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Need advice for an upcoming threesome

I'd love to ask women(or men) who've been in a similar size situation some questions.

So recently me, my gf and a guy friend of ours were chatting up and we've kinda got it planned so far. Turns out he's supposedly really thick, a bit over 6 inches. I didn't know how that looks irl, turns out it's very wide

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u/kurshicu123 — 17 hours ago

Dixk Reputation benefitting a small business

So, i am hung, and i am a generally flirtatious person. I work at a board game store/tavern in my city. Apparently thw gqy community has gotten smitten with the store in no smsll part due to my reputation haha

Any of you had a practical impact to your rep?

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u/BulkyOpportunity_3 — 16 hours ago

Somebody saw your cock in real life and said it was impressive, how would you take that

Well like I guess it's good but it's not like saying oh wow that's big well that's huge or anything like that is it?

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u/danny04224 — 1 day ago

Do you ever like people referencing or mentioning your size?

So...random question...

Do you ever like people mentioning your size?

Not just hookups, but friends, partners, or people who know about it.

Is it flattering when someone makes a playful reference or seems genuinely impressed, or do you prefer it stick to private conversation and appreciation?

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u/Deepish79 — 1 day ago

I’m 8 inches and as thick as a coke can and have body dysmorphia

I’ve struggled with body dysmorphia and hate my body, I’m not bragging I’ve just had a lot of people asking questions about it and thought people in here would find it interesting

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u/JimboJoe05 — 20 hours ago

Hey is my dick the issue of my lifelong problem?

Hello,

19 male United States. I had my first sexual experience. It was nice. The girl I was with made a comment on how well endowed I am. I did not know I was big until that moment.

Um, first a bit about myself I have been homeschooled all the way through highschool and well sheltered would be putting it lightly. So I had really no concept of what big was considered.

My question: is my endowment the reason pants and underwear are so uncomfortable?

My whole life I have never been comfortable in pants. I thought I had a weird body type or something but I’m curious if my life long mystery has been solved?

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u/hattori_Hanzo_JR — 18 hours ago

How do you feel or react when dick size is mentioned or brought up in movies, TV shows, ect?

How do feel or react when dick size in mentioned in a piece of media? Whether it be jokes, a character mentioning they or someone else has a big or small dick or, in general that they like big dicks. Do you cringe, do you feel seen or validated, do you laugh, do you get turned on or off, does it not phase you all? And does it change if you're watching it with someone else?

My penis is pretty small and into I'm sph so admittedly it's fun hearing them but it also can be kinda awkward especially if I'm watching it with other people and see their reactions 😅.

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u/Theforbiddenlink — 1 day ago

Distention Kink?

I don’t even know if this is a legit kink. I remember first discovering it in the “Tumblr Porn Era” and being obsessed. Little did I know my first girlfriend in college who was very petite (5’2 - 99lbs) would make my fantasy a reality and permanently hardwire my body type preference. She was also the first girl to see my dick and convince me that I was maybe well endowed above average.

Since then it’s been a shared obsession with my partners over the years to see it move inside of them (I’m usually the first to point it out). The kink just digs deeper when a new partner discovers it for the first time… the shocked looks on their faces, disbelief, “What the actual fuck!?”, etc.

Anyways, I know it’s an odd/niche tick, but is this “a thing” for anyone else?

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u/Jakohbro — 1 day ago

How does it feel?

21M straight (netherlands, turkish). I’ve never been attracted to guys, and I wouldn’t do anything with them. But there’s something that just always makes me wonder….

How is it to have a massive cock? It just always looks so good. I don’t know whether it’s the girth, size, the way it moves. It just makes me wonder how it would feel as a man to work with such a thing. Or how life is with such a thing.

Is there anyone with expertise who could help me with this? I don’t even know how to really explain it haha. I’m just curious as to how life is with a thing like that, is it different?

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u/socksboy21M — 2 days ago

My ex came back for more

This is a pretty short story, but one I'm sure a lot of us bigger guys have experienced.

when I was around 18-19 I had just broken up with one of my first girlfriends. We were both still fairly inexperienced when it came to sex, she had one body I had 2 at this point other than each other. But despite our inexperience we had some pretty good sex. She would talk about how I was much bigger than her first boyfriend, and would say "You have a real man's cock." So safe to say, I turned her into a bit of a size queen. Though I didn't know just how much of a size queen she was until a few months later.

After we broke up we didn't talk at all, but we still had a few mutual friends who I would occasionally ask for updates on my ex. They would always say how she was going through a bit of a hoe phase since the breakup and had been fucking dudes like crazy. Which I didn't really expect from her, she was always fairly freaky in bed but she was also pretty shy in social situations so I never took her for a slut, but whatever.

Then, she texted me for the first time in a few months. It was late at night, probably around 1am and she just said "Whats up?" So I responded, we exchanged some small talk over text, catching up, blah blah blah. Then out of nowhere she says "I miss your cock." I was somewhat shocked at how forward she was, but I went with it. Before I knew it I was over at her place, and she opened the door for me in her "pajamas" which was the tiniest cropped tee and booty shorts haha.

Pretty much as soon as I got in there she went straight to business, talking about how none of these other dudes have what I have, and it's just not the same fucking random people. Then she said the line again "You just have a real man's cock" and I got so turned on we started making out and fucking right away. We went for two rounds before I decided to go home.

After that we still kept somewhat in touch, neither of us wanted to get back together, and she was still going through her hoe phase. But whenever she needed something big to fill her up she would shoot me a text

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u/bigdickthrowaway19 — 1 day ago

When taking a piss on the street..

If you've ever found yourself in a situation in which you had to pee on the street: did you kinda want to seize the opportunity to show off your dick? And maybe not get too far away from the other people? Or position yourself at an angle that allows others to see? Or just taking your time (maybe even more than needed) to give others the opportunity to look?

If you have replied yes to any of the above, do you do it when there are boys, girls, both...? And how do you feel in those moments?

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u/Key_Visit_1948 — 1 day ago

Bigger since bulking?

Hi guys,

so i have always had a pretty big hard dick but my softie was always average.
I have started bulking a year ago and started hitting the gym about 2 months ago
Eversince then i gained about 10-12 Kilo(thats about 22-26 lbs in freedom units🦅)
I now weigh 70 Kilos(158 lbs) and am 1.90M tall (6‘2)
Anyway this summer i noticed that my softie was big af and i wonderes if its only due to the summer dick phenomenon or due to the bulking progress

Did any skinny guy who started bulking have the same experience as me or is my summer dick just going crazy this year?

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Endowed Men....Does the idea of a "ball job" excite you?

I am lucky to have huge mouth, giving me the capacity to suck even the largest balls in a motion almost in a similar way to sucking / deepthroating a cock. The partners Ive done this for all love the experience....specifically the feeling of their heavy and full balls sliding in and out of an eager and deep mouth.

I have jokingly started calling this a "ball job" given it's similarity to a blowjob - but it may have another name!

Given the positive reslpnse I've received so far, my question to this community is:

  • Does the idea of receiving a "ball job" excite you? Or would you prefer the focus elsewhere? Why or why not?

Id love to know what makes it so hot (or not) so I can improve my skills in this area!

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u/Bearded--Twin — 2 days ago

Job search so bad Imma attach my dick in my resume

Sorry. I had to vent somewhere. Been looking for a job for 4 months after graduation and at this point I think maybe putting my dick's measurement in the resume might get more attention than my projects.

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u/MrMeepyy — 2 days ago

Does big dick praise turn you on?

In this case i'm referring in a general context, not whn you're about to fuck or fucking with someone.

For instance in social media or in casual conversations, it can either be indirectly (insulting/degrading small dicks) or directly (praising, complimenting big dicks).

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u/Key_Visit_1948 — 3 days ago

Tips to teasing her with a dildo compared to your size

I recently bought my wife a bigger realistic dildo that’s about the same size I am with is about 7”x6”. I’ve played with her using it a couple times now. She loves it, and she prefers thick cock so this works great. It’s also an surprising perspective to actually see how big my dick is compared to something I can hold and see. lol

Anyway, the question for you guys. Do you find it better to tease her with an average size dildo before she feels your own? So she feels the size increase. Or what’s your general experience with dildo sizes in relation to your own dick size?

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u/Massive_Shake_7938 — 2 days ago

Maybe a very niche problem, but I can't share condoms with other guys.

So basically when some guy asks me if they can borrow a condom I lie and tell them I don't have any on me. I think it's the simple answer, but sometimes the conversation goes something along the lines of:

"Hey man can I borrow a condom?"

"Ummm I use a different size sorry"

"Which one?"

"XL (which is the biggest they sell in spain, and it's widely understood the M size fits everyone)"

I get a funny reaction but it's not something I want to share with just anyone lol

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u/Some_Construction356 — 3 days ago

How mush showing off is too much?

I tend to catch eyes of older women during the summer in a pool or beach. My bulge is quite obvious even with my soft size. For instance, some ladies would start inviting me for a seltzer and saying her ex husband is a piece of shit. Others may say “ I don’t want you to feel uncomfortable but if you want you can sit next to me” and started saying she traveled alone and what’s her trip and her hotel rooms look like.

I always feel awkward if I had a boner so I usually cross my legs to make it less visible, especially looking at them giggling in bikini. But I do want to continue the conversation since my bulge is probably the reason why I got the invite at the first place.

Question: how much showing off is appropriate? I want to have a little flirty conversation and try not to scare them when getting excited?

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u/Ok-Collection3256 — 3 days ago