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I made an app aiming to fix my son’s screen addiction in positive way

There are lots of screen control and enforcement products on the market but most of them use block and limit type of method. It’s not useful to build a healthy habits for kids. After they grow up and become “free” they will likely go back to their screen.
So I tried a different approach: instead of treating screen time as something bad, let them earn it, and let them bank the time so they can learn how to manage the budget.
Do chores, exercise, finish homework, help around the house → earn some phone time. Then he decides how to use it.
The goal is less policing from parents, and more letting kids learn to manage their own time. I wanted it to feel more like a reward system than punishment.
I ended up building a small app around this idea. Still improving it and would love feedback from other parents dealing with the same thing.
LimeTime.app

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u/AfraidRevenue1678 — 11 hours ago

My son screams while gaming at midnight. I'm a developer, so I did what developers do - I over-engineered a solution

My son games with headphones late at night. Most of the time he's quiet. Then something happens in the game and he yells at full volume, waking the whole house.

Talking to him about it works for about 20 minutes. Taking the headphones away works but causes a different problem. So I built an app.

S.T.F.U (Sound Trigger Focus Utility) is a Windows tray app that listens to the microphone and interrupts him when he yells. On first run it calibrates by asking him to be quiet, then talk, then yell - so it learns the difference between his normal voice and an actual shout.

When it catches a yell:

  • First time that session - it minimizes his game, plays a sound effect, and throws up a fullscreen message he has to click through 4 times. The close button moves after each click so he can't just spam-click one spot.
  • Every time after - straight to the desktop with a 10-second message. His game is gone.

Settings are behind a PIN so he can't change the threshold or turn it off. There's a report with a chart showing every trigger, so the next morning I can see exactly when things went sideways.

The important part: he knows it's there. It's not hidden, it's not spyware, the first screen when it launches says exactly what it does. It works because it's a consequence he agreed to, not something I snuck onto his PC. The README explicitly says it works best as something agreed to, not as a hidden trap.

No audio is recorded or stored. It computes a loudness number every 20ms and throws the audio away immediately. Nothing leaves the machine.

It won't solve the underlying issue (he's 100% going to learn to yell more quietly instead of less often), but at least the house sleeps.

Free and open source if anyone wants it: https://github.com/omricn/stfu/releases/latest

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u/omricn — 20 hours ago

I built a gamified chore app for kids. Looking for honest feedback from parents

Hi r/ParentingTech!

I’m an indie developer and recently launched StarKid, a family chore/allowance app I built specifically to make managing chores a little more engaging for kids.

The basic idea is to turn everyday chores into tasks. Kids complete tasks, earn stars, and can work toward wishes/rewards. Parents can create and assign quests and keep track of progress.

I’m trying to build something that actually works for families rather than just adding gamification for the sake of it. I also noticed that the design and feel of many apps were missing.

A few things I’d love opinions on:

  • Does this approach actually solve a problem for parents?
  • Is the gamification useful or just unnecessary?
  • What features would you expect from a good chore/allowance app?
  • What would make you trust an app like this with your family?

I built the app myself and am still very early, so I’m genuinely looking for criticism and ideas rather than just promotion.

Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.starkid.mobile&pcampaignid=web_share

Thanks! I'd love to hear what you think.

u/HornetActive6911 — 12 hours ago
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I believe my 6-year-old niece’s iPad can do much more than show her Wild Kratts and Teen Titans. It should get her to wonder, draw, tell stories, and create. So I built Taroo.

I’m an engineer turned product manager, and I’ve always loved two things a little more than necessary: education and games.

For a long time, I wanted to put those interests and the skills I’d picked up building technology, towards something useful for children. That became much more tangible once my niece reached the age where the iPad became a regular part of her world.

I’m not anti-iPad. Quite the opposite. It is an incredible piece of technology to put in the hands of a six-year-old. I just kept thinking it could ask more of her.

That thought took me back to Dora the Explorer.

Growing up, we’d watch Dora ask us a question and then stare silently at the screen for a painfully long time while we yelled the answer at the TV. Obviously, Dora couldn’t hear us. But the idea was clever. The screen was trying to turn us from viewers into participants.

Learning games like Lingokids and ABC Mouse took that much further and made screens genuinely interactive. But most of that interaction still happens within rails someone else designed. Tap here. Drag this. Choose A, B, or C. Collect the reward. Repeat.

That works brilliantly for games. But it doesn’t accommodate the wonderfully messy way a six-year-old wonders about things.

Ask my niece an interesting question and she might draw the answer. She might make up a ridiculous story. She might photograph something she noticed around the house, make a sound, explain an idea, or give you an answer you never anticipated.

I started wondering if I could build for that.

Could the iPad provide the spark and just enough structure to get a child started, while leaving the interesting part to them?

That question became Taroo.

The first versions were experiments around this idea. Then came the uncomfortable question every builder eventually has to answer: does this actually work for anyone other than me?

So I spent months talking to parents and educators. I sat through hours of enrichment classes at a school for gifted kids, which was basically the X-Mansion for 8-year-olds. I watched how teachers prompted children, when kids became absorbed in something, when they needed more structure, and when something I thought was clever bored them almost immediately. And very importantly, I saw how their eyes lit up when they screamed “look what I made” in class.

These insights shaped the Taroo we have today, and I’m genuinely proud of where we’ve reached.

Taroo is a world of short creative quests for kids 6 to 10. In Pass the Pen, a child might get the beginning of a strange story and decide where it goes next. Doodle Master might give them the start of a picture and ask them to turn it into anything they imagine. Rhythm Pad lets them experiment with sounds and put together their own little beat. Snap Trail might ask them to put the iPad down, hunt for something triangular in the real world, photograph it, and tell Taroo what they found.

Their creations stick around too, so over time Taroo becomes a little record of the things they have imagined and made. Parents get a window into that world without needing to hover over every activity.

Taroo is now live on iOS and Android.

There is still plenty I want to improve. But this no longer feels like the little experiment I started with. I’m proud to put it in front of parents, and particularly proud when I see a kid become attached to something they made themselves.

If you have a 6 to 10-year-old in your life, I’d love for you to try Taroo with them. More than anything, I’d love the unfiltered feedback: what they immediately understand, what they ignore, what they keep coming back to, where they get stuck, and what they wish they could do that I haven’t thought of yet.

I’ve spent enough time with Taroo that I’m no longer capable of seeing it like a new user.

So please, tear it apart.

u/Fantastic-Fox-8543 — 1 day ago

Looking for a watch for my 9yo

Just talking to his mom and I location, voice calling or voice to text are really only needs.

Any suggestions?

Currently coming off the T-Mobile watch with mixed feelings. Was relatively minimal in features and durable which was good but the speaker quality was so bad at times the calling was virtually unusable.

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u/Carrottimer — 1 day ago

Parents of 10–16-year-olds: how do you notice when something concerning is changing online?

I’m trying to better understand how parents handle online safety as their kids become more independent. I’m not thinking about screen-time limits or simply blocking websites. I’m more curious about slower changes, such as:

- searching more frequently about body image or rapid weight loss

- watching increasing amounts of gambling-related content

- looking for information about bullying or loneliness

- having increasingly personal conversations with AI chatbots

How would you notice something like this today? Do you rely mostly on conversations, occasionally check their history, use parental-control software, or usually find out only after something happens?

If you use Bark, Qustodio, Family Link, Screen Time, or something similar, what information is genuinely useful and what is mostly noise?

I’m especially interested in how you balance safety with privacy. Reading every message feels excessive, but having no visibility at all doesn’t feel great either. I’m interested in hearing what families actually do, including what hasn’t worked.

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u/pedrinho_k2 — 1 day ago

I built an app that writes personalized bedtime stories starring your kid. Free tier is 2 stories a month, forever

I originally built Bedtime Buddy for my boys, 3 and 6. They loved it enough that "one more story" became a nightly negotiation, so I kept building until it was something I could share with other families.

The idea is simple: your child is the star of their own story, in the worlds they're already obsessed with. Their name, their age, the things they love, plus co-stars: siblings, friends, grandparents, the family dog. My 6-year-old is deep in a mermaid phase right now, so a certain little mermaid has guest-starred in about a dozen of our bedtime stories.

What I obsessed over: it had to feel premium and be dead simple for a tired parent at 8pm. Voice input for story ideas ("a dragon who is afraid of the dark"), profiles for each kid in the house, storyteller voices that read aloud (or you read it yourself, which is honestly the best way), and a bookshelf of saved favorites so "read it again" actually works the next night.

The free tier is 2 stories a month, forever, no card required. Premium unlocks unlimited stories and the extra voices.

Would love honest feedback from the builders here, and if any parents give it a try tonight, I genuinely want to hear how it lands: magicalbedtimebuddy.com

u/LuckieBlue — 2 days ago
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I built a diet-tracking app to help spot the link between what you eat, your breastmilk, and how baby reacts

Hey all — hope it's okay to share this here, happy to take it down if not.

I've been building a baby diary app called Cassi (solo dev, dad here, built it because I couldn't find one that did what I wanted). It's in open testing on Android right now and I'd genuinely love feedback from people who actually breastfeed, because that's the part I most want to get right.

I built the app specifically for breastfeeding parents — to help spot anything they're eating that might be upsetting their baby via breastmilk — and it's since grown to track everything a baby or child eats, so you can spot what's upsetting them there too.

What it does:

  • Feed logging with left/right breastfeeding timers (or log manually if you're pumping/combo/formula feeding)
  • Sleep, nappy, and mood tracking, all in one diary
  • Growth tracking (weight/height over time)
  • Optional AI-generated insights that look for possible patterns between your own diet and your baby's feeds/sleep/nappies — this is very much a "might be worth mentioning to your GP or LC" kind of feature, not medical advice, and it says so clearly in the app
  • You can invite a partner or another caregiver to log alongside you, so you're not the only one keeping track
  • A PDF export you can bring to your healthcare provider

It's free to use as a manual diary, no strings attached. There's a premium tier for the AI insights and photo logging if you want it, but the core diary works fully free.

It's still beta — there will be bugs, some screens are rougher than others, and I'm actively fixing things as people find them. If you try it and something's broken, annoying, or just missing, please tell me. That's exactly the kind of feedback I need right now, good or bad.

Link to try it: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.willisshillis.cassi&hl=en_NZ

Thanks for reading — happy to answer any questions in the comments.

u/windeigo — 3 days ago
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My family couldn't put their phones down at gatherings, so I made an app that made the phone the game

Every family dinner, someone's always got their head down scrolling and watchinf reels or gossiping about a friend. I tried the whole "phones away" thing. Didn't work.

So I built Party Line, a free app with party games designed for people who are physically in the same room. Open the app, share a code, and everyone's in within seconds. No accounts, no ads, no setup.

It's got three games right now:

  • Word War — Race to guess a secret word. Use jinxes to mess with other players.
  • Smarty Pants — Kids vs. adults trivia, with rounds that get harder and worth more points.
  • Doodle Do! — Draw and guess. Bad artists welcome (actually preferred).

The whole point was to make something that uses the phone addiction against itself — instead of everyone staring at their own screen, you're all yelling at each other's screens.

Free on iOS: https://apps.apple.com/my/app/party-line-table-games/id6796210448

Would love to know if this hits for anyone else's family

u/marvPH — 4 days ago

I'm a dad who got tired of struggling with parental control apps.

So I built one that would give me more peace of mind: the app blocks certain applications, and my kids have to answer general knowledge, math and other questions to earn screen time. I first made it for myself and my kids, then published it on the store. It's called task4fun, if anyone wants to take a look.

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u/amrpb — 4 days ago
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Reading apps?

We are just starting our adventure with homeschooling. My child is about to turn 5 and although I know we still have time because he is young he seem to be more and more interested in reading. We read books together (story and picture books), listen to audiobooks etc and I was thinking about letting him use some sort of reading app, like 30 min a day when I’m putting his baby brother down for a nap time.

So for the parents that tried those apps, are they worth? Which apps did you use and do you find them working? I’ve seen hooked on phonics, teach your monster to read and other apps/websites popping in my fb feed..

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u/Weekly_Bottle9709 — 6 days ago

Am I the only parent having this fight every day?

Does anyone else have this problem with their kids?
I work all day, come home, cook, clean, do all the normal stuff and then I still have to keep telling my daughter to stop watching videos or playing games and go learn something.
It’s always “ok I will”, “I just started playing”, “5 more minutes” 😂
Then I ask again and again and eventually I get angry. After that I feel bad because it feels like I’m always yelling at her to learn.
I know as parents we need to spend time with our kids, but realistically we also have work and a million other things to do. I just got tired of having the same argument every day.
I tried a few parental control apps but most of them just limit apps or screen time. That didn’t really solve it for me. If there are lots of games/apps they can just move from one to another anyway.
I also didn’t want another “learning app”. We already have learning apps I paid for and some from school.
So I ended up making something for myself.
Basically I choose which apps are for learning and which ones are for playing. If my daughter wants to play, she has to use the learning apps first to earn the time. Then the games unlock automatically and lock again when the time is gone.
Now if I see her playing I actually don’t bother her 😂 because I know she must have already learned to get that time. And now she owned them I can let go my hand and teaching her math at night time. She is now more enjoying learning rather than non stop gaming
That was really the whole reason I made it. I was just tired of asking the same thing every day.
It’s called L2P - Learn to Play if anyone is curious. Feel free to PM me.

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u/Beneficial_Net_6172 — 7 days ago

I built an app for all the things I want to experience with my kid someday

I built an app for all the things I want to experience with my kid someday

The idea came from a problem I kept having myself.
I’d see a movie, game, book or activity and think:
“This would be great to do with my son.”

But often he’s simply too young for it right now.
And realistically, by the time he’s old enough, I’ll probably have forgotten half of those ideas.

So I built Kids Bucket List.

It’s a small app for collecting things you want to experience with your child — whether that’s next weekend or years from now.

You can organize ideas into categories, create your own activities, assign them to your kids and keep everything synced across your Apple devices.

I originally started it as a pretty simple side project, but it slowly turned into a full SwiftUI app for iPhone and iPad with CloudKit sync, and a Mac version on the way.

It’s now live on the App Store:
AppStore

Would genuinely love some feedback — especially on the core idea. Is this something you could see yourself using?

u/Unfair-Economist-249 — 6 days ago
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Title: I built a co‑parenting app because court was eating me alive

’m a dad in an ongoing custody situation and I finally hit that point where I was like “I either build myself a tool or go broke trying to keep receipts.”So I built an app called Parent Time. It’s basically a receipts machine for co‑parenting: messages, calendar, docs, all in one place, laid out like something you could actually put in front of a judge without being embarrassed. No therapy vibes, no “we’re all in this together” coaching — it’s just meant to keep everything organized and neutral so you don’t look crazy in court. I’m not a big company, it’s literally just me, a hospital worker dad trying to get out of fluorescent-light jail and make something useful. If you’re in the middle of drama and want to try it, or you’ve used other co‑parenting apps and have opinions on what sucks / what’s missing, I’d honestly love feedback. If this post isn’t allowed here, mods please delete. If it *is* okay: would any of you actually use something like this, or am I solving my own weird niche? You can find it at HouseofBlueApps.com

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u/JustAssociate9941 — 7 days ago
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Yes, I hide my phone from my baby. Apparently that makes me a bad parent.

I know how that sounds.
But I work from my phone. Sometimes I need to answer an email, check an order or deal with something while my baby is right beside me.

What started bothering me wasn’t really screen time. My baby wasn’t watching videos or using my phone.
It was the fact that he was constantly seeing ME holding one.

So I started hiding my phone inside a book when I needed to use it around him.
Some people think it’s clever. Others think it’s ridiculous, deceptive, or that I should simply put my phone away.
I’m obviously biased because this problem eventually led us to create Peek A Book, but I’m genuinely curious about the parenting side of the argument.

Is hiding the phone actually better than letting your baby see you use it?
Or are we overthinking this completely?

u/Effective-Ad-6176 — 11 days ago
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Any Fitness Tracking Apps for Father/Son joint workouts?

My 13 year old son has started showing interest in weight lifting and has been joining me in our basement gym most mornings. It’s been really nice because as each day goes by, he’s growing more independent and it’s becoming a nice new way for us to spend time together and bond.

We started charting his exercises and goals so he can see his progress. But I’d love to have a space where he and I can create a joint workout (same exercises or swapping supersets) but with each others weight and fitness levels.

I was actually thinking about developing an app with him (another interest, and another way to bond), but I’m both busy and not a developer. Does anyone know if a feature (joint exercises, working out with a partner, together) exists with any of the mainstream apps? Has anyone else wanted something like this? I know I cant be the first/only one but I found anything that allows this yet. Hoping someone can point me in the right direction.

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u/onecharteroak — 8 days ago

Hey guys what do you think how pubg is changing lifestyle of our kids?

I’m not saying PUBG is completely bad, but I think we should talk about how gaming is affecting kids’ daily lives.

For many kids, PUBG has gone from being just a game to becoming a major part of their routine. Spending hours playing can mean less time for outdoor activities, studying, hobbies, family conversations, and proper sleep.

At the same time, gaming can have positives too—teamwork, communication, quick decision-making, and problem-solving. The real issue may be how much time kids spend gaming and whether it starts replacing other important parts of life.

Parents also have a role here. Instead of simply banning games, maybe setting reasonable screen-time limits and encouraging a balance between gaming, studies, exercise, and social life would work better.

What do you think? Has PUBG changed the lifestyle of kids around you? Is gaming itself the problem, or is excessive gaming the real issue?

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u/AccurateDust1538 — 8 days ago
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Made an app to teach my kid empathy through little choose-your-own-adventure stories — emozi (iOS)

Hey everyone, indie dev here. Been heads-down on this for a while and finally shipped it, so figured I'd share.

My kid is at that age where "share your toys" and "how do you think that made him feel" comes up about ten times a day, and most of the "educational" apps I found were either glorified quizzes or had ads/trackers I didn't want anywhere near my kid's iPad. So I built emozi — short interactive stories for ages 5–10 where kids make a choice (share the toy or not, invite the new kid to play or not) and see how it plays out, with gentle feedback either way. No wrong answers, no lectures.

Some specifics:

  • 66 stories across friendship, fairness, and big feelings
  • Fully offline — no accounts, no ads, no data collected, no analytics phoning home
  • $1.99 once, that's it. No subscription. 6 stories are free forever, rest unlock with the one-time purchase
  • iPhone/iPad only for now

Genuinely curious what this community thinks — as a parent, is this the kind of thing you'd actually let your kid open, or is there something obviously missing? Happy to answer anything about how it was built too.

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u/boxredstudio — 8 days ago
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My kids (8 and 10) are always looking for a screen whenever they have free time. Is this normal?

My two boys, aged 8 and 10, seem to automatically look for a screen whenever they have some free time—TV, tablet, phone, anything.

Even when the house is full of toys, books, and enough chaos to open a mini circus, their first question is still, “Can I watch something?” 😅 😅

Is this the same for most kids this age, or have you actually managed to get your kids to enjoy other activities without constantly reaching for screens?

What actually worked for you in changing this habit? I’d love to hear what other Indian parents are doing.

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u/ChasingWaters — 12 days ago
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UV index is way more dangerous than heat. I built a simple tool to track it for my kids.

It’s 40°C where we are right now, but the heat isn't what worries me most: it’s the invisible UV exposure.

With three young kids, guessing whether the UV index is at a safe 2 or a dangerous 9 isn't an option, and bad sunburns early in life double the risk of skin damage later on.

I tried using standard weather apps, but they hide the UV index under layers of forecasts, menus, and ads. I needed to see peak UV risk instantly without digging around.

So I built a simple, no-frills tool. You open it and immediately get two things:

  1. The exact, real-time UV risk level.
  2. A straightforward reapplication countdown based on that UV strength.

No clutter, no bloat, no sign-ups. Just the UV facts you need when you're outside with your family.

Sharing it here in case it helps keep your kids safe this summer too. Protect their skin, check the UV index, and don't forget the hats! ☀️🧴👶

https://uvindex.pixari.dev

u/Alternative_One_4804 — 12 days ago