r/RHOBHDefect

Season 14, episode 10, at Kathy Hilton's Capri dinner with Boz, Erika and Dorit while Garcelle, Sutton and Kyle are in Georgia.

Dorit talks about the seven page letter she receives from PK, saying he says she needs to start covering the mortgage repayments.

This was filmed mid 2024.

https://reddit.com/link/1uo2u1c/video/ymzre6tf3fbh1/player

Have you all seen the Orkin ad that uses a voice very similar to Rachel Zoe's, and even has her iconic "I Die" line? Very clever imo. What do you all think?

This is from a people news article. David's daughter Sara is singing Katharine McPhee praises. Shes says, Sara pointed out that David and McPhee have "gotten so much s---" about their age difference, with the family patriarch being 76.

"Everyone has an opinion about something," said Sara. "And you know what? They're like 12 years in, and they are happy.”

Yolanda and david ended things in late 2015. If 12 years is literal, which im not saying it is, that would be at least a year of them being together while he was married to yo.

I always thought that he allegedly had an affair with Katharine when they were on that show together. This just kinda confirms it for me. 9 years would really be what you would say if he didnt cheat at very least youd say 10 yrs. It seems very specific to say 12 when thats before he was even separated.

Thats all. I havw no one else to share with ❤️

Doing a rewatch (on season 11, at the reunion) and have to do a little rant.

The most glaringly obvious (to me) reason that all the women were scared to be attached to Ericka at this time was because they didn’t want to have used the funds from Ericka’s business. They were nervous to be complicit. Legally or not. It’s not great for them knowing that they had used her private jets, been to her extravagant shows and her insane luxury office while worshiping her “it’s expensive to be me” persona.

However it’s neverrr brought up this way. The way it’s portrayed is that they’re nervous of their reputation or being subpoenaed for their accounts of what happened. if the other women were worried about being complicit, then bravo was as well. It makes me think about how the other women either had to filter themselves and say it was about mainly their reputation, or if bravo chopped it up so much that we didn’t really hear those parts.

Maybe this is a common thought but rewatches always give me some more context. Not that it matters much because I found myself defending Ericka quite a bit in the most reason season lol. Thank you for coming to my TED talk, fellow defects.

The so-called "main" RHOBH group has so many cruel posts, comments, and personal attacks.... and not just toward the HWs, but toward us fans too! And ..... even the moderators themselves participate in this toxic tone. I've also had completely harmless comments of my own removed. Meanwhile genuinely degrading or mocking comments toward both HWs and viewers stay up, including comments made by moderators.....

For a lot of us, this space is the only place we have to talk RHOBH because nobody in our real lives watches it. Hoping that when S16 starts, more people who are looking for actual discussion and basic human decency find their way here. Not because everyone has to agree, but because it should be possible to disagree, joke around, and talk about the show without everything turning into hostility.

Listen, I'm a sensitive person. I cry very easily, and I've spent my whole life being made fun of and told that being sensitive is less than. I find it so telling that many people will support the meanest members of real housewives, but heaven forbid Sutton shows emotions and advocates for herself when her feelings are hurt. I understand her storyline may not be as dramatic or as crazy for some, but I think people reach really far in order to say hurtful things about her. Sutton is not perfect by any means. Part of why I watch real housewives is because I am fascinated by people whose lives are different from my own, not that I support their decisions or them as people. I don't think that she is perfect and without flaw. But I do think that she gets shit on way more than she deserves, especially when you compare her to the other cast members.

For all her faults, Sutton does seem like motherhood is not one of them.

Was Philip the one that Reba described as odd or weird?? Awful thing for a grandparent to say, particularly when it's on camera.

The original RHOBH sub is goddamn awful. It became a hate-read sub. 90% of posts are just some "set-up" for the rabid, lock-step core to all come in and pile on whoever the target is.

If nothing current is going on, they will go back 10 years to find some isolated statement and rehash it but with the purpose to target someone and talk about them in the worst way possible.

If there's nothing current or nothing in the past, they will just make it up. They will use an imagined situation and then discuss it as though it's reality but with the harshest of terms and always targeting the same people that they all agree to target. Facts are irrelevant. It's the most hateful, misogynistic group.

I don't want to spend my time focusing on how shitty it can be but I do want to get this off my chest.

I came here because I have notifications turned on and I got a notification for it this sub even though I wasn't a member. I didn't know it existed until I got that notification. The algorithm works sometimes.

But ultimately I have this comment that I really wanted to write and post standing on its own but I needed to unload/vent.

Okay so here's my standalone comment about that other sub:

They don't have moderators over there. They have CULT-ivators.

This is nerd level snark, I know.