r/MuslimRemarriage

Asalamu alaikum!

Helping my sister in law find a husband insha’Allah (yes I’m serious lol)

Age: 34
Hijab: Wears hijab and dresses modestly (abaya/modest dresses)
Background: Born Muslim (West Indian/American)
Language: English
Occupation: Elementary islamic school teacher
Religious Practice: Prays 5 daily prayers, upon the Quran and sunnah
Marital Status: Divorced
Children: None
Polygamy: No

About Her:
5’2, A kind, modest, and family-oriented sister who values her deen. She is grounded, respectful, and desires a peaceful home. She hopes to have children, insha’Allah.

Seeking:
A practicing brother (preferably 30–38, but open to consideration) who is consistent in his prayers, has good character, and is serious about marriage. Someone kind, responsible, emotionally mature, and ready to build a stable and loving home.

Please reach out directly if you are interested or know someone who is. Thank you!

Bismillah. Assalam Alaikum.

Age: 36
Ethnicity: Pakistani/American
Profession: Accounting & Finance - Finance Manager at a multinational
Divorced with no kids
6’1 (185 cms) - Not fat, not skinny. Work out and exercise occasionally.
Practicing muslim - 5 times daily prayers, obligatory fasting, reciting and understanding the Quran, learning Arabic to understand Quran and other Arabic texts better. Continuously trying to become a better muslim. Sometimes I do trip but try to get back on track stronger.

A little bit about me; I am into gaming, reading, socializing/spending time with friends & family, road trips/traveling, cooking/baking and finding new things to do. Been told I am a very patient person, easy going, loyal to a degree. I believe in giving respect to gain respect (even if that isn’t reciprocated sometimes) and don’t oppress or be oppressed.

A few things that need to be disclosed:

I have a permanent colostomy due to health issues which have now been addressed

I’m not planning to live in the US perpetually, I am working on trying to migrate to the middle east, to Saudi or Oman (preferably) in 3+ years

I can have kids via IVF. However, I have seen the struggles and pain of IVF experienced by other people I know and would never want my spouse to go through that but if she really insisted, that can be discussed.

Due to point number 2 above, I am open to connecting with someone who has kids or someone who is not interested in having kids.
Other primary traits I would expect from my future spouse would be; righteousness, kindness, patient, humility and modesty. Praying 5 times a day and obligatory fasts at the very least. Hijab preferred but also open to someone who is on the journey to implementing hijab. Past sins do not matter to me as long as they have been repented upon and being worked on to not happen again. Mistakes are part of life, we all make mistakes so that’s okay. Would also love to be involved in volunteer work which helps the Ummah in some way or the other with my spouse, perhaps even making that a goal in the future via setting up a charitable organization or something similar.
At the end I want to say that I am looking for my closest companion, together with whom we can navigate life as partners and more and build our own little universe aligned with the teachings of our beautiful religion as an inspiration to all and an example to the Ummah.

Hopefully we can connect and discuss more.

JazakumAllah Khairun.

Assalam Alaikum.