r/OpenMarriageR4R

36F (F4M) Seeking Online FWB. 34M-46M. Located in the PNW preferred. Must be experienced in open relationships. Please read what I’m looking for below⬇️

Hi! I’m Missy! I’m looking for an attractive but sweet online fwb. Preferably someone in the PNW incase it were to become an in person connection eventually.

Seeking someone with some depth. I am mainly attracted to blue collar types but that isn’t a necessity. I’m into short hair/beards.Straight Caucasians.Excellent hygiene ( you look clean and put together in photos). No smoking/chewing tobacco. Nice smile.
Body type I’m attracted to is fit, a little dad bod is ok too! I value friendship and conversation and great communication. I’m not seeking a romantic connection, however I am wanting someone who wants to connect on more than just the sexual. Must be great at chatting and reciprocating effort.
Please no drama. If you’re married I’m fine with chatting,but she must know you’re here. Only those with completely open communication with their spouse. No one that’s been in the open lifestyle less than a year. I’m experienced in this lifestyle and ready for a connection where the other person knows what they want, with excellent communication.
I have pics of my body on my profile for reference. Thanks! :)
Lastly, I have my DM’s closed. If you’ve made it this far, leave something in the comments and I’ll message you if I’m interested in your intro and or profile. Thanks for reading my novel!!

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u/mischievousmissy7 — 1 day ago
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33 [F4M] Well yeah, there are cosmic horrors at 2 a.m. here. I'm from the U.S.-Central-⌛ However, I want online only worldwide connections and even if my post is older than a fk ass Dragon Priest anyways.

Yeah, I should also include that if you're also just sad, depressed, needing a 🛟 and a night🦉 then just send me a mess. No low effort mess will be accepted and I'm not looking for friends/flings as well.

No comments on my post, I don't respond to low effort posts, posts that don't include your interest and hobbies because I will not do that for you alongside with I'd understand why Redditors hide behind a main pro anyways.  

However, I should also let the Redditors know before reading this if you don't know what dryer than a Ash Yam is then you've not played Skyrim yet and no you don't have to be a heavy video gamer to message me anyways. 

This also here of it all will waste your time, if you're someone that loves monologue convos, not interested in threading the 🪡 

(This is a Sleep Token pun and if you don't know what Sleep Token is then my Dawnstar museum profile can guide you anyways.)

Yeah, I should also address this also means that I'm just  the type of person that enjoys when our convos continue-over till the next day and when I wake up I will be instantly looking for your reply back as well. (after a few moments, my eyes have adjusted to the living once again anyways.)

However, I should include that I'd gather from past experiences SOME people don't find this ''cute, but I think this is cute.'' 

Even then if you don't find this cute then that's fine because I'll keep threading the 🪡 because the night belongs to me until someone special enters my digital realm, offering me a blacklist paradise and diamonds in the trees my love.

I'd enjoy earrings on guys, the same way with if a guy is enjoy history, reading a book, gardening, baking, walks in nature, picking up mushroom or other earthy things, or artsy, crafty, loves knitting then you can geek out all you want doing that and you don't need to ''hide.'' because your interest and hobbies are kool anyways.

While I don't partake in those, I'd enjoy listening to people's hobbies and interest that some others might find ''well I'm going to go to sleep now, those interest and hobbies aren't kool enough.'' 

However, if you're into witty, funny, funny comebacks and banter then you should send me a chat req as well.

My personality type if this fits what you're looking for.

Airy, funny, sassy, no-filters, understand that I've separation anxiety, understand that I'm autistic and I might need you to clarify things because I'd take things to a literal poinT or I might miss a joke you're making.

My type of vibes are friendly sfw cheek/sassy, I might get mystified if you say something that is an 🩶 quality in a friendly-mannerism and tell you ''oh you could sound like a future 💚 of mine.''

However, I should also include that I think this app is terrible for messaging and all convos will be going to Dis as well. 

How can I create a high quality chat req that you will accept?

Here are some helpful tips to create your mixer.

Read something you've not yet on my profile. 

Sleep Token pun.

Old-skool video game pun.

What video game character would I be based on how I type my post or what Kingdom Hearts character would I be passed on how I type my post?

If you love to cook or bake what would you make me on my journey to Dagon's docks.

If you were to fix me a food in Skyrim based on my pro-summary what would that be?

If I was/were a drink because you work at a bartender, what would you serve me at Devil's Reef Pub 🪸

If you were to offer Dagon something in a bucket? Could you include that in emojis?

Don't enjoy these mixer ideas? 

Then create your own high quality ver 🐋

However, I should address that I'm also looking for Redditors that are interested in helping me create a small-private-Dis-ser for Redditors that are looking for a safety net because times are dark, times are getting dark enough where there are starting to become cosmic horror noises and I need some mods-that would love to help out with keeping this place toxic free anyways..

Yeah, I should address that it would be cool if the mods-could allow mild cosmic horrors but not to the poinT where things make you feel like this and this is my favorite second band besides Sleep Token is I See Stars, I will die on this hill but Treehouse is their best album and The Wheel has a few songs that make me feel crying alone in Dagon's docks because I don't have that ''special someone.'' that cares with realness that the person enjoys me having them in their life or reassures me.

Yeah, missing those text mess is really depressing to be honest of it all.

The wheel keeps turning ’round until we’re just the way they want us 🎶🎶 Feels so much like flying when free falling to the bottom 🎶 No mesh net to land easily 🆘🚨🛟 Hold your breath, it won’t be long, it won’t be long 🎤

Even then, I should also include that the lyrics are just sadder at the end of it all as well.

I'm on my way out. My time is running out. So let me leave, yeah. When the lights go out, and the curtains drawn. And the letters come down from the marquee. Will you ever love. Will you ever love me?

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u/PralineBudget4235 — 7 days ago

42 [F4F] Excited for a new connection

Im pretty new here. Looking for a woman who is genuinely kind and wanting to take our connection slow. I have a wife, but looking for a secondary interest just for me.

Someone thats just fun to learn about and has a good outlook on life. I have had a tough few years with the loss of another relationship so putting myself out there right now and it feels scary.

Hard passes for me includes smokers, heavy drinkers, gamers, cat lovers (severely allergic).

A dream would be to find someone who is kind, patient and has space for me. Any time I get to spend with you will always be primal. I love emotional intelligence. Age range is about 36-50. Hit me up!!

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u/PreviousTraining3767 — 8 days ago

38 [F4M] #dallas - You got Mail.

I’m honest and blunt.
Looking for relationships with someone to connect with. To relive all the firsts again, see the text from them, and get butterflies, to escape from my stress at home.

I would love to feel like a priority in someone’s life, not just for bed but also outside. I’m lonely and want a connection.

I love fun in bed, but I need the emotional connection too.

Hope to hear from talk soon

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u/Brief-Ad-6333 — 8 days ago

Married couple seeking a long term relationship with a guy.

43m/46f here. Married 19 years. Fit, clean, healthy. Hes a well educated career minded military officer. She stays home and enjoys hobbies, hiking, camping, animals, surfing, etc. We are looking for a young male to keep her company. Race doesn't matter, but she's partial to generally "hot" guys who are tall and muscular.

Can be straight or bi. Husband play is purely optional. She is the focus.

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u/Ok_Ground_694 — 11 days ago

Is it okay for me to judge my wife’s job with OnlyFans if it’s our primary income and she makes more than double what I do? 35M and 32F

Is it okay for me to judge my wife’s job with OnlyFans if it’s our primary income and she makes more than double what I do? She says I don’t have room to talk about it because she’s been doing it since before we ever started dating and before we got married, and we can’t pay the bills without her income.

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u/Due_Psychology4288 — 11 days ago

27 M4MF or M4F looking for that fun connection

Hey all,

27M here, anchor partner here!! I am hoping to be that one lover for an amazing couple are a beautiful woman!! Looking to have fun, build a friendship and connection, travel and establish something great!! Not into the mindless hook ups, hoping to have something amazing and fun!! I am tall, dark, handsome and I love to chat! I stay fit, and love the outdoors and travel! I am pretty private and discreet and hope you guys are the same!! Happy to chat more, get to know each other!

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u/Easy_Mirror2032 — 12 days ago

21F Seeking a Generous & Open-Minded Partner

I’m a 21-year-old woman looking for a genuine power-duo arrangement with a successful, wealthy, and open-minded gay man. I’m hoping to build a partnership based on mutual respect, loyalty, and discretion something supportive, private, and free of unnecessary drama. I value my independence deeply, so I need someone who respects and encourages my freedom to live life on my own terms, whether that’s through my social life, travels, or social media presence. I’m looking for a generous partner who enjoys providing and spoiling his companion, while I offer loyalty, emotional support, and genuine companionship in return. I want something child-free, drama-free, and beneficial for both of us: you gain a beautiful, ambitious, and dedicated partner who appreciates your success, and I gain the support to fully embrace the life I want to build. If that resonates with you, I’d love to connect.

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u/herdarkglow — 12 days ago

Looking for someone to fuck my husband while a watch

we’re new to this experience and honestly It‘ll be extremely sexy to watch someone fuck and suck my husband. then maybe I’ll join 😏 or my husband watch me fuck someone 😩 we both share this account, we’re pretty open minded!

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u/Charming-Cry-9762 — 14 days ago

M/F 34/38 4 F

Hi, my husband and I are looking for someone who would be interested in chatting with us and seeing where things go. Currently we prefer an online situation. We aren't looking to change anyone's situation. If you end up wanting to be our LD girlfriend in the future that can be discussed at a later time.

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A little about us, I am a BBW Latina that's 5 ft with brown hair and brown eyes and he is a Caucasian, dad bod that's 6ft 2 with sandy brown hair and Amber eyes.

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I enjoy art, reading, writing, baking, swimming, hiking, board/Card games and more.

He enjoys fishing, video gaming, blacksmithing, wood working, music and more.

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If you would like to know more about us and would like to be with us and see where things go, let me know. Oh and we are in the U.S. if distance doesn't matter to you send me a DM.

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u/BLAoR92 — 14 days ago

[45M] [39F] [MF4M] My wife wants a HUNG Lover

I have the most beautiful amazing wife but one problem, I cant satisfy her. She's shy and religious but also super horny and sex deprived as she says. I'm average size but her ex was HUGE and she only wants what he could give her.

She really wants to be a hotwife and I want that for her also.

Has anyone especially ladies been in this position before where you hubby couldn't satisfy you ?

I'd also love to make some friends as we navigate this new chapter of our lives.

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u/CALatina_Hotwife — 13 days ago

45[F4A] VA/online - Just Browsing

Hello and thanks for reading. Mid 40s, married to another woman and hoping to explore more. I'm extremely open minded and attracted to the same. Open to solo dynamics or sometimes with my partner. Open to all genders, races, sexualities with no judgement.

I'm tall but HWP maybe a little mom-bod, dark hair and eyes. Open to spicy chats, not spicy chats and everything in between bc how else do you get to know someone ☺️

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u/VoyeursAndMine — 12 days ago