r/NewFriendsOver40

41F. Hello there, it's being a while. I'm from South America, looking for people to chat, about everything and nothing. Time zone differences aren’t a problem for me. The idea is to talk about anything: deep topics, random thoughts, curiosities, experiences… whatever comes up.

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u/Hidden_Nebula — 3 hours ago
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Looking for Mature & Interesting People to Connect With

27M from Mumbai. Looking to connect with open-minded and mature couples who enjoy good chemistry, fun conversations, drinks, and relaxed company.

Not into anything rushed or awkward — I believe comfort, attraction, and mutual vibe make all the difference. Respectful, discreet, well-groomed, and easy to get along with.

Would love to meet people who are confident, chill, and interested in exploring a genuine connection in a comfortable setting.

Feel free to reach out if the vibe matches :)

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u/Puzzleheaded_Art8166 — 15 hours ago
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45/F looking for platonic male chat connections

When I was younger, I had more male than female friends. I guess you can say that I was a tomboy.

I miss those connections.
Some people say that men and women can’t be just friends. I disagree. I’m not looking to share pictures or voicemails etc. If it turns into that, it’ll be with time and definitely some trust. I’m not trying to secretly breakup relationships either. And no… I’m not a bot.

Just trying to see if I can make those types of friendships/connections again.

Things about me you should know before replying:

  1. I am a Black
  2. I don’t care to get heavily into politics. If you want to mention something that may be related to a particular conversation we’re having, that’s fine. Just don’t go all MAGA and racist on me.
  3. Conspiracy theories are an interesting topic that I will chat about if brought up. Been watching (Dre_Og Reacts) YouTube.
  4. I listen to a little bit of all kinds of music, podcasts, and audiobooks.
  5. I am a mom so I can definitely relate if you have kid issues you might want to discuss.
  6. I’m an introvert with extrovert tendencies depending on the person or conversation.
  7. I believe I’m open minded. I can chat about anything. Just don’t get carried away in the wrong direction.
  8. I’ve fallen behind on what’s on tv, but I’m trying to catch up. I’m into multiple shows when time allows: Foundation, Paradise, etc. I know I’m late, but I recently finally watched Interstellar. I loved it. Loved the soundtrack.

I think that’s enough to get started if anyone is interested.

Last but not least, be my age or older. I always tend to attract younger people who never know how to hold a conversation. If you’ve read this far, comment or DM me your favorite 80s movie so I know you read it all.

😊

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u/ComfortablyShy — 1 day ago
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49 M looking for a long term friendship

I am 49 married male from the US EST. I am looking for someone to talk to about anything and everything as often as possible. I don’t have many friends I would like 1 close friend. Any age or gender as long as you’re looking for the same. DM me if you want to get to know each other.

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u/Several-Usual7078 — 1 day ago
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30F Midwest

Hi y’all!

I’m from Illinois, I work full time, I hangout with my kid and pets at night.

I love to read, watch movies and TV.

I am a certified yapper. I can talk about anything and everything!

I am very sarcastic, love a good laugh and can be a bit cunty😂😂 all in good fun, I promise.

I’d like to have witty conversation, talk about music and books, roast the shit out of you, and have a companion!

If you like a healthy dose of debating, innuendos and sarcastic comments, please hit me up!

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u/Amontillado-4 — 4 days ago

40 [F4A] Looking for connection and solidarity

Hi. I'm a 40 year old healthcare professional in Texas, currently in the process of separating, and honestly — life is a little lonely and sad right now and I'm tired of pretending otherwise.

I'm a BBW who's getting back into weightlifting, learning piano, and still finds time to crochet and listen to heavy metal — sometimes all in the same week. I love historical fiction, cozy things, and a really good meal. I have rats as pets and I will show you pictures whether you ask or not. I cry at good movies and I laughed way too hard at Snatch.

I'm looking for real people. Friends first, always. I'm not in a rush and I'm not looking to fill a void — just genuinely tired of not having enough people in my life who get me.

If you're thoughtful, have a sense of humor, and can hold an actual conversation — let's talk.

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u/Alizera — 5 days ago
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49 M looking for a long term friendship

I am 49 married male from the US EST. I am looking for someone to talk to about anything and everything as often as possible. I don’t have many friends I would like 1 close friend. Any age or gender as long as you’re looking for the same. DM me if you want to get to know each other.

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u/Several-Usual7078 — 6 days ago
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Let’s see who I cross paths with tonight

I’m here to meet new people, but I’m not giving everything away at once.
If you’re fun, sharp, and can hold a conversation that isn’t just the usual small talk, I’m listening.
Your move.

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u/Jaded_Ostrich_7701 — 8 days ago
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45 [R4R] Just Chatting — UK F Looking for Friendly Conversation

Hi, I’m Maya — 45, UK, caramel‑skinned woman just looking to make some genuine connections. I’m not here for drama or anything complicated, just relaxed conversation with people who enjoy chatting about anything: life, hobbies, random thoughts, late‑night talks, whatever comes naturally.

I’m easygoing, open‑minded, and happy to chat with anyone who brings good energy. If you’re friendly and up for a conversation, feel free to say hello.

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u/ProfessionalForce952 — 10 days ago

49 M exploring what’s friendship at this age..

I’ve realized that the definition and meaning of friendship has shifted. It’s becoming less about **proximity** and more about **intentionality**.

I’m looking to connect with people who are in a similar headspace—If you’re also navigating this transition from "guy I know" to "actual friend," I’d love to hear your perspective. What does friendship look like for you these days?

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u/GeeKayPee — 10 days ago
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44 F looking for nerdy/shy/intelligent people

Hi!

I'm looking for friends to talk to or game with through the days, or hang out with in Discord.

I have a switch 2 and I often play online and use game chat.

I have a partner and 2 kids, life can be busy, but I get bored pretty easily. Need constant new stimuli in my life.

Im in Europe.

HMU if interested. No weirdos!

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u/Jomosian — 12 days ago
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40 [F4A] Looking for connection and solidarity

Hi. I'm a 40 year old healthcare professional in Texas, currently in the process of separating, and honestly — life is a little lonely and sad right now and I'm tired of pretending otherwise.

I'm a BBW who's getting back into weightlifting, learning piano, and still finds time to crochet and listen to heavy metal — sometimes all in the same week. I love historical fiction, cozy things, and a really good meal. I have rats as pets and I will show you pictures whether you ask or not. I cry at good movies and I laughed way too hard at Snatch.

I'm looking for real people. Friends first, always. I'm not in a rush and I'm not looking to fill a void — just genuinely tired of not having enough people in my life who get me.

If you're thoughtful, have a sense of humor, and can hold an actual conversation — let's talk.

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u/Alizera — 12 days ago
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44 F looking to chat

Hi!

Looking for women to chat with, since I’m a bit bored.

I like the beach, swimming pools, hiking and playing video games (switch 2).

42-50 yo.

I’m in Europe (GMT+1)

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u/Jomosian — 13 days ago