Hypocrisy
People say that - We should expect reciprocation in relationships and make the required efforts according to the actions of the other person.
I'm not like that.
To counter this......
People say that - It is not necessary to wait for the other person to do something for you if you truly respect your bond with them. Instead, be the one who provides without needing anything back-as an act of pure devotion and love that you do share with the other person in a relation.
I'm not like that as well.
Something I would do while making relations is selecting one of these ideologies in that particular instant and selecting the other in another situation.
Does that make me a hypocrite?
Philosophy gave us this term "hypocrisy"- "But I will just call it human nature of being considerate and selective of their actions they want to perform according to the factors that they do care".
I don't know about "hypocrite" but stating that "I am not like that" for both ideologies at first and then admitting to use either of these ideologies......-This might make me look "Spineless"