Hi! I'm a 30-year-old woman from Chennai, working in IT. I'm strictly childfree by choice — I don't have children and don't want biological, adopted, or stepchildren in the future. I'm looking for someone who is equally certain about being childfree.

A little about me

I'm independent, feminist, straightforward and an ambivert. I'm quite sensitive emotionally and very attached to my family.

I'm a non-vegetarian and would prefer someone who isn't vegan. I don't drink, smoke, use weed or drugs, although I don't judge people simply for drinking or smoking.

I'm more of a saver than a spender. Financial awareness and being responsible with money matter to me, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't enjoy life.

Movies and series are my happy place. 😄 I'm especially into horror, crime and thrillers. I can easily get addicted to a good series.

I'm also very interested in politics and enjoy conversations about society, equality and different political ideas. Politically, I lean towards communism.

For transparency, I'm 5 ft tall and around 88 kg.

Why I'm childfree

For me, motherhood is a lifelong responsibility without a retirement date. I don't want to take on that mental and emotional responsibility for the rest of my life. I also feel raising children has become increasingly expensive.

This isn't something I'm undecided about, and I'm not looking for someone who is a fence-sitter about children.

What I'm looking for ❤️

I'd like a long-term, monogamous relationship with someone who genuinely wants to build a partnership.

What matters most to me:

Emotional availability and reciprocity

Mutual respect

Clear and honest communication

Emotional maturity

Financial awareness

Love, care and affection

Equality in the relationship

Being firmly childfree

I'm not looking for perfection. I want someone with whom effort, curiosity and affection go both ways.

If you're strictly childfree, emotionally available and looking for something meaningful, feel free to DM me with a little about yourself — age, location, what you do, why you're childfree, and what you're looking for in a relationship.

Let's start with a conversation and see where it goes. :)

Lets get the basics out of the way first shall we?

Age - 27

Gender - Male

Location - Canada/Open to anywhere

Religion - Agnostic/spiritual from a hindu/punjabi family.

Height - 5 11

Profession - Ex Corperate slave turned chef apprentice. (Yes, Im the guy who fell in love with The Bear too much)

Salary- 20/30 lakh per year, financially independent and have own apartment here in Canada.

Sooo while the title is an over exaggeration, I think its safe to sat that I like to live my life in a non-traditional lifestyle and I probably get that from my divorced parents, *womp womp.* Bangalore boy now living in Canada with his adorable 5 year old cat, Zhaddy. *Both sets of parents financially independent and live on their own, Id like to think I have a great relationship with both of em over all.*

I moved out at the age of 18 and Ive lived on three continents now. I used to work for some of the leaders in b2b affiliate linking and analytics/user tracking providers, after a couple of successful years as a marketing professional. Just 2 years of that was enough for me to lose most of my faith in the internet and decide to expand my life outside it as much as possible and 2 years later here we are now, mid career shift and potentially country shift as I make my way to through some really amazing short term apprenticeship programs and use my new found citizenship to apply for working holiday visas around the world to be a little closer to home while growing my skills/finding a new base of operations so to speak. 🙈

The long term plan is to settle down and start a small scale food biz in a high volume city which is not one I currently live in unfortunately. The longer term plan is to teach but those skills I am on the path of developing.

Im looking for a life partner and somone to marry. I never really got into the hook up culture around bangalore or the cities I moved to beacuse it wasnt my style and I like to think a great relationship comes from a combination of chemistry and effort. Ive worked hard to build a life Im happy to share and Im potential looking for someone in a similar place or at least open to the idea of change and welcomes it in life, beacuse that is one of my big philosophies in life. I like to think that everyday is an opportunity to do better and live a better life and try to live by it as well, Id like to hope my partner shares similar sentiments with the key word being tryin that lol. Also I am pretty sure about not wanting kids, I feel like this is important to be honest and upfront about. Don't get me wrong, I love children, but with the way the world is going I cant guarantee them a better life than mine and that would kill me on the inside, is one of the biggest, of many arguments I have against any desire to have a child so I hope thats a concern we can practically and logically discuss together ❤️

Apart from all the serious jazz, I love DnD, and am a dungeon master! Have been running a game almost weekly for the last year 2 years now and love to hike/be in nature/around animals when the weather allows it.

If its snowing outside you'll find me gaming indoors probably or planning/cooking an elaborate meals. I drink social or other wise once or twice a year to get drunk whenever the mood strikes, I dont smoke cigarettes either but I am a fan of devil's lettuce and do enjoy it over a table of board games with friends every now and then!

I like to think I live life with a streak of honesty, beacuse thats just the easiest way for me to deal with any bullshit it throws me!

If you made it this far, congratulations, when I open up my small biz, you can show me this post and get a free cookie! To redeem this free cookie voucher, Dm me your 16 digit CC number along with its expiry and the little 3 digit code at the back.

As the internet demands it, cat tax.

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Hey lovely Humannn 🖖 I am not perfect (& honestly not trying to be), but someone who tries to live life with intention. Working as a Lead Data Engineer & also a Counselling Psychologyist - that's where my heart actually is.

Whyy I'm CF - Been volunteering with children for more than 6 years & animal shelters for a few years now & that has shaaped a lot of my thinking 💭. Being childfree for me is a concious choice, not something random. I value mental peace, personal growtht & building a life that feels meaningful in my own way 💫

Through years of volunteering with children, I've come to appreciate both the beauty & the responsibility of parenthood. Looking at today's world rising pressures, uncertainty mental health struggles & the constant fight for basic stability ⚓ I don't feel it's right for me to bring a new life into that cycle. Instead, I'd rather invest my time care & energy into improving the lives that already exist ❤️‍🩹

I really appreciate deep conversations, emotional awareness & people who are a bit introspective. Surface level stuff doesn't really hold me for long. Outside work, I enjoy simple things badminton, cricket or just staying in and unwinding ☮️ I do love binge watching whenever I get time (rn with a busy schedule which is rare tbh) also huge animal lover cats, dogs & all furry friends are very close to my heart.

I recently discovered that I enjoy watching theatre and have also started travelling a bit, Some light trekks here and there but if I'm being honest, I'm more of a beach and person. I enjoy listening to classical music & old songs I play tabla & recently started learning flute (not very consistent yet, but trying whenever I can) 🎯

I like a bit of structure in life routines, organised spaces, and yesss clean kitchen, bedroom & bathroom is a must must small things, but they matter a lot to me. One thing that's really important is a peaceful life, less chaos & more stability (as much as possible) 🕊️

Quick basics about me: Male, 28 | Agape | Demisexual | 5'8" | Eggitarian | Monogamy | Languages/Religion: Marathi, English, Hindi, MT - Kannada | Hindu.

What I'm looking for is a genuine, longterm relationship.

Sommeone who is emotionally mature, independent honest & clear with her thoughts. A strong person who can communicate openly, even when it's uncomfortable. someone who understands financial responsibility & values stability in life. I admire someone who can be bold & confident outside but also has that soft side a little clingy, a little childish sometimes that balance feels real to me 🖇️

I'm not a materialistic person, so I look for someone who also values simplicity over show but that doesn't mean I don't value or don't want the best of the things/experience in life 🧬 Definitely I'll spend on things which are worthy of investing or on things which I like to do in life 💹  For mee it's more about how we grow togetheer, support each other & create a space where both of us feel safe, understood & at peace 🌱 At the end of the day, I believe a good relationship is not about being perfect it's about being consistent, respectful & choosing each other even on the difficult days ☯️

Not looking for anything casual please reach out only if you're also looking for something long-term, real &  intentional. If this resonates then, feel free to reach out ✨🤗

\#avoid\_typo's😶‍🌫️

How looking at the beautiful canopy of trees getting showered with beautiful rains, while sipping a cup of tea at my window got me thinking…may be the only way to find your person, in this world consisting of billions, is to keep trying..
So here I am, trying.

I’m 34F. I live in a tier two city, recently moved here from a tier one city owing to my work, and boy, am I loving the slow life here!

Recent years and experiences have taught me a good deal of self-awareness, empathy, and (even though it may sound counter-intuitive to the kind of post I am making), a non-believer in romance and butterflies. What do believe in, still, is a strong friendship, an even stronger sense of physical chemistry, and (if that’s possible) an even more stronger sense of selflessness in a relationship.

About me

I am 5’7”. I lead a physically active lifestyle. I like to hit the gym regularly and eat consciously (although you might find me devouring a bowl of chocolate ice cream once in a while, lol).

I was married previously. My paperwork finished in early 2024.

I like to read. My type of reads are mainly fiction and a little bit of poetry.

I love to cook, although I am mindful of the fact that it’s not practical to cook three meals a day every day with the kind of demanding job that I have.

I am a creative at heart and try my hand sometimes at painting, writing, etc.

I am (apparently just like everyone else on the Internet is) an avid traveller. And a trekker. I took a few months breaks from work last year and travelled around the world solo, and ended it with a Himalayan trek. The way this break shaped me is unlike anything else. It taught me a great deal about importance of independence, courage and liking one’s own company.

Recent years of introspection has led me to a decision that I want a child free life. The reasons for this is a bit too personal, and disclosing that may need some vulnerability. Therefore I don’t want to state it here.

I am doing very well in my career. And although I am not a lavish spender, I do like it if I don’t have to think twice before spending on experiences and travel.

I am in a transferable job, that would keep taking to a different city of the country every 5-6 years. I understand that can be tough to manage for many. But alas, it is what it is as far as my job goes.

Things I’d like to have in my partner

I would be lying if I said physical attraction doesn’t matter to me. It does. A great deal. Therefore, I would really appreciate it if we can share pictures with each other in the initial conversations.

I really value fitness. I automatically respect someone more if I see that they make efforts to take care of their own body.

I’d love it if my partner is taller than me. Me being a 5’7” automatically increases the height bar for my prospective match.

A thing that is of the utmost importance to me is that you **know** that you are in here with a serious intension, and are ready to make efforts for it. If you’re someone who loses interest after a few conversations, even if things appear to fall beautifully in place, I request you to kindly not DM me and not waste my time.

I want an independent household for myself and my partner in the future. I do understand that aging parents (of both the partners) require care and attention. But I believe that there can be many other sincere and genuine ways to take care of them than living together in a single house.

I would want my prospective partner to share my child free mindset. It’s almost impossible that I may change my views, so kindly don’t get into this while having a background thought that you’ll change my thinking in future. It’s just about compatibility.

Lastly, I would love it if my partner is settled in his career. Money doesn’t matter a great deal to me, I am earning a very good salary. But, someone who’s still in two minds about changing his career in his late thirties or even later, wouldn’t bode well with me. I am craving a peaceful future, lazy Sunday afternoons with some mindless binging on Netflix. The sheer amount of effort to build a career from scratch is not something that I want to be a part of at this juncture of my life.

Sorry for the really long post, but if you think these points resonate with, kindly DM me with a brief introduction of yourself.
(I won’t be responding to mere ‘hiis/hellos’, just to filter out non-serious people).

32F | Looking for a Meaningful Connection 🌿

I’m 32F, originally from Mumbai, currently working outside India, and I’m someone who believes that a beautiful life is built around meaningful connections, curiosity, kindness and a little bit of adventure.

I’m a teacher and also a yoga teacher, so learning, teaching, movement, wellness and creating a peaceful environment are naturally a big part of my world. I love meaningful conversations, growing as a person, discovering new places, and finding beauty in the small everyday things.

I’m childfree by choice and have had a uterus-removal surgery at 29 due to medical reasons so having children biologically isn’t part of my life and, more importantly, I genuinely do not want children.

I’m looking for someone who feels the same way, not someone who hopes I might eventually change my mind.

When it comes to a partner, I’m quite particular about age. I’m strictly looking for someone between 37 and 45, and honestly, I tend to connect better with men who are older and emotionally mature.

I don’t usually feel that natural connection with younger men.

I’d especially appreciate someone who is eggetarian or vegetarian, although character, compatibility and values matter far more to me than a label.

What I’m really hoping to find is a best friend and life partner , someone emotionally mature, kind, communicative, affectionate and secure in himself.

Someone with whom I can have ridiculously silly conversations one moment and deeply meaningful ones the next.

Someone who enjoys slowness, learning, laughing, and building a peaceful life together.

I’m not looking for perfection, nor am I interested in rushing into something simply because society says it’s “time.”

I’m looking for something that feels natural, safe, respectful and genuinely exciting.

A relationship where two independent people choose each other not out of loneliness or obligation, but because life simply feels a little better together.

If you’re somewhere between 37–45, firmly childfree, emotionally mature, and genuinely looking for companionship rather than just a relationship status,

I’d be happy to start with a conversation.

No pressure. No games. Just two people getting to know each other and seeing whether there’s something beautiful worth building. 🌸

Goodluck

[few photos of mine ](https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1JBCHjV080WWccMZw4GycOqHH2FeSiuT5)

Atheist/Employed full time in corporate/Born and raised in Hyderabad/Drinking- rarely now/non-smoker/Non-vegetarian

A little about me — I'm introverted but goofy, fairly intense about the things I care about, and otherwise pretty easygoing. I'm more of a homebody. I enjoy staying in, watching a good movie or show, ordering food and having a quiet evening. I also like going out for food, shopping and exploring places when I'm in the mood for it. I like watching worthwhile movies in theatres especially.

I'm strictly childfree. I don't dislike children; I just don't want parenthood to be part of my life. Parenting sucks. I value having time and energy for myself, my interests, my relationship and simply being able to recover from everyday life. I don't want to give that up to raise a child, and I'm not looking for someone who expects me to eventually change my mind.

I'm also not approaching this with the mindset of “I need to find a husband.” I'd rather start with dating, get to know someone, see whether we actually enjoy each other's company and whether there's chemistry. If it develops into a serious relationship and eventually marriage, I'd be open to that. But I'm not in a hurry to get there.

I'd ideally like to meet someone around 26–30, tall, atheist independent and reasonably settled in his own life. Someone who's comfortable with a quieter lifestyle, has a sense of humour, communicates well and is looking for a relationship rather than just a pen pal.

A few things that are important to me:

- Childfree, obviously.

- I'm an atheist. Religion isn't something I want to practise or have as a significant part of my relationship.

- I don't want to perform religious rituals or be expected to follow them.

- If I eventually get married, I want to live separately from my in-laws and have a home and life of our own.

- I'm looking for someone who is independent and wants to build a partnership rather than simply follow the traditional marriage template.

I'm not expecting to know from one conversation whether someone is the one. I'd rather meet, talk, see if we click and take it from there.

If you're interested, tell me a little about yourself when you DM—your age, where you're based and what you're looking for would be a good start.

P.S. Yes I used AI but I told it to write and what to write though, AND proof-read it, AAAAND added my edits. That counts

Thanks

Here's a little about me

I am 27, 5'3", 55 kg and very long hair

Complexion is not very dark nor very bright

Someday I wanna become an influencer

Most probably a hairstyle channel or travel blog

I like to play games, travel and maintain a healthy lifestyle

I don't want to work after marriage so will ask my man to take care of me financially

Strictly CF by choice

What I am looking for

Age 27-33

Soft spoken , well built guy

Rich and if not, at least he can afford a decent lifestyle for both of us

Hi everyone!

Trying my luck here because I believe the best connections sometimes happen in the most unexpected places.

I’m 31M, originally from Hyderabad, working in the luxury fashion and retail industry. I run a retail consulting firm that helps fashion brands and multi-designer stores grow, and I also work as a CXO for an international luxury retail company. My work takes me across India and overseas, which means I get to travel often, meet interesting people, and learn something new every week.

A little about me:

• Financially independent and ambitious, but I don’t define my life only by work.
• Close to my family and value honesty, respect, and good communication.
• I enjoy travelling, trying new restaurants, road trips, business conversations, and occasionally doing absolutely nothing on a lazy Sunday.
• I don’t smoke and drink occasionally in social settings.
• I’m equally comfortable discussing business strategy, planning my next holiday, or debating where to find the best biryani.

One important thing:

I’m childfree by choice.

This isn’t a temporary decision or something I’m “unsure” about—it’s a well-thought-out life choice. I’m looking for someone who genuinely shares the same outlook, not someone hoping I’ll change my mind later (or vice versa).

For me, a fulfilling life is about building a strong partnership, travelling the world, growing together, pursuing our passions, and having the freedom to design our own future.

Who I’m hoping to meet:

• Around 26–34 years old.
• Emotionally mature and communicates openly.
• Independent and passionate about what she does.
• Family-oriented while respecting each other’s individuality.
• Childfree by choice.
• Looking for a serious relationship that can naturally lead to marriage.

I don’t have unrealistic expectations about finding “the perfect person.” I’m simply looking for someone who is kind, emotionally available, and willing to build something meaningful together.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM. Happy to exchange LinkedIn or Instagram once we’ve had a conversation.

If nothing else, maybe I’ll get a few good restaurant recommendations out of Reddit. 😄