r/MarriedToMedicine

I am a first time viewer and finally binging this series and so glad I started! I am a fan of everyone with the exception of Lisa Nicole currently..... I just finished the episode where they went to the strip club. Lisa Nicole accused one of the girls (forgot her name!!! I think she is the white lady who is friends with Toya) of telling a stripper her husband's name, chewed her OUT, all for Darren to tell her that he was actually there....AND NEVER APOLOGIZED. Lisa is likable and has some good moments, but when it comes to her husband she is a bit .... stupid for lack of better words. Listen, I know some people stay after cheating, but for her to accuse the lady of telling the stripper her husbands name AND throwing water on Quad after revealing the potential child her husband had with another woman, she needs to sort out her marriage issues and press her husband instead of embarrassing herself and burning bridges.

Which couple would you like to have? It could be over shared goals, values, love.

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I love Eugene don't get me wrong. But why when people talking Cecil they make fun of him being a "bum". Could he teach his sons to work harder absolutely 💯. Cecil is a catch. He handsome, tall, sensible out of all the guys, loves Simone down. Everytime they do confessionals he be smiling next to her. He's a dilf.

If you had to marry any MD or Mrs MD who would it be and why? It could be any other wife that wasn't in poll.

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Okay I know it’s a crime to start M2M this late in the game but omg I’m so happy I did. So I’m on season 4 and am soooo confused about Genise 😅😂. She came on as Toya’s “friend” yet I have not once seen Toya act like her friend. First she was telling Heavenly what Genise said about her, then she’s calling out her professional abilities in-front of everyone after Genise tried to help Toya find a house, and then Toya is always making fun of her in her confessionals. I guess I’m just confused as to Genise’s place in the show if her “friend” isn’t even her friend.

When I first started watching this show, I couldn’t stand simone. But, come to find out, 12 seasons later and I LOVEEEE her!!! I hated how heavenly threw her under the bus after she confided in her

She is a content creator on yt and she makes videos about bravo shows and made two about M2M.

Married to Medicine has a problem nobody talks about
What rewatching M2M exposed | The B-sides

Her videos are well thought out and explore the misogyny within the cast.

I am not Kristen so this isn’t self promotion I just watched her video.

These are some of my thoughts after watching her video.

Eugene isn’t the best husband on bravo he just doing the best he can as Toyas husband. Also Toya and Eugene are very misogynistic as is most of the cast. Quad doesn’t sit on mute but the way the cast and fans allowed Eugene to talk about quad and to her because she doesn’t have a husband/boyfriend was disgusting and not okay.

Also Toya stopping the girls from negotiating a better contract together because she gossiped to production is so Toya.

The cast is very anti black and misogynistic because of their unwavering loyalty to upholding the idea of black excellence.

Simone and Cecil should have gotten a divorce a long time ago and I post it almost yearly when the show airs and we see their dynamic. Kristen was very diplomatic about it and I loved the way she analyzed why Simone decided to stop the divorce proceedings based of season 5 reunion. I’ve always said that was a horror scene and if my friends did that they wouldn’t be my friends.

I’ve been saying for years Mariah was done wrong by Simone but she wasn’t done wrong. She has a HBIC mentality on an ensemble cast. Production wasn’t right for how they did her but she didn’t do herself any favors.

I loved her analysis on heavenly. Heavenly is very progressive but displays trad wife views to stick out and paint her self a way she actually isn’t. Toya and heavenly are also very similar in personality but the difference is toya really lives the misogynistic lifestyle heavenly only raps about.

I also will say Heavenly calls her husband daddy because of her son. It was The Daddy because both the son and dad have the same name but the “the” dropped and it’s just daddy. I can relate because what I call my mom now is a multiple year changed version of her real name that stuck. I feel like that’s something used against her when it really is innocent in nature and shows how she is unwilling to let a show change how she moved in her relationship.

Finding out heavenly experienced anti fatness before getting on the show by the producers telling her she didn’t fit the look and to lose weight then experiencing it again from Jackie her first season on the cast just confirming why I never liked Jackie.

Overall I loved both videos and I HIGHLY recommend. I also recommend if you really dislike someone like a heavenly to go back and rewatch the show because your views might change.

So this is my first watch and I am on season 8. They just went on the march on Washington and Toya had her makeup artist and they did Anila makeup. Anila said she didn't pay them, but she was...

I would've never thought Anila to possibly be not as financial strong as I thought. Also, I don't know if I am a fan of hers...she don't seem to fit.

IIRC, Reunion aired in March? possibly early April.... they should have started filming IN JUNE!!! I liked watching in the fall, when are we thinking we'll hear official news about season 13!!?

I have watched Phaedra in RHOA and she has never been my favorite, but she is a housewife. She does great as a RHOA even though she is not my favorite, but I really don’t understand why she was casted in M2M.

She doesn’t fit at all with the ladies. The ladies seem clearly uncomfortable around her. They change their demeanor when she is around. Even Toya was like why are you on this show if you don’t want to get marry? It just feels tooooo forced to have her there.

She doesn’t come back for season 11, right?

I honestly don't blame Mariah being upset or mad at Toya for talking about Lauren being an adopted child. She may not have malicious intent but talking about your friend's personal business like family is off limits. But Mariah lost points at not addressing it to her or the group at Kari's party. Also Simone should have checked up on Mariah the same way she did to Toya.

Okay I’m binging and I’m on season 2. Mariah and Quad give me Shamea and Porsha vibes. Quad seems like she’s playing victim like shamea but she also has the personality of Porsha so I can see people being on her side. How Quad came into season 2 talking shit about Mariah to anyone who would listen was weird. Lisa, every designer, and then TOYA😒? Then they had an off camera restaurant talk where quads friends jumped in and verbally attacked Mariah. Okay so a set up…if you bring me to a restaurant with all your friends and they start attacking me on behalf of you when WE were supposed to talk..did you ever wanna talk or was this the plan from the beginning . I really like quad but this fake crying and clear fake hurt is blowing me but I just know the fans at the time took quads side. What are yall thoughts?