r/crossdressinghaven

First off, I’m loving the community vibe on here. After being on other forums for years this is the first time ever that I feel like Ive actually landed.

Ok down to business, so far this year Ive dressed once, Ive been busy, lots todo and life to attend to. I also purged my wardrobe in March, after my wife found a bangle I own on the bathroom floor, I freaked and got rid……. ahhhhhhhhh.

Within a week I was already planning a new wardrobe, but my life took an unexpected turn and an old friend moved in with us, which meant no “me’ time, no makeup, no dressing, no dancing, no-thing.

Luckily enough Ive been able to drop into this gorgeous site and touch base with others. A couple of times a week, I find myself scrolling through pictures and what’s really hitting me is, I’m not alone, there’s millions of us. Guys who love getting girly, guys who appreciate hair, makeup, lingerie and being fem.

For years I struggled with myself: we all do, where do we fit in. This break has really allowed me to workout what I love about my fave hobby.

I love dressing

I love the creative aspect

I love how I feel

I love how my body feels

I love how quiet my mind goes

I love who I see in the mirror.

I was born in 1970 and grew up in a time when we weren’t accepted, we were “the silenced generation” quietly doing this away from the bright lights of social media, trying to work out where it all fits.

I struggled with the feelings I felt when dressed and what they meant.

I struggled, but that’s changing and I can’t wait to started building my wardrobe,my makeup, myself and will start posting pics again.

Thanks to all of you wonderful souls, lets stay strong, lets stay connected, lets stay xxxx