r/amityjaipur

hey folks, i live near y’all
almost like 35kms away from Amity jpr
just cleared my 12th and i jus wanna know if getting there is worth it or not
lol and what about the faculty and crowd,
one more thing— is there any hookup culture

any of your experiences would really help me

Yall hostel aate hi tumhe pata chal jaayega ki admission ke time jo bhi bataya tha, sab jhoot tha. BC koi rich class ke bacche nahi padhte yaha jo ghar pe soch rahe the na ki Amity ke logo ke saath kaise match karunga, sab myth hai.

Agar college ke 3-4 saal bina kisi faltu drama ke nikalne hain, toh ye guide dhyan se padh lo. Sorted from most important to least.

1. The Golden Academics Rule: Attendance, Faculty & Project Traps

• The 75% Trap:

Attendance se compromise mat karna kuch bhi ho jaaye. "Hum OD (Official Duty) lagwa denge" waalo ke chakkar mein mat padna. Always maintain above 75 percent. Debarred ho gaye toh bas bahar baith ke shakal dekhna jo exam deke aayenge, fir dhoondte rehna apne bunk wale dost. Koi class ja raha ho ya nahi, tumhe class jaana hai, bas.

• Faculty Se Relation:

Jitna ho sake faculty se bana ke rakhna, main toh bolunga chaatukaar ban jana. Faculty se panga mat lena kabhi bhi internals ho ya external, sab jagha tumhari SGPA bigad dega. Agar bana ke rahoge toh achhe marks bhi dedega aur questions bhi bata dega, thoda emotionally handle kar lena. Agar marks kam aayein, toh cabin mein jaake politely paper dekhne ki request karo, gussa dikhaoge toh bacha-kucha score bhi chala jaayega.

• The Group Project Trap:

Har semester assignment/project milega. 5 logo ke group mein 2 log pura kaam karenge aur baaki ke 3 bas free mein marks le jaayenge. Pehle se dekh lo kaun kaam karne wala hai, clear line draw karna seekho nahi toh credit sab le jaayenge aur mehnat tumhari hogi toh apne according dekh lena log ya faculty se bolke change kar lena group ho sake toh

• The Bottom Line:

Agar short attendance, ghatiya SGPA, ya group projects ke rone ki wajah se placement mein nahi baith paaye, toh fir barbaad hain ghar walo ke ₹10-12 Lakh.

2. Hostel Reality: Bakchodi, Fights, Safety & Wardens

• The First-Year Chaos:

Starting mein hostel mein first year tum so hi nahi sakte, aisi halat rehti hai smoking, weed, fights sab chalta hai raat-raat bhar. Sona toh door ki baat hai

• Handling Fights:

Dekho seedha-seedhi baat hai, agar tumhaari personality hai ki bhai meri ladai hogi hi hogi, toh tumhe nashediyon se dosti rakhni hogi aur unke saath nasha karna hi padta hai, nahi toh tum unke circle mein ja hi nahi sakte. Agar nasha nahi karna, toh pehle din se "NO" bolna seekho. Wo 2 din mazak udayenge, teesre din se poochhna hi band kar denge.

• If You are Chill:

Agar pata hai ke mera control hai khud pe, jyada ladai jhagde mein nahi padta, toh sahi hai apna kaam karna, jyada idhar-udhar ki bakchodi mat lena. Ladai hone pe ek baar calmly handle karke dekhna sort karne ki. Agar choti-moti baat pe log ekkhhata karoge toh mazak tumhara hi batga. Aur kabhi bhi bande bula ke pichhee mat hat jana, tumhara bodyguard nahi hai koi pehle tum aage rehna, baad mein sab.

• The Backup Myth:

Haan, agar ghar walo ke connections hain upar tak aur unhone allow kar rakha hai, bail karwa dete hain, achhaa backup hai VC aur Chancellor se... toh main kya hi bolunga. Bas semester ruin ho jaayega aur photo lag jaayegi entry gate pe ki "bas isko entry mat dena 10-15 din."

3. Social Circle & Classroom Etiquette (A Friend to All is a Friend to None)

• Classroom Entry:

Class mein jaate hi wo bandar wali harkate mat karna ladkiyon ko stare karna, comment pass karna, ya sab logo se jyada hi friendly ho jana starting days mein. Faltu ka ego mat rakhna, calmly baat karna, seating aur attendance ko leke clearly aur respectfully explain kar dena jo bhi scene ho.

• Don't Be Too Friendly:

Again I'm saying, jyada friendly kisi se nahi hona start mein. At least 1 month dekh lo sabko ki kya tareeka hai rehne ka aur bolne ka, aur kaun kitna extreme ja sakta hai. Always listen to your instincts, jahil logo ko muhh mat lagana.

Aur ha kuch bhi ho jaaye kisi ko bina personal mile kisi ke baare perception mat banana yeh bohot dekha hai maine ladai kisi aur ki hoti hai aur jo common dost hota hai usko ek jan apne taraf kar leta hai fake stories se toh tum kisi se mat todna bina kuch confirm kiye kya hua tha kya nahi dono side ki story pata honi chahiye tab ek decision Banta hai aise he kisi ke bolna pe yeh mat maan lena kon galat tha mostly yeh female friends ko target karte hai wo easily manipulate ho jaati hai aur pura kisi ke against kardete hai aur uski baat hone se pehle he perception banwa dete hai toh I request to all the females to do not jump on the conclusion without knowing the whole stuff

• Stop the "Bhai-Behen" Zone:

Har kisi ko bhai aur behen bolna band kar dena. Koi zarurat nahi hai sab logo ko jaanne ki aur handshake karne ki. Like-minded logo se baat rakhna bas. Yeh jitne handshake wale hain, koi kaam nahi aayega time aane pe. A friend to all is a friend to none, remember this.

• The Truth About College Friendship:

College ki dosti hit-and-miss rehti hai sahi rahi toh degree complete hone tak same group ya har semester change

4. Roommates, Privacy, Security & The Gossip Trap

• Roommate Peace:

Apne roommate aur flatmates se kabhi bhi mat oolajhna, nahi toh sab ki neend kharab hogi. Banake rakho sabse jitna ho sake. Kuch mutual baat karke decide karlo speaker ka time aur agar call pe baat karni hai raat-raat bhar toh bahar jaake kar lenge, bas disturbance na ho kisiko.

• Keep Secrets & Gadgets Safe:

Bas jyada apni personal matter mat batana family se related, relationship, aur education loan , anything medical history kisiko kuch jyada batana nahi hai, fir wo use hoga tumhi pe aage.

• The Gossip Loop:

Sabse jyada yaha ladai jhagde hote hain idhar ki baat udhar hone pe, because yaha kisi ke pait mein baat nahi tik ti. Mostly same group mein sabki ek-doosre se baat hoti hai, toh agar kisine kuch bola hoga kisike baare mein, toh woh exaggerated way mein hi pass on hota hai.

• Stay Private:

I know ki sabko dikkat hoti hai kisi na kisi se, but yaha gossip mat karna. Aaj wo tumhara dost hai, kal jiske baare mein baat kari thi uske saath baithe hue milega, fir wahi "isne tere baare mein yeh bola" waali shit hogi. Takliff hai toh apne andar rakho, doosro ko batane ki need nahi hai, jyada hai toh apne kisi cousin ko call karlo. Yaha jitna jyada private rahoge, utna jyada sukhii rahoge.

5. Money Matters & Fake Lifestyles

• Finances:

Apne monthly expenses ka dhyaan rakhna, kisi se compare karne ki zarurat nahi, tumhe kahi fit in nahi hona. Jitna spend kar sakte ho utna hi rakhna. Mess aur other outlets ka khaana ek point ke baad khaya nahi jaayega, toh electric kettle rakhna abhi allow kar diya ek saal ho gya bas induction ki problem hoti hai thodi wo jyada check karne aate hai

Kisi se borrow karke night out ya house party mein jaa rahe hain, ya kisiko udhaar de diye jyada smart banne ke chakkar mein seedhi baat saaf mana kar dena. Contribute karne aur dene mein agar paise nahi hain, toh mana kar do. Plans banao but sabka budget dekh ke.

• The Instagram Fake Flex:

Aur yeh fake accents, fake richesss dikhana Instagram pe (rehta kahi aur batana kahi aur, pura influencers wali feel lena) wo bas 1 mahine chalega. Fir kisiko farak nahi padta tumne New Balance pehna hai ya Red Tape. Koi impress nahi hota bhai kisi ke lifestyle se, wo bhi fake. Jo real hai wo dikh jaayenge. Toh yeh EMI pe cheezein lena band kar dena, tumhaare Seiko ki kishtoon mein 1 saal nikal jaayega.

6. Clubs & Fest Reality

• Clubs & Societies:

Ab aate hain clubs aur society pe. Dekho baat yeh hai ki isse jyada boring aur dead vibe wale log tumne kahi nahi dekhe honge. Toh bas tumhaara thoda time pass ho jaaye, iske liye join kar lena. Clubs ka mein ek dedicated post alag se daal dunga baad mein.

• Fest Politics:

Jab college ka annual fest aayega, toh poora campus C ho jaayega. Societies wale tumhe sapne dikhaenge ki organizing committee mein aa jao, exposure milega. Fest enjoy karo, nights mein jao, par peeche ki faltu ki politics se door raho.

7. Independence & Self-Growth

• Learn to be Alone:

Groups mein raat ko campus mein chu... ke jaise mat ghoomna, baad mein regret hoga. Akele rehna sikho, kisi pe depend hone ki zarurat nahi hai. Khaana khana hai chale jao, walk karni hai ya kuch bhi, akele jaana seekho koi aa raha hai toh theek, nahi toh byeee. (Bonus: Saturday ko bus jaati hai campus se, Jaipur explore karo, wapas wahi se campus bhi leke aa jaayegi)

• Invest in Yourself:

Try karna apni conversation skills ko improve karne ki har tarha se. Invest the time here on your growth fitness, sports, competition sab mein participate karna. 1st year se hi thoda-thoda explore karna shuru karo, khud haath-pair maarne se hi achhi internship aur placement lagegi.

• Seniors:

Kisi senior se help maang lena, sab bahot achhee hain kisi ko sikhane mein. Sahi jagha jaoge toh log bhi sahi milenge bas jyada aage-peechhee mat ghoomna kisike. Kaam hua khatam bas, papa banane ki zarurat nahi hai kisiko. Respect do par unke samne over-smart mat bano.

8. Pre-Joining WhatsApp Groups

• Attention Seekers:

WhatsApp pe jaise hi mentor add karega, kuch log attention-seeking activities karne lag jaayenge random messages fellow classmates ko, mostly ladkiyon ko. Fir yeh group pe baseless questions poochengge jo ek Google search karke pata lagaya ja sakta hai, aur har 2 ghante mein apni profile picture change karenge.

• rawshit:

Yeh sab kar lena, yaha aake hi dikha dena kya rizzz hai. Abhi ruk jao commencement day tak, tumhare Wi-Fi se aura transfer nahi hoga sab logo tak and why u choose Amity jaipur yeh bata ke jaana comments mein

I want to know how will I come to know about top 15 percent of my batch if I m u in that list or not !?

Help or tell me to whom I should contact