, Marvel Rivals, Friend slop like Super Battle Golf, to MMO's, party games and horror titles.. There’s something for everyone!
  • 🛠️ Smart Channels- Talk shop in tech, share your streams and advertise yourself, or hang in the student or vet lounges.
  • 🎉 Events & Game Nights- Every Friday night we fire up Among Us or other silly community games. Good laughs, GREAT good people, and the best vibes. Game night is generally Friday's @ 9PM EST.

Who’s Welcome?

You! Everyone! Whether you’re a sweat, chill casual, returning gamer, or social butterfly - you’ve got a spot on the crew. We have been growing at a healthy rate and are excited to continue!

Drop Anchor and Join the Adventure:

The Pirate Pit is more than just a Discord server, it’s your new favorite crew. Come for the games, stay for the people.

🔗 Hop aboard: https://discord.gg/ztcbyYwWzk

☠️ See you on deck, shipmate.
- The Pirate Pit Captain

u/ArtyOps — 2 days ago

26f Would you like to be friends?

Hi, my name is Alex. As the title says, would you like to be friends with me?

A little about me is that I'm a bit shy, but once you crack my shell, I'm like a party in a can. Just absolutely explosive of energy when you get me on a good day. Bad days, I'm more lax and want to vibe and have real talks... but I'm always down to game!

When it comes to games, I like RPGs, JRPGs, puzzles, and simulation ones. I branch out sometimes, only with friends, but I do NOT play shooters. The excitement and adrenaline honestly hurt my chest? Weird, haha, I know.

Other facts about me that you can bring up to talk about are that:

+I love music (metal, trap, edm, hip hop are favs)

+I like to bake sweets

+I enjoy watching anime

+Reading manga is a small hobby of mine

+I recently started painting small pieces of wooden furniture for fun

+Beginning to do cricut and custom t shirts

Hope to chat! 🫶

Have a great day

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u/Annoyinglyweebish — 2 days ago

20F texas looking for people to game with :)

20F from Texas. i’m a nursing student. i like cooking, reading, working out, gaming, being outdoors, and watching shows (currently love island usa lolll)

lately i’ve been playing fort (trying to get all of the sprites sooo if you play and wanna play duos or something def hmu🫠), but i also play apex, cod (still getting better), gta, project zomboid, and minecraft. i’ve got 2k, college football, and madden too (ps5, pc, xbox).

if you text me tell me your age + a little intro

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u/ariahhhhhhh — 2 days ago
▲ 40 r/LookingForGamers+7 crossposts

The Last Question - Interrogate AI suspects in a psychological detective game where every conversation is dynamic

A psychological AI detective game where you interrogate suspects through dynamic conversations to uncover the truth.

Every suspect has their own personality, secrets, emotional triggers, and breaking points. They can lie, deflect, manipulate, panic, contradict themselves, or stay completely calm depending on how you approach the interrogation.

You’ll need to analyze inconsistencies, apply pressure strategically, and decide what information to reveal during questioning.

Still actively developing and balancing the game, would genuinely love any feedback or ideas from fellow web game players/builders. I can give free credits!

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u/Birthday_Euphoric — 3 days ago

Hey guys i'm trying to find friends to chill and play games with!

Hi 20M, I'm trying to find people to chill and game with, i'm down for any games, preferably 2K, Fortnite, Warzone, Rocket League, FC 26. Honestly, anything is fine im so bored nowadays can't keep playing story games. Im on Playstation btw (if that helps). Hmu if anyone is down.

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u/Calculatedrisktaker0 — 3 days ago

New to Reddit and need some gamer friends!

I am 25 (m) if that matters. Just looking for chill loyal people to play games and have fun. Don’t take things too seriously. I play Minecraft, Fortnite, phas, a bit of siege, a little arc raiders, and some other things I’m sure I’m missing lol. Let me know!

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u/Grand_Bed7779 — 3 days ago

Casual Overwatch friends?

Hiii I'm 24F, looking for anyone who would like to play Overwatch together! I'm new to playing (both Overwatch and games in general really), so if you're super competitive and need things to go a certain way, I'm probably not the person for you. BUT if you're just wanting some wholesome casual gameplay I'm looking for some people to play with! I play on PS5.

I'm pretty shy so its unlikely that I'll be open to voice chatting at first, but if we end up playing together for a while I probably will! I don't know what I'm doing half the time and am just winging it since I'm still learning... if you're okay with that, we should play!

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u/Timid-Cloud — 4 days ago

i’m 18 bored looking for gamer friends

im 18 play on ps5 i play rdr2, fortnite, r6s, roblox, arma reforger,ready or not, i want to meet some new friends to play with or just chill in a part and talk im open to anyone!

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u/Severe-Ad-1353 — 4 days ago