r/Scottsdale

Help! Where can I buy really great locally roasted whole bean coffee in Scottsdale?

I sometimes buy antiques as gifts, and I was just thinking sadly about my favorite place that had been in Old Town, called Richard II, which was eclectic and reasonably priced. The owner, Richard Paine, was a terrific guy, smart and funny, but had a series of disasters and is now long gone.

I've bought, as gifts, things like an antique purse, an antique teapot, a serving platter. Do you have any place like that which you like?

What are your favorite happy hours with very good prices?

I'm into the vibey gyms and was wondering about some gyms with good lighting? Fluorescent lights are the worst.

Is there anything like The Vie (Chandler) in Scottsdale?

You may be aware that some cities can have a specific breed of mosquito, and this is the only place where I’ve run into mosquitoes that can actually attack through clothing! Including, for me, even through heavy denim jeans.

For the first time I have a skeeter or two inside, and I haven’t managed to whack them.  Do you have anything you use successfully?

I’ve bought some fly-strips, but no luck so far, and I don’t have high expectations.  And, secondly, if you’ve found a good solution, did you buy it anyplace special locally, or just a standard hardware store?

 

I bet people don't honk their horns so much in Scottsdale or in Phoenix Valley in general. I may be wrong, but horn honking and road rage isnt common.

I really do think the Phoenix area has good drivers who rarely use the horn.

I’ve been working on a local guide for the Scottsdale Greenbelt / Indian Bend Wash Trail and wanted to get feedback from people who actually use it.

The site has an interactive map, park sections, restaurants near the trail, history of the Greenbelt, and some area-by-area guides from Shea down to McKellips/Tempe.

I’m trying to make it genuinely useful for walkers, runners, cyclists, families, visitors, and anyone looking for parks or places to stop along the route.

Would love any feedback on what is missing, what sections need more detail, or any favorite spots I should add. A passion project of mine. No ads or monetary value at all.

https://www.greenbeltguide.com/

I’m considering a move to Scottsdale and would love apartment recommendations. I do not have a job lined up since this decision is still in the early stages. I’ve been doing some research on apartments.com and notice a lot of mixed reviews, with the bad ones being pretty bad. Any advice on which apartments really are pretty bad and which ones you’ve had good experiences with are appreciated.

Budget: <$2300

Amenities: pool, in-unit washer and dryer, on-site parking, gym

Lifestyle preference: I want it to be quiet but not too far from the good stuff like the restaurants and grocery stores

I think this is something I love about Phoenix, the drivers and how they dont actively try to run you over.

I usually occasionally troll here to lighten mood but this time I will be serious.

I will be 30 "in few years" and I know its kind of far away but knowing that youth is over is kind of weird feeling. I guess it has been over for a while but now its really actually over.

I think birthdays stopped being fun after 21 and now every single birthday is a reminder that the powerful currents of time bring with it an unstoppable wave of sadness.

Anyway what happened to you after 30? People already making jokes that I am unc and pushing 90. At first it was I guess a little funny but now I kind of just fake laugh just go along with it. I never made boomer jokes so I don't deserve this.

By 30 my parents had already been married with house and kids. I am single renting and zero kid lol... Whats even worse is I don't think thats changing anytime soon. Finished college, make 6 figures (so exactly 100k on the dot lmao... but saying six figures sounds more fancy) and things still feel tight. Part of this was due to a stupid car lease, but its gone now and I ride bike or take transit now to try and save harder.

I bring this up in Scottsdale sub because I moved here from East coast and wonder if this place is not good for finding people. Everyone already seems to be together and yes I already tried pickelball on Meetup... But whole team is literally like Serena Williams (the tennis woman) and its emberassing making whole game restart over and over so I left. The last group I joined the guy did mid air flip before hitting the ball.

Should I leave Scottsdale what is best state for finding someone? What happened to you at 30 assuming anyone here is above that? Thanks

Curious what are realistically spending for a bi-weekly cleaning service. Are you in the $100, $200, $300+ range? What feels “worth it” to you?

How did you guys make more room to have better garage space in your garage? I have seen some modifications online and was going to ask if you guys know any handyman or company that helps with those overhead garage storage space.

I came across some other home owners mentioning a couple of companies like EZgarage storage USA who does this modifications for over storage, and some others mentioning cabinets from Costco. I'll prefer something local to Arizona or even country wide in the USA alone.

Appreciate any suggestions or recs.
Thank you.

Would love some advice on how to meet people in this area, new around here and looking for people my age in early (20s)

moved to nyc and have been obsessed with sey from Brooklyn. a barista in nyc told me to try futuro in downtown Phoenix as they use sey. any other recommendations? I’m in scottsdale but will go anywhere for a good cup!! Im really looking for a solid americano or pour over where the beans really shine.

I’m looking for a nicer, but not wallet breaking restaurant for a birthday this year. I’m having a cake made and I’d like to bring it to the restaurant have them bring it out, I’m not sure if many places do that anymore. Any help is appreciated!

No idea if this kind of post is allowed but whatever if it gets removed it gets removed.

I’m a 24 year old straight guy. I moved here 8 months ago from the Midwest. I’m not gonna act like I’m the perfect partner, but from general feedback I’m decent looking and am fun to be around. Back in my home state, I did incredibly well when it came to dating and I never had trouble finding people who wanted to go out with me.

It’s completely different here. I haven’t gone on a date from an app in months, which is okay because I prefer meeting people out and about anyways, but when I meet someone and things go well I seem to get ghosted after the first date.

This is happened 5 separate times. If the date was awkward and they didn’t seem to like me I’d understand, but how do I make sense of them complimenting me and touching me and kissing me unprompted and then radio silence after we part ways?

I promise I’m not exaggerating. These women are telling me they want a second date, telling me I’m funny or attractive or whatever, grabbing my chin and pulling me in for a kiss, etc etc. and then nothing. I just don’t understand why, I stopped taking women to dinner bc it stings to pay for a meal and get ghosted and I thought maybe they just wanted to be taken out, but no this shit is happening at the park.

And it’s not just with serious dating, it’s with casual meets at the bars too. Several times I have women coming up to me complimenting me and flirting and making out, and I don’t buy drinks for them bc I have that as a personal rule. They agree to go back to my place and then the uber arrives and they’ve changed their mind. What’s the strategy there? What’s the point? Someone please explain to me what I’m missing bc this stuff never happened to me back home.

Maybe Scottsdale is just humbling me idk, but man this has been an exhausting 8 months. Dont get me wrong, I’ve met and dated some nice girls but this negative experiences are so frequent that I feel I must be missing something. I’m mostly just writing this to vent bc I really haven’t had any proper love in a couple months and it’s getting to me. Hope yall are doing better than I am lol. I fear I may just be a young fool

Edit: Haha I made this post last night when I was pretty drunk and annoyed by an experience I’d just had. I think a lot of people on here made great points in that going out to a bar and chatting up girls or trying to take them home just isn’t a recipe for success around here. I’m part of a run club and am involved in my local city council elections and have met some really great people doing that so I’m gonna start devoting more of my time to those kinds of things. Probably gonna leave this up bc it is entertaining to see all the replies but may take it down at some point. Good luck to everyone and thank yall for the constructive words.