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31/36 [MF4M] #San Francisco - bf vetting for another male to satisfy gf

My boyfriend (M31) and I (F36) have been fantasizing for quite a bit about this and we’ve finally decided to take the plunge for our very first MMF threesome.

We’re both excited but also a little nervous. We desire for someone who will make this comfortable, fun, and safe for all of us. It’s also okay if this would be a first for you too :)

I really want to service my bf and fulfill his biggest fantasy.
And as much as I want to please our deep desires, let’s say I have some terms and conditions:

  1. A single guy who is experienced, patient, and genuinely respectful.
    2 Must have a clean, sober body — good hygiene & no drugs/alcohol involved during our first meet n greet.
  2. Someone who understands boundaries and is happy to go slow. This is our first time doing anything like this, so communication, checking in, and taking things at our pace is non-negotiable.
  3. For the safety of all of use we would request for condoms / safer sex practices especially with consent.
  4. We are happy, good energetic couple who are drama-free and easy to talk to, and we request the same for you too ;)

I’d say we’re both fit, attractive, down-to-earth couple.

Me, the gf, would like to start with some chatting/sexting with you (here on reddit or elsewhere), to see if the energy feels right. Eventually meet in person to feel if there is some chemistry.

I wouldn’t want to rush you nor take you out of your comfort zone.

If you’re interested, please send a message with:
• A bit about yourself (age, location, any experiences)
• A recent face + body pic (we’ll share ours too after some back and forth)

We live in San Francisco and can host in a hotel or travel a reasonable distance.
Thank you for reading - we really appreciate respectful replies. Also, please no pushy messages.

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u/DegreeProfessional58 — 20 hours ago
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55[M4F]#Northbay - Let's make Strip Game Sunday a thing #online

Sunday just seems like a perfect day to play strip games. (Honestly, every day is a great day to play a strip game) I think it would be fun to play (and lose at ) some kind of a strip game online. I'll give you great odds if you like.

I'm a good looking 50 something white guy. Let me know if you're interested.

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u/My_1st — 1 day ago
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40 [M4M] #SanFrancisco - looking for a jerkbud, can host Tuesday/Wednesday

Reasonably fit/hung guy here looking for a fun and verbal jerkbro. Mostly straight but into a variety of porn. Looking to have a fun time getting off to stuff we both find hot. Hit me up with stats and what you like to jerk to and let’s goon out.

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u/justonemorething22 — 1 day ago
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32 [F4M] #SanFrancisco - experienced kinkster seeking fwb

Hi I'm 32F experienced kinky SIZE queen seeking consistent FWB type/fuck buddy. let's cut to the chase. I can share my HWP in the dms.

🫵🏽 You must be 7in+ (non negotiable) and live in the 415 area. Not interested in anyone outside of the city.

My kinky preferences
Open to all races/body types. Pls be 33yr-52yr. Open to MMF or MMMF. No MF couples.
I have an oral fixation 👅 i'm often told I'm good with
my mouth. No 🐱eaters. Yes, I like anal. Sadists and dom types to
the front please.

Yes, I'm DDF and can provide recent test results.

Weeding out the flaky peeps pls be patient 🫰🏽

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u/Puzzleheaded_Run6603 — 2 days ago
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32 [F4R] #Milpitas - Mainly looking for conversation

Hi, ya'll.
It's as the title says. Hoping to meet new people to get out of bed for and talk about menial things with (anime, personal tea, actual tea, games) and personal goings-on.
I'm not lonely per se- I already go out plenty with friends. There's just something nice about talking to someone that's more a stranger than a friend that makes them easier to talk with sometimes. If you feel similarly, perhaps I can be that for you as well.

I know I could post in plenty other subs for conversation or to vent, but I'm posting here because I'd be open to meeting people in real life. I'd just like to chat online for a bit before deciding if things feel right.

So if my mess of a pitch sounds like something you're interested in, send me a PM! and tell me
-your choice of weapon in a battle between you and a large army of bipedal horses (don't worry you have the main character buff so you can wield/summon whatever/whomstever)
and/or
-a fact about you like your sign (I'm a stop sign!)

Don't be one of the many weirdos that breaks Rule 6 of the sub.
If you do break it tho pls know that I find you funny (derogatory).

Bonus points (worth exactly 2 whole nothings) if you send me a picture of your iliac crest sans genitals. Gotta make good on my username! Sexual conversation is fine, but if I may be completely honest- I'm not feeling it. So forgive me if I just don't respond to anything like that.

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u/PM_ME_UR_ILIAC_CREST — 3 days ago
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20 [F4M] #Berkeley - a special request

Hi, I’m 20F college student looking for someone older to play out a father/daughter kink I have. I’m sexually inexperienced and not interested in penetrative sex but I’d love to talk and cuddle, some groping accompanied by all the lovely facets of a father/ daughter relationship. Thank you!

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u/RoundMost4687 — 5 days ago
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32[F4M] #SanFrancisco - Seeking a weekend fling in a week!

Posted this the other night, but it wasn’t descriptive enough…so this is my actual Hail Mary, because I have a week left to find this or edit my reservation.

Who wants to spend the next week getting to know each other, finding out we’re wildly sexually compatible and also very socially compatible and then meet for the weekend, have a weekend fling of good connection and fun. I’ll be in SF July 10-12.

I’m not entirely just looking for purely sex . I’m looking for that build up throughout the day that may lead into it if the vibe is there. Flirting, kissing, testing limits, and witty banter. Prior to meeting I need a little rapport before I jump into sexual stuff. Once we’ve established that, I love a sexy little flirty conversation and have been told I’m good at really painting a story with words.

Basically: I want to hang out with someone, enjoy the day and then hope it leads to more by the end of the night.

I’m kind, empathetic and a great ear to listen on most topics. I’m pretty goofy. Love the gym, beer, exploring new places and trying new things. I’m not a stranger to the city, trying to keep it less touristy. I love coffee shops, seeing things I’ve never seen and I’m a sucker for a sweet treat.

Basics about me:
-5’6
-MidSize BBW ~ pretty muscular though ~ willing to share face/full body - just don’t want it in the post.
-Tattooed
-Long black Hair/Blue eyes
-no kids/single

Since this would be a weekend fling, I’m not going to share my page long kink list - but I am a really open person and I’m down to discuss more attainable sexual ventures that could occur that evening.

I have a room I don’t need a place to stay (a common assumption) plans on the 10th but nothing the 11th…so Iwe spend the day/afternoon together hanging out and exploring and rest we play by ear. This is for a weekend thing, no string, but I do live within 3ish hours of the Bay Area on the coast for reference if that matters at all. Ideally you’re between ~24-42ish.

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u/Plump_goddess1 — 5 days ago
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34/31 [MF4M] #SantaClara - Asian hotwife looking for single male(s) for some hotwife type roleplays.

Looking to add single males to the mix. Looking for ages between 25- 40. Hung is plus. Must be comfortable with pics and vids being used. Looking for a mfm type play or gangbang depending on everyone comfort level.

Males must be clean , respectful. Respond with stats. Age , ethnicity, size. Send a Pic and need to be able to verify.

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u/Asianhotwifefantasy — 6 days ago
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32 [F4M] #San Francisco- Weekend fling with out of towner.

Alright - this may be a long shot and this is my Hail Mary. BUT who wants to spend the next two weeks getting to know each other, finding out we’re wildly sexually compatible and also very socially compatible and then meet for the weekend, have a weekend fling of good connection and fun. I’ll be in SF July 10-12.

I NEED a little rapport before I jump into sexual stuff. Once we’ve established that, I love a sexy little flirty conversation and have been told I’m good at really painting a story with words. I’m kind, empathetic and a great ear to listen on most topics. I’m pretty goofy. Love the gym, beer, exploring new places and trying new things.

Basics about me:
-5’6
-MidSize BBW ~ pretty muscular though happy to share a pic
-Tattooed
-Long black Hair/Blue eyes
-no kids/single

Since this would be a weekend fling, I’m not going to share my page long kink list - but I am a really open person and I’m down to discuss more attainable sexual ventures that could occur.

I have a room I don’t need a place to stay (a common assumption I’ve learned) plans on the 10th but nothing the 11th…so Ideally we spend the full day together hanging out and exploring and rest we play by ears. This is for a weekend fling, but I do live within 3 hours of the Bay Area for reference of that matters at all.

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u/Plump_goddess1 — 6 days ago
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33 [F4M] #SanFrancisco - Help me live out my bi MFM dream

Looking for two men to help me live out my MFM/DVP (and possibly creampie) dream. Let’s discuss boundaries, expectations and experiences.

Me: 5’4, 132lbs, very fit/active with curves, brunette, mixed.

You: Strongly prefer two bi men who have experience in MMFs together. DDF and must be willing to get tested beforehand. Will NOT respond to messages that don’t send pictures along with descriptions.

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u/axmes99 — 7 days ago
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46 [f4m] #downtownsf - looking for the late 40’s guy I met at this sub

You: Tall, 48-49, white. We had hot encounters in your office multiple times. You were a great planner and a resourceful one. Who brings ice cold cocktails and warm nachos on a cute picnic night in the middle of the park? Of course, you do!

Me: Tall, Asian, thick. Kinda bummed I forgot to save your info when I renewed my account.

If you see this, message me. I’m planning something (that includes you).

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u/mami_onthe_loose — 12 days ago