r/SecretFWB

Hi!

Putting myself out there a little… 👀
I’d love to connect with a man maybe even a woman who’s genuinely interested in getting to know someone—no pressure, no expectations, and no need to rush into anything. Even if it’s completely virtual with no in person meeting, I’m open to good conversation, laughing way too much, a little flirting 😉, and seeing where things naturally go.
I’m looking for someone kind, funny, consistent, and easy to talk to. Someone who can hold a conversation, enjoys getting to know the person behind the pictures, and isn’t afraid of making a genuine connection.
Maybe we become great friends. Maybe there is something more.
If this sounds like you, don’t be shy—send me a message! 😊

I am in a sexless relationship and I’m very unfulfilled. I have never stepped outside of a relationship before so this is new to me but I would like somebody I can talk dirty with, maybe exchange videos or pics and then eventually meet up with for discreet sexual encounters. Just want my pussy ate and some good dick to fuck and then be on my way, I’m not looking for a connection. I just want to fulfill a need. if you’re interested I would love to have my inbox flooded with some hard throbbing cocks and some dirty talk so i can gauge my interest and get this going. I’m half puerto rican and half Italian, about 5’7” and average build but heavily tattooed. I’m aching for a good fucking, come get me wet so you can fill me up. Ladson SC. 😩

alt stoner baddie looking for discreet connections. m or f. dms open

Im lonely and need connection. Idk what im looking for yet. Dm me?

Hi, I have a question but im genuinely just intrigued at the males POV for this.

We were a group of 5 that used to work together but even outside of work we became very very close. You know them people you meet later in life that become so important. Eventually, we left the place one by one but we all stayed close.

One of the guys slowly stopped talking to us one by one apart from me. It’s now been 5 years that we still talk here and there.

Around 3 years ago, I had a really bad experience with someone, I went quiet and kind off shut out the world to work on myself and heal. One night he randomly texted me to ask how am I and if I needed anything, I simply said I was ok and thank you for checking on me. He replied with that he knew I wasn’t ok and to let it out so I can feel better, maybe because I needed to let it out I did, I told him how I felt etc. This guy was always known as the least emotional intelligent, least caring and the absolute worst person to go to for any advice as he was always seen as the unserious ragebaiter. However, that night it was the absolute opposite, the way he comforted me, the way he listened really blew me away and honestly I’m grateful because idk if I’d still be here.

Fast forward to now, i genuinely can’t remember how it happened but we always have this inside joke where we call each other ‘fatty’ on the days we don’t go to the gym to force ourselves to go (he’s a bodybuilder), the conversation started with going to the gym and ended in let’s be fwb but we ruled out no feelings.

My question is, surely he didn’t wait 5 years to be fwb? Could it be cmore but he can’t get himself to say it? I’m just confused

Located in NW Houston, fit, active, busy, clean. 6’1 with a very high libido and love all types of ethnicities including Latin, black, and white. Looking for one serious side connection that’s able to have their own life and have some fun.

32F, British Indian, looking to text

I'm m 20 just looking for somebody to fool around with. Just needing a friend with the fun part added along with it

I miss not only the fwb situation but two guys I used to go back and forth with but had to cut them off. One man was shorter and the other was taller. The shorter one, we would watch movies, eat, drink, and smoke together but I enjoyed the dialogue we would have about racism, colorism, economy, etc. Everytime I came over his place he would say, “I got a movie for you”. Then proceeded to say, “This is the realest shit alive” in his Harlem accent that I loved. I’m from down south and we kept this going for 10 months. We argued sometimes but when we got drunk he would tell me how I hurt his feelings and how some stuff I said would get him tight. I feel like some of our differences turned me on the most. I’m 31, he’s 42 so I always jokingly called him old but he kept himself looking good, low hair cut waves, he was dark chocolate, overly cocky but I enjoyed that about him. Just the Harlem in him turned me on. His accent and I always told him that I love his rough hands which was a huge thing for me because I love callus on a man’s hands. It’s sexy. Since a lot of men don’t have rough hands any more. I’m over 250 pounds so those rough hands on my thick skin was perfect when he would caress me. He was the first guy to suck my toes ever. First guy I twerked for. He’s the first guy that I met out here that actually enjoys kissing so we would make up out and touch on each other. We would have sex for hours but we would always start by touching and caressing. But we would have quality time throughout the day and talk for hours before having sex. He loved being held, we would go back and forth between cuddling each other but he wasn’t ashamed for wanting to be held. Lmao. Before we start having sex, he always would say, “You know what to do” as he guides me to the bed. Hinting me to get in the 69 position that he so loved. I love getting my pussy ate and he loved eating me in that position. It was routine and he was all about routine. Me being a BBW and him being slim made no matter to him, he would handle me and my body so well. We would have sex for hours, take a break, either sleep, watch more movies, take a shower then take a nap, wake up through the night or morning and have sex again. When we first met he told me that he was a slut. His honestly turned me on the most because there was no guessing with him. I miss riding his dick on his sofa while being drunk off of 1738. Loved how he would pry my ass cheeks open ass I rode his dick while we kissed. I got aggressive with him one time and slapped him but he corrected me and told me to chill without getting aggressive with me back.

Onto the taller guy, honestly I only miss him because his head game was the best I’ve ever had and I fucked his face as he ate me out. Licking me from my clit to my ass and back up to my clit again. He would suck on my clit so damn good. He made me nut 3 times in one head session before while I was fucking his face and he was fingering me. I couldn’t understand what he was doing but it was pure bliss. I could feel him literally drinking my cum as he’s licking my pussy. his dick was massively thick and long. I’d say about 10 inches and he would cum when I gave him head and he always closed his eyes as I sucked his dick and I could feel him release his pressure built up in his dick when he nutted. One time I made him nut by head three times in an about 30 minutes. one time I made him nut by sex alone 7 times back to back to back. To where his legs got weak. Doing 69 with him was even great too because he loved eating pussy and I love sucking dick especially big black ones. He had the perfect shakes dick head too which made it much more fun sucking his dick. I loved hearing him moan to how I licked and sucked his balls which I stroked his dickhead. I could tell he wasn’t used to it but I loved seeing his face as I pleased him with my mouth. I wish y’all could’ve heard the sounds of him drinking up my cum. It was like a washing machine. I would hold his bald head and fuck his face as he’s latching onto my clit like a pacifier. It was the best head I e ver had but his communication sucks so bad.

So all I have is the memories of them.

These are true stories btw. 🫠

I need people who aren’t emotionally involved in this to tell me what they think because I already know I’m probably overthinking it.
I was casually seeing this guy for a few weeks. We met at a coffee shop, talked for a while, hung out, and eventually hooked up. The sex was really good and we both agreed afterward that neither of us was ready for a relationship, so we were basically going to be friends with benefits.
I was completely okay with that. I wasn’t secretly expecting him to become my boyfriend. I liked him as a person and enjoyed talking/hanging out with him, but mostly I was excited to have someone I was attracted to who I could hang out with and hook up with occasionally.
After we hooked up, we hung out again and got boba. Nothing sexual happened that time besides kissing goodbye, but it was nice. After that, communication became less consistent. He works a lot and has his own clothing brand that’s been getting busier, so I knew he genuinely had a lot going on, but I started feeling like I was putting more effort into making plans than he was.
Eventually I asked when he wanted to hang out again. He apologized for being slow to respond and said we could definitely hang out on a weekend because he’d been busy.
Then the next morning he told me that after we hooked up, he’d been thinking and talking to his ex again.
He basically said he realized he wasn’t ready to start sleeping with people again because it wasn’t helping his healing process. He said he enjoyed being with me and still thought I felt really good, but he didn’t want to continue while knowing he was still emotionally dealing with his ex. He said he wanted to tell me before we got deeper into it.
I was disappointed, but I respected it. I told him I appreciated his honesty, wished him well, and stopped contacting him. We ended on good terms.
Here’s where I’m confused.
Recently I posted an Instagram story. I happened to be wearing a shirt from his clothing brand that he’d given me. He reacted to the picture with heart eyes and replied “AHHHHH.” I didn’t try to turn it into a conversation; I just liked his message.
Then today he liked another story of mine.
Obviously, liking stories isn’t a marriage proposal lol. He could literally just think I look good, be happy I’m wearing his brand, or be interacting with my stories because we’re still cool.
But because he was the one who ended the sexual situation and said he needed to focus on healing/dealing with his ex, the flirty interactions are confusing me.
Part of me really wants to text him something like, “Okay lol I see you in my story likes. Are we just being friendly or are you testing the waters again?”
But another part of me thinks: he ended things, so if his situation has changed and he wants to see me again, shouldn’t he be the one to actually say that?
For additional context, I don’t want a relationship with him. If he texted me tomorrow asking to hang out/hook up again, I’d honestly probably say yes. What I don’t like is sitting here trying to interpret heart eyes, story likes, and little interactions when I don’t know whether anything has actually changed.
I also know I’m more emotionally fixated on this than I probably should be right now. I have a lot of unrelated stressful things happening in my life, and I think having someone fun to talk to/hang out with became something I looked forward to. So I’m trying to be honest with myself about the possibility that I want to text him partly because I want attention/comfort, not because there’s actually anything I need to say.
So, unbiased strangers:
Would you consider his Instagram behavior breadcrumbing/testing the waters, or just harmless flirting?
Would you text him directly and ask what’s up, or assume nothing has changed unless he explicitly tells me it has and leave the ball in his court?
And please be honest if the answer is “girl, put your phone down and leave that man alone” because I may genuinely need to hear it from multiple people lol.

F 21 living in mn! Hmu💋

And any girl for fwb dm me

I’d like to find someone with the goal of being each other’s sexual relief, enjoyment, and most importantly not blow up each other’s lives. What ever situation in life you are currently in does not matter and neither does mine. Single and busy with a career? Recently separated? Married? Etc etc… we just want to enjoy each other and add a benefit to each others life. FWB I suppose or more.

I’m the type of person that needs that warm up period to gradually open up to someone. I excel heavily in problem solving and love working with my hands. I get along with many personalities types and open if you are neurodivergent. +Points to any geeky, nerdy, gamer girls out there. Height tends to be a sensitive topic for tall girls, but being 6’4 I’d be open even to someone taller than me even. Petite girls are welcome too

I only have 3 rules:

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: this is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes it hurts

If I sound remotely interesting to you, don’t hesitate to DM and get a conversation going!

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I love married men or guys in relationships. I’m 23 single from the Midwest . Snap l_c2121

so yesterday, I told this guy im fwb at school i just wanna be friends. because there was too much PDA.
but I kind of regret it cause I really wanna fuck him
and we haven’t fucked yet.

and he hit me with this text today saying

“So I’ve put some thought into it and i don’t think we can have sex with each other n it’s only because sex isn’t just sex it’s a spiritual/soul bond and I can’t have that bond with you if it’s not gonna lead to anything respectfully Sorry but that’s just my thoughts on it “

how can I reply to get him to wanna fuck?

This is what I have so far

“its okay, i understand if you ever change your mind just let me know. i have a free room but idk how for how long. “

and then I thought about adding a freaky text
“i can just imagine being your good little cum slut, il let you take control do whatever you want with me" I mean, I didn't finish the message. It's just a rough draft but yeah.

i don’t wanna leave him hanging i need to reply, with him saying might, theres a chance i could fuck him still( we haven’t fucked yet) we could’ve but I stayed in the dorm a lot. plus i wanna show i also care still. we had a conversation yesterday and I brought up that I just wanna be friends. it’s a long story. I can give you more context if you ask.

he says: So I’ve put some thought into it and i don’t think we can have sex with each other n it’s only because sex isn’t just sex it’s a spiritual/soul bond and I can’t have that bond with you if it’s not gonna lead to anything respectfully Sorry but that’s just my thoughts on it

me: its okay, i understand if you ever change your mind just let me know. i have a free room but idk how for how long.

him: Honestly I don’t think imma change my mind

Actually I’m not gonna change my mind I can’t form that typa bond with you respectfully

You might just have to find someone else to fulfill those needs

this is what im thinking of replying with bc i feel like i came off cold

“let me rephrase that^ its okay, i understand if you ever change your mind just let me know. i have a free room. we don’t even have to fuck we could just hang out in my room i wouldn’t even mind that. but i understand. ik we probably will be more distant n i feel like i barely took the time to type that so i also wanna say i don’t want you thinking sex is the only reason i care about you, because it’s not. i genuinely care about you as a person. and im here for u if u ever need anything.”

Hmm idk what to put outside of what I’m looking for.
I’m looking for Someone of a nerdy type but more math nerd vs starwars or anime type. I’d hope to find you attractive but that’s all relative so idk I’m more into energy and niceties anyways. Please be sweet and kind and def not Vanilla. Ideally we could be normal friends too if you’d like but share naughty times. We don’t need to get personal though. I’m looking for something longish term? I’d like to talk to just one person for a while.

I am not a math nerd, I’m a skinny alt gal and know nothing about math but I think it’s so hot. Also just really into strong rp with effort.

If you want to just dm me a good description of yourself to start thatd be easier for me to go through. I’d open to voice memos and pics eventually but no promises. Hopefully this find someone my type

Feel free to hit me up love. I'm a very naughty minded person and I'd love to make you c harder than you ever have