r/SpermDonorMatch

Looking for donor

Hey everyone, husband here. My wife and I are still looking for a donor. Have posted here before, and got quite a few responses, but then conversations fizzle, so hoping to find someone here that will be good for us. A little background for you, we recently found out my sperm isn’t viable, so rather than just having a transactional sperm donor at a bank, we are wanted to try and find someone that we knew and trusted. I am 23, my wife is 22, and we live in Florida. Feel free to message me, and if we’ve connected before, please say hey again. Look forward to talking with you guys.

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u/East_Sort4156 — 2 days ago
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27F #Portland, OR. Seeking an experienced local donor for NI.

Hello, I dont know if im in the right subreddit group. But recently I've been searching for a nice donor who has a good background that can help me conceive. AI is out of my budget as well as ivf. Im looking for NSA so 0 strings attached. I've tried "just a baby" but still unsure about it. I would love to chat more and see if we can connect. I'm searching for older and all ethnicities are welcomed!

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u/AdventurousRain6171 — 5 days ago

39 [F4M] #Southern California - Serious about having another child and looking for the right match

Hey, keeping this pretty straightforward.

I’m 39, single mom, and sometime around my last birthday it really hit me that I’m not done yet. I’d genuinely like to have one more child.

I’m 5’7, 135, blonde, blue eyes, based in Long Beach. I’m stable, take care of myself, and I already know what I’m signing up for here so this isn’t a random or impulsive thing.

Looking for a local sperm donor situation. Ideally someone open to keeping things clean and clear legally so there’s no confusion down the line. I’m not looking for financial support or obligations. If some level of involvement makes sense for both of us, I’m open to talking about it, but it’s not expected.

I do prefer someone with somewhat similar features and background. Just trying to keep things aligned in a natural way.

Please be serious if you reach out. Include your age, location, and basic stats. If it’s low effort or missing info I probably won’t respond.

Strong preference for someone local.

If you’re on the same page, feel free to message me.

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u/HiddenTruth03 — 4 days ago

We are a married couple [MF] from Hawaii seeking a donor | We would be willing to travel anywhere in the continental USA if we find a suitable match | More details in post

My wife and I are seeking a donor because I'm infertile and have a zero sperm count. We realize that we are unlikely to find a donor here in Hawaii because of how remote it is, so if we found someone suitable that we were comfortable with, we would be willing to fly anywhere in the continental USA. The age of the donor doesn't matter to us; we are okay with any age. But we would like to find someone who is kind and understanding because my wife is very shy and nervous about this. We would also want to get to know the potential donor online for a good while before making any decisions because, well, this is quite a big decision to have to make.

This isn't a kink for us; we would just really like to have a baby, so please don't message us if your motives do revolve around that kind of thing.

Feel free to PM us if you think you might be a suitable donor! 😊

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u/_-_-_Mimps_-_-_ — 6 days ago

ISO of sperm donor in the USA

My wife and I have started looking at donors to get to know. I’m infertile, but we would like to find a donor that share similarities to myself. I have deep blue eyes, full lips, brown hair, small round nose, close to an oval face shape, and am 5’10. Do any of these descriptions fit you any? Send a DM or comment!

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u/Pr3ttyBoy_ — 5 days ago

36 [F4M] #NYC - East Asian, married woman looking for quality genes.

Hi there.

I’m a 36-year-old married, mom of three, living in New York City. I obviously already have multiple children, but I’ve always been curious if I’m still capable of having more as I’m in my late 30s. I’ve previously had successes through third-party donors, but my overall relationship situation, and my husband‘s acceptance of bringing in someone else is complicated. I’m not looking to jump straight into something, I prefer to vet my partners just to make sure that we’re a good match.

I’m short and petite, but I have a very fit and slim build. I’m East Asian. Have a great stable career, financially well off, and I travel quite extensively for work.

I’m searching for someone who is dominant and has an athletic build. Previous successes would be preferred. Not really interested in somebody who has zero experience in this process. I’m only interested in natural insemination as the actual process of being impregnated is quite important to me. Lately I’ve had a thing for younger guys, so if you have experience with the above and you fit in the demographic, I would love to chat more.

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u/Ok_Philosophy_2025 — 7 days ago
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Searching for AI donor near Tacoma WA

Hello I’m looking for a donor near the Tacoma WA area. I’m hoping to find an AI donor preferably (would consider NI for the right donor but not open to it yet) I am hoping for either Hispanic or East Asian/southeast Asian. I obviously have all the basic requirements a clean std check, no serious health issues in the family etc. I am NOT open to coparenting. I will have full custody of the child. Donor will NOT be on birth certificate, have any legal rights, visitation etc. I like to be very clear about that upfront. I would obviously want to get to know the donor a bit first to know what I’m getting into but once the baby is born it would be no contact. I know it may take a few cycles so I’m hoping to find a donor who’s open to helping for multiple cycles and parting ways once the pregnancy is confirmed. Please don’t waste my time if you’re not a good fit. My requirements are not flexible I’m really not asking for too much thank you for your time and if anyone is willing to help and think you’re a good fit please comment or message me.

Throwaway account for obvious reasons.

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u/Additional-Word-1553 — 11 days ago

[33F in DFW] Looking for Attractive Donor

My fiance and I [33F in DFW] are looking for an attractive donor.

Preferences:
- White (pale)
- Brown hair (darker is better)
- 25-45 years old
- Under 6’
- Previous donor or has own kids
- Drug and smoke free
- STI and STD free
- Willing to be tested before each encounter
- Local or willing to travel consistently
- Willing to donate for as long as needed, including for siblings

**Major plus for alternative looking men**

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u/Momsexual — 14 days ago