r/amwfdating

26 [F] Houston - I love films and literature

26 year old white female in Houston seeking a cute Asian boyfriend! I’m 5’7, a US size 6, 38F cup, with red hair and blue eyes. I’m divorced (married for one year) with no kids. I have an adorable dog and a cat! I have my degree in psychology and I work in HR and recruiting.

I love reading, watching films, and exploring what Houston has to offer! I love the museums, the ballet, coffee, shops, and exploring different antique stores! I love weird art house films and fashion! I love twee and indie music, some of my favorite artists are Mitski and Lana Del Rey. Let me be your manic pixie dream girl!

In a partner, I really value intelligence, understanding of mental health issues (I have severe OCD), and compassion. I also want a partner that enjoys, going out and doing things as well as staying home and cuddling! If you don’t like to read and watch movies, it probably won’t work out! You must love animals. I am also a Christian and my faith is pretty important to me!

DM me an intro and a picture of you and I will return a selfie! No height preferences, but I’m pretty cute so you need to be too LOL. You must be in the Houston area, don’t DM me if you don’t live within 50 miles of Houston.

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u/That_Corgi_4055 — 9 hours ago

44[F] - Bay Area, California. Seeking friend, lover, and adventure partner.

Successful creative business owner with no kids looking for an educated hardworking man to build a life with. I am hourglass curvy, size 10, very active, fun, adventurous and a little bubbly. Attractive with long blonde hair, green eyes and a nice smile. Classy and from a good family. Please be physically and mentally healthy, and live a positive life.

Edit: Locals only please.

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u/MontereyCoastMaven — 20 hours ago

19 [M] Hong Kong - Looking for my first and only girlfriend. It doesn't matter how far apart we are!

(Background)

I sacrificed my youth for academics back in high school and thought I could live happily with someone that loves me in university. Unfortunately it turned out to be the total opposite of what I was hoping for.... it's the end of the semester but I still have not found a girlfriend. I desperately want to experience the kind of relationship that I never got to before it is too late.

(About me)

  1. native in Hong Kong.
  2. 19yo, 5'3/160cm, black short hair, olive skin tone, neither skinny nor chubby just slightly lean body.
  3. I am affectionate, adventurous, sentimental and righteous most of the time whereas I get serious, rational, strict and responsible whenever dealing with important things.
  4. one of my biggest hobbies is eating. I eat when I am feeling down and I also love trying out foods that never i've tried before! There are too many things I like to do or just feel comfortable doing so I'm not gonna list them all out here(come talk to me to know more ; )
  5. I have only 3 friends and a small social circle so you would naturally receive all of my attention incliuding instant replies given that it's not past midnight in where I live.

DM me if you find me interesting🫶

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u/FaithlessnessOk5904 — 1 day ago

37 [F] New England/online - do you love summer as much as I do?

https://imgur.com/a/wxP1RA3

Hi guys, I’m a bit of a slow burn kind of person. I love good banter, playful conversations, and actually getting to know someone over time. I'm looking for meaningful connection or friendship. If you can make me laugh, you’re already winning.

I live in New England; a total east coast vibes, I cannot shut up about how gorgeous it is here in summertime. Summer is my season! You’ll usually find me out on the water with my inflatable paddleboard, hiking a trail, or checking out cute cafés and good eats. I’m also the type to cheer way too loudly at baseball games and go down rabbit holes about true crime or random conspiracy theories.

I like to challenge myself (even in the smallest things games, trivia, you name it), and I appreciate someone who’s a little curious and playful too.

If this sounds like your vibe, send me a message about you and a photo (mutual attraction matters, let’s be real).

Also… I’m a SINK, if that matters. (probably gonna get downvoted a lot because many of you want to have a family)

Edit: won't respond to “hey” or any sexual remarks.

u/ineedcoffeeasap — 1 day ago

34 [F] Texas - looking for a meaningful connection

Alright, let's cut straight to the chase. I'm a BBW. I wear a size 20 jeans and a F/G cup bra. I have chest and hips and thighs for days. I have a bit of a tummy, so like if a very curvy white woman ain't your thing, let's not waste our time. I have soft curled dark brown hair that I put a tint of red into, blue gray eyes, and freckles. The parts of me that have seen the sun are reasonably tan, but there's definitely patches on me that are pretty pale.

I'm pretty nerdy. I play video games (badly, but hey, I have fun), watch anime and TV shows, and I like to read. I have old lady hobbies like lots of gardening and a little bit of crafting. I adore my pets. I'm fairly active, but I also really really love my down time when I can get it. I'm an extrovert, so like I'll need outings, but I can also be conscious of an introverts needs.

I'm looking for something meaningful and I NEED for us to be friends before I allow you access to my body. I'm not saying we have to be dating (although I would very much like to date)but you have to at bare minimum be a friend I can trust.

I promise if you can become my friend and make it to the physical part, its worth it, I'm almost insatiable and I'm not really scared to try MOST things. I just really miss human touch, like a palm running up my bare back after a sexy time session while I play video games or doom scroll, or just even falling asleep next to someone.

I would REALLY prefer someone in Texas since its physical touch I'm craving and I would prefer he's in his early 30s to mid 40s (I'm too old to deal with the 20something silliness). Please be the reason I constantly check my phone and smile. I'm in South Texas if that helps with weighing how far of a drive we wanna make.

Ahhhh.....if you need more info, feel free to ask, I'm writing this at almost 2 am so I'm sure there's stuff I've left out

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u/Spun_Of_Light — 2 days ago
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32 [M] -Texas- looking for a older woman and willing to travel

I’m a 32-year-old Black man, hardworking, honest, and proud to be a blue-collar worker. I believe in earning an honest living, treating people with respect, and building something meaningful with the right person. I’m currently single and interested in meeting a mature, confident older woman who knows what she wants in life. I’m looking for genuine conversation, quality time, and seeing where a real connection can lead. Ideally, I’d love to find someone interested in building a serious, long-term relationship based on trust, loyalty, and mutual support. If you’re looking for a good man with strong values and a big heart, or just friends dm me.

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u/Ok_Limit_6131 — 1 day ago

24 [F] #Utah #Anywhere - looking for my forever person

Hi everyone. I've been lurking here for a bit, finally taking the plunge. I grew up in a non-diverse place (still is) and got interested in east asian culture and men in the last few years. I'm ready to find my forever person. I've never dated an asian man, so you would be my first. I'm looking for someone smart, has a good career, likes white girls, wants marriage long term (not dating me just for fun). I'm ok dating long distance and moving to you if it's serious. If it matters - I grew up in an LDS family but I'm not strongly religious now. I'm petite, 5'4", blonde

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u/Sweet-Bluebird1869 — 3 days ago

36 [F] Penticton/Kelowna area- looking for the one

Hi!

I'm a 36 wf looking for a meaningful relationship that will hopefully lead to "happily ever after"

About me: i'm a nerd (but I don't look nerdy) and I enjoy playing board games, reading (the classics and mystery are my favorite genres), doing arts/crafts, gardening, watching movies (i'm a huge movie fan! Especially films from 1930s-1960s and horror movies). I love going on cute dates and visiting museums, galleries and parks. I'm very affectionate and i'm looking for someone who is equally affectionate. I love cooking/baking and its one of my ways to show my affection. I own a small little historical home and i'm currently renovating it. I'm a professional and do events for my community - so i'm hoping to meet someone who doesn't mind being my date for community appearances.

My appearance: 5'6, brunette, green eyes, I feel that I have an average body now that i'm in my 30s - but I still get cat-called often 😅 i'm happy to exchange pictures.

You: located in my area/province. looking for someone to settle down with, family oriented, homebody but enjoys road trips and doing fun activities together. And most of all kind! I'm looking for someone who is kind and can handle life's daily stresses as a team.

Hope to hear from you soon.

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u/valleymaple — 8 days ago
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29M - Ohio/US/Online - a yapping connection

Hi! I am 29m and in Ohio. You could be anywhere really, it would be cool if you were an alien from outer space. If you were, I hope your translator converts to english well!

Here are some pictures of me: https://imgur.com/a/kEMvz5K Not the greatest photos, I am just not very photogenic!

yap my ear off about your hobbies, music you listen to, shows/movies you watched recently, maybe even books you read!!! tell me all about your day and plans and feel free to vent/rant to me (: if you play an instrument that would be cool too! I play the piano myself, and if I could pick another instrument I would want to play either the cello or the violin. Do you play any instruments yourself? I would love to know your pet peeves or hot takes too! maybe favorite places you have visited, or bucket list of places that you want to go, or experiences that you want to try! Also favorite foods, or foods u would NEVER try (eg. durian/stinky tofu/blue cheese)

I have been trying to find stuff to watch or even books to read recently! I think I have to get physical books, ebooks dont seem to do it for me. I do like playing games too! we could play some co-op games like splitfiction/it takes two sometime if you like.

I do like hiking, especially near bodies of water, or maybe even a treetop walk. Waterfalls are my favorite things to look at, but I haven't been to many to be honest. Do you have any recommendations? Also I love rainbows whenever they appear, and the sky when it is not blue!

For movies I like horror/scifi/action! For books I like reading biographies or history and also fiction (scifi/action) but haven't read any of those in a bit. For shows I do like true crime and documentaries! I like scifi stuff like black mirror too. E-readers don't seem to do it for me though, I feel like I might need to read physical books. Maybe I should try listening to audiobooks while reading too, have you tried that and does it work?

Last two movies I watched would be Hoppers, and project hail mary! I thought Hoppers was really cute, and the alien in project hail mary was cute too. If I was the protagonist I would probably die instantly though. What movies have you watched lately?

I have discord too if you want to talk there, maybe voice notes or calls! text only would be good too. Tell me all about you and what you like to do, or maybe even something that you hate doing. Feel free to ask any questions that you might have, and hope you are having a great week so far!

u/nocturnalpooh — 7 days ago

23 [F] USA -Looking for dating online right now

My lovelife is so very bored cauz I'm single women that's why I'm look for men to dating me online like have sweet conversation with you like I'm feel so happy everyday and everynight while talking with us in online conversation.

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u/prettyypie — 8 days ago
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I wore my highest chunky heels out and was told "you don't look like you walk the streets, you look like you plow the streets"

And honestly, he was right. I was like 6'5" haha he wasn't trying to dull my shine. Heels are for us, too! I've been working out a ton lately so I've been proudly showing off :)

u/faroeislands — 14 days ago

30[F] - indiana looking for something real

30F software engineer in Indiana, planning a move to California in the next year or two (currently looking at West Covina, but that could change).

I'm looking for a genuine relationship, so I'd prefer to start long distance and get to know each other before meeting. I'm financially independent, have a stable career, my own place, and a spoiled Siamese cat who thinks she's in charge.

Physically, I'm usually attracted to Asian men and tend to prefer leaner builds, though athletic/muscular is great too. More importantly, I'm looking for someone intelligent, emotionally mature, and genuinely interested in building a relationship. Bachelor's degree or higher is a plus, but having curiosity, ambition, and a brain is the bigger thing for me.

A little about me: I'm curvy, so if you're only attracted to very thin or athletic women, we're probably not a match, and that's completely okay. I'd rather be upfront about that and save us both some time.

I want someone I actually enjoy talking to and spending time with for days on end, not someone who's only interested in texting when they're bored or looking for sexting. I'd rather build a real connection.

A little about me:

- Software engineer

- K-pop fan

- Cat mom

- Planning a California move

- Looking for companionship, partnership, and eventually something serious

I'm generally looking for someone around 24–38.

If any of that sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Bonus points if you tell me about your favorite hobby, what you're passionate about, or what your idea of a perfect weekend looks like.

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u/mathgeekf314159 — 8 days ago

29 [F] Europe - Looking for a genuine connection

Hi! I’m interested in building a meaningful relationship with someone where we both flourish. Kindness, loyalty, and mutual respect are very important to me.

I really value my family, personal growth, and creative hobbies like writing, drawing, and photography. I also speak 6 languages, including Korean and a little Chinese. My grandmother has been living in Japan for over 30 years, which is partly why I’ve always been interested in Asian cultures.

My Christian faith is important to me, so I’m hoping to meet someone who genuinely shares it. I respect other people’s worldviews, but I’d ultimately like to build a relationship with someone who shares similar values and intentions. 

I’m not looking for anything casual or NSFW.

If you think we might be compatible, feel free to send me a message. Bonus points if you share a little about your faith. I’d be happy to exchange photos once we’ve talked a little. :)

(New account for privacy reasons.)

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u/hidestination — 10 days ago

43 [F] North Carolina - looking for casual but open to something real

I’m funny, shy, and warm. I laugh easily, appreciate clever humor, and genuinely enjoy good conversation. Chemistry matters to me. I want that spark where being close feels exciting, not forced.

I’m open to something real if the vibe feels right. I value emotional maturity, kindness, and someone who can keep me laughing. My love language is words of affirmation, so good communication and sweet words definitely go a long way with me.

I’m generally drawn to men on the younger side (32+), especially lean/athletic builds. Attraction-wise, I tend to gravitate toward East Asian men but at the end of the day chemistry and connection matter most.

If you’re funny, affectionate, confident, and know how to flirt a little, we’ll probably get along pretty well 😉

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u/Fit_Objective_6174 — 14 days ago

46 [F] Europe - do you exist?

Multilingual Gen X curiosity addict. Fluent in English, German, French, reasonably functional in Dutch, Swedish & dabbling with Italian, Spanish & Korean.

I enjoy sharp conversations, dry humor, elegant systems, good coffee, museums, bookstores, languages, science, and people who know things deeply.

More interested in intellectual chemistry and mutual curiosity than lifestyle performance.

Bonus points if you:

can teach me something obscure
enjoy exploring ideas without drama
are independent, thoughtful, and emotionally grounded
think competence is attractive

Looking for someone curious, stable, and difficult to bore.

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u/Loki0510 — 13 days ago

40 [F] Philadelphia - looking for local and sincere friends or player 2 💕

LOCAL ONLY PLEASE

I'm looking for friends and I'm looking for a boyfriend

White female curvy nerdy/ gamer seeking friends and romance 💕💕

Attracted to Korean and Chinese men

Please be local and able to meet in real life

Not looking for long distance

Looking for sincerity and compatibility

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u/Inside-You-2130 — 14 days ago