Login

r/coffeemeetsbagel

Image 1 — 41M Profile Review
Image 2 — 41M Profile Review
Image 3 — 41M Profile Review
Image 4 — 41M Profile Review
Image 5 — 41M Profile Review
▲ 0 r/coffeemeetsbagel

41M Profile Review

Looking for women in their 30's and 40's, greater Denver, Co, US area, liberal, no smoking.

Please be respectful about my hobby. I know there is a lot of misinformation out there about fursuiting and if anyone does have any questions, I'm happy to answer any here or in DMs.

I did include fursuiting by choice, and this could be the reason for the lack of likes but at least in Colorado and the demographic I'm looking for, I'm surprised this would be an immediate left-swipe. I am willing to hear opinions and be dissuaded on this thought though (again respectfully ❤️)

I did get 2 matches originally and I followed up with a pleasant greeting and an inquiry about something on their profile. One ghosted, the other we had a back and forth, they left for work and ghosted since...

Thank you for your help and understanding my request

u/KiameV — 3 days ago
▲ 2 r/coffeemeetsbagel

[Men] How do you guys chat with your match in an interesting / engaging way without sounding like Q&A or interrogation?

Hi all, not sure if this is a way too trivial question (preferably if we have some Asian context here but if not any general advice would also be appreciated). I do get matches occasionally but most girls get dozens of matches a day and many of them will ghost you. Sometimes it is the other way round that I don't know how to kickstart the discussion and keeping them interested. How do you start the topic without sounding clinche? For example, I saw some of them put a travel bucket list then I would say "oh I also think [country] is nice and I also want to go there next time! Btw where did u go last holiday?" or maybe just something like how's ur weekend

Obviously most don't end well or even if it opens well it just turns silent or boring quick. So I wonder how to keep engaging, transition to maybe topics that girls actually care or build emotional connection even just over texts and heat it up so we can have a warmer meet up.

Thanks a lot in advance!

reddit.com
u/kaion76 — 3 days ago
▲ 2 r/coffeemeetsbagel+1 crossposts

37 [F4M] hopeless romantic

I've been crushing on Indian American men and have noticed them noticing me too. I find it even harder to date them in my thirties because sadly many are already married by this stage in life. Still the search continues for myself an attractive, curvy and athletic Caribbean American woman to find an available Indian American man in the near future.

reddit.com
u/EntertainerOptimal33 — 6 days ago
▲ 4 r/coffeemeetsbagel

Profile Suggestion

Hi all,

I have been using dating apps for a while now without much success and am starting to doubt myself… could use advice on how to improve my profile. See screenshots attached… thanks…

I think I have a good profile with good pics. I am not the handsome type but I don’t think I’m ugly also. I don’t swipe right aggressively. Most of the times, when I swipe right, the other party (female) won’t swipe right back. Sometimes when I got a match, they won’t respond to any messages when I always am respectful, not pushy or sound thirsty in my messages… to be honest in the past year I actually only met two matches irl… one that ended after three dates and one turned into a short situationship. I haven’t had any matches for month.

The apps i used are coffee meets bagel and a Chinese app called 2redbeans… I’m 39 and am looking for women around 32-37.

u/Straight_Custard8845 — 10 days ago