r/MarriedToMedicine

Episode 4: I can’t believe the way Toya tried to flip the script on the situation at her “Skip Work Day Party” girl you stay emasculating yo husband then when you make others uncomfortable with how you carry shit you get mad when others tell you about yourself. But I blame Eugene, it’s been years of Toya carrying you on national tv! I feel like she was embarrassed that she carried it like that n ppl called her out on it. Then she flips it on everybody else like girl bye we tired of seeing it.

I just finished watching season 11 of M2M and I’m honestly confused and disappointed. It seems like everyone turned on Tea and Greg just to side with Quad. And this is the same dramatic-ass Quad who constantly plays the victim and rarely takes accountability. The same quad that they all agreed was a user.

Apparently, it was okay for Toya to point out that Quad’s comments were making Greg uncomfortable, but when Tea and Greg spoke up for themselves, suddenly they were wrong? Quad continuously pokes at them trying to get a reaction. There’s no way a truly happy and unbothered woman would keep bringing up her ex-husband every chance she gets. Who cares that Greg was invited back to the show? If you’re really moved on like you claim, why are you still constantly mentioning him?

The comments about the baby shower and pretending to be happy for them felt fake and performative. At some point, stop commenting on that man’s life altogether. Now, I’m not saying Greg’s response was completely right, but enough is enough.

As for King, yes, he should’ve defended his woman, but he also should’ve checked her and let her know she was going too far. He admitted to the men that she still has trauma to heal from surrounding Greg but couldn’t tell her that she was going too far? And above all things he absolutely should not have gotten violent. You can be assertive and get your point across without being physical. We’ve seen this cast argue and have disagreements for years, but it rarely escalates to physical threats. King seemed way too comfortable being hostile. Mind you, this is the same cast that gets offended about being called “ghetto,” yet they continue to condone behavior that’s completely inappropriate. It’s nice that they welcomed King with open arms, but someone should’ve acknowledged that his approach was wrong. Greg is a grown man, and King threatened him multiple times. I would’ve pressed charges too. Simple.

Now moving on to Toya and Tea — I honestly think Toya only started disliking Tea after Tea checked her and told her to mind her business about how her husband chose to handle the situation with Quad and King. I fully believe Toya initially befriended Tea just to get under Quad’s skin, and once she realized she couldn’t manipulate her, she switched up.

At the end of the day, they all have issues, and none of them are perfect. I’m also not sure why Greg and Tea agreed to come on the show in the first place because they had to know this situation wasn’t going to end well. Those are Quad friends and the men really don’t have a say so. So they wouldn't save fGreg.

Mariah is driving me crazy. Does anyone else find her so disingenuous. Her deflecting when called out about talking trash about Quad during Ramadan. She acts like the victim when she constantly talks trash about everyone. I’m so sick of her crying and faking!!

What’s with this fake crying and fake acting offended. I don’t buy her act for a second. She’s allergic to accountability when she throws stones constantly. The reason no one stands up for her is because she’s not believable. Anyone else?

i recently learned that people can cry on demand and i think you really have to watch out for those types of people. they are what i would call master manipulators. i was wondering if the tears she cried were real when she and mariah had their spat s2 but i'm on s4 now & i think the tears were for sure fake... & i'm glad mariah is clocking it because she's done it so many times since then like gworl...

I’m a longtime RHOA viewer and decided to give M2M a shot instead of rewatching again. I’m on S1 E2.

Tell me some things I won’t understand until later. It can be references to funny moments, lines, etc.

Edit: Yall are absolutely frying me with these comments. Thank you!

Currently engaging in a M2M rewatch and I just finished the “strip club” episode from season 3.

Lisa Nicole flew off the handle and blamed Jill for the stripper coming over and mentioning Darren Naauuuuglessss, but I truly believe that Jill had nothing to do with it. Watching her reaction and she seems just as blindsided as Lisa. It seemed very genuine. Even the stripper seemed a little taken aback by Lisa’s response.

Knowing what we know now about how these shows work behind the scenes and how dirty these producers can be, I think that possibly someone in production found a random girl at the club, slid her a few dollars and gave her a line to direct at Lisa.

Or…maybe the stripper was telling the truth. Given Darren’s history of lies (and his admission of visiting The Cheetah at least once) and Lisa’s tendency to live in denial and delusion, it wouldn’t be a stretch.

Either way, I don’t think Jill had anything to do with it.

I also think it was in this moment that Dr. Simone stopped checking for Lisa. She really didn’t like how Lisa went off on Jill.

Just some random thoughts.

Ok yall, I’m on Szn 11 ep 11 & here we go wit the weird messy s***! Why on earth would heavenly think it’s cool to invite Apollo an his wife on the couples trip neither one of them are in the healthcare field & it’s just messy. Like toooo messy and I looove a good juicy moment but this is just straight up outlandish like it’s giving they were tryna force some drama for ratings👎🏾 it’s not organic! Is it just me yall?

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is married to medicine los angeles just as good as atlanta? i’m caught up on the atlanta season.

so apparently a lady is on tik tok claiming to have slept with a married to medicine husband last summer in charlotte. she said he was new to the show, and drive a grey gwagon. she didn’t know that he was on the show at that time. she said that he approached her got his number, but not a name. They met up the next day at his hotel room, he gave her money, and they had you know what. she said when it was time to go they kissed and she left. He told her to be available for him when he comes to charlotte but she hasn’t heard from him since 😳😳😳

New to the sub and show, on the 4th season episode 6. Her husband said he wanted to do something not as big for her birthday this year. It seems she has no idea how hard / much he works just for her to blow it ALL. She’s how old and cannot comprehend saving ? It seems like she has an insane spending issue and her husband can’t even speak up for himself he just gets shut down. It’s genuinely infuriating to watch. I don’t dislike her for any reason except her views on finances. It’s a shame

did i just watch toya yell at her husband in front of all her guest then turn around and yell at them. then, also have the audacity to blame heavenly? i mean heavenly is annoying but she didn’t even do anything. toya has become this nasty person as years go on. the money and entitlement has gone to her head. i don’t want to say she’s a mean girl just what she did was very mean hopefully things get better because i genuinely feel bad for eugene.

i could be wrong but.. the women seem jealous of phaedra. i don’t think phae did anything problematic necessarily besides being quad to sweet tea’s party but she explained her reason and seem to understood she made a mistake. the women shaded her anytime they could in the confessionals. toya, heavenly, jackie and even quad threw dirt on her. i’m so sick of them speaking on sisterhood especially heavenly. i find it hilarious jackie feels like she can hold heavenly accountable and diss he when she can never hold her bully friend heavenly accountable. also, toya pushing phaedra to share more on her life and mad when phaedra doesn’t. not everyone is a open book and idk why she even wants to know her business so badly? to judge her? the women have shown that when you share information in a vulnerable moment it’s later thrown in their faces in later episodes or reunions. i mean look what happened to contessa. i still like jackie, toya, simone and even quad i just feel like they can be so hypocritical.

what’re you guys thoughts about greg and sweet tea relationship? i’m also curious to know.

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