As a woman @ Pan Pot
I’m a woman who drove up from SD for Pan Pot. I came solo. The music was great, but my dancing was interrupted so often by guys wanting to talk. A little chit chat is cool but not full conversations on the dance floor. This happened more than 10 times (!) before I hid all the way in the back corner just to dance. No one person made me uncomfortable per se, but the stream of disruptions got to be too much. I came to get lost in the music. When I realized I couldn’t do that, I left at 3 am.
I want to be clear that everyone was very nice, which I so appreciated. Nobody was being a creep. But if I could give a PSA to guys, it would be this: please do not interrupt a woman who is dancing to shoot your shot. Outside is one thing, but just not while she’s dancing.