r/OpenMarriageR4R

20f open marriage girl here, my pussy's dripping and I need to feel a hard cock deep inside me.

i'm sitting here in my husband's tshirt and nothing else my nipples are hard and my pussy is so wet i can't even take it anymore i need someone to come fuck me one of you should come over here and put that cock in my mouth and fuck my face until i can't breathe then i want you to throw me on the bed and fuck me like an animal i want to feel your cum all over my tits and my face anyone up

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u/manubeauty — 1 day ago

Am i wrong???

First time in these type of forums, Please take it easy but give it to me straight!!!!
Ive been with ny husband for 20yrs married four 17 this yr. We have had a very rocky marriage but because there are kids involved we atick to the big picture and have tried to make it work for the sake of the family we have built together. I had two children with some else when I entered into this relationship and he had none . We have had threesome and they all turned out bad, gis ex if 13 yrs prior a bay caneout of that, BV cane out of another, and uncomfortable misdealing cane out of others. Either way i shut them down not because of control but it felt off or i was feeling lied to .
So now its 2024 , my son is comes home from job corp with a girl he built a realtionship with there. Me and husband wasnt to keen on that but because her people threw her out andmy son voched for her we allowed it . He was renting a room from us anyway with his own private bathroom and entrance so we was like ok , rent will go up because u hae her here , cool they both got jobs in the community and its was fine for a bit.
2026, its been two yrs , they have been having a horrible relationship. One minute its him the next its her. My son gets demoted at his job and was completely going crazy , he was in a slump treating her horrible or whatever so its said, me and my husband try to meditate were we can . I wasnt all in there relationship as much as my husband because they had a choice to make figure it out or separate. I believe my son was done with her a while back but because he felt responsible for the fact tha she had nowhere to go if they broke up that he kept going on with the relationship. Anyway in like may my husbad says the should go on a break because the relationship was getting bad . And she was feeing like a sex toy with him . They agreed while on that break my son list his virginity to her so hes acting like a horn pup persuading her to have sex at every chance he could she gives in a fre times but jeeps complaining to my husband about it . They finally did have sex and they bith admitted that it didnt fee the same . The both are atill sharing the same room at this time..
Back in april me and husband had a argument about him and other women and his preference. And i was not agreeing to it i want a straight monogamous marriage moving forward. Some words were said ..
Its now middle of june 2026 . My sons girl is now chilling around me more , she been around for two yrs , i have given her advice, helped her learn how to cook, gaveher some of my brand new high heels, im a nail tech , so i was basically doing her nails for free . We had a mutual respect for one another .
Ine day in hune me and husband were talking and i said to him she likes u and i have noticed it for a while . We laughrd about it and then husband tells me that will picking her up from work they had a conversation. My son worked weird shifts so they bith would take turns taking and picking her up from work. He tells me shehad a dream based off one of me and his argument were she watched my husband have sex with a women and she stood and watched and liked it. My husband not intrigued by the conversation asked other questions were she admitted to liking me and found me very attractive. Also stating she like the family dynamic we had going on and didnt want to leave . Me and husband talked about it and at the time i was saying i wouldn’t put her out if the broke up i would allow her to get on her feet it only right . And i also stated she could be a candidate because she was cool , bubbly and had a caring heart and my kids loved her . In a weeks time frame my husbands making it seem like they are broken up ahe dont want to be with my son anymore shes done . So im under the impression that they are more then just having a break , they are done we just needed to figure out the sleeping arrangements , i have a five bedroom house and all rooms are full so we were teying to figure out where to stick her .
One night me husband and her are drinking my son works over night at one job and daytime with another various days out the week . Ending of june and husbad and i were having sex and while we were doing it he mentioned her to come in and join . In the mist of the moment i said ok she comes in and we go from there . It was alil weird but i was open to it drunk an all . The next day , now this is were it gets weird and uncomfortable, she comes in our room whisper something to my husbad kiss me on my shoulder we got a California king so thats about as far as sge could reach me and my son took her to work , life moves on as usual , she comes home , my son goes to work overnight, she chills watch movies play monopoly or scrabble gors in her room for the night, next day does the same , and the next day does the same . As im watching the days im noticing everyones behavior , and its seems off . So i speak to my husband about it and he tells me im overthinking its fine. They not together, its been three days . My son is off work on this fourth day , and she’s texting him im texting her , and i was telling her how i enjoy the ither night she says your son is going to sleep maybe ill come slip in , then two seconds later she like nope rain check he just woke up . My mind starts racing like what ?????. The next morning i wake up to my son and husband in the kitchen talking ,when they realize im up they come in and add me to the conversation .
Apparently my son went thru her phone and seen the text messages and asked did we all have sex ? My husband denies anything hapoened and tried to cover it up . My son says to me mom im trying to not believe u would do something like this to me , my husband and son go for a walk . Husband comes back hours later like he told my son. Cursed out the girlfriend for being careless with her phone. Saying she should have deleted messages or changed her passcode . Im like wait i thaught rhey were together anymore . He tells me they arent but my son is under the impression they might come back from this break they were on and im ahocked because thats not the impression that was givin now im looking at my husband and the girlfriend funny . Like u mean to tell me that u never officially broke it off yall were just on a break with a possibly to maybe rekindle??? She like we are teally talking it like it over with we just roommates i said that sounds real good but thats not whats going on here . Now im feeling guilty becaue thats my son and he will hate mefor this while u layed up in my bed with me and husband . Like what the f!!!. So now im pissed . Andi feel uncomfortable and lied to .
Husband convince son to talk to a girl he once talked to before that we didn’t approve of because she was pregnant at the time, while my son is doing that , he still working ivernight shifts . Husband is telling me im trippin and overreacting. So life keeps going . Now she literally went from watching movies , to sitting in out bed to sleeping in out bed . I stress to husband i wasn’t comfortable with that . Sincemy son found out we moved my husbands studio room in out bedroom and he gave her his office . Im complaining like she cant have everything leave the bed to me that my space. He ignores my request and says i want control, next thing i know he initiate sex between us again , i didnt want it but i went with the flow believing i was tripping, and she stayed again another nightin out bed the next morning he like i heard what u said and im sorry she gon go in her room and sleep.
Next nighti wake up like 3 in the morning becaue its the fourth if july and the dogs are barking because of the overnight fireworks, to my husband changing his underwear, and then he disappear . I get up look for him now where to be found anhour later come back to bed .
Next morning i say to him u dont have to creep around if u want to go to her bed dont wait for me to sleep be honest. He says i just went int o check in her . I said for a hour ??? . He brings the girl in on the convo and she strts a group chat between us and inside I still feel like its more to the story but im trying so hard to not be the villain my son hates me she running around acting hapoy for a new relationship my husband is acting happy while im angry. We argue after that and during the argument it slios out that while in our bed she woke my husband up to some head. And im like isthis why u told ne she can sleep in her room now ??? Cause thats heavy and u didnt tell me . Im looking at her like u dont want to be looked at like a sex toy but u wanna be ine for my husband ??? We argue everyday after that all the way till the end of july . I told him sheneeds to leave . Call her family , get a room something but she has to go . All this problems is not what i signed up for. Then a few days after my husband bday which was the 28 i heard him in the room having sex with her i woke up out my sleep and he was gon i go to her room an i hear them . More fuel to the fire. We haven’t stopped arguing about her since . He takes her work pick her up , creeps around at night , keeps lying to me saying she just cool , but instead of saving her money she buying him several pair if bew sneakers orfering out meals , when i aske d husbnd has he had sex with her outsidebof me he looked me in my face and said no and then said i was acting like it wouldnt happen considering we had sex already , then teied to flip it on me an say im overreacting andbeing young, im selfish and want control im only thinking about myself and since i wanted to back out it dont have anything to do with how he or her feels . At that moment i did the one thing that i knew would give mr the teuth i asked her and she said they had sex more than once . Helater tells her that wasnt her place and she shouldnt held him down .Im like u said u didnt have feelings and her arent valid enough for me to care . We brought her in out bed together and if i choose to end itvhow are u not rocking with me . My son feels betrayed. My husband is like your son has moved on his new girl now stas here also and they be layed up cooling in the kitchen together laughing and joking and she all alone and its nit fair why cant she move on respectfully. Another arugument happens and he calls the girl to verify why she said to me this girl gone look me in my face and day i never said more than once i said inly once . Me in her in a screaming maych at this point like u teally are going to lie like why would i have to lie about it . I want nothing more for it to not be teue so why would i make it up .Its now august she still here and he still lies about simple stuff now . He says he going to the atore come to find out hea at Walmart with her fir two in a half hours . She again soending miney on what ever he asks . And he lies like its nothing and says to me . I lie because look how u act how can i bring the truth, i want to bring the truth but all it dose it create more arguments i dont want to argue or lose my wife blah blah blah . Like am im wrong here??? I know i was wrong for indulging in this mess with full disclosure on my son and her , but an i wrong for wanting her to leave , wanting a divorce, or telling my husband i want a girlfriend that i can vibe with sex chill and she does have sex with him , he says i cant have sex with any women he either didnt bring into the relationship or isnt having sex with , but i have to feel uncomfortable in my home while u orance around with this girl ??? Im so angry i cant sleep i barely eat im so angry . Before this mess i was going ask my husband could we have another kid and now im all over the place i cant stop drinking . I literally drink every day now started smoking cigarettes. I barely cook do do my nak tech thing any more . Im juat stressed out . Dont know if i even want my husband anymore because he blaming me for all the past bad threesome and comparing this situation to those . I dont know if i wantto just creep and get a girl so i can have my simple sexual pleasure and friendship. I allnover the place

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u/quite_thee_opposite — 2 days ago

20f open marriage girl here, craving a hot cock to use me like the dirty slut I am.

i'm so fucking wet right now just thinking about some random stranger in the city plowing into my tight little pussy while my hubby watches i've been playing with myself all morning but it's just not enough my nipples are so hard and my ass is aching to be used someone better be able to give me what i need cause i can't fucking wait anymore.

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u/manubeauty — 2 days ago

52M/52F Husband looking for advice

For some context, we're in our early 50s and we've been married since we were 19. All we know of this world is of each other when it comes to sex. To call it vanilla might be an overstatement. Over the past few years we've tried to explore with toys, watching porn together, and things like that and found a few things that we enjoy outside of the norm. Now my libido is on overdrive. I'm finding that my drive, desires, and curiosities are way past where she's at. We have regular sex, way more than most people who've been married as long as we have would get. But I'm discovering new and exciting things and find it hard to even start the conversation. One thing I'm super curious about is her being with another man. Not because I want any cuck action, it's because i want to watch her enjoy herself in ways that i have no clue how to do or can provide. i'm very confident in my love and devotion for her, this will never change, it would please my soul on the deepest of levels to watch her just let go.

So my question is this. Am I being selfish in wanting this? How do i even have the conversation to have an honest discussion about it. what if she truly has no interest in it and i discover this is a kink that squarely sits on me and i have to just deal with it. I'm so lost in this headspace and hope i'm not the only man who's ever sat at this crossroad. just looking for something to kick me in a direction to figure this out.

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u/Kuro-Mifuni — 3 days ago

20f open marriage girl here, my pussy is begging to be filled with a thick cock tonight.

my husband's at work and my pussy is just throbbing one of you better come fuck me my nipples are so hard and wet i can't take it anymore i need someone to fill me up i'm playing with myself but it's not enough my ass is so wet and ready anyone up?

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u/wemetinmay — 3 days ago

20f open marriage girl here, dripping wet and desperate to have my pussy ravaged by a massive cock.

okay so i'm just sitting here in my living room, my husband's at work and i'm so fucking wet and horny i can't even stand it. i'm wearing this little black thong that's so soaked you can see right through it, my nipples are hard and perky and i keep rubbing them, imagining someone's hands on me. i've been playing with myself but it's not enough, i need more, i need a real cock, someone big and thick to fill me up and make me scream. anyone up for some fun, my inbox is open and ready.

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u/manubeauty — 4 days ago

21[M4F] and 19[F4F] looking for a 3rd. Located in Houston

Husband and wife here looking to have a threesome with another women. Located in south Houston but willing to drive. HMU if interested. Single females only !!

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u/Maximum_Welder126 — 4 days ago

F27&M28 MF4M Online/Indiana

Hello! 😊 We are a married couple new to the lifestyle and hoping to find a long-term 3rd. (Major bonus points if you’re a dom)
We’re looking for something consistent and fun starting online, but with room to grow in the future. We’d love to find someone down to do a group chat with us both. Husband is straight but loves to share, watch and participate 😉
We are not interested in random one off messages or low effort and dry messaging that’s overly suggestive/sexual. We are looking for someone who is interested in getting to know us/me and getting comfortable over time 💕

Seeking someone 27-55
If you think you could be a good fit and are interested then please DM me, we’d love to chat!

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u/Pink-Celestial-1052 — 4 days ago

I need advice

My husband has a odd request about sleeping with a friend of his who I do have a short past with yrs ago
I’m on the fence I want to fulfill his fantasy but my gut tells me not to we’ve been married 9 yrs
And I would consider our marriage solid
What are your thoughts?

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u/Dismal-Mind3871 — 6 days ago

28 F4M #California

Hey there everyone 28 female, I'm in an open marriage and looking for someone to chat with good conversation, sext with a little feel each other out online a bit maybe if things go good we can discuss meeting in person. I'm bisexual so I'm OPEN to all messages I just tend to have more luck with the men.

I'm 5'10 BBW. Black hair brown eyes

I enjoy reading, games, family trips, random fun facts and and I do have a preference for chocolate of the darker variety but really the vibes are what I'm looking for.

I look forward to chatting!

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u/RowdyMushroom — 6 days ago

20F open marriage girl here, desperate to feel a hard cock slamming into my dripping wet pussy until I'm a quivering, cum-soaked mess.

god i’m so fucking wet right now and my husband can’t keep up i need someone to fuck me like they mean it my pussy is so damn hungry and my nipples are hard and perky anyone up for a real good time i’m playing with myself and it’s not enough i need a real cock to stretch me out and make me cum hard inbox is open and don’t be shy.

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u/manubeauty — 5 days ago

20f open marriage girl here, begging for a hard cock to pound my pussy until I'm a trembling, cum-filled mess.

i'm here with my fingers in my pussy right now it's soaking wet and my nipples are rock hard ... someone come fuck me until i'm dripping with your cum anyone up for making me scream tonight??

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u/manubeauty — 6 days ago

22 [F4A] Online~ looking for a friends with benefits type of situation.

as a young wife who’s in a semi open relationship, I’d like to find a nice & exciting new person in my life. I love attention & giving attention 😉😉

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u/sluttyywife223 — 5 days ago
▲ 3 r/OpenMarriageR4R+1 crossposts

38 [M4F] Bay Area

I am looking for discreet FWB relationship. Haven’t been with anyone else other than my partner throughout my life. Currently in a dead bedroom situation due to wife’s health issues and looking for companionship.

We can connect online, chat, sext, share kinks, meet over a coffee and see if we connect. Not looking for SB or paid sex. If interested DM me. Open to couples or F

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u/Safe_Leather4234 — 5 days ago

20f open marriage girl here, dripping wet and desperate to be fucked until I can't walk straight.

i'm sitting here in my living room my husband's out for the night and i'm so fucking wet i can feel it dripping down my thighs my nipples are hard and perky begging to be sucked on my ass is so sore from the spanking i gave myself earlier ... someone come fuck me please i need a cock in me so bad my toys just aren't cutting it anymore one of you better be able to make me scream i'm begging for it anyone up for the challenge my inbox is open and ready for dirty pics or whatever you got

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u/wemetinmay — 7 days ago