r/bruneiansingles

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Life has been a little difficult lately, and being in an unhappy marriage has become exhausting. not looking to change my situation right now—just looking for a genuine connection.

Someone to talk to, laugh with, support each other, and share the good and bad days. Friendship or something more, I’m open to seeing where it goes. Something meaningful and long-term.

Average looking, slightly introverted, easygoing, and prefer quiet conversations over crowded places. I enjoy reading ,occasional gaming, and learning about random things that catch my interest.

Just looking for someone genuine, kind and open to a real connection. If that sounds like you, say hi.

turning 30 soon and realised i focused so much on myself that i kinda forgot to find myself a partner lmao. and the current dating scene is looking cooked. so…gg lah

about me
160cm, malay, culturally muslim. decent looking, normal to slightly curvy/chubby build, have a stable job i’m passionate about.
personality-wise, i can be chill to chaotic and unhinged depending on the person i’m with.
i like gaming, anime, music, horror, true crime, memes & philosophy.

looking for
serious relationship with marriage in mind. strictly no casual/FWBs/hookups. if you have a history of hookups, you are not for me.

ideally someone who is:
- 170cm+ (it’s just my type)
- doesn’t have to be conventionally handsome, but there has to be mutual physical attraction
- has humour, personality (no dry/nonchalant/avoidant energy pls)
- emotionally available and truly over his exes
- financially stable, responsible & has goals. i like to travel, and would want to have a place of my own someday so i’d like a partner who wants the same
- doesn’t smoke or vape
- doesn’t want kids
- preferably local bruneian and from the same cultural background
- 0 body count and waiting until marriage (dealbreaker)
- respectful. respects boundaries. isn’t primarily driven by lust. horny comments = instant block 💀
- doesn’t seek constant validation/female attention online. if your following looks like an all girls school, then hell nah 💀

i don’t think my standards are unreasonable since i hold myself to the same standards. i know this narrows the pool a lot, and that’s kinda the point.

if you think we’d hit it off, DM me :) if not, respectfully keep scrolling 🙂‍↕️

how do you even find partners nowadays, its just so difficult to find someone apatah lagi the right one... i tried all other apps but yeah no luck there either. maybe its just skill issues on my part but yeah any advice would probably go a long way.

about me: 20m, 165cm, have a lot of hobbies, looks maybe 50/50, a bit on the shy side but is very talkative if you know me well. that's all for now, any advice is welcomed thank you

I’ve had a few experiences after texting people from Reddit, and honestly, maybe I’m partly at fault.
I’ve talked to three different people so far, and somehow it always ends the same way. My work and commitments get in the way, I get busy, replies become slower and eventually the conversation just gets dry until neither of us texts again.

I’m 29, 172cm, male, working in government while also running a few stable businesses on the side. My biggest problem is probably time. Between work, handling my businesses, gym, and getting enough sleep, my schedule is usually packed.
I’m also a quiet and introverted person, so I’m probably not the most exciting person to text all day. My life is honestly pretty routine and dull sometimes.
But I’d still like to get to know someone who understands that. Someone who doesn’t need constant attention or texting, but still wants something genuine when we do have time for each other.
Maybe I just haven’t met the right person yet. Or maybe I need to learn how to make more room for someone.

Hihi! Been seeing alot more Fs posting here and it’s good that more people are coming out of their shells to see what the world has to offer. I know being an introvert drains you especially when there is human connection involved but i am sure you would like it if it’s someone you’re comfortable with/someone you like :)

Ms, don’t need to be weird about it. There are genuine people looking for genuine connections but all you do is “hey, wanna see my d?” ??? Trying your luck knowing you’ll get blocked? Different human breed i suppose

Also, some of you do need to READ. “Why ask for chats but don’t bother replying”. Excuse me? You don’t bother reading. Is that my problem? 🙄🙄

Appreciate people who read and try. Sorry if i do not get back to you. It’s a preference thing! I’m sure you’ll find someone great to talk to!! Don’t give up!

Anw, have a good one! I’m sorry in advance if i do not reply to your DMs. Either you don’t bother reading this post or i’m too overwhelmed by the sheer amount of DMs i get.

Muslim in asia. Also not entirely straight so pick a fight (i’m kidding!!!). Preference for F (as always) but Ms are welcome to give it a shot. Asl please.

Now if you read this post, you’ll know i will ignore those without an ASL. Look it up if you have no idea what it means!

Byeeeeeeeeee

Edit: not entirely straight = i like women too. Those without ASL will be ignored. I don’t know how many times do i have to stress on the ASL……..i won’t talk to you if there isnt any ASL. Your loss 😌 i’m also dozing off while typing this so pardon me for my slow/late response

Hello guys! just wanted to share my exp with this subreddit as a male

so far ive been on 2 dates from the subreddit(both disasters)

1st one - it the beginning was nice but towards the end it turns out she was only using me to boost her ego and suprisingly wasnt into men?(idk lah why she agreed in the first place)

2nd date - she was nice in the beginning but she kept texting with her ex throughout the date 💀(i dont judge lah but damn) so that didnt really pan out.

any girls out there interested in proving me wrong? hmu

my details are - 27,184cm,92kg,muscular

I don't usually post things like this, but I'm here hoping to meet someone for something a little more serious (hopefully).

About me:

• Female

• 21

• Chinese

• 165 cm-ish?

• Introverted at first but playful when comfortable

• Into K-dramas, baking, and lately, going to the gym too

• I like quiet moments, deep talks, and taking things slow.

I’d probably get along with someone who is:

• Kind, honest, and communicates well

• Emotionally mature and okay with taking things slow

• Into fitness or goes to the gym too (bonus since I've been getting into it lately)

• Taller than me

• Looking for something genuine rather than just casual

I'm not expecting anything to happen overnight, but I'd like to meet someone and see where it goes :)

Any singles

F20. Soooo hmu?

I'm easy going romantic kind of person. I have been single for too long so I'm looking for a partner in crime

Looking for lavender marriage. Hmu for more info

I'm in my late 20s (F), and I have never been in a relationship before or even talking stage. I have tried dating apps but my intention was always "cari kawan" as in legit a friend saja lol

I've thought of just letting myself be single until my last breath. Pasal mcm hopeless rasanya for me - nada experience, nada the 'aesthetics' that guys usually look for, and I'm used to being alone. However, recently, the urge or the need to be loved and wanting to love someone started to timbul. So, I figured, why not give it a go - like actually try - and if inda menyangkut, jadi sebatang kera tah saja ku until I retire and die 🤣

It's kind of scary, though. Idk how to start or what kind of things to be wary about. I'm scared to approach someone dpn-dpn because I'm not conventionally pretty or, well, small. Online dating is even scarier because you won't know the person until it's time to meet up, and they might see me and be disgusted (that happened with an online friend lmaoo). I know I'm overthinking about this but hey, this is very very new to me 😬 Any advice would be helpful, especially from the girlies! ✨️

Edit: To the lads who reached out, thank you but if I see you active in BruneiGW subreddit, I will ignore your request immediately 😬 I am a practising Muslim woman so...I don't prefer getting to know someone who post or engage with NSFW stuff.

Hi,
I’m a 39 year-old woman and a mother, looking for a genuine, serious and long-term connection. Life has taught me the value of emotional maturity, honesty, respect and meaningful conversation and that is what I’m hoping to find in another person as well.
I’m not interested in flings, casual chats or time-pass. I would prefer to connect with someone who is emotionally mature, kind, respectful and genuinely interested in building a committed relationship over time.
A little about me: I enjoy thoughtful conversations, personal growth and a calm, balanced life. If you are also looking for something real and long-term, feel free to message me.
Please reach out only if your intentions are genuine.

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Not really looking for a “hey wyd” → disappear kind of connection.

I want the kind where we slowly become each other’s favourite person ,best friends, partners in crime, and eventually something more. Someone loyal, gentle, emotionally mature, and genuinely funny.

Bonus points if you’re 6ft+, have a good sense of humour, can make me laugh when I’m having a bad day, and have the patience to listen to my completely unnecessary rants.

I’ll give you the same energy conversations at 2 AM, random updates about my day, laughing at stupid things, being there when life gets heavy, and choosing each other even after the honeymoon phase is long gone.

Basically, I’m looking for a lifelong friendship that might accidentally turn into love.

If that sounds like something you’d want too, say hi.

Worst case: we become friends.

Best case: we become that couple. :)