r/cuddlebuddies

23[F4M] Netherlands Overijssel, Caribbean, Mom looking for a cuddle buddy

Hii,

As a single mom i spend a lot of time with my kid. It's amazing but i am definitely starved for physical touch...

From cuddling on the couch while watching a movie, to laying in bed as close as possible...

Have conversations but also enjoy the quiet.. sip tea and have calming moments.

Please State your ASL. Thank you, see you soon!

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u/Own_Release_761 — 3 days ago

25 [F4A] San Francisco - looking for close cuddling

Hi! I am living and working in the bay area and really missing physical contact. I am not open to relationships or sex, but I just really like cuddling, spooning, and being really close to another person physically, especially to go to sleep at night or nap. I know that is a weird ask, but I imagine I am not the only one who wants something like this around these parts. I like video games, animation, rock climbing, and am hoping to learn guitar soon. If you are open to a kind of weird platonic cuddling arrangement, please reach out and tell me a little about yourself.

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u/radiance-l — 4 days ago

45 f4a #chicago looking for movie night

Have a lot going on in my life and just would like someone to cuddle with, watch a show we’ve seen a thousand times before and just switch off our minds. Laugh about something that we just thought of because something in the show reminded us of it. In the sw burbs of Chicago.

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u/ahotmess99 — 4 days ago

30 [F4M] Seeking cuddles Rochester, MI

Plus size, single and don’t really have the time to pursue anything serious or the energy to deal with dating apps lol. Mostly just missing physical closeness like cuddling. Would like someone safe, clean/good hygiene, respectful, and chill to meet. Can be a one time thing or can be continued.

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u/Thoughtyshortyy — 3 days ago

52 F4M Houston Cuddle Connection Conversation

Looking for human connection cuddles n conversation.

You are single hygienic , clean, respectful of boundaries , my age +- 10 years , reasonably attractive. Nice smile, not bald, HWP , atleast 5’8”

Platonic clothes on no pressure for escalation no sex no kisses, if we vibe can discuss more

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u/No-Tennis-2916 — 4 days ago

27 [F4M] Dallas (TX) - cuddles, preferred age 25-45

Hi, I am a homebody who usually likes to stay in and watch movies during the weekdays, go to the gym and sometimes during the weekend I will go out to eat or for a movie with my friends.

I started hosting or arranging cuddle buddies a few months ago and haven’t done it too much but I make sure that both of us are comfortable. I do one hour or four hour sessions. I am looking for somebody who is clean, kind and someone who is looking for a cuddling as a comfort therapy :)

Body type: 5 8”, Caucasian, Brunette, fit but not too skinny.

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u/West-East-8161 — 5 days ago

27 F4M - Singapore smothering cuddles

hey, looking for some cuddling, more like getting smothered/suffocated, been a lil deprived of physical touch. lowkey a lil depressed and have receded into myself.

wanna touch someone and be touched, patted, rubbed, smothered. we could watch some shows or just cuddle w music in the background.

i’m really not into sex, we can discuss wants and see if we vibe.

i can’t host, located ard northwest, hopefully u aren’t in the east haha.
hoping to find someone for tuesday or thursday afternoon.

me: chi, chubby, 80/160, doesn’t smoke or drink.
would prefer someone bigger since im somewhat big too lol.

thank you for reading this far! ◡̈

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u/eggtravagant — 4 days ago

22 [F4A] looking for someone patient to cuddle with in #Alabama

hi! i am 22 located in southeast alabama looking for someone patient and kind to cuddle with. i am not particular on gender or appearance and am open minded, and of course willing to verify.

i really enjoy being pet on the head and being little spoon, so preferably someone who wants to be my big spoon.

i am 5'0", 105 lbs, petite build, african american, medium length black hair/past shoulder, i do have piercings!

i do like watching anything or just sleeping. i do game, so if you like to be occupied while cuddling i am open to that. we will really click if you like horror, anime, or cartoons and if you would like we can hangout beforehand as i am quite shy.

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u/kahjay — 7 days ago

33 [F4F] the Netherlands/Belgium; looking for a cuddlebuddy

I'm looking for an AFAB cuddle buddy. I have found an amazing one on here and I really enjoy it, so I'm looking for an additional one.

I'm only looking for cis women or NB AFAB.

About me:

33 y/o cis-woman, 166cm, normal weight, living with a small dog, neurodivergent (adhd and probably autism), living in Noord-Brabant (the Netherlands). I can be quite timid in the beginning, it sometimes takes me a bit of time to open up, but I'm generally easy going and non-judgemental.

I can both host and travel within reason (max 1 hour by car, so within the Netherlands or Belgium)

I don't care about looks as long as you're nice and practice basic hygiene.

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u/That-Brilliant-9942 — 8 days ago

[24F4A] Oakland CA

Hi I just moved down to Oakland so I am looking for new cuddling friends. I am very open to friendship. I am tall(6), so please keep that in mind. I don’t mind being the big spoon.
I have two cats.
Anything that I have posted on my profile is separate from me looking for a cuddle friend

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u/dd_is1 — 8 days ago

28 [F4M] Houston, Texas - Cuddler, black woman

Cuddler, fairly new to this exact scenario but not to providing affection. Would love to be someone’s stress relief. Gently stroking your hair, helping you relax while you tell me about your day. Or just silence if you prefer that as well.

I have read some posts on here from professional cuddlers and that sounds most like what I’d be open to, being for someone more than relationship-wise. But I’d be open to the exact scenario based on the person.

I am single and I guess for the ick I would prefer you be as well, since most men’s SO would not want them cuddling with another woman.

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u/invisible__problem — 10 days ago

[19F4M] Frankfurt - Looking for a platonic cuddle buddy

Hey :)

I’m 19 and looking for a platonic cuddle buddy around my age (max 29) who’s from Frankfurt or nearby.

A bit about me: I really like cooking, baking, veganism, art, gaming (mostly Minecraft), and watching series or horror movies.

I’m looking for someone who shares some of these interests and is just down for comfy, platonic hangouts. To keep things safe and relaxed for both of us, I’d like to meet up somewhere public first (like getting food or going for a walk) to see if the vibe is right.

Feel free to dm me if you’re interested! ^^

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u/Kekse_Kek — 8 days ago

18 [M4F(M if you're cute)] erfurt, Germany. Looking for a cuddle buddy because its become impossible for me.

You know what pisses me off. The fact that when a woman posts something on this subreddit it gets soooo much attention, but whenever a man posts it gets very little attention. Im gonna change that. Men can be cute and cuddly too y'know. Also im very feminine so that hopefully will help. All I want is to be loved and nothing is gonna get in my way. This is my attempt and if it doesn't work then I have one more reason to hate reddit. So this is my last ditch attempt. y'know maybe should've just lied and told yall I was a girl that way this post could get way more attention. maybe i am a girl testing the opposite thing

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u/Ok-Syrup443 — 13 days ago

28 (F4M) Still looking for a cuddle buddy in Milwaukee, WI

Hi there! I posted in this group about three years ago and never quite found my cuddle buddy, so… here I am again. Still hopeful, still open, and still very much craving a calm, comforting connection.

I’m looking for someone nearby who can host and who doesn’t have an overly demanding schedule. I really value consistency (even if it’s just occasional) and someone who enjoys creating a peaceful, cozy atmosphere.

I would love to simply be held. I want my thoughts to slow down, my worries to soften, and time to melt away.

A bit about me: I’m 4’10 and a quarter, curvy, tan skin, brown eyes, and long brown hair. I’m friendly, respectful, and easygoing. I appreciate good communication, clear boundaries, and kindness.

If you’re someone who enjoys calm company, soft vibes, and mutual comfort, feel free to reach out.

Thanks so much for reading!

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u/natib56 — 13 days ago

37 [m4m] #SoCal tall chubby seeking some relaxed cuddle time

I am a kind caring and easy to get along with big and tall fella. I'm seeking a man to cuddle with. I dont have much expectations just be clean and not mean lol. Please message me and lets chat. I live alone and can travel too. It would be great to have a friend to get to know and cuddle. I like DMs

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u/Daddysguy — 11 days ago

27 (M4f) looking for a sweet clingy cuddle buddy

Hey am from West Virginia and am looking for a girl to hangout with have deep conversations watch movies eat snacks and cuddle hoping u can host just dm me

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u/MediumImpossible3038 — 11 days ago

34 [M4F] San Jose, CA - Seeking Cuddle Buddy to Help Me Remember What Endorphins Feel Like

Are you a cuddle economist looking to invest in a cozy future? Are you into deep talks and even deeper hugs? Are you a cuddle enthusiast who is seeking competitive cuddling positions? Then congrats you’ve just stumbled upon your ideal cuddle counterpart.

I own more books than I have close friends which is either an illustration of my literary taste or a cry for help, and thanks to work my social life is mostly just me, my computer, and a movie I pretend not to be rewatching for the tenth time. Personality wise, I start off quiet but with the right cuddles I transform into a fully operational conversational human being.

So why am I here? Because I’m embarking on a groundbreaking experiment: actual human interaction via cuddling. Not just the accidental kind where we both reach for the same overpriced sandwich and our phones perform an impromptu handshake. I’m talking about the real deal - genuine, cozy, blissful companionship with cuddles.

In this city, where everyone’s too busy coding the next big thing to actually touch another human being, technology has made us paradoxically more connected yet more distant. But what if we flipped the script? What if we used technology to bridge the gap instead of widening it? Let’s fill that void with some down to earth human cuddles. I’m in search of a fellow warm-blooded human who enjoys:

  • Elite level couch cuddles (If you instinctively steal the blanket that's all good)

  • Certified stress relief hugs (Make the world stand still in a hug and you’re hired)

  • Mutually agreed upon oxytocin boosts (We can be each other’s Oxytocin Dealer)

  • The fine art of existing comfortably in either shared silence or meaningful conversation (Willing to share snuggles but not the last slice of pizza is OK)

Potential side effects of engaging in this experience are forgetting what stress is, temporarily believing the world isn’t so bad, and rediscovering that warm, fuzzy feeling usually reserved for dogs seeing their owners after five minutes apart.

Too often, we underestimate the power of touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of care - each of which holds the potential to turn a life around. I’d love to feel someone’s touch as a reminder that we exist, that we are here, that we are cared for.

I don’t have my own place, but I’m sure we can work something out. I’m tall and slim, which means I give lanky hugs, the kind that wrap around you like a favorite oversized sweater on a cold day. Hugs that remind both of us that we’re not just floating through existence alone, but that we are in fact here. Together. And that at least for a little while things are just a little bit better.

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u/Nieuman — 12 days ago
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32M Dublin/Ireland - Introvert Looking For Voice Calls and Long Lasting Friendship!

Hi everyone! 😊 I haven't posted in here in quite a while and I've been a bit down in the dumps as of recent, so I'd love to chat to someone who is very likeminded to me! Here are photos of me!

I'm an Introvert, socialising with a lot of people exhausts me! I prefer to keep my group of friends limited but connections deep 🤗

I work part time and I'm a bit of a homebody so I'd love to fill my free time voice or video calling or texting... but I do adore voice calls! I have very limited experience of video calling but I'm willing to try them more I guess haha... totally fine if you're also a lil nervous about it too! 🤗 Bonus points if you work from home as I'd love to voice/video call with you while you're working and I can play video games and such and we can just chat for hours ideally haha! 🙂

As far as myself and what I really value and look for in others: I SUPER value honesty, open mindedness, sense of humour, ability to communicate, introspection, emotional depth and connection, understanding and empathy, emotional maturity and being able to talk to someone about ANYTHING, Whether it be lighthearted, fun or serious and deep... I want to really explore all sides of you! 😌 It's super important to me that we feel we can talk to each other about anything... and I cannot tell you how important conflict resolution is especially for something as flimsy as online connections, we're all humans, we all have our bad moments, we're not perfect... but I truly believe that most people are good and with effort, stability and understanding we can overcome any challenge together! 🤗

Hobbies include: Watching YouTube (geography, podcasts, gaming, video essays etc), playing video games (call of duty [when it was good], Battlefield, Rocket League, Simulation games), I'm also on a weight loss journey at the moment so working out most days, I live right near the sea so I love walking along the beach and pier, I also love flying my drone... it's super fun! I'd love to hear about your hobbies and passions even if I don't share them myself because I think someone being passionate about something is super cool!

I'm looking for a long term friendship... I don't really value going from person to person really as that exhausts me mentally tbh, I would much prefer something stable but at the same time change things up from time to time when things might be getting stale or when we've run out of things to talk about... maybe we can play games together or watch a movie, or come up with fun question games to play! I'm willing to put in the effort to ensure this lasts a long time 🤗

If you're visiting Ireland or planning to in the future, this is a perfect way to become friends before you get here so that we can hang out during your trip! And if we really connect I might be open to visiting you where you live!

I'm really putting this effort into my post to target the right kind of people and hopefully (🤞) we're able to build something fun, interesting and meaningful for both of us! Being on the same page is important to me. We don't live forever... and it's those connections we make that stick around that really bring true meaning to our lives ☺️

Please put in effort into your chat message (don't just say hi how are you) to show me you've read and vibe with this, tell me your asl and a bit about yourself and what caught your attention from my post! I can't wait to talk and get to know you! If I don't respond to your message don't feel bad I might just be talking to someone else and I don't like juggling multiple people at once tbh.

u/CuddlyStranger — 13 days ago

40[M4F] North NJ/NYC - let's chat a bit and see if there is a vibe

Hi there I've done this twice before and would love to experience someone new I usually like to chat for a bit to see if we have a good vibe going. I also think it's important that we are both comfortable going in before any physical contact. I think consent is important even if it's just cuddling. I have no expectations and everyone is welcome if interested shoot me a message and tell me about yourself.

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u/Josephthebear — 14 days ago