Help with direction/spells
Hi, so my ex & i are constantly in this push & pull dynamic because he’s scared to get hurt and AWARE of it & tells me he pulls away because he’s afraid to get hurt and because he doesn’t believe someone can truly love him but really wants to be with me but something inside him convinces him he’s not good enough, it wont work or that i’m going to leave him so he leaves and then eventually comes back & explains what was going through his head and regrets it.
My question is what can i do to help the situation??? do i do a honey jar? blockbuster? love spell? I’m not sure what to do since he IS aware of his feelings for me, he just keeps pushing me away out of fear.