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What's one thing you wish someone had told you earlier about sex that would have saved you years of confusion?

Nobody told us anything growing up. No sex ed, no honest conversations, nothing. We figured it all out from wrong sources and carried the confusion for years.

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u/PleasureWithPurpose4 — 9 days ago

Do you actually tell your partner what you want or do you just hope they figure it out eventually?

Be honest. How many of us are actually having that conversation versus just lying there thinking "they should know by now"?

The crazy part is most of us were never taught that this is even a conversation you're allowed to have. So we just… suffer in silence and hope our partner somehow figures it out.

Has anyone actually managed to have this conversation openly? Did it change things? Or is it still awkward even after years together?

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u/WeekendAshamed171 — 11 days ago