r/bigdickconversation

Sorry if this post doesn't exactly fit sub rules (I did read them and check posts to make sure it hasn't been brought up recently!)

Being small, I've literally never gotten a DM from just publicizing my size, either via an image or even just a text post! Some of y'all barely comment and apparently still get tons of DM's (am a bit guilty there...😅)

It's honestly wild to see the reaction, messages, pictures you guys and gals get sent. Something I'll just never experience!

What's it like? Is it an ego boost? Kind of weird? Any likes or dislikes? It is reddit after all, you know, where all of the best people of the Internet are...

Like if you had to pick ONE thing that makes you really happy to be big, and then one thing that you feel is actively worse in your life because of your size. Can obviously be all the place in terms of severity, it's all relative! But it would still be fun to hear you guy's personal spectrum :D

For myself, its hard to really say because I'm still a virgin at 26 lol. So the lows aren't any deeper than having realized that regular condoms don't fit me, and the ones that do are marginally harder to find than the regular ones. A total non issue in other words. Best for me is probably just that like specific feeling of confidence/happiness from simply knowing that I'm just one of those guys with a really big dick. Whether or not it matters to anyone else is another question.

I'm very lucky to be friends with several women who are pretty open to chatting about sex, and while it's obviously a small self selected and biased sample here's what they've collectively had to say about size:

-Size both matters and doesn't matter. Too small can make it challenging but so can a cock being too large. Average certainly works just fine.

-Though a large cock is not required for great sex, it's certainly a turn on, even just visually. It also often can put them into a more submissive state while fucking. Some friends do just have an overall preference for bigger. If they had the choice they'd go for larger, but average size isn't a deal breaker.

-Many women want to try a truly big cock at least once in their life, and are curious about size. They definitely talk about it with their friends.

-Many prefer more girth over length, liking the filled and stretched sensation. Though those who like length are the ones who get off on deep penetration.

-Too much girth = less likely to be doing anal sex with that partner.

-No real sense of "inches" just an overall understanding of what's larger or smaller based on experience.

-Their first ever big cock was usually a shocking moment. And finding a big cock is definitely rare.

-Just because you have a big cock doesnt mean you're good at sex. But a guy bad at sex with a big cock is still usually more pleasurable than an average size guy bad at sex (unless the cock is just so massive it's painful).

-if they're someone who prefers large cock and are an open person sexually, they'll probably brag a bit about being with someone who is packing even just subtly.

Any other notes to compare from what youve heard from women friends?

Or please, any women lurking in this sub offer your perspective

In my opinion, the best part of having a big dick is looking at porn and not feeling insecure about your size because it measures up/outsizes the male stars.

Wbu?

I often find one of the most impressive phases of a big dick is when it’s chubbed up to most of its full size, but still maintaining a pliability and meaty squishy quality.

Describe your chub and your favorite thing about it.

Okay, that probably sounds kind of narcissistic.

But sometimes when I'm looking at some photos I've taken, or when I simply look at my big dick, I get even more turned on because I start thinking about how genuinely good it is.

I've noticed that me and some other hung guys I know need a constant validation of our cock sizes. I love when I get that reassurance. Anyways, wanna see my cock?

Huge cocks seem to have variation in their hard size that are more significant than the smaller counterparts.

How much does your hard size vary? What’s the range? And do you visibly notice and feel the difference?

As per the title, I see sizes mentioned here and there, but are you all stating bone pressed size when you state your length? Obviously the nature of the group, most people are going to be above average to big, but just wondered 👍

I’m searching for a cock ring, but I have a large girth. I'm 19 and wanted to try out a cock ring. I'm sure it would be insane, so im not planning on fucking with it. I haven't found large rings online. It would be cool if one of you can help.
Thx🤝

i’m average size and I consider myself a pretty good lover. I am with a woman now who is 17 years younger than me. I am 55 and she is 38. We both have had our fun times and plenty of past partners. So I know that she has been with men much bigger than me. And that’s part of life and part of our pasts. Anyways, maybe it’s cause I’m older, but I am more open and about asking questions and answering things that I’ve liked from the past or preferences of what I like. But I asked her about things she tends to hold back. I am curious to know what percent of the past woman you’ve been with found out they really enjoyed having sex with a much bigger penis than average. I know that between me and her we have used toys bigger than me and a few that are much bigger. we have a penis sleeve that we use a lot like almost every time. i’ve seen her react from sex with me, i make her orgasm several times. first time using a sleeve that was 7”long by 5.5” girth i noticed a much better reaction from her right from the moment i put in not even a half inch of the head. once it was in she was more vocal and had more orgasms and much stronger ones too. now i did it exactly how i would with my own. from seeing this i saw it was more enjoyable for her with the bigger size. we tried an even bigger sleeve that is 8.5”long and 6.75” girth. when i first started to put it in her, i watched her eyes roll back and it was like she became a different woman. wild and wanting positions that she never asked me to do. i’m really curious to know how many women really enjoy a big penis. i’ve seen first hand what a bigger penis does.

So apparently I am well endowed and it’s a bit of a new life event. I have never had sex before. I’m hoping to change that. I am going to a party this weekend and I think there is potential.

But talking with people on Reddit they just say I need to use Lube. Ok that’s great, but I have a few newbie questions.

1. Is it weird if I have like a bottle in my backpack?

2. How do I naturally bring it out without it being weird?

3. Girls my age (18+) will
   They be cool with it?