r/PakRishta

I’m a 27-year-old male looking for a suitable life partner with the intention of marriage.

Personal Details:

Age: 27

Height: 6'3"

Complexion: Fair

Education: Master’s in Artificial Intelligence

Profession: AI Engineer in a Government Department (BPS-18)

Caste: Jutt

Sect: Sunni

Location: Near Islamabad

Residence: Own house

Hobbies: Travelling and reading

Personality: Introvert, calm and family-oriented

Looking For:

Open to any caste/background

Age : Under 30

Minimum height: 5'6"

If you’ve been called “lambi lambi” your whole life, maybe it’s time we face the struggle together. 😂

Minimum education: Intermediate

Preferably someone who is respectful, understanding, family-oriented, and genuinely interested in building a peaceful married life.

If you feel we could be compatible, feel free to DM me. We can get to know each other first and involve our families if things progress.

Thank you.

PERSONAL DETAILS:

Gender : Female

Marital Status : Single/ Never Married

Age: 23-24

Height: 5 '4 (not too slim , not too fat)

Disability : No

Religion : Islam

QUALIFICATION :

Education: BS(English literature )

RESIDANCE DETAILS:

House : Family owned.

City : Lahore

FAMILY DETAILS :

Siblings: 2

Other Details:

I am mature , calm ,decent , soft spoken and well educated , dressing sense is pretty modern and decent .

I have strong sense of emotional intelligence , acceptance for diversity and differences , deep conversations , respect for personal boundaries and consent , loyalty and honesty .

I believe in treating others with mutual respect . I am more of peaceful person inside out and love being around the people portrays the same . I am very open about talking anything productive on life and be supportive to people close to me.

I enjoy listening music , doing art and crafts , watching historical documentaries and chronicles , learning new languages , baking cake and food adventures in normal routine .

LIFE PARTNER REQUIREMENTS :

\- Must have his own home in Lahore or family owned but separate portion .

\- Must be able to accommodate wife in a separate place/ home.

\- Age bracket between 24-28

\- A job or business with stable income .

\- Must be single/never married .

\- Mustn't have any kind of disabilities.

Non smoker , No drugs .

\- At least have bachelor's degree , and should be decent lookwise and communication wise to match my energy and vibe.

\- Religion wise should be moderate.

\- Ready to marry next year or at least ready for engagement

\- his family should be peaceful ,kind and supportive attitude overall , I hate family politics and drama.

Must reflect the same soft qualities as me written above . I don't tolerate immaturity kiddish behavior , disrespect and breach of personal boundaries .

Toxic misogynist masculinity and alpha male attitude is a big No. I am expecting a companion , a partner , a lover , a friend and a husband , I will be giver and put efforts and so much love in relation if person will meet the criteria .

Note : Time pass chaka party 🙄 , people who wants to see where the things goes and who aren't ready for marriage next year stay away .

No casual meetups before formal family meeting will be entertained .

Only serious and eligible people contact those who are sure they have everything as mentioned above .

Fair warning, I've made it detailed, so brace yourself.

AGE: 28

HEIGHT: 5'7.5"

WEIGHT: 80 kg

LOCATION: Peshawar, Pakistan. Open to relocating within Pakistan or abroad if life, work, and the person make sense. I’m emotionally attached to Peshawar, but thankfully not geographically welded to it.

EDUCATION: BBA in Marketing, MS in Consumer Behavior & Parapsychology, along with professional certifications in marketing, strategy, and business. I genuinely enjoy learning, so there’s a reasonable chance I’ll randomly know something about psychology, history, AI, ancient civilizations, or a subject nobody asked about.

OCCUPATION: I'm a self-made man who's worked since 17, always had great success in the things I've done. I work in marketing strategy, consulting, and entrepreneurship. Essentially, businesses come to me with problems and I spend an unhealthy amount of time figuring out why something isn’t working and how to fix it.

MARITAL STATUS: Never married.

ACCOMMODATION: Own residence.

SOURCE OF INCOME: Marketing, consulting, and business. Financially independent and career-oriented, but thankfully my entire personality isn’t a LinkedIn post. I currently work with a US based company as their Head of Strategic Marketing.

ABOUT ME:

I’m somewhere between calm, curious, responsible adult and “we have absolutely no reason to take this road but let’s see where it goes.”

I love good conversations, travelling, photography, writing, documentaries, gaming, long drives, discovering ridiculously good food, volunteering when I can, and learning things for absolutely no practical reason.

One night I might be reading about human psychology; the next I’m watching something about ancient Rome, artificial intelligence, black holes, or wondering why humans collectively decided meetings needed to exist.

I’m naturally curious about people and what makes them who they are. I enjoy conversations that go beyond “wyd?” and somehow move from food to childhood memories to philosophy to whether aliens would have bureaucracy.

Personality-wise, I’m calm, thoughtful, affectionate, family-oriented, and usually the person listening while everyone else talks. But once I’m comfortable, the sarcasm activates.

I roast people I like, laugh at myself regularly, enjoy spontaneous plans, and firmly believe life is already serious enough without two people making their relationship feel like a corporate performance review.

I’m not particularly impressed by perfection. Kindness, consistency, humility, intelligence, humour, curiosity and good character are far more attractive.

For me, the best marriage would feel like having a partner, best friend, favourite person, occasional debate opponent, travel companion, emergency food-order consultant, and safe place all rolled into one.

RELIGIOUS BELIEFS:

Sunni Muslim.

I pray regularly, although like most people I’m still trying to improve myself and my relationship with Allah. I fast during Ramadan and try to keep faith an actual part of how I live rather than just something written under “religion.”

I believe deen also shows in honesty, kindness, humility, mercy, keeping your word, respecting people and treating others well when you have absolutely nothing to gain from them.

I respect people of other faiths and backgrounds.

I’d want Islam to be an important part of our marriage, but I’m not looking for someone pretending to be spiritually flawless. Two sincere people helping each other become better sounds much healthier to me.

FAMILY DETAILS:

I’m an only child.

My father passed away when I was young. My mother is a retired teacher and one of the strongest people I know. She raised me with a strong sense of responsibility, compassion, independence and family.

So yes, technically I’m an only child.

No, I was not issued a private helicopter and unlimited pocket money. 😭

LOOKING FOR:

Someone kind, emotionally mature, sincere in her faith, family-oriented, intelligent, affectionate and capable of communicating like an adult.

Someone curious about the world. You absolutely do not need to share all my interests. In fact, please have your own interests so we can introduce each other to things.

A good sense of humour is dangerously attractive.

I appreciate women who can laugh at themselves, speak openly, disagree respectfully, have opinions of their own and still remain kind.

I’d especially value someone who understands that marriage isn't two perfect people magically finding each other. It’s two imperfect people continuously choosing to communicate, forgive, grow, laugh and build something together.

Bonus points if you enjoy travelling, random conversations, food adventures, documentaries, long drives or sending me something at midnight because “YOU NEED TO SEE THIS.”

Extreme bonus points if you can tell me where you want to eat without saying “anything is fine” and then rejecting my next seven suggestions. 😂

DEAL BREAKERS:

Dishonesty, disloyalty, cruelty, arrogance, manipulation, disrespect, chronic emotional unavailability, substance abuse, lack of basic empathy, and refusing to communicate when there’s a problem.

Also people who think apologising means losing an argument.

We are fighting the problem, not each other.

NON-NEGOTIABLES:

Serious about marriage.

Honest and loyal.

Emotionally mature enough to communicate instead of disappearing whenever something gets uncomfortable.

Respectful toward both families while understanding that a marriage also needs privacy and boundaries.

Reasonably aligned religious values.

Kindness toward people regardless of their social status.

And perhaps most importantly: we should actually like each other.

Marriage shouldn't just be two families approving a spreadsheet while the bride and groom discover afterwards that they have absolutely nothing to talk about.

PREFERABLE FAMILY SETUP:

Flexible.

Joint or separate can both work depending on circumstances. I care much more about mutual respect, healthy boundaries, privacy, family harmony and what works best for the marriage than blindly insisting on one arrangement.

Parents deserve love and respect.

So does your spouse.

Neither should require destroying the other.

DO YOU WANT CHILDREN?

Yes, InshaAllah.

I’d want us to raise children who are kind, curious, confident, emotionally secure and comfortable talking to their parents.

Preferably children who inherit their mother’s looks and my ability to Google extremely obscure information at 3 AM.

TIME FRAME FOR MARRIAGE:

I’m serious about marriage and wouldn’t want an unnecessarily endless talking stage.

At the same time, I’m not trying to speed-run one of the biggest decisions of our lives.

If compatibility, families, values and intentions align, around 6–12 months feels reasonable to me.

I’d rather spend enough time asking the important questions before marriage than spend the first five years afterwards discovering the answers.

Basically: looking for a good human being with faith, warmth, emotional intelligence, a functioning sense of humour and genuine intentions.

If we can build friendship, trust, attraction, respect and peace together, everything else has somewhere good to grow from.

Age & Background: 26 5'6 | Pakistani-Canadian | Sunni

​Location: Islamabad and Dubai

Accommodation: Owned

​Education & Career: Self-Employed, running a C1 construction company.

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Seeking:

​Age & Height: 28–35 years old | 5'8"+ in height (not interested in younger men).

Preference for someone settled in the GCC. Self-employed or in a good/niche career. Well settled, groomed, well traveled and independent.

Kids: Yea; to be discussed.

Relocation: Open to it under certain circumstances. Probably not beyond the GCC or Pakistan.

Accommodation: Preferably Own.

Living setup: Nuclear; **non negotiatable.**

**Edit: I'm getting so many random DMs. Please only reach out with your profile.**

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About Him:

- Age: 45

- Own business + own house, Alhamdulillah

- Loving, intellectual, and soft-spoken

- Loves talking about science, spirituality, and life

*Looking for:*

- Age: 35-45

- Lahore preferred

- Unmarried or previously married, no kids

- No dowry expected

If you have any khala, mami, aunti, or know someone suitable, please refer 🙏

DM for details.

Gender: Female

Age:29

Current Residence: Glasgow, United Kingdom, originally from Islamabad Pakistan

Complexion: fair

Height: 5ft 3inches

Sect: Sunni

cast: Sheikh

Education: 1st year PhD (Doctor) student in the UK

Marital status: Single

Father: Private Contractor (passed away in 2004)

Mother: lady of the house (housewife)

Sibling: 2 brothers, 1 sister

The elder brother is settled with his family in the UK; the elder sister has completed PhD from a reputable university in the UK, and the younger brother is studying in Germany.

Requirements for a Partner

• Age: not older than 35-36
• Religion: Islam
• Sect: Sunni
• Marital Status: Unmarried/single
• Expectations from the partner: Looking for a suitable guy from a decent family. He must be educated and have a good job. Preferably already settled abroad or planning to move abroad. He treats women with respect.

Deal Breakers

• physical and or mental disability
• involvement in immoral activities
• addiction to drugs including smoking, vaping, drinking
• anger issues
• lack of a future plan

Preferred Family Setup: Nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes

Timeframe for Marriage: 6-12 months

Please only serious candidates approach me. Please first introduce yourself and also send your profile. I am not gonna reply to any spam messages. Thanks!

Hey everyone! I figured I’d give Reddit a try since you never know where you’ll meet the right person.

I’m a 31-year-old Pakistani, born and raised in California, currently living in Los Angeles. Family, faith, honesty, and loyalty are all very important to me, and I’m hoping to meet someone who’s looking for a genuine, long-term relationship that leads to marriage.

About Me

* Age: 31

* Height: 6’5”

* Ethnicity: Pakistani

* Marital Status: Never married

* Location: Los Angeles, California

Education & Career

I completed my Master’s in Civil Engineering at UCLA, but eventually found my passion in real estate. Today, I work as a real estate developer, where I enjoy building projects from the ground up and own properties across the country.

Personality

I’d describe myself as ambitious, driven, and goal-oriented, but I also know how to relax and enjoy life. I’m easygoing, enjoy good conversations, and appreciate people who are kind, humble, and have a good sense of humor. I value communication and believe that mutual respect is the foundation of any successful relationship.

Hobbies & Interests

Outside of work, I enjoy:

* Traveling and exploring new countries and cultures.

* Going to the gym and staying active.

* Hiking and spending time outdoors.

* Trying new restaurants and different cuisines.

* Coffee shops and long conversations.

* Watching movies and TV series.

* Reading about business, investing, and personal growth.

* Weekend road trips and discovering new places around California.

* Spending quality time with family and close friends.

What I’m Looking For

I’m looking for someone who is kind, emotionally mature, family-oriented, and serious about marriage. Someone who values honesty, loyalty, and communication, and wants to build a peaceful, supportive life together. Shared values matter more to me than perfection.

Happy to answer any questions and get to know each other.

Height & Appearance: 5'6", fair complexion

Location: Rawalpindi, Pakistan

Accommodation: Family-owned residence in Rawalpindi

Education: MBBS, IHSM, Kyrgyzstan

Income Source: Currently not earning; I plan to start my house job after completing the licensing requirements.

Marital Status: Single.

I was previously in a family-arranged commitment (engagement) for around six months, which ended mutually after both sides realized there were differences in compatibility and understanding. There are no ongoing commitments.

Religion & Short Details:
Sunni Muslim, practicing. I pray five times a day, fast, and observe hijab.

Hobbies & Interests:
I enjoy travelling, spending time in nature, exploring new places. I’m generally simple, calm, soft-natured, caring, introverted, and family-oriented.

Family Details:
I come from a Punjabi Malik/Awan family. My father is a retired Army officer, and I have three sisters. We are a close-knit family. Further family details can be shared privately once there is genuine interest.

Requirements for a Partner:

• Ideally, someone 25–30 years old, well-educated, and settled in a decent job or business. I value someone who is respectful, humble, caring, understanding, emotionally mature, and dependable.
• Islamabad/Rawalpindi would be preferred, though I’m open to moving abroad after marriage.
• I appreciate a partner who can provide reassurance and support while also respecting my individuality and career. Personality and appearance both matter to me when considering compatibility.

Deal Breakers:
Controlling behaviour, disrespect, dishonesty, emotional manipulation, and toxic relationship dynamics. I value mutual respect, trust, communication, and healthy boundaries.

Preferred Family Setup:
Open to both nuclear and joint family setups, as long as there is mutual respect, privacy, and healthy boundaries.

Do You Want Children?:
Yes, after marriage, with mutual understanding and a decision between both partners.

Timeframe for Marriage:
Ideally by the end of this year. I’m looking for a serious rishta with the intention of marriage, not casual dating or a prolonged talking stage. I’d prefer a few meaningful conversations to establish basic compatibility and, if there is mutual interest, involve families early.

Pictures:
I observe hijab/headscarf, so for privacy I’m more comfortable if the other person shares a picture first. If I feel there is potential for compatibility, I’ll be happy to share mine as well.

Please reach out only if you are genuinely looking for marriage and are comfortable with family involvement.

34M, Lahore, Pakistan — Seeking an Overseas Pakistani Match

Assalamualaikum,

Posting on behalf of a friend who is genuinely looking for a suitable marriage partner.

About him:

- Name: Fahad Tarar

- Age: 34

- Height: 5'10"

- Location: Lahore, Pakistan

- Profession: Property Consultant in Bahria Town

- Marital status: Never married

- Education: Well-educated and professionally settled

- Personality: Easygoing, respectful, family-oriented and financially independent

- Lifestyle: Enjoys travelling, good food, spending time with family and maintaining a balanced lifestyle

- Looking for: A serious relationship with marriage as the intention

Preference:

Fahad is specifically looking for a Pakistani woman currently living overseas, preferably in the UK, USA, Canada, Australia, or Europe. Someone who is educated, mature, kind, family-oriented and genuinely interested in building a stable life together.

Age preference would ideally be around 26–34, but compatibility and character matter more than an exact number.

We are looking for someone serious about marriage, not casual dating or time-pass. Families can be involved once both individuals feel comfortable and there is mutual interest.

If this sounds like it could be a good match, please DM me with a brief introduction about yourself, your age, country of residence, education/profession, and what you're looking for in a partner.

Serious and respectful inquiries only, please.

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F23 Lahore

Height & Weight: 5'3 , 48kg.

Age: 23

Location: Lahore.

Residence: living with my parents. They own the house. Always been here. Will be here till I get married.

Education: BS Software Engineering

Income Source: My parents take care of me. I don't want to work.

I don't get why people get offended if someone is not willing to work. If you get offended and can't be a provider you are allowed to skip / scroll.

Marital Status: Single

Religion Details:

I try to pray five times a day, fast in Ramadan, and try to fulfil my religious obligations. I believe in spirituality. Sunni.

I don't believe in extremism. I stand by everything Allah has commanded.

Hobbies & Interests:

I’m basically an introvert. I don't have any consistent hobbies but I like to try on new things. I love to read. I like badminton even though I haven't played it in a long time. I like k dramas and webtoon. I love crime thrillers.

BENEFITS :

You'll get a loving home.

I'll be your best friend.

I'm honest and loyal. I accept when I'm wrong ( only when I'm wrong).

I'm not a good cook but I'll be willing to cook food for someone I like.

I'm willing to build a life together.

Family Details:

My father is a banker vice president will be retiring In 2-3 yrs,

My mother is a housewife

Two elder brothers. One is a banker ( MBA+ physiotherapy )

The other one is middle child ( MBBS doctor )

We have always been well off alhumdulillah.

Requirements for a Partner:

Age : 23-28

Kind , soft-spoken , emotionally mature , loving.

Honest and intelligent.

Practical and confident.

I'm looking for someone who looks younger. A good background and profession.

You'll handle house expenses and give me allowance too. Please contact if you think Men are providers and protectors of women.

I don't want to have dysfunctional family.

Supportive.

I won't say handsome but at least attractive.

Location: lahore or Islamabad is preferred.

Please dm your profiles instead of asking me to ask you questions.

Deal Breakers:

If you think dating and relationships are normal.

Smoking, vaping or alcohol.

Preferred Family Setup: Nuclear.

Do You Want Children?: Yes. At least after 1 year.

Timeframe for Marriage: 6 months - 1 year

If it goes well , we can have our families meet up.