r/PhR4Friends

I'll be blunt: I need a friend. I go on days without talking unless it's for work. I badly need a friend.

I'd prefer a male friend to simulate that companionship in a hetero relationship, but I warn you that I'm not emotionally available. I DO NOT want a NSFW setup as well. I want... a friend. Literally. Nothing else. Parang F/BU if meaning 'non is Furiend Buddy. Friend na, buddy pa. Best friends!!

About me:

- I don't know if it matters, but I'm 150cm, 46kg, chinita, health professional.

- Introverted, but can be chatty once comfy. Occasional awkward, weird, or dark humor.

- I actually mainly speak Tagalog, just comfy in written English.

- Hobbies: anime, casual gaming, reading books, writing. I'm trying my hardest to get into gymming or more sporty hobbies, but yeah, anhedonia sucks.

- Left-leaning, agnostic. I've gotten compliments with my emotional intelligence before, so you can share deep stuff with me — no judgment.

About you:

- Kind

- 26 to 30-year-old professional with a 9-5 or similar, so I can be sure you actually have your own life. I wouldn't be able to keep up with your energy if you are too clingy.

- Someone who is near Manila/Makati (if ever we do hang out)

- Preferrably single since I'd be pouring my social energy with you, and I don't want to cause conflict. If you have a girlfriend though, let them know, adopt me as your daughter, and let me be your official third wheel.

- If you are isolated and broken-hearted like me, all the better. Let's be broken-hearted buddies, work together to better ourselves, and hold each other accountable.

The setup:

- Chats, then eventual hang-outs if you are down for it. I'm not comfortable with calls/video calls.

- For hang-outs, I can accompany you for errands, maybe grab a coffee and rant about life, maybe watch Doomsday together if we're still friends then.

- I'm generally available to chat during evenings (I work a 9-5), but you can always leave a message any time if you're okay with me replying hours later. Again, I'm a friend, not a girlfriend. I sleep early din pala, so I'd probably call it a night around 11pm unless napasarap ang kwentuhan.

- You can talk about your day. You can share about your life. If you have a problem, I will listen. If there's a girl you're crushing on, I will be your hype woman. If you finally found someone, you are free to end the setup for your partner's sake, and I'll thank you for the friendship you've given me.

If you've reached this part, congrats. Sinadya ko talaga na mahaba HAHA if you're interested, please send a short intro about yourself, and if there are expectations or other things you want to discuss before signing the furiend buddy deal :)

Thank you, friend!

since i work in hr, apparently i’ve decided to bring recruitment into my personal life HAHAH

NOW HIRING: Permanent Kausap / Call Buddy

Job Description:
• mag-call kahit walang importanteng pag-uusapan
• makipagkwentuhan about literally anything
• exchange chismis, random thoughts, life updates & rants
• occasionally be productive together (sana!)

Qualifications:
✅ around my age
✅ madaldal / marunong mag-carry ng convo
✅ willing sa calls
✅ may sense of humor
✅ hindi allergic sa random “uy may kwento ako” messages
✅ can reciprocate the energy pls HAHAHA

Preferred Skills:
Discord/voice calls, yapper tendencies, SUPER GOOD LISTENER PLSSSS, genuinely interested, good banter, and the ability to turn a 30-minute call into a 3-hour call.

Benefits:
- unlimited kwento
- random chismis
- emotional support package (non-HMO)
- potential friendship
- competitive compensation in the form of good vibes hehe

How to Apply:
dm me your age, a short intro, and one random fact about yourself.

Equal opportunity employer. No experience required. Personality fit will be assessed during the interview.

HR reserves the right to conduct background checks via vibes only.

Heya! Naghahanap ng bagong mapagkwekwentuhan kasi masyado na akong kilala ng nga kaibigan ko jk. Hoping to chat with someone passionate and gusto lang rin may ibang kausap.

About me:

-loves to read, run and rewatch shows

-food is life and profession

-have approximate knowledge about many things

-enjoys reels/memes/humor but can also have deep meaningful conversations

-passionate and curious. Di pa sinusukuan ang Pinas (minumura lang)

About you:

-batak yung daliri kasi chat lang muna

-similar hobbies

-if you are a creative type, I can be your fan

-madaldal (lalo na matanong akong tao)

-if busy ka pero naghahanap ng kachat, ikaw na to. Makakaintindi kasi marami ring sidequest in life.

Feel free to chat about your hobbies/interests. Looking forward to passing your vibe check.

Hi! Looking for actual new friends just cause. Di naman ako loner haha but I just wanna build more connections I guess? Single mom here, currently working in a hybrid set up. So my life consists of being a full time mom and Work and house lang talaga. I rarely go out cause I’m very hands on with my baby.

So I guess I just want a friend na walang pressure. We could just chill. Co work, watch movies or series, share music or whatever.

Things about me:
- coffee is life. (But 3 in 1 hater, sorry na)
- antukin
- loves crime shows, crime docus and such
- music taste is pretty wide. I just listen to whatever and if I like it. I like it.
- loves to cook when I have time
- i journal a lot and likes to write my thoughts.
- shy at first but actually is very kalog when comfortable na
- still plays CODM padin to kill time haha
- kanal aircon humor
- chill person naman.
- texting and calls are both fine. But usually can call lang at night.
- also currently working out cause post partum body is so much harder to work on. Haha baka gusto mo ako bigyan ng program.

Oki I guess that’s it for now? See you I guess?

Hello friends!
Soooo I have an assignment sa grad school and need ko ng maiinterview baka makahanap ako here.
Pero kung wala naman, okay lang, let’s chika na lang about our life, medyo nabubulok na ako dito sa unit ko. I need a human interaction na. Hahaha.

About me:
-from North Caloocan
-may need tapusin na assignment so pls baka naman huhu
-shy at first but madaldal if comfy na
-cute (kwento ko ito, give nyo na sa akin ito hahaha)

About you:
-from North Caloocan or nearby area
-willing magpa-interview
-an educator affected by the recent class suspensions and is using ADM (yan yung assignment namin pls)
-around my age, -2/+5 siguro para medyo madali ang rapport
-mabuting tao
-maraming kwento

We can meet at a nearby cafe (KKB po hehe), or pwede naman thru call yung interview. Afterwards, magchika na lang talaga. Hahaha. Or kung ayaw nyo magpa-interview edi wag huhu.

Looking forward to hear from you 🥲
Send me a message if you’re interested.

Hi! Im a graduating music student and I am struggling to reach out to people with my struggles. I am preparing for my capstone/recital and Im hella scared and nervous. When times na I do reach out, busy mga tao. Also as an ultra independent and reliable person, people assume Im k and I got it all together tas hirap pa ako mag trust agad whahahaha. Pero Im here to open myself up and connect. I hope na makahanap ako dito ng friend who is interested and curios sa work ko. Yapper and listener ako malala once I get to warm up to you pramis 😅🥹

A bit more info about me:
- I love art, music, anime, and painting
- I also have interest in Psychology, Law, and open to learn more!
- I love vintage stuff! Mapa outfit, music, etc.
- Jazz bar ang vibe ko wahahha
- Di masyadong umiinom at maingat dahil asthmatic HAHAHA

Just message me if yall want to connect! Please keep it respectful and fun! 🌹

Hello! I’m 25 and I’m looking for a kausap. Need ko ng insights from a guy or yung point of view nila.

About me:

1. 25 yrs old
2. I’m kind
3. Medyo madaldal

About you:

1. Please be kind lang
2. Someone na older or same age as me

Hey everyone! I've been wanting to build a community of like-minded people for the longest time now, but something was always holding me back. Today, that changes. I'm stepping out of my comfort zone. I think we could all benefit from having more friends in our lives, especially if you're 30+ like me. At this age, it's a lot harder to make new friends.

That said, I want to start small and build gradually. I don't want to cast a wide net and invite just anyone, and what better way to do that than to make sure we align in our interests and values in life?

About you:

• In your 30s, or almost 30
• You're also looking for genuine friendships
• Not DDS/Marcos apologist
• LGBTQ+ ally
• You're comfortable with speaking English in case my international friends join us
• Any of the ff: gamer/artist/writer/streamer/bookworm/anime enthusiast. Basically, you've gotta be at least a little bit nerdy
• Preferably into indie games like Project Zomboid, Don't Starve Together, Schedule I, etc. so we can all have something fun to do together
• If you have something you're working towards, that would be a cool plus! I'm currently studying Japanese N2 so we can have group productivity sessions

Send me a DM with your intro if you'd like to join! Let me know how old you are and what your interests are :)

and i badly need someone to listen and hopefully help me through it. im a bit lost with everything that’s going on that’s going why im looking for someone to call with right now to lessen the weight.

pref calls

Hi! Since maulan today, parang ang sarap magbasa ng book hehe. May marerecommend ba kayo? Or pwede rin tayong mag-Spotify Jam para may madiscover akong bagong songs. Whahaha. Birthday ko rin today, ayoko lang makaramdam ng birthday blues. HAHAHA.

Edit: thank you for the positive reception. There's a lot that messaged me since the post is up, and I msorty I don't think I can reply to all at once 😅 But I'll do my best to entertain your messages. There'll just be a delay

I've experienced a turning page in my life recently. I took the whole week to reset, and in that time I've learned that I needed to stop myself from connecting with people. I was hoping to start fresh. Semi-clingy, would want to talk frequently. I'll keep it in check, but if that's something you like in a friend that's me.

If you're experiencing something similar, let's talk about it. Experiences are better when shared, for celebrations are doubled and misery halved.

About me:

- 28 years old, constantly making mistakes and learning

- Single

- Working, for a real estate company in Marketing. I can yap your ear off about that

- Lives around Sampaloc area, near SM Sta Mesa. Just in case you'd like to catch a coffee or dinner. I'll treat you when the blessings are abundant or we need to celebrate our milestones

- From the big 4, so expect conyo convos hehe But I can speak in Tagalog if you'd prefer

- Both kanal and Aircon humor. Honestly, I might be leaning more on kanal HAHAHA

- Hopeless romantic, so expect some banats or senti moments. Pero baka vibes mo rin naman so go lang HAHAHA

About you:

- Around my age is fine, big age gaps is fine, NO MINORS

- Single or taken, as long as your partner knows of us. You can even invite them on dates, I'll be the third wheel hehe

- Studying or working, doesn't matter. Let's just talk about each other's days

- Lives around my area as well, or even Quezon City. We don't have to meet right away, but having that option is nice

I can send photos if you'd want to know how I'd look like. I know looks aren't everything, but I want to at least get that out of the way already

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Hello, how was your day? How's life treating you? Do you need someone to talk to or to chat? I'm always free to lend an ear or my time to listen to you.

Baka hindi mo na kaya yung sariing laban na meron ka at wala kang mapagsabihan, Im always here for you. If you're looking for constants or one time chat? Just want to yap and rant? I can be your guy.

This is open to all human beings Including my BROS out there Let's break the stigma THAT MEN CAN BE VULNERABLE AND WEAKEN TO

If this post pique your interes, just Dm me okay? Dont forget to chat your ASL and kindly answer this question so that i know na umabot ka dito sa dulo? What is something that you can't let go as of now?

Hi! 👋 We’re looking for a few new members to join our small Telegram community for people in their late 20s–30s. Mga 40+ na kami ngayon.

About us:
We’re a group of adults who like having fun conversations. We have different rooms for different kinds of conversations, from general random chikahan and hobbies/interests. We also occasionally plan hangouts (over coffee or drinks) and sometimes co-working meetups para sa mga comfortable joining. We’re big on keeping the GC a safe, welcoming, and respectful space.

Mostly nasa Metro Manila ang members while a few are in the provice and abroad.

About you:
28–38 years old. Come as you are po hehe pero we do ask that you’re friendly, respectful, and willing to get to know people! 😊

We are an SFW group chat, our gc name is 30's GC

Verification:
Since we’re a private community, we do a quick selfie verification when you join (selfie with a heart sign). We delete it after verification for privacy.

If this sounds like your kind of crowd, feel free to DM me and I’ll send you the details.

See you! 🙏

Rate me from 1-10! (Warning: May cause temporary blindness)

Hey Reddit, I was feeling pretty good lately about this picture of mine, but then I looked at it for too long and now I can't see straight. So, while I recover, I figured I'd ask for your opinions! Please rate my selfie from 1-10, with 1 being "ew, burn it" and 10 being "wow, stunning." And if you do happen to give me a 10, please buy some sunglasses because I'm pretty sure you've been blinded as well haha. You may DM me for the photo. Thanks!

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Hello, how was your day? How's life treating you? Do you need someone to talk to or to chat? I'm always free to lend an ear or my time to listen to you.

Baka hindi mo na kaya yung sariing laban na meron ka at wala kang mapagsabihan, Im always here for you. If you're looking for constants or one time chat? Just want to yap and rant? I can be your guy.

This is open to all human beings Including my BROS out there Let's break the stigma THAT MEN CAN BE VULNERABLE AND WEAKEN TO

If this post pique your interes, just Dm me okay? Dont forget to chat your ASL and kindly answer this question so that i know na umabot ka dito sa dulo? What is something that you can't let go as of now?

Hiiiiii! I'm looking for new friends or someone to talk to.

Yung pwede makakwentuhan literally about anything. Marami akong free time lately and would love to have someone to share random conversations with. Would also be nice to have someone na pwede kong random i-message sa morning or at night. 🫶 Pwede tayong magkwentuhan about our day, chismis, memes, life, or kahit nonsense topics. :)) Not really expecting anything, just hoping to meet some nice people and hopefully make genuine friends. Purely sfw!! :PP

About me:

- Pretty shy at first, pero once I get comfortable, i'm very much madaldal and bubbly.

- 5'3, average bmi, and mestiza-looking

- Currently doing a home fitness journey

- Currently looking for new movies or series to binge watch. Right now, I’m binge-watching Rick and Morty

- Chronically online enough para makasabay sa random memes

If you're free to talk, send me a meme na sobrang nagpatawa sayo recently! See ya 👋🏻

Recently started doing something called "Homework for Life," a practice from Matthew Dicks' book Storyworthy.

The idea is simple: every day, write down one moment from your day that you want to remember. It doesn't have to be something extraordinary. It can be a funny conversation, a realization, a beautiful sunset, a frustrating experience, something you noticed while commuting, or even just a random little moment that made the day memorable.

I'm looking for someone who might want to do this together. We can occasionally share our "moment of the day" with each other and see what stories come out of our ordinary lives.

No pressure to be deep or profound every day. Sometimes the homework is literally just: "Today, I saw a really cute dog." 😂

Let's start with a simple template:

Today, the moment I want to remember is when...
It mattered because I realized...

From there, we can share our entries with each other, and maybe learn something and gain wisdom from each other's experiences.

Quick info about me: INFJ, solo living, devoted Catholic, active in community prayer gatherings and events. I enjoy deep talks, faith sharing, random topics, running, biking, and learning random things.

Basically, I'm looking for someone who also likes noticing life instead of just letting the days pass by.

If confident kang mabait ka, slide in po. 😆

P.S. Sa mga nakausap ko dati, we can reconnect again!

hello!

im currently unemployed (will remain unemployed for at least a month). so naghahanap ako makakahangout sa call, pwedeng yung online din for most of the day. either funemployed or working from home sana.

i can offer constant na kausap. pwede ring tahimik na company sa call. pwede ring ka-watch party ng mga kung ano-ano (anime, sitcom, trash reality shows). pwede ring makinig lang sa music together. i play a lot of valorant/steam games/pc xbox games.

basically, this post is for anyone who's alone most of the time and looking for online company.

im not looking for any specific gender or age. basta 20+ ka and decent/respectful yung personality.

I’m lf platonic guy friends who are a little more experienced/street-smart and whom I can genuinely count on for advice and perspective.

As a girl who doesn’t really have older or street-smart guy friends, I’ve realized how valuable it is to have friends like that around. It’s really helpful pala to have guy friends who can guide you through traditionally male-dominated things, like the gym, car stuff, and fixing things.

More than that, I’d love to have friends who are open to sharing life advice, different perspectives, and practical wisdom. Someone I can ask, “Bro, how does this work?” without feeling dumb hahaha

Strictly platonic and wholesome. I’m also happy to be that kind of friend for you, someone you can talk to, exchange perspectives with, or have meaningful conversations with :)

Hi, Looking for someone who’s into calls while I drive. Help me survive the day! 😊

Discord or TG calls would do.

I’m a working professional and also a business owner. Maybe we can share our thoughts, ideas and rants in life?

Not looking for anything specific. Can be kanal/aircon humor. Just hit me up.