r/amwfdating

I’m 40 and based in Los Angeles. I’m easygoing and warm, and I enjoy traveling, good food, music, and conversations that go a little deeper. At this stage in life, I have a clearer sense of what I want. I value honesty, respect, and emotional stability, and I’m not looking for anything complicated, just something genuine and meaningful. I’d like to meet someone kind, reliable, and willing to build something real. Starting with a simple conversation and letting things grow naturally feels right to me. Location isn’t a dealbreaker. If there’s a real connection, I believe people can figure the rest out together

Hi everyone! I’m a 25-year-old woman from Turkey, currently in my final year of medical school and working as an intern doctor.

Physically, I’m 170 cm tall and weigh around 67 kg. I have a fairly feminine build and I’d describe myself as curvy rather than particularly slim. I’m happy to exchange photos if we both feel comfortable doing so☺️

I’m a fairly calm and down-to-earth person. I’m not particularly adventurous; I value feeling safe and comfortable with someone, and I’d like to eventually build a life with a person I can genuinely connect with.
I am an atheist.
In my free time, I enjoy reading, especially dystopian novels, visiting historical places, solving word puzzles, and watching TV shows when I actually have time for them.

As for what I’m looking for, I’d ideally like to meet someone around 23–30. I tend to be attracted to men who are taller than me and have a slightly bigger, softer build — a bit of a dad bod, I suppose.

Beyond physical attraction, I value maturity, kindness, emotional stability, curiosity, and good communication. I like people who have their own interests and perspectives and are comfortable having meaningful conversations.

I’m open to getting to know someone from a different country and learning about their culture as well. I’m ultimately looking for something genuine rather than just casual small talk.
If you think we’d get along, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself🫶

Hi! This text post is mostly a TLDR for this voice message that I recorded for you <3

Please listen to it to get a better idea of who I am and what I'm looking for.

I understand if you don't so here is a little breakdown, in case you need it. <3

I'm 34, from SoCal and am just tired/weary when it comes to dating. It feels like a puzzle at this point.

I just want companionship to make these lonely nights feel a little less lonely. <3 And maybe, we can become something great together.

I'm into the usual nerdy things: gaming, collecting, film, etc.

Also love cooking, baking and being in my garden.

My headphones are always in so let's share music!

I'm open to connections all over the world, so don't be shy. <3

I’m 18F, on the East Coast, and looking to talk to men around 18-25.

I’m an aspiring model and future mangaka, who dreams of moving to Japan someday~and I love anime, fashion, drawing, photography, C-pop/K-pop/J-pop, and video games.

I’m hoping for someone with a soft heart that’s kind, funny, emotionally mature, and able to hold an actual conversation.

Looking for shared interests, and something genuine! Like a shared interest in art, music, anime, or fashion would be cute~

Please be 18–25. I’m not interested in messages outside that range.

If you message me, please include your age, time zone, and an anime recommendation or a song you’ve had on repeat lately.

Bonus points:
I’d adore someone who loves various East Asian inspired fashion and would have fun planning cute outfits and dressing up together. ♡

Hey! I’m a 33 year old white American woman who recently moved to Japan last year and I’m seeking someone to have a casual but consistent connection with!

Ideally you are available during my afternoons/weekends and able to play the same games as me!

My hobbies include going to the beach, shopping and playing video games! Message me your favorite video game and where you’re from! Hope to hear from you 🥰

I'm a 30-year-old software developer from Indiana who's currently in a bit of a transition period. I was recently laid off, so I'm figuring out what comes next and where life might take me. I'd still love to end up in California someday, but right now I'm much more interested in meeting good people than trying to force every new connection into a five-year plan.

I'm happy to let things develop naturally. If we end up becoming great friends, that's wonderful. If there's mutual attraction and it eventually turns into something more, I'm open to that too. I don't think two strangers need to decide what they're going to be to each other before they've even had a decent conversation.

A little about me: I'm a huge nerd and spend entirely too much time bouncing between interests. I've been playing Persona 5 lately, I do recurve archery, and I'm usually hanging out with my Siamese cat, Jimin, who has very strong opinions about how much attention she should receive. I also love K-pop. Stray Kids, TXT, BLACKPINK, ITZY, BABYMONSTER, and quite a few others are regularly on my playlists. I've also apparently been welcomed aboard the ATEEZ pirate ship recently, so we'll see where that goes. 😂

I'm interested in meeting men of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally around 24–38, although I'm a little flexible about age if we genuinely click. Attraction matters to me, and I tend to like either someone who's active/reasonably fit or the skinny-nerdy type. I'm curvy myself and working toward a healthier lifestyle, so I appreciate someone who also cares about taking care of themselves without making fitness their entire personality.

Communication is really important to me. I absolutely don't expect constant texting or immediate replies—we're strangers on the internet and we both have lives—but I appreciate people who communicate rather than disappearing. I'm much happier getting to know someone gradually and seeing whether we actually enjoy having each other around.

I'm also not looking for something primarily sexual. I'm perfectly capable of flirting, and I'm not opposed to intimacy if a connection eventually develops, but I want to actually like you as a human being first. If your goal is to get sexual within the first five messages, we're probably not compatible.

A few major incompatibilities: MAGA, wanting children, or a serious criminal history. I'm also not religious, so someone who expects religion to play a significant role in a relationship probably wouldn't be a good match for me. And if you're looking for a traditional-wife dynamic, I promise you have arrived at the wrongest possible woman. 😂

If you message me, please actually tell me something about yourself—age, where you're from, what you do, what you're into, etc. Give me something more to work with than “hey.”

And because I'm suddenly finding myself with more free time than expected: what's your favorite video game or TV franchise? I'm always looking for something new to get obsessed with.

Well the header kinda says it all huh?

I’ve moved to Japan and have become increasingly more interested in Asian men, specifically of the eastern region(you don’t have to actually live in said country) No, the recent trend of Hongdae men has not influenced me whatsoever :sideeye:

Anyways, I’m an American white woman, I love to travel, play video games(league and PUBG right now) and most importantly, shop!

Looking for people with similar interests(or just hot) I can casually converse with and get to know. I can talk about almost anything! Send me a message with a little bit about yourself and where you’re from!

Hey everyone!

As I turned 33 recently and feel old as hell already, I thought I’ll just give this a shot.

I’m a mum of one, which is usually a dealbreaker, but I’m not giving up!

Music is my passion, but I’m also a huge gamer. Currently I’m spending most of my free time playing Genshin or Palworld, but I also love all sorts of simulator stuff or horror games, though I prefer to watch someone play anything scary instead of playing myself.

We have a little cat sanctuary with seven cats atm, all from rather unfortunate circumstances, so cats and animals in general have my heart.

My dad traveled and worked in japan a lot, so I grew up with his love for the country. I have some basic japanese and korean language skills, but those still need loads of work!

Love to go to events, concerts, hiking, all sorts of stuff, but even though I enjoy that now and then, I think I’d still consider myself more of a homebody in general… I just love it all cozy, warm and relaxing.

All things cute and pink are usually right up my alley. Like Ribunny, Kuromi and Gudetama, Columbina, Eevee, etc. Skin and hair care is also a huge thing for me and friends are used to losing me in the skincare aisle whenever we’re out. Would die for tamago sushi and bubble tea, but I also love a good soup with some crunchy bread sticks!

I’m about 166cm, something around 60kg, with reeeeally long dark brown hair and blue eyes. Happy to share pictures if we get in contact

What might be important, too: I would love to have another child or even two someday and I’m willing to relocate for the right man (with my child!). I’m ENTP, generally for equality, but happy to play your loving wife, cooking meals and taking care of our home, if that’s what you like :3
Also politically left.

Lots of love to all of you ♥️

Okay... take two. 😂 I posted here before, met some interesting people, learned a few things, and now I have a slightly better idea of what I'm actually looking for. 🙃

I'm 37, in central NC, a mom of two, a teacher currently working on a career pivot, and somewhere between emotionally intelligent golden retriever and chaotic orange cat.

I'm 5'6" and curvy... built more like "excellent for cuddling" than "Pilates influencer." 😌

I love psychology, history, music, gaming, travel, random conversations, inappropriate humor, and really good banter. I'm affectionate, sarcastic, a little chaotic, and definitely want someone who can match my energy.

I'm especially attracted to Asian men, obviously why I'm here lol, but personality and connection matter just as much. Give me intelligent, playful, emotionally aware, affectionate, and capable of actually communicating.

This time I'd really prefer someone closer to North Carolina. I'm willing to drive some, but I'd like seeing each other regularly to actually be realistic.

I'd also like someone who has their shit reasonably together. 😂 You don't need to have life completely figured out, because who does? But independence, stability, emotional maturity, and consistency are very attractive.

I'm absolutely looking for chemistry and flirting, but I'm not looking for a random fuck buddy. I want dates, affection, conversation, fun, attraction, and the possibility of something real if we click. I'm not trying to force a relationship, but I'm also not looking for something that's only physical.

Preferably late 20s to early 40s, single, relatively local, and willing to exchange face pics pretty early. Attraction matters for both of us. 🤷‍♀️

And if you actually read all the way to the bottom... I'm so proud of you! 😂❤️ Now please say something more interesting than "hey." Give me something to work with. 😏

Hello! I know I know… I’m in the middle of nowhere and far from everywhere. I am totally open to talking to guys from anywhere and see what happens. Though lowkey I'm trying to not make things too serious immediately. (I am actually figuring out where to go for vacation later this year)

About me:

5’4 (160 cm) 110 lbs (49 kg) Long straight(ish) blonde hair. Light eyes, half Irish half Dutch, light skinned, yes I’m easy on the eyes..

Worst thing about me is I’m not into anime!!! Sorry guys lol I’ve only seen a few that I like… but those few I did like a lot!!

If you’re still reading, I am a bit shy but open up quite quickly with the right person. Generally more into guys in their late 20's and up (until mybe 45?)

Im super down to exchange pics. Also I’ve never talked to people on Reddit before & didn’t realize till today that there was all these other areas of Reddit lol

Anyway, I love long walks, good convo, I love food, eating it & cooking, I love cleaning & organizing, I love art-all the many facets of it, love traveling. Love intelligent men & find Asian men superior. I love to be submissive-but not in a fetish way, just love a confident man I can let my hair down with

Hi! This is a first for me, but I think it’s worth a shot. I’m looking for genuine connection and friendship- I truly believe the basis of a good romantic relationship is friendship! I also believe real connections can be made online, so I’m open to starting a conversation with anyone from around the world! 

A bit about me: I’m an introverted person, but I open up around people I know and trust. Full disclosure: I’m a little awkward, (especially at first), but when I do click with someone it’s very genuine. My interests are all things geeky. I love reading, (anything by J.R.R. Tolkien is my favorite, currently working on Stormlight Archive by Brandon Sanderson), good movies (fantasy/sci fi are my favorite), and anything that gets my creative juices flowing. I especially love animation. There are a few anime I really enjoy and I’m open to more suggestions! Demon Slayer is my current favorite. I’m also trying to get into cosplay as well, so bonus if you have any experience with that! 

While I don’t play video games much myself, I like to watch play throughs of good story games like RDR2, God of War (new games), Cyberpunk, etc. So if you enjoy games like those, great! 

I also like to stay active and take care of myself. I eat decently, drink tons of water and invest in skincare. I don’t smoke or drink, either. 

As for other interests, I absolutely love nature and enjoy learning in general. I’d love to travel more and experience new things. I’m a bit of a bleeding heart when it comes to animals, especially “unlikable” ones like snakes and bugs-I will always save the spider in a cup. 

Another thing about me is that I love horses and take riding lessons weekly! I do not own a horse, but they bring me true joy to be around. I’m also a cat person, if anyone relates! 

I’m also Christian, but I do not currently attend a church and I’ve been deconstructing/ reconstructing some of my beliefs on that. I’m very open to good dialogue on that topic.

What I’m looking for is a guy on a similar wavelength as me who I truly connect with- someone who is up for adventure but can also appreciate peaceful quiet moments at home. I love conversations about art, media, science, geek stuff etc. and would love to find someone who does as well! 

Ideally, I’d like someone around the ages of 23-33, but I can go a little older if the connection is genuine. If you would like to send a picture of yourself, you can! I’m very careful about posting pictures online, so I’d like to get to know you a little before I send any of myself. I can give you a quick physical description if you’d like. 

What I value most is empathy, kindness, and a willingness to better oneself and grow. These are the traits I personally strive for everyday. I should also mention that I am not into causal sex- this is one of the Christian values I still hold onto. If you want something of a sexual nature, no judgement here! I’m just not what you’re looking for :) 

My goal is to start a friendship that turns into something more, but if it doesn’t end up that way that’s fine too, I’m down for making more friends! 

I feel like this is a shot in the dark, but I’m hoping my future best friend and life partner is out there! If any of what I said resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you :)

P.S. I’m currently trying to learn Japanese, so if you happen to speak Japanese I’d love to learn from you! 

Open to short- or long-term. Let's see where the vibes and chemistry take us—whether that turns into friendship, dating, or relationship.

Open to ages 25 and older but prefer men similar to my age group

Must be drug disease free

I like movies try new foods music crafting yard sales thrift stores concerts

Never married no kids

I'm 5'8" tall thick/average build busty blond hair brown eyes

Let’s skip the standard résumé. Nobody needs another list of favourite foods and personality adjectives.

You have a free day in a city you’ve never visited. No obligations, no itinerary. Where do you go first?

I’d probably find something interesting to look at, something good to eat, and then follow whatever looks promising. Getting slightly lost is generally acceptable. Getting very lost may be blamed on poor planning or excellent adventure, depending on the outcome.

Somewhat introverted, but rarely bored. Independent, but very much interested in sharing. Equally happy with a quiet evening or an impulsive trip.

Mountains, science, and beautifully designed things (that know when to stop) tend to hold my attention. So do people who have lived in more than one cultural world and can tell you something unexpected about it.

A few questions:

What could you accidentally spend three hours learning about?

What’s something you changed your mind about?

And what does making room for another person actually look like in your life?

For me, good company means having your own life while making room for someone else’s. Being able to disagree without turning it into a constitutional crisis, communicate when something matters, laugh at yourself, and enjoy both silence and conversation.

No need to know the ending in advance. Showing up, being interested, and seeing what develops seems like a good start.

Your move.

Hey! I’m looking to meet new people who are on the same page as me- I don't have a lot of that in my day-to-day life.

I'm 22, 5’2, love to travel, hike, camp, took up running recently, and Im a decent cook…ooh and can do my own oil too! 💪🏻

I like chatting to new people. If it's just a fun distraction for a few hours, great. If we click and it's the start of a beautiful new friendship or more, even better.

I can be really sociable when I want to be - enjoy nights out, live music, a pub quiz, drinks with friends etc. - but I like my own company too, walks with audiobooks and rainy afternoons binge watching crime TV shows.

I’m working as a hotel receptionist and its pretty slow and boring at times so im looking for people to chat with to keep me sane. Im from Cornwall, enjoy reading romance novels (some dark romance and mostly contemporary romance/ fantasy romance), I like painting although I dont do it much now, I listen to all types of music (I dont have too many faves so dont ask lol) I play video games sometimes, mostly sims4, minecraft, Skyrim, stardew valley. I do my own nails ( haven’t for a while sadly) and I like to cook, and can change my cars own oil myself…though if the off campus crew ever offered a hand hehe….

Anyway, if this strikes a chord with anyone, feel free to say hi!

Hi everyone, I’m a 21-year-old pansexual gamer girl looking for someone local (or close enough to meet) who wants to start as friends and see where things go… currently in Canada but I’m back and forth in the states monthly due to work and family.

but with the clear hope that the vibe develops into something more. I’m specifically looking for a guy who’s down bad for me, and genuinely obsessed … the kind of person who gets excited about spoiling me with attention, wants to be my soft, devoted partner, and doesn’t mind me taking the lead.

I’m a pretty nerdy girl at heart. I love GTA online, ufc. Whether it’s deep story-driven single-player stuff, chill co-op, or competitive sessions, I’m always down to talk games or play together. Outside of gaming I also love movies and TV shows.”

I’m open, playful, and looking for that connection where someone is really into me and isn’t afraid to show it. If you’re submissive, attentive, and get a little (or a lot) obsessed in a healthy way, we might click.

Feel free to message me if this sounds like your vibe. Tell me a bit about the games you’re into or a show you’ve been watching lately — I’d love to chat. 💕

Hello I'm a white female interested in meeting East Asian men

I would like to start making friends and hopefully find my person ♥️

I like anime, video games, sci fi and horror movies, edm, love Asian and Mexican food and love cuddles and affection

I'm 5'7" height, average/curvy body type, busty, long dark hair and dark eyes , kinda gothy