r/UKgamers

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[51] / UK / PC - Looking for chill long-term co-op / survival gaming buddy

Hey everyone.

I’m 51, based in the UK, and looking to find a normal, easygoing adult to connect with for some regular co-op gaming and a bit of genuine chat.

I play exclusively on PC, mostly during UK evenings and weekends. I'm completely past the phase of hyper-competitive, high-stress games or loud, frantic Discord servers. I much prefer slow-burn, systemic games where you can actually build things, solve problems, and work together.

What I usually play / enjoy:

  • Survival crafting & builder/automation games (Factorio, Valheim, Ark, etc.)
  • Tactical RPGs and strategy
  • Open to trying out other co-op titles if the fit is right

I’m just looking for someone straightforward who has a life outside the screen, doesn't bring any drama, and wants to share some proper conversation and game time without it feeling like a second job.

If you're around a similar age, based in the UK/EU timezone, and looking for the same sort of thing, drop me a DM or leave a comment. Cheers!

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u/thrashlisaro — 18 hours ago

Looking for freinds (f22)

✿ Name: Hidden Rose

♡ Pronouns: she/her

☁ Age: 22

☾ Games: Minecraft, Roblox, The Sims, FIFA, GTA V

❀ About Me:

Hi everyone! 🌸 I’m freshly single and just taking things slow — here to meet lovely new people and make genuine friends first. I live in the UK and would love to grow my little circle with kind, respectful souls ✨

I absolutely love baking and cooking — nothing beats the smell of something fresh out the oven! 🧁🍪 I also love getting lost in a good story: curling up with a book on rainy days, or rewatching my favourites — Disney, Scooby-Doo and Harry Potter 📚🎬

When I need to unwind, you’ll find me outdoors — especially long beach walks and watching the sunset over the sea. There’s something so peaceful about it 🌅🌊

I’m looking for real connections, no rush, no games, no drama — just good vibes and honest people 💛

♡ Fun Fact:

Proud Leicester City fan — come on you Foxes! 💙🦊

✉ DMs: Open — feel free to say hi, I’d love to chat! 💌

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u/hiddenrose8 — 1 day ago

(F19) Looking for more Pc gaming friends!

Thought i'd give this a shot as don't have very many people to play with, i mainly play overwatch but i do have a bunch of other games i can play or i can always get games!! Im sick of playing alone lol and it would be nice to have some people to connect with!! I am a major yapper so can expect that while we play :3

I love horror games like phasmo, sons of the forest, the forest and other two player ones, but overwatch is definitely my main game!

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u/cinnabunxd — 1 day ago

32M looking for regular team mates / gaming friends on pc

Main games I am looking for are Marvel Rivals and Mistfall hunters. Other than that got a few survival games I play from time to time and am open to other games if they appeal to me / sound fun with regulars.

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u/Venomous9127 — 1 day ago
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26M uk PC looking for some solid people to play and chat with on discord (see body)

Huge Warhammer 40K fan — I’ve read loads of the books and watched tons of lore videos currently playing space marine 2 and rogue trader. I’m also really into flight sims and casual flight games, especially DCS and the F-18. I play a lot of War Thunder too and have top-tier USA air. Also been loving nuclear option !
I’m also into milsim games like Squad, Hell Let Loose and Arma Reforger, as well as Space Marine 2, Darktide and Cyberpunk 2077. I’m a big UFO/UAP nerd too — big fan of UAP gerb! I’ve read quite a few books on the topic.

Recently started playing CS2 as well, although I’m absolutely terrible 😂

Drop me a message and let’s hop on Discord!

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u/dahunt4r3dorktober — 1 day ago

2 30+ Lads looking for a few more degenerate gamers

Hello, me and a friend of mine are looking for a few lads or girls to expand the group , we're both on pc, we both play a good variety of games between us for example, strategy, friendslop, Adventure, survival, shooters, extraction shooters, MMO's, 1 of us is looking for someone to play WoW with him as I don't play it :D. but we basically play anything and everything.

We're both just degenerates when it comes to gaming as we're always online, apart from sleeping ofcourse, we're also looking for 30+ people to join us, if you guys have a good amount of banter and can talk some smack then we'll have a fun time.

just give me a message on reddit or reply to the post and I'm more than happy to add you on discord and bring you guys in to the degenerate fold, see ya soon people.

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u/danny2096 — 2 days ago

33F, UK, PS5 looking for new friends!

Hiya!

I mostly play BO7 but have been playing mw3 recently, generally play zombies or mp overall.

I enjoy horror games too, love music and prefer people who don't take everything so seriously and are pretty chilled!

I work Monday-Friday 9-5 so evenings and weekends are when I'm free. I don't mind console or PC players, happy to game with anyone, preferably similar age though!

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u/0ctane-_- — 2 days ago

39F UK | Friendship Applications Now Open

Hello everyone! I’m 39, female, and from the UK. I’m looking to make genuine friendships with people aged 39+ only.

A bit about me:

I play video games on PC and Xbox — I’m currently playing Palworld, Starsand Island, but I also like Assassin’s Creed and Tomb Raider and many other games. I’m open to most games, especially co-op, but I’m not really into competitive shooters.

I also love board games like Stardew Valley: The Board Game and Discworld: Ankh-Morpork.

Outside of gaming, I’m really into Space, History, Mythology, and learning in general. I can happily lose hours in Museums or Watching Documentaries on pretty much any topic.

Music-wise, I’m a big fan of 90s pop and rock, and I also love bardcore. I’ll give most things a chance, but rap and R&B aren’t really my thing.

I enjoy TV shows like Foundation, The Devil’s Hour, and even lighter stuff like 8 Out of 10 Cats Does Countdown.

For movies, I like a mix of genres — The Matrix and A Fish Called Wanda are favourites, but I’m not into horror.

I also enjoy casual hiking (especially the Lake District), Crafts like Diamond Painting, Paint by numbers, and I’ve recently started Soldering.

Reading – If I get some free time, I enjoy getting lost in a good book (Ready Player One, The Lord of the Rings, and others).

What I’m looking for:

I’d love to find someone who actually wants to chat and get to know each other, rather than things stopping after a few messages or days. Maybe down the line we could play some games together or send the odd voice clip on Discord once we’re comfortable.

I’m only looking for friendship. I’m in a happy relationship, so I’m not interested in anything romantic or sexual.

You must be 39 or older. If you’re younger, I won’t reply. I’m only interested in talking to someone from the uk or usa.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to message me and tell me a bit about yourself.

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u/RoyalMidnight137 — 2 days ago

Bought a PC and forgot headphones

I need a pair of headphones for gaming and watching movies, don’t want too heavy, or too hot after a long session.

Budget £100 max, unless you can persuade me. Don’t mind if it’s wired or not. Any recommendations?

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u/FrostyBar3392 — 2 days ago

23F from the uk and looking for some gaming friends!

Hi guys for context I own a PC which can only handle smaller indie games but I do have a PS5 which I use very frequently. Recently I’ve been playing a lot of marvel rivals on it. I’m into horror games, action and adventure/fantasy and multiplayer games. I’ve played blackops, tlou, and currently playing final fantasy etc..

I only play games with my BF as I don’t have any gamer friends sadly but I’m looking to change that! Hit me up if you’re interested and in the same boat that I’m in :)

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u/naranara03 — 2 days ago
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25F/ UK looking for regular gaming friends

Hey all,

I’m quite an active Xbox gamer every evenings. Also a big person for vc call alongside games too.

I play a mixture of cozy/ fps/ storyline/ open world games

A few are:

DDLV
Fortnite
Minecraft
Palworld

Also open to long term friendships alongside gamer buddies should that become possibility.

Outside gaming I work from home so super available. I’m also very into pop music/ baking/ art/ walks/ reading

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Looking for friends! (30, female)

Hi!
I'm looking for anyone around my age that might want to be friends?

I'm trying to put together a small server in Discord of people that regularly play games, that don't necessarily want to play together but just want to hang out and be social. Making friends is hard these days, right?

I'm a bit quirky, so the weirder you are, the better! (PC gamers)

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u/Glass-Cabbage — 3 days ago

25F looking for a long term friend

hiyaa im 25F from EU, looking for a consistent duo to game and hangout with pretty much everyday 😇

im usually home most of the time so i spend a lot of my free time gaming and relaxing. id love to find someone whos also around often and wants a long-term gaming buddy, not someone who’s only on sometimes. plus a friend who i dont need to poke all the time if we're going to play or not c:

games i mainly play:
- fortnite (casual gamer)
- dbd (3k hours)
- outlast trials (600 hours)

im mostly looking for someone who enjoys these games too, as im not really interested in trying other games atm. would be nice to have someone i can regularly play with instead of constantly switching games lol

preferably 22-30, no kids or married pls, just because id like someone with a similar amount of free time. also not really into religion or heavy political topics, so id rather keep things chill and fun. >!EUROPE TIMEZONE ONLY!< >!‼️!<

sorry if u messaged me from my last post and i didnt reply. i got quite a few messages and unfortunately none of them worked out lol if ur interested, feel free to message me with a little intro about urself c:

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u/xoxohearty — 3 days ago

20+ Discord Server for anyone to join

20+ Discord Server (Looking for active gamers)

🔥 Welcome to The Campfire 🔥

Looking for a place to make genuine friends, find gaming buddies, and connect with people who share your interests?

Welcome to The Campfire — a growing 20+ Discord community built around meaningful conversations, gaming, and lasting friendships.

Whether you're looking for a squad to game with, people to chat with after a long day, or a community where you can truly feel at home, there's always a seat waiting for you by the fire.

🏕️ What You'll Find

  • 🤝 Genuine friendships, not just another Discord server
  • 🎮 Gaming groups for a variety of games
  • 🎙️ Active voice chats and people to hang out with
  • 💬 Friendly, relaxed conversations every day
  • 🎵 Channels for music, movies, TV, technology, memes, hobbies, and more
  • 🌍 A welcoming community with people from all walks of life
  • ✨ A positive, drama-free environment where everyone is respected

🎮 Games We Currently Play

  • Overwatch
  • Dead by Daylight (DBD)
  • League of Legends
  • Sons of the Forest (SOTF)
  • Warframe

...and we're always looking to discover and play new games together!

🌟 Who We're Looking For

We're looking for active members who enjoy being part of a community. If you like:

  • 🎙️ Hanging out in voice chat
  • 🎮 Playing games with others
  • 💬 Joining conversations and making new friends
  • 🎉 Taking part in community events and game nights

...then you'll fit right in!

🌟 Why Join a New Community?

Joining a new server means you won't be just another name in a member list. You'll have the opportunity to:

  • Help shape the community as it grows
  • Get to know members from the very beginning
  • Build genuine friendships that last
  • Suggest new games, events, and ideas

We're creating the kind of community people genuinely look forward to opening every day.

If you're 20+ and searching for a friendly, welcoming place to relax, game, laugh, and make lasting friendships, we'd love to have you.

🔥 Pull up a chair, hop into VC, and join us around The Campfire. Your seat is waiting!

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Helldivers 2 players?

Hi everyone :) I just got Helldivers 2 and I don't really play online games, I'm more an offline/1P gamer generally so it'd be cool if anyone here wants to play with me. I'm not great but I'm also not terrible. I play on PS5 but I've got cross play enabled so let me know if that's something you'd be into!

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u/Cyber_ghost29 — 2 days ago

33M looking for buddies to chat / game with

I've tried making these posts in the past but i'd just end up in discord servers with thousands of people and getting lost in the crowd.

Decided to try making a new discord server for people over 25 that want a group to play / chat with in VC. I'd like to keep it small so that we're not just a long list of names in the side bar.

Some interests we might share:

• Video Games

• Pokemon

• Music (Rock, Metal, Pop Punk, anything really)

• Caffeine

• Pictures of your dog 🫵

If you're interested leave a comment or send me a message!

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u/Silthage — 2 days ago

29F looking for gaming friends

i dont really find myself having that many gaming friends atm and i kinda wanna change that so thought id make a post and see what happens

dbd is my main game and probably the one i play the most so bonus points if you play that lmao
i also play repo, phas, mecha, league, fortnite, pal world and ive recently started final fantasy online and im actually really enjoying it which i wasnt expecting tbh

im a yapper and i have a pretty playful sense of humour, i like people i can just talk shit with and have a laugh with without everything being awkward or serious all the time

i dont care if youre good at the games either because im definitely not going to be sitting here judging you when half the time im making questionable decisions myself

would just be nice to meet some people i actually click with and can play with regularly rather than adding someone and then never speaking again

if you play any of those feel free to send me a message :)

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u/sadandtoxic — 3 days ago
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Looking to join a family

I am looking to join a family, I am in the uk, but if there is a way to join families from other countries and you show me how I can do it. I don't have many games as the steam account has just started being used again, i have a couple games like elden ring and dlc, borderlands 3, dishonored 2, spaeking zero, monster hunter world and some others https://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561199482604329/

u/AdventurousCarry9965 — 3 days ago

Looking for gamer couples to join my girlfriend and I (25+)

My girlfriend and I (28&26) are currently looking for another 25+ couple to be friends with! The main game we play are valorant and fortnite but my girlfriend also really wants friends to play league/WoW with since I don't play those. We occasionally play chill games/survival games too and we are also open to trying other multiplayer games if there is anything you really enjoy playing!

Non judgemental/toxic friendship inclusive of everyone.

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u/PietKosen — 2 days ago