r/Onlyteenagersallowed

Hey y'all I'm 14F and I need advice. I have no social media besides Pinterest, Capcut, Locket, and YT shorts. The problem is, those are supposed to be safe but idk. (mainly talking about Pinterest and cc) I post on both and get asked to start talking or get flirted with A LOT (also happens on here). Since I am a freshman starting Wednesday, I don't want to get wrapped up in drama nor do I want to start any relationship more than friends rn. I also get chatted up and asked for my snap/number in public. I don't know how to make it stop but I really just want to focus on eveerythong but boys rn. Sure it'd be nice in the future but if its time God'll decide not me. My guys friends protect me a lot wich is nice but I still won't have them foreevr and dk what to do. How do I get it to STOP? In school I was not treated like that but outside of it... I also dont wear anthing revealing and if I do I usaully safety pin it or something to make it show less. Please help. (sorry for rambling)

Edit: btw yall, im not trying to sound as if "oh everyone wants me" "I'm the most beautiful girl in the world" i genuinely am just uncomfortable and it does happen often.

17m. Bored. Still new to reddit and trying to learn it.

I lowkey wanna be more involved in fashion so y'all describe your best outfits or show your best outfits and I'll rate it /10 and a reason why and how to improve it. If you disagree with me we can debate but I'm bored but I think I should just give it a shot

genuinely to all of my peers who know how to drive.. how do you learn how to drive when there is NO ONE who wants to take time out of their day to teach you 😭😭 ?? thinking of driving school when I eventually have my own funds to but idk how that’ll go. just a little embarrassing to be 18 and a bum when it comes to driving LOL

Ok look I know this is picky but is rather someone good show up than someone who doesn't. So here goes I'm 18M and I just want someone who loves to bake, read, and loves nature. I bake often but I barely read so I hope that by having someone who reads appearing in my life that I will also read because it is something I've always wanted to get into. And I've always loved nature and tried my hand at bonsai occasionally. I do crypto here and there. I love art and photography aswell. I'm am usually online quite alot so I usually respond to messages quick unless I go to sleep. I am British born, but I have an Indian heritage but alot of people don't say I look it because I'm pale skinned but idk. I love walks and stuff ig and really do want to meet new people and just get to do more in this long holiday of mine. ✌🏻

I'm 18M, and recently I've seen alot of hate by girl's and women for having hip dips, I just wanted to say this genuinely in my opinion there's nothing wrong with having hip dips and think that having them doesn't make you less attractive, there's too much hate about them by others about something that's natural AND BEAUTIFUL.

this is mostly a vent, but i really need an advice.

ok, for context:

i'm a 18yr girl that has been taking classes in a institution, to prepare myself for the college appplication exams of the institution's university. recently, i stayed for an extra class to get better in a subject i have a lot of difficulty to understand, while being lectured by the teacher, who is a 23yr undergraduate male student in the university.

while we were in class, i felt quite aroused about him.

he's not conventionally attractive, i think it was bc i found his personality quite kooky, while he also showed to be very intelligent and confident in what he teaches. he also was so gentle and attentive to me, i felt really welcomed by him and he answered all my questions. plus, he's so skinny that his waist sillhouette was quite highlighted in the clothes he was wearing, so i found his body very beautiful and attractive to me.

after the classes i attended, which were 2 of them, he accompanied me in the university's bus. we chatted a little and this made me realize how we share some life experiences. but i also noticed how he is overall very depressed. he even self harms, and that made me get so worried about him, he's definitely not a healthy person, though i believe he goes to a psychologist, due to him taking antidepressants, so perhaps he is trying to improve?

i feel so dirty and perverted for thinking about him in a sexual way, like its just so disrespectful, specially for a man that i barely know and has been nothing but kind to me. but idk, perhaps this attraction was bc i was in my luteal phase, i menstruated like yesterday and all these events happened within last week, or i just have bad taste in men.

i do like him in a platonic way and i wanna be his friend, for he could really help me achieve my goals, and i also feel like he needs a friend as well, but im worried if it would be appropriate of me to reach out like this to him, or if my feelings for him will grow if we harbor a friendship.

i have talked about dating him with my mom already. she doesnt think the age gap is weird, but thats bc i obscured the fact that he is my teacher. anyway, she told me it was dangerous getting in a relationship with somebody with so many problems bc i'll feel overloaded by his issues, and if he is able to harm himself, he could have an outburst and attack me. i think she exaggerated it a lot, but she's not wrong, its a possibility nonethless. i dont wanna date him, i think, but i still sometimes fantasize about him.

hello people! heres a new 13 year old asian girly, having trouble with heights. Currently, I’m 4.9ft or 149cm, my amazing goated W mother wants be to be taller, but I THINK my growing thingy is about to stop, and my mom said its because I got my period very early? (10 years old) I wanted to know if you guys have any advices how to do like a simple stretch at your room, welp urm dont tell me to go watch a yt vid because I mostly watched all of them. My mom is sad im smol :)

hello people! heres a new 13 year old asian girly, chillin, goin to summer school, random make up stuff, having trouble with heights. Currently, I’m 4.9ft or 149cm, my amazing goated W mother wants be to be taller, but I THINK my growing thingy is about to stop, and my mom said its because I got my period very early? (10 years old) I wanted to know if you guys have any advices how to do like a simple stretch at your room, welp urm dont tell me to go watch a yt vid because I mostly watched all of them. My mom is sad im smol :)