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22F ,Looking for something genuine -Mumbai/Navi Mumbai

Hi, 22F from Mumbai, currently pursuing MBA, and putting myself out here with a little hope and a little luck. :)

I’m looking for a serious relationship with the intention of eventually getting married. I’m not really interested in the whole “let’s see where this goes” situation. If I’m getting to know someone romantically, I’d like it to be with genuine intentions and see whether our values, personalities and long-term goals align. Ideally, I’d like to settle down in the next 3–4 years.

Looks and physical attraction obviously matter in a relationship, but I’m looking for someone who can see beyond just those things someone who values compatibility, loyalty, communication, respect, emotional connection and genuinely liking each other as people.

I’d love to meet a decent, emotionally mature guy who is actually serious about relationships and willing to give things a fair chance rather than rushing into physical intimacy or judging everything based on appearances.

Also, my birthday is coming up soon, so a small part of me is hoping that maybe I’ll meet someone special before then and get to celebrate it with someone who genuinely wants to be there. 😅 Maybe I’m being optimistic, but putting my luck out here anyway.

A little about me:

• MBA student

• I love movies and series

• Music is a big part of my life

• I enjoy sports and used to play badminton, basketball and cricket

• I’m a huge cricket fan both men’s and women’s cricket

• Planning to join a gym soon

• I’m pretty ambitious about my career and life

I’m specifically looking for someone from Mumbai, Navi Mumbai or nearby, preferably around my age (roughly 22–26). Long-distance probably won’t work for me, so people from far-away cities, please don’t take it personally if I don’t respond.

And if I don’t reply, it probably just means I didn’t feel we’d be a good fit or didn’t know how to continue the conversation. No offense intended.

If you’re also looking for something serious, respectful and eventually leading towards marriage, feel free to introduce yourself. Tell me a little about yourself rather than just sending “hey”. :)

Let’s see if Reddit can surprise me this time.

One thing I forgot to mention: I am planning to settle in Mumbai so that's a priority. And someone who's comfortable in living separately from either parents and can build a home with partner.

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u/Realistic_Spite_8920 — 15 hours ago
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Went on a solo trip to Karnala Fort. Ask me anything.

Took local to panvel station.

Walked to the bus stop and hoped onto the Alibagh bus.

Got off at Karnala Bird Sanctuary stop, right outside the main gate of the sanctuary.

Took 2hrs to ascend.

Spent around 2 good hours on top.

Took around 90 mins to descend.

Had misal pav in one of the sanctuary canteens.

Took shared cab back to station.

Now suggest me where to go next weekend. Or please let me know if you are planning for a trek or a ride and looking for a travel buddy.

u/ContactPositive1477 — 16 hours ago
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Discreet 24 Bi - Looking to suck/blow straight men (M4M)

I have been with guys and girls and can bet that guys are far better in bed. Always curious about how it would be to be with someone straight who is just curious about swinging/trying

About me : Andheri, 24, M, extremely discreet, can't host.

Hit me up if you're atleast 25, super discreet and looking for safe fun. Open to conversations and questions.

Please dont text if you're unsure!

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u/Sloth-rosh09 — 16 hours ago
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23F here , What part of my posts made them think I was looking for this

Honestly, I’m a little disturbed and confused by this.

What part of my posts wasn't understandable to these people? 😭

I've received quite a few random DMs like this before and usually just ignore them. But these two felt a little too much especially the one inviting me to join them for a foursome. Seeing something like that in my inbox was genuinely uncomfortable.

I've always been very clear about what I'm looking for here. My posts have been about finding a serious relationship, getting to know someone genuinely, and eventually seeing where things go. I've intentionally kept the intimacy/sexual aspect aside because that's simply not what I'm looking for with random people online.

I've never posted saying I'm interested in hookups, sexual encounters, threesomes, or anything of that sort. So receiving these messages honestly made me wonder what exactly did I say that made someone think this was an appropriate thing to approach me with?

And I know people have different preferences. I have absolutely nothing against people who are into casual encounters if that's mutually wanted and consensual. But there is a huge difference between someone expressing their preference in the right space and randomly approaching someone who has never shown interest in it.

Maybe what bothers me most is how easily some people seem to assume that because you're a woman posting about relationships on Reddit, you're automatically open to sexual attention from strangers.

I'm here because I'd like to meet someone, build an emotional connection, feel safe and respected, and hopefully find something meaningful. Not because I'm looking for random sexual experiences.

It can genuinely make you feel uncomfortable even opening your DMs when you don't know what kind of message is waiting there.

I've ignored plenty of these messages, but these felt like they crossed a line for me.

Do other women here experience this too? How do you deal with unsolicited messages like these?

Thanks for reading :)

u/Tiny_Activity_392 — 1 day ago
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We are39/36 married cpl from Navi Mumbai looking for singles with FwB (Singles who can pay) on Friday and Saturday. Pic seekers please refrain yourself

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u/Ok-Screen-1104 — 24 hours ago
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Lonavala Villa Party

Hey guys,
We are planning to gather people up and host a party at Lonavala. We will book a nice Villa, get drinks and everything (IYKYK). Hit me up with your age and gender in the comments section. It will be a strictly 1:1 ratio, so there’s someone for everyone.

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u/Fun_Cardiologist761 — 3 days ago
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Houseparty in Andheri East on 22 aug.

Is anyone up for houseparty in Andheri East? Food, games, music.. everything is sorted!

BYOB!
Only 10 spots left.

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u/RaDiumZz — 3 days ago