r/NickFuentesAF

Dinner is a burger in bed that I currently can’t eat because I’m too nauseous.

So today my husband told me he doesn’t know what I do all day on the house. I have a 5 year old and I’m also in the first trimester of my pregnancy. This pregnancy has been miserable and I can’t even be upright for too long without feeling like I’m going to puke. Since my energy is very low I’ve been reserving it for grocery shopping, cooking, packing lunches for my husband and kid. And cleaning the kitchen with doing laundry. I haven’t been doing anything like sweeping or mopping because I literally don’t have energy. I have to either choose to cook or clean most days and when I exert myself I feel terrible

I tried telling him how bad the nausea is but he ignores me. We recently bought a house and although everything is unpacked, he’s upset with the state of it. If there’s even 2 dishes in the sink he will get an attitude. Whenever he does clean he sighs loud as hell the whole time to show his displeasure. I don’t work but I’m a full time student, and he pays all the bills. Of course since I don’t contribute financially it makes sense for me to do a majority of the house work. Which I usually do, but since like 3 weeks ago my energy has been non existent. He doesn’t believe in tired because I don’t work

This makes me feel extremely unappreciated. He is the one who wanted another baby, I was 1 and done. I thought that he’d be sympathetic and not as harsh about housework but he hasn’t been at all. He’s very specific to the point of I don’t put his socks together how he likes he complains. I try to cool every night and if I don’t cool I pay for takeout. But he will still complain if I don’t cook(even though he’s still being fed)

I’m starting to realize he’s only nice to me if I’m constantly is servitude to him. If I’m not 100% productive or cleaning all day then he’s cold towards me, spends most of the day with his friends, and doesn’t talk to me. I told him earlier I missed him while he was at a friends house and he didn’t respond then came home with an attitude. I asked what’s wrong and that’s when he said he doesn’t know what I do all day. He had told me before “what do I get out of this relationship besides sex a couple times a month”

I feel trapped. We both own the house and in pregnant. I’m contemplating leaving. If he’s treating me like this while im pregnant I can only imagine how bad it would be post partem or if god forbid I get sick. My 5 year old is not his biological daughter and I went through that pregnancy alone. Atleast alone I didn’t have to walk on eggshells because a man was upset with the state of the house. Atleast when I was a single mom I didn’t constantly have my feelings ignored.

He’s always on FaceTime and when he talks to other people he’s super animated and friendly. But with me he’s cold. I don’t think he actually likes me and if I do decide to leave I will terminate this pregnancy. I can’t be a single mom with 2 different baby dads. I refuse.

Incredibly funny clip... worth watching.