r/PhR4Friends

Magandang Buhay & Happy Thursday!

I’m just gonna assume if you’re reading this… your brain is currently running 37 tabs and at least 12 of them are emotional damage.

Anyway hi.

You can DM me if:

• your thoughts are louder than your playlist
• you’re “fine” but in a very suspicious way
• you’re overthinking something that happened in 2022
• or you just need to word-vomit your entire life story to a stranger

No pressure to be interesting. No pressure to be healed. No pressure to make sense.

Honestly I also don’t have everything figured out, I just respond faster than most people emotionally 😭

I can be:

• your rant receiver
• your “wait that’s actually kinda valid” person
• or just someone who sits in your chaos like “yeah… that’s a lot”

Disclaimer: replies may include:

• unnecessary empathy
• random jokes mid-serious conversation
• occasional emotional intelligence jumpscare
• me saying “wait what” but still listening

Anyway yeah. My DMs are open.

You already read this far… might as well say hi 😌

hiii :))) been inactive in this acc for a while bc of work so now that i got the chance, im here again hehe

about me:
- cat & opm lover !!
- works in gy shift
- yapper (we can talk abt anything, im fine w it)

about you:
- around my age sana hehe
- decent kausap

will keep this short and simple, hmu nalang ;DD if di me agad nakareply, it means im sleeping na (balik me later oki?)

hello! been unemployed for a while now and looking for friends that won’t be judgy on how I don’t have work and been just helping my parents at home. in this circumstance because of mental health problems and slowly recovering from it. need friends to talk to :) promise i won’t be sad or negative or pessimistic about life just want people to connect with and talk with other people outside my family

hello! im currently looking for anyone i can spend time with! either watching movies/series, playing games or just yapping whatever is on ur mind! im ok with calls if u prefer that din

i mostly played cozy games like stardew, animal crossing, heartopia and minecraft but i have some co-op games din like peak, repo, overcooked and roblox.

for movies/series, im more into mystery/thrill. series i have watched: Silo, Severance, From, Manifest, Last of Us, Fallout, Pluribus and more

i also watch anime but di na ako updated sa new ones. im currently rewatching HxH cause the author finally continued the manga!!

anws if any of those are to ur interest, pls hmu in the dms with a self intro! also preferably in the same age range and have discord!

Hi guys,

I know making friends is hard enough, lalo na trying to find people on Reddit who actually live near you.

I like building things, kaya gumawa ako ng simple map app right here on the platform to make it easier to find each other locally. You basically just set up a quick anonymous profile: alias lang, your age and gender, your MBTI if you know it, and your location (nearest city).

After that, you can tap on your city and see kung sino-sino yung mga nasa area niyo.

Sana makatulong!

https://www.reddit.com/r/mazwiz/s/Bgt1YDf9Mw

Like the title suggest.. Anyone here trying to look for a genuine friend and not just a one time thing?

It's kind of frustrating y'all post here but literally no one makes an effort to try and initiate to talk with you without selling yourself first muna which kills the whole thing about keeping things platonic.

Real talk, I think no one's here trying to make real friends, rather y'all looking for someone to hookup with. Not like how it used to before.

Monotonous narin mga post dito..

Sometimes I feel bad disturbing my friends too much with my random thoughts, chika, and nonstop kulit moments… so maybe I can bother you instead 😭 Looking for someone fun and chill to talk to, send random memes/thoughts to, and maybe motivate each other to actually be productive too instead of procrastinating all day 💀 I’m also down for random rants, late night chika, voice messages, and low-maintenance friendships. If you already messaged me before and I didn’t reply, feel free to message again hehehehhehe I probably just missed it 😌

di pa ba kayo nagsasawa tumingin ng mga post dito with all the yaps and list of requirements na kala mo mag aapply ng trabaho hahaha

I understand that we all have preferences and non-negotiables, so sige bahala ka sa buhay mo haha

narealize ko lang, wouldn't it be more beautiful to get to know someone without any conditions and just... know someone?

anyway bye haha

Henlo! Planning a solo (pero pwede na hindi solo) camping trip around Tanay, Rizal, baka may gusto mag join?

I got you covered sa, tent, chairs & table, lutuan, basic gears, lights, airbed. Medyo pa-glamping na rin setup ko so hindi ka maghihirap, promise.

You can bring your friends (pero hanggang 4pax lang yung tent ko). If may extra camping gear kayo that we can bring, g! If wala kayong tent, and also kung di kayo comfortable na makipagshare ng tent, we can rent out a tent sa campsite mismo. Sama nyo na din ang pets nyo. ☺️

Gameplan:
I’ll drive, share na lang tayo sa gas, foods, and campsite fees). I can cook for us, pero kung aspiring chef ka rin, g! 😂 You can join for a day tour (We’ll set up a big tarp) or overnight, pero usually, I stay 3 days para sulit ang setup. Pwede kita ihatid sa nearest sakayan kung uuwi ka na.

Safe, secured, private campsite lang tayo (hindi tayo mag-survival mode), may maayos na CR. Priority ko safety at comfort. Hanggat maari, mag-cacamp tayo sa may kapitbahay na camper din, pero hindi naman doon sa masyadong crowded na campsite.

About me:
5’6, tisoy, IT professional
Introvert (pero madaldal pag comfy na)
Into running, basketball, hiking, badminton, table tennis, pickleball
Mahilig sa sponty long drives at travel

About you:
Masaya kasama, hindi kj
May sense kausap (deep talks, trauma dump or random chikas are welcome)
Game sa adventure

Strictly SFW only, pls.. gusto ko lang mag unwind from stressful work, touch grass, at magkaroon ng chill na kwentuhan under the stars sa tabi ng bonfire.

Kung camper ka na or gusto mo i-try for the first time. hmu!

pls remove this post if hindi allowed. thanks! :))

pero ako lang ba?? yung i’ve been talking to several people on reddit these days from this sub and here's what i noticed, none of them actually stay for long lol. pero it’s really okay lang naman if they don’t, but deep inside, i think i lowkey hope someone would stay (?? lol) i mean, why do i hope someone would show interest like they actually wanna know me? funny thing is, why should i expect i would meet someone here who’s sincere — in this generation?? lol. but yeah, i feel like it can’t be helped bc there are a bunch of people nga naman someone can talk to anyway, like kahit saan, esp one click away nalang lahat eh. like, they can always ghost someone anytime they want bc there’s so much more in the sea, they can actually talk to other people who are 'more interesting' for them, and i can't really blame them for it hehe

i feel like everyone’s chasing a bunch of people to talk with, but they can’t sit with one person and actually take the time to know the person deeply, or siguro ganon lang din talaga point ng sub na to? like halos lahat gusto ng fast-paced tsaka thrilling. that’s why din siguro i really don’t think online dating is for me 😅 (though hindi yun yung goal ko here lol) ngl, siguro i’ve just been hoping someone would show up and prove that i could actually meet someone online, esp here on reddit who’s aligned with me kahit platonic, but nah, it seems like it will never happen.

sana dumating na ako sa point na ill stop hoping and waiting for someone to show up, na ill choose na matulog nalang ako and focus on what really matters hahaha kainis kasi tong mga sudden urge to seek for connection, nyenye 🙄 chz hahaha

ps. this is not an invitation haha pls don't message me, mej nag rant lang me ganon hehe. btw i appreciate if natapos mo to (˵ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°˵)

HAHSHAHSHAHSHAHA SORRY NA 😭 And I have to post again kasi wala ako makausap and wala ako ginagawa right now. I'm not into calls po. Purely chat lang!! HAHSHAHA

You can check my previous posts about me. :> Online friendship lang kaya ko ioffer right now.

Yung ibang nag aapproach kasi iba ang intention sa kalagitnaan ng convo. 😒 Sila pa ang inis ha. Haha

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Requirements:

• Introduce yourself w/ Age. Para alam ko anong klaseng humor ibabato ko sayo 😆 HAHAHAHA (SANA WAG YUNG 6 7 NA YAN)

• May baon na topic! :D

I think nights are harder when you have too many thoughts and no one to dump them on so hi hehehe

Let's exchange rants, send stupid voice messages, overshare for no reason, or simply just keep each other company until one of us falls asleep. Mga 5 am? Charot.

I genuinely don’t know how to make this sound interesting so I’m just gonna leave it here. Kung gusto mo rin ng kausap, please send me a message!

about me:
i am single.
5"3", 81 kilos
chinita
i can rate myself 5/10 looks

about you:
age of 38-45
must be 5'8" and above
employed
may sense kausap
8/10 looks

anyway, ugaliin magbasa.
be polite. if i am not your preference wag mag-DM, kung sino mauna mag-ask ng picture, sya mauna magsend (kung ayaw edi wag).

goodluck! baka ikaw naman ang next na mang-ghost, biglang disappear.

hello. i seem to have arrived at that strangely specific phase of adulthood where making new online friends feels simultaneously impulsive and emotionally justified, so here we are.bcurrently looking for low-maintenance internet friendships the kind where we disappear for days, sometimes weeks, then casually reappear as if no time has passed at all. no pressure, no obligation to explain delayed replies, no unnecessarily dramatic “sorry i vanished, life got hectic” speeches required. just occasional life updates, chaotic observations, unsolicited reels, and the shared understanding that everyone is, more or less, exhausted. also, if i’m being honest, i currently have a mild case of birthday blues and i think i just want people to talk to before i start emotionally bonding with the ocean again.

about me:

- i work in the medical field, so my schedule operates somewhere between controlled chaos and institutionalized instability, sustained primarily by caffeine and questionable sleep patterns

- recently finished Penpal by Dathan Auerbach and apparently psychological distress remains my preferred form of literary enrichment

- attempting project pan while my makeup collection quietly watches me fail in high definition

- i communicate primarily through IG reels and TikTok sometimes comedy, sometimes existential damage delivered at 2:47am

- beach person through and through. something about waves rearranges my brain chemistry in a medically concerning but helpful way

- i have a fondness for matcha, preferably homemade, slightly particular, and quietly grounding in my daily routine

about you:

- possesses low-maintenance friend energy. you disappear, you return, we continue the conversation like a poorly scheduled sitcom

- if possible, i’d prefer someone outside the medical field, as i’d like to broaden my circle and form connections beyond the medical world

- easy to talk to, emotionally reasonable-ish, and not unsettling in a way that would require documentation

- sends memes and reels on instagram, because that is essentially the modern language of friendship maintenance

- has chismis, niche opinions, oddly specific thoughts, random updates, or chaotic observations about everyday life

- strictly SFW. emphasis on strictly

if you’re interested, send me a message and say hi, bonus points for a random fun fact or whatever’s on your mind lately.

ps. this is a repost because most of the messages i received were inappropriate or explicitly NSFW. i am not interested in that kind of interaction, and it will not be entertained.

hi! i’ve reached that very specific stage of boredom where making new online friends feels like a low-effort but emotionally valid life decision. so here I am looking for low-maintenance internet friends the kind you talk to occasionally, randomly, inconsistently, but still somehow pick up like no time passed. no pressure, no daily replies, no “sorry I was busy” essays required. just pop in when life is interesting, chaotic, or suspiciously quiet.

about me:

- i work in the medical field, so my life is basically structured chaos with a name badge

- currently reading Penpal by Dathan Auerbach and yes, I am fully aware I chose emotional turbulence for entertainment

- on project pan mode (aka the illusion of discipline while my makeup collection silently judges me)

- i send IG reels and tiktok like it’s a coping mechanism range is “haha funny” to “why did I watch this at 3:12am in complete silence”

- beach person at heart; waves = instant mental reset button

- matcha enjoyer (homemade, slightly performative, deeply comforting)

about you:

- low-maintenance friend energy (you can disappear and reappear like a seasonal character and it’s fine)

- kind, easy to talk to, no pressure conversational style

- has chismis, thoughts, memes, or random life updates (the more unfiltered, the better)

- SFW only

anyway, if we click cool. if not, also cool. we simply continue as two low-maintenance strangers coexisting on the internet.

final note:

pls don’t be boring. low maintenance doesn’t mean low personality.

i’m hitting everyone up who posts here like 1min-3mins ago and they’re not responding 🫪 care to keep me company while i pull through on my last shift for the week?

about you:
- not a creep
- maayos kausap
- STRICTLY NO FOREIGNERS, please stfu HAHAHAHA
- preferrable 24 up to 30 years of age

Dahil sa init ng panahon, parang akong nilelechon din. 😭 At dahil weekends, naisipan ko mag skip muna ng walking ko today. Tinatamad ako sa sobrang init, kaya lets usaaap!

Short term, constant, or low maintenance!! ewan q sau kung ano trip mo HAHAHAHA madami akong time kasi jobless pa ako, nag aapply apply pa. Sooo it means di pa ako capable sa mga hangoutsxz. Pag nagka work na ako, kaladkarin na ako non guyz HAHAHAHAH

About me:

• Graduate na aq

• Introvert talaga ako di lang obvious HAHAHAHA

• My hobbies are: Walking, mag laro ng Valorant, at gulohin ka. Into reading din naman ako at manuod. Kaso ang lala ng attention span ko kaya di ko lagi natatapos. 😆 HAHAHAHAH

• Masungit daw ako minsan. [ Actually depende HAHAHAH minsan kasi naiinis ako agad pag walang substance tapos ang init pa ng panahon ]

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Requirements:

• Send nalang kayo ng 1 min intro video HAHAHAHA DEJK Basta. Intro or Introduction number XD