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DAR Constitution Hall Bathroom Discrimination

DAR Constitution Hall Bathroom Discrimination

during intermission at the DC show tonight in the men’s restroom, a DAR employee came in and yelled at everyone. he said that any females need to leave the bathroom or they will be escorted out of the building. as a trans man i felt very uncomfortable and anxious. i left the bathroom because i didn’t want to miss the show and saw many other queer people doing the same.

what that employee did is illegal. under DC law individuals are entitled to use the bathroom that corresponds to their gender identity. refusing to allow people to do that is discriminatory as gender identity is a protected trait in the DC Human Rights Act.

i will be submitting a complaint to the DAR Constitution Hall on their website and email (memberservices@dar.org and chall@dar.org) informing them that their conduct was discriminatory and potentially submitting a form to the DC Office of Human Rights. if you were similarly discriminated against i encourage you to do the same so that the employees can be retrained on the subject and other gender nonconforming people can use the bathroom.

and whichever cis guy informed the DAR employees that there were queer people in the men’s bathroom fuck off

u/timewillfall — 3 days ago

2009 merch

Hi, so I’m trans masc which is why I’m making this post because it might be helpful to someone else. I went to the hard launch tour and bought the 2009 shirt and I love it. I have no complaints about the shirt itself I love it. This is more of a warning for those of us that might have to wear under garments underneath. I noticed this because I use binders and they are all black just because I find they don’t stain and I live in a very hot area so I don’t wanna walk around with a sweat stained binder on yk. It’s not a white shirt which is typically what we’d have to worry about it’s more of a lighter pink but because the material itself is on the lightweight side you can see dark colored under garments through it. I noticed this when I wore it out with my binder and realized you could see it through the shirt which I hadn’t noticed while putting it on.

So warning to those of us that do use these undergarments no dark bras/ binders underneath the 2009 merch.

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u/Disastrous-Tie80 — 11 days ago